MARY HAWORTl-j

Young Bride Resents Sports Preoccupalion

a Haworth: I am writ- -,ngeti:i- iniltyrzister, who feels I can write the better letter. Her Prob- lem might easily be mine if l had her make-up; but I am not much like her, therefore have no prob-

lem. both in our twenties. Jultvee 1:! emarried to a wonderful man her own age..23. whom she wry loves, she says. She has con- lessed to me a pang of iealousy because she feels irishilll lllll she can't enter the area of his main interests. which are sport!- John. I'll call him, has a ille- lying chum (a bachelor) who visits "mybe once a week, and the two men are like schoolboy! dl8C"5' wig their favorite 1oPlC3- ocfhli” ioiially they 80 lo am" wt” er and obviously enioy each dim"! company. Jane doesnt ogre hfor xpilrls, butlfeels left out wietg John doesnt ask her to 80 W Iiitii. , , rve told Jane that Johns inter- est in sports doesn't subtract from his devotion to her. He is wonder- ful to her, as she says herself. he advised her to develop inter- 0515 of her own.

soucirs ADVICE

When I work nights. as I often .10, my husbands pest pal (also a bachelor) comes over and the nu. men baby-sit with our son. mm have a good time with their ill-ll records and books. They are t.-rv intirllectual and I am not. but i don't feel as helpless or left out as my sister does . . .

My husband and I are 25 and M.-V9 always maintained a cert- gill amount of freedom throughout "up three years of marriage. My .-t..tct is clinging, and titoush I rinntt think John has noticed it'll! their one year of marriage, Im sure as time passes he will feel the strings growing tighter-

wm you please try to exllllln 5 good attitude for lief 10 Hr arms? I am completely happy. but she seems to stain no inspira- tion from my marriage. P.T.

BABY-LIKE

Dear P.T.: Your sister's attitude (5 babyfied, though it is unflat- terlng to a baby, to say so. A baby literally cant help himself. whereas your sister could. if she had to make the effort, or perish.

Jane expects to be the center of giieniloll. solely cecause she ex- ists. it. is this infantillsm on her part that takes the 10!? 0'" Of mart nage for her. and causes her to feel crucified by John! other ll” terests in life. And also causes him to be bored with her (more than either admits). lfuppose.

To be explicit. Janes attltud0 is insatlably demanding. and con- snmingly selfish, though cloaked in terms of winsome helpless appeal. In having you author this letter on her behalf. 101' eX3"lP1'v she contrives to make you feel pleased with yourself. as a person specially gifted and compliment- ed her.

SHARE IN LIFE

Actually it is no real service to Jane. to humor her in this Pl3ll1l' Ive depend , and exploitative- ncss as the usual thing. You are right indeed, in advising her to de- velop "interests" (or resouresl of her own. And it is to be hoped that her devoted husband has the sound judgment to set her a god example of mature sense. instead- ily maintaining a balaned reper- tory of legitimate soial interests. despite her jealous drive to slow him down to her sub-standard measure.

From the sane adult view. the right attitude for Jane to take is that she is privileged to share in John's life. as his wife but she isn't entitled to try to cut him.off from reputable interests that W81 don't happen to be herl. IPONHIP euusly.

Hcr present anxiety and frus- tration are a sharp reminder to her to grow up. psychologically. and become comfortably oriented to the practise of making room in her life for beloeved persons, who aren't necessarily absorbed in her all the time. M.H.

Mary Hnworth counsels through her column not by mail or per aren't necessarily nbsorted in

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wpsr COVEHEAD w.M.s.

on the evening of July 10111 the West Covehead W.li.S. met at am home of. Mrs. Grove MacMil- lian with ten members and three visitors present. Mrs. Don Mc- Cann opened the meeting with the devotional period. assisted by Mzi. Lwlth Macl(lnnon.. Mrs. Frank Hu es and Mrs. llibbe Hughes w o read portions of scripture. Mrs. Lorne MacMillan who read from ”Hurlbuts Bible Stories" and Mrs. Gideon Mac- Laughlan who gave the Christian Stewardship reading. Having chos- en "friendship" as her theme, Mrs Mccann gave an inspiring read- ing. Mrs. Chesl.-zy Hughes play- ed the piano for the hymns. Per- iod closed with the repeatinl of the Lord's Prayer.

