You Want to Know How to Be Happy Though

Married? It is Easily Done by Unselfish- hes-Hard Work-Backbone Enough to Play the Game — Patience and Intelligence-If You Have These, Says Dorothy Dix,

You Need Never Fear Divorce Court

A group of young girls write are afraid to venture it because

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anything can be done to prevent them.

mands. eat it. too. the solidarity oi marriage.

price.

A man who has been accustomed to coming and going as he pleases still wants his bachelor freedom alter marriage and resents having to punch the home tlmeclock and not being able to stay downtown and Play poker with the boys at nights. The philanderer wants still to be a petti- ccat-chasel- and have his little aflairs with every pretty girl. The rnan who has always spent his money upon himself and who has been able t0 dress well, keep a sport car and belong to good clubs, cannot endure having to deny himself for the uyrceep oi a home, and. see his good money go ior rent and groceries and doctors’ bills and perambulators instead of on good times.

The girl hasn't the nerve to stand the ordeal of coming out o! the parlor into the kitchen. She can't endure washing dishes instead of going to parties. She can't bear wearing cheap clothes instead ol‘ fine ones and needing a. manicure and a fresh wave and looking shabby and down-at- the heel. It burns her up to have to drop out of her old circle because she hasn't the price to stay in it. She who has been fed on the flattery of many men starves because she is never given even a word o! apprecia-

ticn from one. woman want all the privileges o1 single

In a word. the man and the blessedness as well as wedded bliss, and when they can't have these they their hands and quit. What

cry out that marriage is a failure and throw up are roost divorces granted for? Infidelity, which means that one or the other of a married couple was too selfish to deny himself or herself the thrill o; an illicit romance. 0r “mental cruelty." which is only another way of saying that a husband or wife was too selfish to suppress his or her little disagreeable personal peculiarities, and wouldn't even take the trouble to try to get along with his or her mate '

. You will find mighty few divorces among the couples where the hus- band and wife settle down to marriage. and where they are more concerned in doing their duty and. making each other happy than they are about getting the best of the matrimonial bargain for themselves.

Another reason ior the frequency of divorce is that so many young couples never make any honest eflcrt to make their marriages a. success. They don't even give them a. fair tryout. They don't take as much trou- ble to try to find out why they are not making B. go of their marriages as they do to discovering why their automobiles won‘t run.

If they don't get along together, they don't try to find out why they

quarrel and try to eliminate the cause of friction. If they discover that they are not congenial, they don't cultivate a. taste for each others pur- suits and amusements. They don't try to adjust ‘themselves to each omen Whey don't avoid the topim that are sure to bring on an argument. They don't gumshoe around each other's peculiarities. They don't soft-pedal each others faults. They scorn. to use diplomacy in dealing with each other. They don't consider even common politeness worth while. Worst of all, they don't give their marriages time to develop into auc- cesses. They are not willing to work at them for years and years as they would at any business or profemion, building them up a little here, strengthening them there a bit, acquiring a finer technique all the while, learning from past mistakes what to do and what to avoid. They expect their marriages to pay a. hundred per cent divided from the start and, when they don't, they throw them into the discard. Yet many and many a. marriage that ends in divorce would have been a suoces i1 only a hus- band and wife had held on until they got it past the experimental stage.

"What a wonderful marriage yours is! How perfectly you and your husband are mated!" said a young girl to an old married woman.

responded the woman, “but it has taken iorty years of hard work to make it what it is."

And that is all the law and the prophets of how tobe happy though married. Unselfishness Hard work. Backbone enough to play the gllnr. Patience and inlteliigmce. 11 you have these, you need nevr

‘ DOROTHY DIX.

