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Dear Mary Haworth: [| am greatly troubled about an & ,year - old boy in our neighbor- {hood who has molested: our 32 year - old daughter

We moved into their neighbor- hood three months ago. We have | five children and Sally, .:- 2 the -mnuidte—chiid—— rome

At the time the trouble started I was busy with moving and , having a new baby>-and I-blame 'myself to some extent for. not being more alert to the situat- ion

The lad is the younger of two brothers, the elder of whom is away at college. so he is rear- ed somewhat as an only child. He is a classmate of Sally's and they soon became friends, play- ing after: school-_at his house or ours, but mostly his

When finally, tearfully, Sally confided in me, I telephoned the boy’s mother. in friendly spirit but fimiy-intent-upon_cor- Meanwhile I'd talked to my husband, who was

{much upset

The mother's attitude “was quite surprising: very tolerant, in fact permissive. I would say. I was stunned She spoke of her. several years’ psychoanaly- tic experience and its happy out-

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pri vate. Say-to Sally, in effect, “This is better; you can make al! new friends and let what’s- his-name find other friends too.

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_ aD 4 , , by Barbara Haslam, Doreen and | Leslie Piles, Mrs. Angus Green ; Gaughter and sone tam. Mr. { Roger Sinclair. Mrs. Frank Has- 394d Mrs. George P. MacLeod. and Mrs. J. Craswell, Pleasant Scripture was read responsive- Grove

lam and Arlene. Mayne opened them and accompanying cards were read by Mrs. John Hallis jand Mrs. Garth Haslam. The gifs were arranged by Mrs. Ar- thur Collett and a

Mrs. Ivan Ashley and two chil- ‘\dren, Ruth and Mark of Nova Scotia, were receng guests of | her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Ben-

You can forget about him and ¢ 6 The Guardian.’ ’ Charlottetown, Mon., May 17, 1965. hard Schmalz, York.

the worry he caused you.”

As to the other mother’s broadly permissive ~policy rela-. tive-to—her—disturbed—son's Ppre-| cocious delinquent activity, reflects ‘on ‘her part) equal measure of moral illiteracy, pa- rental irresponsibility;psycholo- gical immaturity,. emotional in- Stability and bravura pretense to all - embracing socia) sophis- tication

But_on the sore _ of bonafide seasoned worldly widom, notab- ly in the field of sex experience, the eminent authority Somer- set Maugham (novelist, dlay- wright, self - made millionaire and bon vivant) wrote long ago, in his autobiography, “‘The Sum- ming Up,” that straightforward goodness is the most compelling human quality, M.H.

. Mary Haworth counsels

through her column not by mail or personal interview. Write her™ in care of The Guardian.

Mr. and Mrs. William Goode have returned to their home in Sydney, C.B. after attending the funeral of Harry MacLean, Mes- dow Bank.

Frances Williams, student at Prince of Wales College, is spending her holidays~at the home of her parents. Mr. and Mrs. Bud Williams. Ellerslie

Wallace Jordan has returned

nec. by his son, Donny.

to his home at Beach Point, after completing his studies for the past ‘term at Acadia~University, Wolfville, . N.S.

Alan MacPhail, son of Mr. and

Hunter.River WI Received

MR. AND MRS. LLOYD SHIELDS

Wedding Vows Pledged

At Two Ring Ceremony

The First Baptist. Church, Charlottetown, was the scene of a pretty wedding recently when Mardie Dianne MacDon- ald, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Borden MacDonald, Parkdale, became the bride of Lloyd Aug- ustine Shields, son of Mr. and Mrs. William Shields, Charlotte- town. Rev. Malcolm F. Harlow officiated at the double ring ce- Temony.

Given in marriage’ by ther, the bride entered church to the traditional Wed- ‘ding March, played by Mrs. Leigh V. Dingwell. She wore a streef length dr of white lace over peau - de“"soie with wrist lenzth chiffon sleeves. Her shoulder length veil was held in nlace by a white lace crown, caucht with brilliants, and she carried a bouquet of red roses.

