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an lawns-its Inn- Asks Where She Has Failed With Girl

Dear Mary llaworth: Looking back five years, my question is- hnw should I have dealt with a 12-year-old stepdaughter? she ll 17 now, hostile and disloyal to me.

entered her life. An h.-Eiefbignlwatched over by 10 or 12 babysitters. And she had been ' for her

ferred hearts and rnrnhfeafl - - - Hpr lurid prcicreuces have posed 3 prtilil('lll, as m.V working hus- haud loves a good substantial meal at s,'n'. r-zililioizc and cotton? ham. ur pot roast . y

At I4. Ann was goirigg with a married man: and at 15'5he W85 piccn.-iut. I've heard many reasons wllk girls so wrong - because ihi-v'w felt unloved: or for lack H; I-pliilifllli trairiiniz. etc. if do think any r'r'll:l0llS training is better than null!”

lNFl.l F..V('lF1S BROTHER

ftiy stepson Joey has been in a church scliruil since the first grade . (mp to mv stiililiorn will to keep him Ill this particular sc ool. Ann tries to persiiadc him. ime and arzarn. to an to the public scltool she attended. and believe me. he luiru his sister far better than he

Summer is Eta Hme when hats are the very least of women's worries. It is the season when even the most fastidious of women give up hats altogether. No hats at the beach, except a few exotic straws; no hats in the mountains: and no hats for the highways either. un- less women drivers tie a three- cornered scarf round their heads.

are busy creating their winter mo- dels and presenting them to the Press and to foreign buyers, so that the trippers and travellers and hathers. when they come back to town in their sun-faded frocks. their hair tangled by the wind and un- curled by the sea water, will straight-away find the means of beautifying themselves, in short. of becoming themselves again. One 03" Dut off buying a dress or a coat but there is just something about a hat. the caprice and adventure of it. that brings one immediately up to date. No more untidy hair, hare heads or peasant scarves. Paris and its inevitable chic is Just around the corner.

NEW HATS ARE PRETTY

And what are hats going to look like this year? Very pretty indeed. We are beginning to feel now that

New Hat Styles Favor Pretty Shapes And Color

in front and a scarf. A small clocbe, of almost classical shape, is drawn up on the forehead into a gold clip. Another. worn very far back, leav- ing the forehead bare, is trimmed with a wide fringe. Another has a slightly waving brim. A toque wid-y ens out at the back, to be gathered' in at the side.

and beret-turbans, brimless clocbes drum-shaped. chechias and page- boy toques.

But in all this extraordinary variety the most original inspira- tion seems to be that of the Far Eastern style. India. China and Mongolia all have their part in this year's fashions launched in Paris. The Parisian woman will be something like a Hindu princess in her velvet tiara embroidered in silver, or set with jewels. And what woman could resist the Cossack- style toques in the finest of furs, the obvious choice for wearing with a fur coat, and at the same time so simple, rich and becoming tn the face.

Weeks - Brown 5 Marriage Ol Wide

Accorrliug to a national poll. no less than 38 million Americans would be happy to lose some excess weight. So here is good news for dieters: There is an interesting as- sortment of low calorie foods on the market designed to help over- weighls keep the calories on the

since you can't eat a salad without dressing. the new low calorie salad dressings are made to order. There are French type dressings and Blue cheese dressings for 2 or 3 calories per teaspoon. and a whipped may- OHHHISE type dressing for it calories per teaspoon.

Low calorie beverages have prov-

length veil of bridal illusion and she carried- a cascade of mauve gladroli.

Miss Betty Jay. R N. maid of honor. was attired in a waltz- length gown of French blue cry- stalelte which was fashioned with princess lines and high Empire waistline. The bridesmaid, Miss Jessie llutcheson. R. N.. wore a Walll-lcnkth gown of shrimp cry- stalette in a similar style. The at- tcndants' headbands were styled

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Bv Ids Jun lat:

i ran enormously popular Tliese 4-on-lg tain from 3 to it calories per bottle and include all flavors - orange. lemon, grape. raspberry. chcrry, ginger ale. root beer and cola. Low calorie. high protein hreads are in demand. These furnish 46 to 49 calories per thin slice. Gela-

same food value as the fresh fruits. The non-nutritive sweeteners on the markets are now widely used. These are available in liquid and tablet form and include sucaryl. sugarine. sweets and well known saccharine. I

