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Shall Man and Wife Who 'Inathe_Each,0ther = Stay Together for Sake 0f_ Children? —- " Illegitimacy Need Not Blight Life -— i . a Disillusioned Stenog.

Dear Miss Dix-I up a. man of a2. My wife is s1. we have been

i uarried more than ten year; and have four beautiful children. Aftcr bout three years of married life my wife and I begun t0 have 599W. "w"

i little fights, then big ones.‘ For the last three - years we have meant nothing to each other except

we both realize that we have a separate and dis-

l “m; duty w our children We have our private ‘ individual rooms and seldom meet except at sup- i _p_l‘l'. It 1 go out for the evening she stays in. 4 11.1 silly with the children she goes out. She never * asks me where I go, with whom or what I do. I never ask her. In short, we have nothing to do

with each other and both are wasting the best

part of our lives. Should we continue to live to-

~ gather “for the sake of our children" and let them

. _ see us loathing cach other or should we part and

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let them sce at least one of their parents in a contented frame of mind? . BEWILDERED.

Alisucr;

Why is it that a man as intelligent as you are has been unable to find the root of your trouble? Have you tried looking for that and hon- estly seeking the reason why you and your wife cannot get along together f ln pence and harmony?

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THE CHARLOTTETOWN GUARDIAN

Apparently neither one of you has committed any crime against the other. Nor arc you in love with some other woman or man. It seems to 0c just a case of incompatibility of temper. Everything you say or do gets on each others nerves. Every word is a fighting word.

It has always seemed to me that any husband and. wife can kcep from iiuarrcliiig if they want to. It is Just u matter of self-control and deter- mination Of biting back a bitter retort. Of giving the soft answer that tui-ns away wrath. Of using a little diplomacy and sidesteppnig ihctopics on which they know they ‘disagree. Of paying o. fcw judicious compliments.

! have never known a man or woman who could‘ not be managed lf approached inthe right way. Especially are women easily controYctl byvtlie man who will takothe troublc to handle thcui with gloves. A little flaztery, a few attentions, a; little jdllyying are a. sure rcciioc for work lng a wife. You can shut any viragds lips tight pith i1 kiss. - '

.You use finesse in dealing with those with whom you come in contact in business. Why not try the same tactics on your wife? You don't tell your boss nor your customers‘ nor your clients Just what you think of

, them. You don't. deride their opinions, no matter how silly they arc.‘

, You don't call them down when they make mistakes nor throw up their previous blunders to them. And you don't make disparaging remarks about their relatives.

i Believe me, brother, if husbands and wives would take ns much trou- _f_ ble to placate each other as they do their bosses, there would be very i little marital discord,

But if you have tried out all of these things and none of them work- rd and if you and your wife are so fundamentally antagonistic that you can never agree on anything, I certainly think that at your ago you will be wise to part. You have many years of life before you and it is not right that they should be embittered by an enforced companionship that - brings out all that is-worst in you and that will wrap‘your‘very soul. _ I

orphan them you do them a wrong that can never be repaired. But you have to choose betwen two evils and you will do them a worse wrong if you bring them up in an atmosphere of hate that will poison their young lives. It is better for them to haveone parent or no parent at all, than two parents who are at emnlty with each other and who live in a perpetual state of strife. i

Children who grow up in homes such as yours have their nerves wrecked as much as any shell-shocked soldier did by the domestic battle that rages continually over their‘ defenseless little heads. Theyhave their whole outlook on life distorted by the scenes that they are forced daily to witness and they grow up with no respect for either parent because each has taught them to despise the other.

So the husbantis and wives who hate each other, but who continue to live together for the sake of the children, make their sacrifice in vain. They do their children harm instead of good and unless you have enough strength and self-coaltrol m keep the pence and make a home for your children that will be full of kindness and good will instead of hatred, you and your wife had better part. DOROTHY DIX.