Mrs. Chesley Hughes conducted the business meeting. Minutes of the last mmeetlng were ad and appro.ed. It was deci ed that each member would contribute two dollars to the funds rather than hold the proposed cake sale. Mrs. Chesley Hughes will contact thi Salvation Army requesting that they conduct a special ser- vice in our church at some fut- ure date. Mrs. Orr Mccnnn agreed to ask the pastor about posing summer church service schedules on hotels and stores for the con- venience of summer visitors.

Five cards were sent, four sick and shut-in calls made and one book read by the members since last meeting. Treasurer reported forty-five dollars had been not in to head office. Collection for the evening, three dollars.

Mrs. Na MacDonald summar- ized a chapter from the study book

Next meeting to be at the home of Mrs. Louis Maccallum. Mrs. Lelth Maclfinnon will have the study book and Mrs. Grove Mac- Millan the devotional period for next meeting. Mizpah benedict- ion closed the meeting.

Lunch was served by hostess and committees and I social hour was enioyed by all.

MONTAGUE SHOWER

On Tusdny evening Mrs. .Don- ald Hardy and Mrs. John Bar- bour were co-hostesses at the home of the former in Montrose. when approxlmiately one hundred friends of Mr. and Mrs. Roscoe Barbour assembled to tender them n post-nuptial shower.

To the strains of appropriate music played by Miss Etheleen Barbour. the guests of honor were escorted to a decorated seat. Gifts were Dresented in a white basket garlanded with purple ' " In opening the packages the bride

Iwas assisted by Miss Marion Bar- '

hour while Mrs. Donald Hardy read the accompanying good wish- es. The gifts were passed by Mrs. John Barbour and arranged by Mrs. Byron Bowness.

When Mr. Barbour. on behalf of his bride, had expressed thanks to their friends. all joined in sini- ing "For They Are Jolly Good Fdlown " ..

During a happy social evening instrumental music was furnish- ed by Mrs. Lorne Crockett, Mrs. Eldon Barbour and Miss Ethe- leen Barbour. Refreshments were served by the ladies.

sourn "MILTON w.1.

Mrs. Dan MacLean entertained the June meeting of South Milton w.i. -

Due to absence of Sec'y, Mrs. Gerald Hooper was appointed for same. Tbeimeeting opened with Ode followed by roll call. Fifteen members were present, two mem- bers renewed membership and one new member was welcomed.

Reports of the various commit- fees were given. ”

School committee reported get- ting necessaries for school valued at 31.04. it

Red Cross Convenor reported that eleven completed articles had been taken to Red Cross House and the District Annual Collect- ion amounted to 934.35.

On motion a pole of thanks was attended to the collectors.

Mrs. Gerald Hooper reported that six shrubs had been purchas- ed and planted on the school grounds.

Mrs. Neil MacNeiil tPrcs.t and Mrs. Gerald Hooper (Vice-Pres.) volunteered to go to Provincial W. 1. Convention.

Mrs. Russell Coles. Mrs. Cyrus MscNelll and Mrs. Gerald Hoop- er volunteered to supply the cakes requested for District Con- vention.

Donations of remnants from

Eatons and Simpson: were grate- fully received. Mrs. Curtis and Mrs. Willis were appointed to attend to the treat for school closing. funds were voted for same.

Mrs. Curtis invited the July meeting to her home. The lunch- eon committee will be Mrs. W.L.

Coles, Mrs. Poole. Mrs. Cyrus MncNeill and Mrs. Stanley Proude.

Mrs. Poole and Mrs. Curtis will be programme convenors.

The roll call was answered with "Where I would spend my holi- days of two weeks with pay".

A dainty luncheon was served by the h t and ”i-- and the meeting closed.

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Miiiar - Morrison

Against a beautiful background of flowers and potted plants. a pretty June wedding was solemn- lzed at St. James Anglican Church, Part Hill, at 3.30 p.m. on June 23, when Bertha Evelyn. daught- er of Mr. and Mrs. Clinton Mor- rison. Conway, became the bride of Hartford Shrieve, son of Mr. and Mrs. Eldon Millar, Tyne Val- ley. Rev. M.J. Findlay officiated at the double ring ceremony.