It is important to know that the label "non-nutritive" means exactly that - . . no food value. Therefore these foods are only for those who follow special diets. and should be used only as accessory foods in connection with a balanced diet. in reducing. you go right along with the process of living which involves continuous wear and tear. and the nutrients essential for re- pair work and for the vital upkeep of the body are needed daily. The backbone of a safe reducing is lean meat. fish or foul: eggs and skim milk or buttermilk or cheese:

Thursday. Sept. 29. l955The Guardian, rage 1

LACY CROCHET CAPE

BY ALICE BROOKS

P r e I t l e st cmcr anote your fasliions! Easy-crocliet this lllllP cape in lacy pineapple pattern!

Pattern 7383: Graceful crochet rape in sizes Small. Medium and Large. Use 8-ply nngering yarn or rnercerized crochet and knitting

” cook and houseke ....- safe and svelte side. So o ular tins in six dfferenr flavors. sweet- cotton Easy to do -- luvcly'

l father and .V0""39' b'0”'9.' J09)” And in mic mo" me" u nothing TURBANS are these specialty foods tllal) the ened wih non-nutritive substances. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in who is Six ""5 her ju"'"r"md 3;” We flncholy um" the word' N0 (W0 Nllibllls 51'? allktl The" chain stores are setting aside shelf contain only 7 calories per serving. coins for this pattern tstanips can- il now. Suddvnly 1”" 1 "me' ”53"" ' nuched '” ll" M” are false turbana with draped space exclusively for them. while not be accepted! to tCharlottelown full of enthusiasm and new ideas. ""3 ha" cnsed h utua nd Crown. 01' fell OM! tishtlv WOHM these foods should never be thought MANY AVMLABLE G""dl3"lv Huusehuld A715 DEPL- in the role of mother and family which, even at a reduced price. round the temples; or the turban or as reducing mods - for no food There are any number M juiceg 60 Front St. W. Toronto. Ont. economist. l':V"” mu” "'9" um" ' 9355” for the re'aliy cold weather. with s can reduce weight - they do en- packed unsweetened canned (mus Pm" Plalnl-V,NAlY”'3v ADDRESS-

lf I boiicltt peanut better. she gance. . . sort of.hood behind. There is the able the dieter to have more varied available including (.hm.nesg piumsy PATYFERN NL5!!"'4R- -

wuntcu struuhcrry ham. if I hBut this off-season is precisely very wide crown, very loose. with menus. I A pears. pineapple. apripnm peaches Noidder (;lll'(Vl9.)-!l .t:ll(t(t B rr;.n.l-s

v planiicd a chicken dinner. s e pre- t e time when the Paris milliners s nan-owvbnm turned right back; Salads are pnpulaf "1 melxg but and raspberries. These have the . ee etrat a a n: u e .n.iriy

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ALICE BROOKS DESIGNS

pages and pages of f'xI'illflR new. designs - knitting. r-rochet am i

' - flcr the hrideis headdress with t i i - ' - ..,.,,;,i N” i,,.-,- mp . , in his last Spring-5 hats lrk d I. - 3 . ., - - and fruits including a tlirtls fruit. 1': MM Jw M” H” M wrmm S" MW "y and distinction. Tfhgy ti::l;l5:;8m Here '1 .. . ..-.. ....,.............xd nltllf;l'i"l:ndall'lf')l' carrie: Happy, healthful slimming l '7'" l W” l""' ”" ll” "Ill" l””h- merge into the coiffure. Some of stephanoii; C mamns an sn that her infliience won't harm them in men. Eimplest form W?” of wide interest here was the t The ball 'man W” V" Fwd Mac Mm "”lh'"g bl" 5 lime Crescent shill? marriage M M155 Eleanor eane Zion PI'csl)ylci'iari f'liiirch. (.har'- Rev. Lawrence la. Biaikic rwr- lteod and the ushers were Messrs.

when l help with his lcssons, or rc:iil from the Bible. Ann con- Irarlicts inv rclirzioiis tcacltings. Also. slic iritz-rjcr-ts a knowing look or word if i can't give Jocy a dollar every time some playmate gets an :illoiv:mce. Nobody could live on the diet Ann prcfcrs: nor thriic spiriliiully on her line of tlioriizlit I am stunipctl as to how t ohclp; and I have (no children hy this rnrirrimze I can't just pick up and on