Dear Miss Div-What place is there in this world for a. person of illegitimate birth? I am o. little more than 20 years of age and a man and about a year ago I learned that my supy/lsed fazher and mgthrgir were only my adopted parents and that f hart franc: and moLhc-r both living. This knowledge tortures me crueEy and .24 come very nearly giving mc a nervous breakdown. My real mother has been to see me ‘in college and made me some costly gifts and expects rne to love hcr, but I fecl very bitter against her and my father. What right had they to bring me into the World with this handicap? Have I any righ: to marry myself? 1f

' b, I do, should I tell the girl beforehand? My foster-parents have been as p; good to me as if I were their own child. g g, v.‘ _ . n Answer: n. My dear boy. you are iakins a very morbid o.’ the subject. Try w; to get a clearer perspective on it and see that while lL is most unfortunate [e for a child to be born out of wedlock, it need not be a blight that will u. ruin his whole life. st g a] There are thousands upon thousands of illegitimate children who pi have grown into fine men and women and who occupy the highest posi-

tion in the land and are loved and respected and admired by all who know l-hlim- 3° Pu!» "u! thflulht of v01" °"Bin out of your mind altogether. It is not how you are born, but what you make of yourself that" counts.

Forget your own father and mother for whose wrong-doing you have to pay such a. terrible prlco and remember that you belong to the good man and woman who adopted you and whose name and status you take in society. And also remember that you have a great debt to pay to these foster parents and that you can best show your appreciation of what

_ they have done for you by making something of yourself.

V/So quit brooding over something that is past helping. Realize ma; you are establishing a name and: family of your own, that you want m zi-iaka your sons and daughters proud to belong to you. Many of the most aristocratic pedigrees in the world have the bar sinister across them.

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I think that you should tell any girl that you marry of your origin, but if she loves you enough it will not mutter to her. DOROTHY DIX.

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_ Dear Dorothy Dlx-JWhatIs bothering me and a lot of other business girls is that we see so many menvchcstiiig .on their wives and they are wives-who are everything that a wife should bc,.good looking and cheer- ful and no: naggers. Why is this? What makes men who are honest

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Of course, you have your duty to your children and when you half-L

Cheese Sticks or Straws

Use {my left over plain or pufl paste. Roll out to one quarter 111611 in thickness, sprinkle one 115-11 0f it wth grated cheese. Fold over the other half and roll out BBB-in- Sprlnkle with cheese and proceed B8 before; repeat this folding three times. Cutilnto very narrow strips with’ pastry iaczre or K111"- "id bake for l0 minutes in extremely hot oven. .

I hope out bi this assortment o! chccse rcvilns to 59f“? Willi 531"“ ,1... will find lilC one you desiro- We shall be glad to lu-ar from W" at any tme.

QUESTION; Cari you tell me some fancy lclrigs I can use ~10!‘ P131" cake at a party? I read Y0“? Page every week and hope you can help me. Economizer 2nd.

ANSWER: I have changed your name to Economizer 2nd ls wc all tcacly had an Economizer.

Orange Frosting

Cook 2 cups sugar and 1-2 cup ivater together ppm syrup will thread. Then pour slowly over two 0E8 Whites which have been beaten very stifl, beating all the Wiillc until nearly stiff enough to spreadi- Put mixture into saucepan, and sci over larger pan of boiling will". and cook the frosting, stirrinfl 6°11‘ tinuaily until the mixture begins to granulate on sides and botlflm 01 pan. Remove from fire‘. Edd 16W grains salt, one third t€R5P°°1l 01" ange extract and grated rind of 1 orange and beat until of rght con- gigtency m gpfefld, Cover the cake imevezily in peaks DB1"! 5"" m“ the whole surface is Covered 110W‘ ever, and then dab Eeflfiwllflly ‘viii. pastry brush which has been dipped in melted bitter chocolate.

Sour Cream Frostlfll’ ,

Two cups granulated sushi‘. 1 WP sour cream, 1 teaspoon vanilla, 1-2. Cup chopped walnut or almond meats. Combine sour cream l-ud sugar and boll until small amount of mixture forms a soft ball when tried "n cold water. Remove from heat and. allow to stand until just lukewarm. Then beat until creamy and ad vanilla and nuts which will thickc it immediately. Spread quickly.

ltfaple Marshmallow Frosting

one cup maple sugar. 1-2 cub boiling water, 2 egg whites, 8 mural.- mallows or 2 t “‘ m“ cial marshmallow cream, spoon vanilla. Cook the sugar d water together stirring until the sugar is dissolved; then cook with- out stIrl-lng w the soft ball stage when it is tried in cold water. Add the marshmallows to the hot syrup

1-2t -

pressing them under the surface to

make them melt. Pour the

beating constantly until of rishi consistency to spread. Add varrlla and spread.