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me that they wantto marry, but they they have seen so many marriages end disastrously. They have ‘seen so many oi their friends. fine young men and nice girls who were crazily in love with each other, get married with every prospect oz- living happily together ever afterward in fairy- Yet in aiew years they were lighting like cat and. dog and their homes were ' in ruins about them. And thm girls want‘ to know why there are so many divorces, and if

‘fherc are many causes for divorce, the most common one oi which is plain, unadulter-

- ated selilshnms. Men and women are not will- ing to make the sacrifices that marriage de- They want to have their cake and They want the love, the safety, They want the comforts of a home without. having to pay the

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11.. Housewmz and‘ HER ACTIVITIES

WITHIN TRIBE . WALLS

She moves throughout the house, and to her eye 1t holds but beauty; yet I. stranger

there

Had deemed the things were shab- by: rooms too bare! whence comes the sense oi peace as evening falls? It is the love that lives within these wells.

—May Alulitin low.

NEW TRICKS IN COOKER!’

‘There are tricks in all trades. and cookery is no exception. But the method also contributes much indoingthewllckfirherearc a number oi helpful methods we use constantly. O l O

‘There a. way to_ prevent that tough film which forms on cor-n- stlarch desserts when chilled in serving dishes. Simply cover each dish. while the pudding is hot, with waxed or parchment lie-Der. cello-

' phalrlle, or aluminum foil. Hold in

place with rubber bands, and chill.

What a help kitchen scissors are‘ in pie making! Pllwe the upper crust in position and out withlthe scimcis, leaving about one-inch all thewayaround tlleedge lobe turned under and crimped in the usual way. Rather drlliliioult to do with a. knife, yet no trick with kitchen shears. I Q U

For the perfect jelly roll turn the hot cake quickly on a sheet of cellophane dusted with oonfeaiorl- ell-‘s sugar. Out oili the edge of cube all round spread with jelly, roll, and wrelp in cellophane.

‘Use kitchen torigslnflllfld 01 I fork wlhen hurting broiled stacks or chops. Their use will prevent pierc- ing the seared surface of the meat and resulting escape of flavor-some juice. Such tongs also are invalu- able for many mes in the kitchen other than meatfooliery-

For rolled sandwiches out fresh bread in lthllL sllceo o! m. Rzmove mist; some with suit butter and sandwich fillilii Firmly roll slices from the narrow end. Wrap in cellophane, chill and slice across.

Acekeracklsneoessaryforthe final step m croduclns e perfect cube. Air cur-rents ‘ ‘e evenly about the cake and in this way l1"- vent the cake from B0887 as it cools.

MIGHT HELP

A concert in aid oi one of the village charities had been arranged, and all the local "stars" were book- ed for a turn.

Miss Elsie Hands. the baker's daughter and a soprano. was an- nounced. The piano started.

willow tree-e — Ahem a weeping willow trec-e-e —

Her voice cracked on the high notes each time.

successful. ‘men a voice chimed in from the back ofthe hall.

“Try ‘linging it on a-lcwer branch. miss." it. said.

THE FINAL INBULT The Smiths and the _ has been neighbors for years end- tilere was s state of perpetual war

ally started when the Smith!‘ cit caught some of the Bloblnlcnl young chickens.

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FLOWERS IN SAND (Gloucester Timed!

Band, it seems, is useful for other things mm bathing beaches snor- tar. concrete and glass You can grow‘ flowers in it ' Agricultural expects at Rutgers University in New Jersey, halve found that the most barren seashore sand will serve this purpose. You lust mix it with the proper "chemical nutri- onto," meaning artificial fertilizer. The fertilizer provdes the nourish- ment and the sand provides the medium through which it is fed to the glowing plant.

The experiments have had ra- marltable sucoem with ear-nations. roses, sweet peas and other flowers over a period of six years. They find sand» superior to ordinary I011 in some ways because sklce it has practically no t food itself, it

a m um almost oom- pleteiy under the grower-‘s control. Roses, they lay produce a better root. systum in sand resulting in healthier plants.

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By _ MARK rwsm (Samuel L. Clemens)

VIII.