These cliilrlrcn need their father. too Plczisc advise me how to ad- just. -- l

RESPl'i("l' AHSL'RAN('.E hear l B What chilrlrcn respond

to in adults is large-minded hut imslllvv strength of character. ex-

clinging to the head. or even a mere curve of picot, even indeed a piece of ribbon with a wisp of veil- ing to loud it a certain charm and piquancy. just enough for one to say, "Well. I have a hat anyway", whereas. in reality. one had but half a fruit skin on the forehead, three petals on the side of the head and a bunch of tulle at the back. , But all that has been changed. No chance of creating an illusion now.

admittedly, hats are still small, as

they must be in winter, but as if they were saying. all the same, ”Don't be taken in. I really am

there". And they are there - in nappy felt. melusine. velours felt, velvet and jersey, but we rarely find them made in a single mater-

prr--cd lfl dyiraniic ccrtitude iniial and nlrely in 3 single Colo" mmnmg mp ymmgv And what they Thus we find velours crowns drap-

t'lrNlli'x'(t and snvascly abuse is a 0

llllllfl. empiric. iiuccrtmn or wist- fullv cnutiiur-iital policy on the part of Wllcnts -- or rzuardian. or who- ever has nominal authority over them

WW1 yvm 1'-'ll11r' upon the scene. " -iiuic-"it's that you fell short of con f-rtcnt adult performance in dealini: 'llll'l Ann She seems to have sig- nified agcrcssivcly that she felt who was a power in be reckoned llllll -- and evidently you took her .ii face value and tried to won her. Mflunlly you should have treated her kiiiilly hut decisively. as a yiuiiiu--tci' who had been doing her host in a job unsuited to her years. uho was now being relieved by you of policy-rnakiniz.

Kuitiiiu your actions to your uiurls, you should have indicated mmlv and consistently--and mat W 0' fartly. without apology--that inn knew what you were doing.

WlRl(S LEADER

In all aspects of mothering the lmu.nhold- in supervising Joey's tlulucation. determining his cash at. nuance. administering religious 'Nt'l1lt!E. etc.-you should be a law """g.Voiii'self. in so far as Ann's EHIDITIE is concerned You should 9 fair-minded, self-respecting and -lil'"'dY-Showing forth a calm be- ttlf in your wisdom to govern. wl: "'9 B"? through which you "1," therryis a Family Service i "' 5"” l',”i'l- M Rulde parents :1 5"lV"lE chilrl- management proh- cms. Go there for first - hand ""'” "1 ilminl your hearings and

with jersey or with two-tone lame. or perhaps withgrosgrain rihhnns.

DAYTIME WEAR.

For morning wear. autumn tones are favored - russet browns and

7moss greens: but for afternoon ,wear. the rich colours of the trea-

sure of Golconda - sapphire, em- erald. ruby and turquoise. And some of the tones recall the great painters - Berthe Morizot for her greens. Manet for his yellows. Klssling for his reds and Gaugin for his purples.

With that genius that is specially their own. the milliners find the way of making new and exclusive all the traditional forms of head- wear. One hesitates to use the old words: beret. cloche. toque or tur- ban. Yet. while in general, hats are worn to the back of the head, there are thousands of variations. The casual beret can be worn which- ever way best suits the face. Some of them are merely skull caps. others again have a small brim

WEEKEND SPECIALS at C u d m o r e ' s

Brown. daughter of Mrs. R. Camp- bell Brown and the late Mr. Brown to the Town of Mount Royal. and William Alwyn Weeks. son-of Maj. Gen. and Mrs- E. G. Weeks of the Town of Mount Royal. who were married at 3:30 o'clock Saturday, Sept. 17th. in Mount Royal United Church.

Rev. E. Clifford Knowles of- ficiated. The organist was Gifford Mitchell and the soloist Miss lilrra McKiel. Yellow and bronze mums and red gladioll decorated the church.

The bride. who was given in marriage by James C. Brown, her uncle, wore a long white gown of peau de sole embroidered with beaded appliques. Her full skirt was trimmed with appliques falling into a chapelvlrain. and a beaded coronet held a short veil of French illusion. She carried a cas- cade bouquet of white caruations.

Mrs. D. J. Davis, Jr., was mat- ron of honor, and the other -at- tendants were Mrs. Richard Bur- ton, Miss Betsey Caron. cousin of the bride. and Miss Alice Robert- son. They wore similar long dresses of gold taffeta with bronge feather hats. and they carried cascade bouquets of bronze mums.