I have a recipe White Mountain Cream, Mioelin Frosting and levml other ornamental Frost rigthat Y0“ may have it you write saving whim one; you desire.

November Babies Need Especial Skin Care

The harsh chill air of November is especially trying to the tender skin of the new Baby-If you would avoid the risk of chopping and chafingnse the soothing and heal‘- ins "Baby's" Own "soap ‘Jo-Hades choice of a toilet mid nursery soap for over five generations. Because of the P1176 0115 “s94 in Baby's Qwn, and its absolute free- dom from harsh cleansers, the skin is kept satiny and smooth-the lav- ish creamy lather cleaness 891ml’ but perfectly-the delicate flower fragrance seems just the right sug- gestion of a. scentjor Baby.

On sale everywhere. Z-IO-df. "Best for you and Bally i0”

First Guest-I'm sure I don't know why they call this hotel "The Palms." I've never sen a 981m anywhere near the place.

Second Guest-You'll se them be- fore you go. It's a pleasant little surprise the waiters keep for the guests on the last day 0f W811‘ stav-

-I-———-—i—-—-1 AMomingSmilo I

Young Jimmy was pushing his baby sister's pcrambulator down the street. ‘ I ‘ “Hey, Jimmy," called his buddy from across the street, "do you get paid for that?"

"New," replied Jimmy, disgusted- ly, "this is a free-wheeling Job."

"The banks are getting shaky. My wife puts our money in licr shoes." "Yes? Bo does mine. Shoes and hats."

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sider marrying any man?

Answer:

as Mr. Howell once said, imperfectly monogamous.

domestic type no one woman can hold

Borer. star: chasing it.

and honorable in other things tlim out to be sneaks and liars to their

manners of men.

wives? And how are girls. who see this every day m4 who have to teie. phone wives that their husbands are in conference ofoalled out of town on business or arc meeting country customers, when they ' ping out with some doll to keep from becoming too disillusioned to con-

Why man who are married to beautiful and charming women can't be satisfied to stay within the fold but miilt jump the bars now_and then nobody can explain. Perhaps it is Just the nature of the best. after 2000 yum of Christianity men are still

But there seems no remedy for it.

ful as Venus, as vampy as Clara Bow and Always hc will sec the flutter of l

8X6 really step.

JUST A FTIINOGRAPHER.

Perhaps,

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him, no matter if she is u beauti- u good n housekeeper as Mrs.

syrup slowly over the stiffly beaten whim.

her home on Green Street, merside on Wcdnmday evening.

Unless i mm ls born of the honorary life member of the Can- adian Legion of the Br tish Empio Service League. He added this dis- pottiooot up the street and tinctlon to his many titles of honor

,-:- Fashions

Happenings

of the Week

When laying bulbs beneath i119 80d

For Winter sleep, My faith, like quiet trust in God. Is strong and deep.

The dark earth holds n0 thoulht of

The Queen paid an informal visit to Harrods to see the wonderful displays there of British china, the exhibition of Home and Empire produce, and the ToyPair. She set a royal example by making some early purchases of Christmas 8'1’!!- Tlie Queen's expert knowledge of ceranrcs was shown iii her keen interest in new British china. while she made a thorough tour of the w, fair, which occupies nearly two acres. '

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The Duke of Gloucester, third son of the King and Queen. is iilnnifin‘! to leave England about Christmas for a two months’ shootnz "l? m the Sudan. Capta’)! E. W. Brook. the big-game hunter, who is an

has accompanied him on PTWWlI-‘J expeditions, will go with hlm.

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Mrs. Scarih is being welcomed home froma much enpoyed visit to Quebec and Toronto. I I I The weekly Bridge Club were en- ivrta ned. yesterday afternoon at H-llhurst, Mrs. C. l-l. B. Longworthb lovely home. I I "I Mrs. Murdock McKinnon was hostess yesterday afternoon at a. de- lightfully arranged B11689 '10! h" friends, Mrs. McKinnon also on- tertalned at a. similar social func- tion the previous Friday- - I I I Hon. J. A. McDonald, M. P;, lvlrs. McDonald and family of CardiBMi are now among the welcome resi- dents in the e ty. having taken Mrs. Donald Nicholson's residence, 120 Prince Street for the winter months. I I I

The many friends of Mrs. ILV. Buntaln are regretting her illness which will connine hei- to the P. E. I. Hospital for sometime.