Now Tom had missed all his ex- citement for he had gone on the picnic which included moot of the town's children andwas given by Bet/Ky ‘Thatcher's mother.

k ferry had been chartered to "take the party down the river an! tied up at a hollow. The‘ crowd swarmed ashore and soon the crags and woods lesounded with shoutings

ren struggled back to the chore, feasted and then rested until some- one shouted:

“Whofls ready ior the cave?" Everybody was. Bundles of candles were procured and there was a gen- eral soamper up the hill.

The mouth of the cave was up the hillsidepits opening like a letter A

, and its massive oaken doors widll

EBBPB- . No one “knew" the whole cove. and it was customary for

known portion. The children roam- ed through the dismal corridors, until group-by group, they grew tired, and, covered with clay and candle mace. returned to the mouth.

It was late u they came out and

summon them for the return trip.

Tom knew as much about the llbyrinth as any one. and he and Becky, side-by-side for the whole day. wandered into corridors yhloh others had not explored. In one great cavery vast knots o! bats had packed themselves together. thou- sands in a bunch, and they came flocking down by hundreds, darling furiously at the candies. '

Torn seized Becky's hand and ran down a corridor and got rid of the things. Now lior the first time the deep stillness of the place laid a clammy hand on the spirits oi the children. heard any -of the others." said Becky. “We better start back."

But Torn had lost the way, They wandered about. but could ilnd~no way they were sure of and their supply of candles ran low.. they slept a while and awoke furnished.

“T0111, I'i'il'l0 hungry." Beckysaid.

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“It's our wedding cake." Becky re- called, almost smiling. They divided the small piece and ate it.

Then tlieboyfmrndaklteinbis pocket and, fastening it to a projec- tion, eirplczed side passlloe. Bud- denly. at the far end of one, a human hand, holding a candle. ap- peared ircm behind a rook. Tom shouted, but instantly the hand was followed by the body it belonged to —-lnjun Joe's. _ Tom was paralysed. but the hali- breed took to his heels and disap- peared.

IX.

‘The day after the picnic was Sunday and at church Mrs. Thatch- er met Mrs. Harper. Becky, she had thought. was to spend Saturday night with Mrs. Harper's little girl, and then for the first time she learned her daughtenhad rlct re-

urned.

As they talked, Aunt Polly joined them. She thought that perhaps Torn had stayed with Joe Harper and lcllrnzd. lllat Tom had not conic back.

The alarm swept from lip to lip and before the horror was half an hour old, 200 men were pouring over river and road to the cave. ‘Through- out the day and night the women waited. but all the ward that came was: "Bend more candles-send

The remotest ports of the cave were searched, but the only cluu were the inscription "Becky and, Ifom" traced on s wall with candle Bmfllie and u. bit oi ribbon.

Tuesday afternoon came and the search of the cave went on unavail- ingly, but away in the middle oi the night a wild peel burst from the villain bells-and in a moment

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‘lin pans and horns added to the dinandaoomridinginmo carriage drawn by shouting @113. ens, Becky and Tom oppolred.

Tom told the story-of their ec- cape, leaving out his encounter with Iniun Joe. lie had ielt Becky, he said, and carrying‘ his kite ling 11nd continued his, exp oration.

Finally he glimpcd l. far-oi! speck that looked like day-light, groped tnwnw-t and pushed l’ii'l head and shoulders through s. small hole ._. . > isles the broad Mississippi rolling

He went back to Becky, but gm told him not to-iret her with such stud: that she knew she was going t0 die Ind "Billed-to. Finally he convinced her and the two made their way out. .,

‘They hailed some mm in a sklfl. who took them homo, fed them, made them rest a while and than

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fibres days of toll and hunger in tbsoevekeptBcckyuldTcmin bed for a time. Two weeks later Judge, ‘Butcher. Becky's father, called on the boy.

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"No one will evorget lost in that cove again." the judo: said. "I had thedcor sheathed with boiler iron and triple-incited two wash ago, and I have, the keys."