During the signing of the regist- er, Mr. G. Roy Phillips sang "0 Perfect Love"it ith Mrs. Rob- ert Millar as accompanying org- anist.

The -bride. given in marriage by her uncle, Mr. Sterling Palmer. looked very charming in a floor length gown of nylon lace and net over bridal satin. trimmed with sequins with matching jacket, whose long sleeves tapered to points at the wrists. Her finger- tip veil of silk illusion net was held in place By a pearl tiara. She carried a cascade bouquet of pink Sweetheart roses. She wore as her only ornament tiny pearl earrings. a gift of the groom.

The bridesmaid, Miss Dorothy

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was attired in n ballerina length gown of blue lace over satin with matching bolero and carried a colonial bouquet of yellow baby mums.

The flower girl. Miss Carol Mor- rison, sister of the bride was at- tired in a floor length gown of not over pink nylon taffeta and carried a basket of roses and car- nations.

Mr. Elmer Ramsay acted as best man. Mr. Vaughan Ramsay and Mr. Orville Williams ushered the guests to the pews which were marked with tiny nosegays of pink Sweetheart roses and fern.

Mrs. Morrison chose for her d T . wedding. I street length gown of pink flowered taffeta with white accessories and wore a cor- sage of white carnations.

For her son's wedding the grooms's mother were a gown of blue nylon lace over satin with pink accessories and a corsage of pink carnations.

Following the marriage cere- mony a reception for about thirty- flve guests was held at Birch Hill Tourist home. The Bride's table was centered with a three-tier

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iature bride and groom.

Mrs. Sterling Palmer was in charge of the guest book. Rev. M.J. Findlay proposed the toast to the bride to which the groom responded.

The bride's going .away attire was a pale blue suit with white accessories and a corsage of red Sweetheart roses.

After the reception Mr. and Mrs. Miller left on a honeymoon trip to points of interest throughout the Mariiimes. They will reside in Tyne Vallcy.whcre lit? groom is a prosperous young farmer.

Jazzy Maestro

By OLI DAUM . Canadian Press Staff Writer TORONTO lCP) A white-

haircd musician who made his debut 36 years ago at Massey Hall lays jazz has a mission-t," intro- dluce classical music to more peo- pe. The scholarly - looking Clement llambourg. a former concert plan- I-Il. says not many people can take classical music straight. Di- luted with instrumental variations it would be acceptable to more people.

"You see, jazz musicians play Beethoven fugues too, only you don't recognize them with the in- strumental dressing-up." he said. ”Jass has very much a future."

Youngest of a family of class- ical musicians. Mr. Hambourg was interviewed at a weather- beaten house which has rocked to the music of noteil jazz artists and of others who he says will become famous.

AFTER-HOURS MUSIC

Toronto's only after-hours ”iazz joint." it is run Liy Mr. liambourg and his wife. Ruth. He is the of- ficial greater and his wife cooks for the customers.

Mr. H g greets visitors with "come on in. things are cool" and leads them downstairs into a brick-arched restaurant illumin- ated by a few orange bulbs and candles.

Customers' eyes are glued to n dlnky stage in the corner where jazz musicians. after playing at various night spots here. meet in play the music they love hr-st. Their audience is attentive. talk- ing. if at all. only in whispers.

"The type who come here are not boisterous." said Mr. Ham- bourg. "They come to 1isten.' These jazz musicians are serious.

and it takes a good deal of talent- to play good jazz. Many of them:

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"in the old days isss had a bad reputation," Mr. llambourgglld. "Solid, sensible people did!!! ll!-

ten to it. That in no longer trill." .

Mr. Hambourgi interest in ill! developed after the Second World War. He and his wife. h pianist born in the southern United states and familiar with early jazz. had a recording studio.

"Some rnusicinns asked us if they cgdd come up for a blow and the sessions grew until we de- cided to open this place." Mr!- Hambourg said. Jazz celebrities visiting Toronto like to perform there, including Oscar Peterson, Hazel Scott and Sarah V ”

When visitors and musicians started bringing their lunch. Mrs. llambourg decided to cook for thcm. First it was just sandwiches and cuilee but now she serves full meals.

”I never studied this ' i of cooking and dont have much variety but what 1 make I want to be good." she said. Her menu

includes frogs legs, barbecued spare-ribs, spaghetti. roast beef and pizza. v

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