D. J. Davis Jr. was best man. and the ushers were Richard Bur- ton, Rhilip Foulkes. Robert Bor- den. and John Gill of Ottawa.

Mrs. Brown, mother of the bride wore a dress of Copenhagen blue with black velvet hat, black ac- lessories and a corsage of red roses- Mrs. R. C. Brown, grand- mother of the bride. was in a beige silk still. with mink furs, black accessories and a corirage of pink carnations. Mrs. Weeks, mother of the bridegroom. wore a leaf green satin gown with match- ing hat and corsage of bronze or- chids.

Following the reception in the Ritz-Carlton Hotel, the bridal

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llottetmvn. was the setting on Aug-' ust 26th. 1'. .. at 2 o'clock whcrrl Luella Suvaiiiic. yriiiriru-st rtairgliter of Mrs. .lohii A. .'il;rcLcorl, Char- lottetown. and the late Mr Mac- l.eod. became the bride of Edward Kuntz, London, Ontario.

HOUSEHOLD HINT

To perk up draperies that are not ready for cleaning. take them down and let the air t'lll'll0IllS.ll'l your automatic dryer .hlow out the dust-

couple left for Bermuda. the bride travelling in it told wtiool dress with matching hat and brown ac- icessories and an orchid Corsage.

Out-of-toxvn guests were Maj- Gen and Mrs ll 0. N.VIlrown- field of Brockville, Out. Mr. and Mrs. Andrew Fraser and Miss Diana Fraser of lroqiiois. Ont. Col. and Mrs W Lmkhart. Maj. Gen and Mrs W H. S Mackliri. Miss Janet Mar-kliu. Maj (kin. and Mrs li.A. Youniz. Bruz and W5- A. W. Beament, Gen. and Mrs- Charles Foulkes. Andrew Pritch- ard and Miss Janet Lawson. all of Ottawa. Ont.

Mr. and Mrs. B. Stephens. Mr. and Mrs. D B. Mausur, Miss Judy Mansur, Michael Msnsur. Mr. and Mrs. G. H. Tarraut. John Forlong. Mrs. George Trow. all of Toronto. Mrs- Elroy Forde of Kingston. 0nl., Cal. and Mrs. S. G. Shier. Miss Ann Shier of Oakville. Ont.. Lt, Gen. and Mrs. E. W. Fausom of Fredericton. N.B.. Mr. and Mrs. George Schryer of Rathurst. N8. and Mr. and Mrs. Eric Ford Jones of New York, N.Y.

The bride is a izraduate of Mac- donald College. and Mr. Weeks is a graduate of McGili University. Montreal.

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formed the double-ring ceremony CaXlrl'l3CI;ic9df3:'ld Ll3Yd.lltlh3l'l&:0d- ' My h. eceponoowea e an against a. llzarkrzr-ruind of rmtlli Iwl lottctown Hotel for seventy guests. ored gladio l. Vlhitc satin buns ren- it-N. b,-ydeis table was decorated tcrcd with sweet pr-as marked the with mixed flowers and was centred ttuest pews. Mr. .Iohii Lea Morgan. h” lhr99'”91'9d Wedding, Fake M. A , B-3 fl” ,.t)Ii:-ant-wand tetdingaieitliidwli i'...'.2?”i3”'8f.'l Miss Nancy Mathexin sang The bride was. m used bv M Bl .k. Lomls Prayer” before the Ce"! The bridle) chose a hgrevrvandmlilllae many and ”Because" during the . v .

Th? hl'ld?- SUV?" in ""'"'”al-'f' ll-V travelling costume. The couple her brother, Mr. Daniel Mar-Lend. h.,m,ym,,,,ned in (hp .513,-mm”. wore a floor-length rzown fashioned 1-he). Wm residp in London, om. on princess lines with a high Ern- aria. (photo by Cmswe". pirc waistline. The skirt of French M -., . . bcnrzaline was topped with Chaut- illy lace and tatfcla and the yoke W ' of tulle was edged with pastel ords The wlse sequin trim. The long sleeves tap- Never lose an opportunity of cred to points over her wrists A seeing anything beautiful. Beauty headdress of matching Chantilly is God's handwriting. lricc and taffeta held her full- --(Charles Kingsley)

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