I I I The Paris fashion world r ‘- edjo Governor Roosevelt's election by creating “Roosevelt red" Ca. new warm color resembling the shade of red wine. Velvet gowns of the new color were trimmed with ermine and diamond clasps. Other new styles were cightbutton velvet gloves of "Roosevelt red" and Old-faébiblk’ ed capes in the new shades.

I I I Mrs. H. R. Large is spending sev- crai W€€k3 visiting in ‘I'm-onto. I I I

Miss Mary Haszard left Wednes- day for New York after a. delightful summer holiday with her parents Mr. Justice Haszard and Mrs. Has- zsrd. -

I I I Mrs. Kenneth Richards left Wed- nesday morning on a visit to New York.

I I I Miss Mary Gordon Hughes is home from Acadia, Wolfvllle, for a few weeks recuperating from a sev- ere cold.

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The sophomores of Acadia. Wolf- ville, gave a. party last Saturday ov- ening, and included among their guests the faculty and fellow stud- entg of the universitv- Olen Foun- tain and Gwen Freeman, president and vice-president of the sopho- mores, rcceived the 8116-5". Vim Professor and Mrs. 1021519)’. and Mr. and Mrs. Fred Kalli. Charlottetown. as chaiperonca.

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Mr. and Mrs. T. B. Grady are leav-

l ing early next week to spend the

winter in Florida. I I I

Mrs. R. Taylor entertained st.

gutter prettyliomc on Prlncs Street in honor of her friend. Mrs. Titus of Summersde, who is renewing friendships in the city.

Mrs. G. R. McQuari-ic was hostels to members of the Golf Club at the first of a series of chain bridges at Bum-

I I I Premier R. B. Bennett is now an

810cm the summer months in Summcrslde In h’dlng clay; left on Wednesday mornng for her For I can see bright tulip bloom home in New York. Many little In far-off Mhy. parties were given in her honor dur- . . _ lng her visit. I I I '

elm-p, equerry to the Duke, and who

a. costume Bridge Thursday evening »

credit to the Canadian Legion and

to the honor you have paid me,"

Mr. Bennett told the Dominion

president on receiving the badge. I I I

me. nut! who has been spending

Mrs. D. R. Morrison of Summer- slde left recently to spend the wint- er months in Vancouver, B. C.

I I I The many friends in this city of Rev. W. J. Kirby, Park Street,

Moncton, will regret to learn that he is confined to hfs bed as the re- sult of an accident which occurred in his home. While going up the stairs. the reverend gentleman 10st his balance when ncar the top and fell over backwards, falling ell the way to the bottom. Rev. Mr. Kirby who observed his eightleth birthday several months ago, has not been in the best of health for several days as one of his legs became partially impaired. It was this handicap which

though he is suffering somewha

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season delicacies to appear on the nursery dining table.

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Caramels

2 cups brown sugar.

1% cup corn syruii-

‘.5 cup milk.

V, cup butter.

1 teaspon vanilla.

1 cup chopped nuts.

Cook sugar, com syrup, milk and butter until it forms a firm ball in cold water. Remove from fire, add vanilla and nuts and pour into greased pan and mark in small squares.

Chocolate Caramel;

4 squares chocolate.

1 cup milk.

1 cup corn syrup.

1 teaspoon vanilla.

5i cup brown sugar.

‘A cup granulated sugar.

1 tablespoon butter.

Cut up the chocolate and add to the milk. When dissolved oddjha corn syrup and sugar, then cook till it fomis a hard ball in oold water. Add the butter when nearly done. Remove from fire and pour into well greased pan. Chopped nuts may be added. Mark in squares when cool.

Chicken a In King

8 tablespoons butter.

2 slices onion.

$6 oup sliced mushroom caps

‘A green hePDcr, minced.

2 tablespoons flour.

‘A. teaspoon salt.

Duh of mace or nutmeg.

1% cups rich milk.

it cup chicken stock.

2 cups coked chicken, cut in pieces.

1 canned pimento, cut in strips.

l. ubieipodn butter.

1 or two egg yolks.

Melt the butter in top of double boiler, cook the onion five minutes in the butter and remove. Add tho mushrooms, cook five minutes. Add

the peppers, cook five minutes long- er. Stir in the flour- and seasonings blending well. Pour 1n gradually