Marjorie MacInnis, the bride's only attendant, chose a two piece suit of white lace over taffeta, with pink and white ac- cessories and carried a large nosegay of white mums and

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pink roses. She wore a_ single strand of pearls, a gift from the bride

The groom -was attended by Sterling MacNevin, and the us- hers were Ralph MacDonald, brother of the bride and Ralph Williams, uncle of the bride

For her daughter's wedding,

Mrs. MacDonald chose a three- piece navy dress, featuring a white and navy figured top,

pink accessories and a corsage of pink-roses.

The groom's mother wore a two piece suit of light blue bro, caded silk, with white accessor- ies and her corsage was of white mums

A reception was held’ at the home of the bride’s parents, where a three tiered wedding .

cake topped with miniature

bride and groom centered the bride's table. The toast to the bride was

proposed by Sterling MacNevin and responded to by the groom: Gail Carver circulated the guest book.

For_a Aoneymoon trip through the bride . chose dress of lace over acetate jersey, with matching longsleeved jacket, and red accessories. Her cor- sage was of red roses.

Out of town guests were aunt and uncle of the bride, Mr. and

|\Mrs. Ralph Williams and dau-

ghter, Kathy, of Bagotville,

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Our next-door neighbor tells

been building a reputat along this line’ for at least two years; and other boys avoid him. We have con- sidering transferring Sally to another class ‘his teacher says he has a crush on Sally); but

we don’t want to overemphasize --What-_do_you

Dear E.S.: As written, your letter consituted a pornograph- ic document. In condensing it! for discussion, just on the chance: that hapless. children are involved in the sickness de-

| scribed, I have concisely elimin-

ated the suggestive details.

This. 1- mention. because, to be frank, I have a strong. sur- mise that you've submitted the story with baiting intent, com- plexiy motivated, from sexual- ly perverse viewpoint evel supposing the central facts are true, or approximate a neigh- borhood episode you know about.

Well, with that preliminary on_record, now that we under- stand gach other, my advice ig (to-any and all parents facing the problem you relate): Get family relations counselling help, on a firsthand continuing basis, in learning how to provi- de your emotionally threatened children with the truly humane, constructive parental protectiv- eness they are entitled to. Taking your story at face to points you raise: Assuming it is possible, as you imply, to transfer Sally to another class, away from daily unavoidable proximity to the source of her dismay, I recommend the step.

You needn't be heavily em- phatic about it. You don't owe the neighbors tireless explana- tions. Conferences with school authorities properly should be

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Money. was voted to the Red Cross Day Camp, and to the Re- tarded Children’s Fund at the regular monthly meeting of the Margate Women’s Institute held at the home of Mrs. Arthur Profitt.

The meeting opened with the

| singing of ‘Old MacDonald had |a Farm”

followed by the Mary Stewart Collect in unison. Thir-

teen members responded to olla call by exchanging flower slips’

or plants. The minutes of the last meeting were read by the) Mrs. Philip Hender- |

|son, and the treasurer, Mrs.|

| Heath Mayhew gave a ‘satisfac- | Corresupond- |

tory report. ence consisted of two “Gunanami”. Mrs....Andréw _ Johnson and Mrs. Arthur Profitt were ap- pointed the new visiting comm-

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\ittee. The school committee

Was re-appointed.. It was de- cided to sell lunches at an auc- tion sale in the district

A- paper on “Agriculture was Tread and the questionaire was filled in. Collection was taken and a successful auction sale

Meeting adjourned and _ re- freshments were served by the committee in charge:

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Mrs. vener of the program for the month at the regular May meet- ing of Hunter River WI. She took for her theme ‘“Citizen- ship."’- Her discourse was most interesting and informative, and in ‘which the other members took part. Later a film, entitled community responsibilities was shown and discussed.

Letters of congratulation in- cluding one from Hon. Walter R. Shaw, were read with reference to the. winning of the Coral Lane Safety Award, on the na- tional as well as provincial level. The president, Mrs. Em- mett Bernard, reported that, two of the members, Mrs. Alb- ert Craswell and Mrs. Lloyd Carew had. been to Winnipeg to attend a ceremony there and to receive this award.

Congratulations were also re- ceived from various friends, re- levant to the winning of the first place in the Safety —Con- tract, sponsored. by CJRW | Summerside.

It was decided to enter the Chatelaine contest and the fol- lowing committee was appoin- ted: Euella Knox, Dorothy Bol- ger, Thelma Green, Hazel Pow- ell, Ruth Bagnall and Ruth Burns.

