A Fireside Chat With Dr Feelgood

Dear Dr. Feelgood,

There is this sexy girl that is in my class that I find ex- tremely attractive. During class I find myself sinfully daydream- ing about her and thinking sex- ual thoughts. She has silently

__ looked my way once during class

- at first, I thought she was look- ing at someone behind me, but no, she was actually looking at me. All of a sudden I felt a tingle in my spine. My palms started to perspire and I started to lose my breath. Then in a flash she turned back to the professor. I figured I had lost my big chance. I had silently watched this beau- tiful girl and thought about her for weeks and now everything could be lost.

Fortunately, at the end of the class, she looked back seductively to my amazement.

How do I make that first move and not mess it up!?!

Signed Frustrated

(name withheld by request)

Dear Frustrated,

For starters things look good for you because she seems to have a genuine interest in you. Go to class earlier next time and sit in the same spot she did last time. If that does not work then give her the most innocent little smile that you can when she looks up at you. At the end of the class try to get in front of her or be- hind her and try holding the door like a gentleman. If she does go for your polite gesture then bring up casual conversation that mainly interests her. If you feel brave then introduce yourself and ask her about herself. Now re- member, at this point to think with your head, because first im- pressions unfortunately are im- portant. You should remember that you are not the only one who has these problems.

Dear Dr. Feelgood,

I have been seeing this guy for three to four weeks. It has been a great time and very eye opening. However, things have been heat- ing up sexually. I ama virgin in Qnd year and if the sex keeps go- ing then I will lose my virginity. Each week we have been moving along and I am starting to get confused and a little scared. My body has never felt like this be- fore, but my brain is trying to tell me to put the brakes on and sometimes I almost lose all my mind because I have never been this sexually aroused. I care for him dearly and think I am close to love for the first time. If I

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