Two 4H club girls, Della Rowledge, and Lynda MacMil- lan were present with their leader Mrs. Orville Sellar. They exhibited the work they had done which’ included a blouse and skirt, a crocheted pot hol- der, a hemstitched doily, and a patched woolen piece.

An amount of money, as usual was voted to be sent to~the Prince Edward Island Hospital League. Roll call was ‘answer- ed by paying one cent per inch, for hip measurement.

The president, Mrs. Emmett Bernard presided, with Mrs. W.

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HAPPENINGS

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ly from Acts 9: 1-22.

Minutes were read by the secretary, Mrs. Don MacKay. Nineteen members responded to roll call with a verse of scrip-

ture. The special fund treasur-_ -” |

er, Mrs. Stanley Brown, her report.

Sit nies aaieeiean ok tsa! hostesses at the New London | Hall on Friday, May 21st follow-

Mr. and Mrs,~Arthur Maz | Rev Leslie Files. The mem-

Farlane, left recently hers are to mest on May 17 to

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visit their pedir and son-in-| The Bible study was led by)

Phone 48506 |law, Mr. and Mrs. Wm. Filkins mrs) Fred Campbell, concern-

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Neil’. MacPail, Argyle, Mr. ee Lester MacDon.- | Shore, left by plane on “Friday ald, Whim Road, have as_ their for Hamilton, Ont., where he Suest, their cousin, Rev. A. T. | will be employed with his bro- MacDonald, New Glasgow, N.S. ther, Woodrow MacPhail, for the summer months. i

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Mrs. Elfzabeth Luque of Cra- paud is now at the home of her

br. William Burleith, Mon-| brother, George MacDonald, | treal, has returned to his home Crapaud, and would welcome vi- | there after visiting his parents, Sitors there.

Mr. and Mrs. Arnold Burleigh, Ellerslie. He was accompanied) WMS To Elect Among those attending the af- New Officers ternoon tea at the Canadian Le- gion recently, were \Mrs. Wilf- Mrs. Ken MacKay, Mrs. red Shea, Tignish. Mrs. Russell Oscar MacKay, and Mrs. Oliver | Callaghan, Mrs. Pat. Callaghan, Bernard were appointed as the Mrs. Anthony Keefe and Mrs msominating committee to bring | Fred Thibideau, Ebbsfleet. in the new ‘slate of officers for | E the June meeting. Mrs. Amy | A number of neighbours and MacKinnon, new Life Me m-

——~yelarives gathered recently —at—ber—will-be—-presented--with-her—

the hcene of Mr. and Mrs. Craw- certificate by Mrs. Stanley ford Sinclair, Springfield, to Brown. Mrs. Leslie Files and tender their daughter, Barbara Mrs. Angus Green. These plans Sinclair, RN, a miscellaneous were finalized at the May meet- shower. ing of St. John’s Presbyterian The room was decorated for Women’s Missionary Society the occasion with blue and white held at the home of Mrs. Angus bells and streamers. The bride- Green recently. to-be was escorted to a decora-| The meeting was opened — by

\ing the personalities of Mary | and Martha, and the study book was presented by Mrs. Don) |MacEwen and Mrs. Ellis — Bur- |

goyne. Mrs. Earle Campbell will | ors to Charlottetown,

be hostess for the June | Leader will be Mrs. Fred bell will be hostess for meeting. Leader will be Mrs. | Fred Campbell, prayer

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Mrs. Benjamin MacMillan,

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pital. She ig convalescing at the home of her neice, Mrs.

family of Charlottetown were guests at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Harold Watts Sunday-even-

ing. e | : ~The -York-CGIT-held- its: moth-

the hostess for June “at” which ted~seat by Mrs. Lindsay-*Sea-the 2nd-vice—president,;--M-r-s=

meeting the roll cal! will be an- man, while wedding music was Oscar MacKay. Devotional lea- er and daughter banquet Mon- swered by exchange of plant played by Mrs. Clark Harding der was Mrs. Ralph Wigmore. day; May 10 in York Hall. cuttings. The many gifts were carried in Prayers were offered -by Mrs.' Mrs. Ramsay Auld and son

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| were visitors recently at the home of her parents, Mr. and | Mrs.Harold Watts, York.

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