Women's realm

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THE GUARDIAN

NOVEMBER 3, 1953

Mr. and Mrs.

St. George's Anglicim Church, Oshawa, was the scene of a wed- ding recently when Gertrude Fay Oatway, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. W. J. Oatway of Oshawa was united in marriage with Mr. Harold Alton Colcs of Oshawa, son of Mr. and Mrs. Lemuel Coles of Milton, Prince Edward Island.

White button chrysanthemums on the altar, yellow and rust chrysanthelnunis flanking the altar steps which were repeated in the same flowers with white satin rib- bons designating their pews formed the setting for the ceremony con- ducted by Canon David M. Rose. Mr. Leon Nash A. T. C. M. "presid- ed at the orguii and Mrs. John Peacock of Fort William, soloist, sang "The Lord's Prayer." The bridal party were proceeded up the aisle by the choir, of which the bride is I member, singing "Praise My Soul 0 King of Heaven" and during the signing of the register "0 Perfect Love."

Given in marriage by her father the bride wore a gown of white nylon net and Chantilly lace over satin. The moulded bodice fashion- ed of the lace was designed with a high round neckline inset with scalloped yoke of natural tulle giv- ing an off the shoulder effect. The sleeves were long and pointed to the hand. The bouffant floor-length net skirt worn over it crinoline was accented with an apron peplum of the lace banded in net, and swept into a two panel train at the back. A half hat of lace over satin held her finger tip veil of tulle illusion bordered willi' lace. She wore I single strand of pearls, the gift at the briclolzrooin. and carried a :ascade of Brinrcliffe pink roses.

Mrs. John Macbean was matron )f honor wearing Autumn gold and :srrying talisman rose: with yellow 3hySJ!.llt.hell'l11InS and brown net florets.

The bridemaids were Miss Mar- garet Ricketts and Miss Shirley l-lele in coffee brown, and their flowers were tawny gold roses. oronze chrysanthcmums and yellow net florets. The gowns worn by all the attendantu wt-re styled with strapless bodiccs of the lace

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Mr. and Mrs. Clement MacDonald maid); Shirley

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i.n St. Patricks Church, Hamilton, Ont., on Sept. 12, when Mary Cecelia, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.) George Miaclntyre 'of Cardigan, P.E.I., exchanged vows with Cle- ment Francis MacDonald son of the late Mr. and Mrs. GeorgeMac- Donald of Howe Edy, PEI.

The bride was given lll- marriage by her brotlier-in-law Mr. Har- old Lmiigzin, She wore a floor- lengtli gown of while nylon net and lace over satin, tlie strapless bodice of chantilly lace featuring long sleeves tapering to points over the'hands and wing collar. The three quarter Veil was helti in place with a crown trimmed an-oid col" with pearls. She carried. a white hair and they each wore the fawn pf,”",,3f,Ok dewmwd Mml

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ibgidiei glnl i-iiiiiulgili: eail-rigid all Mrs. Harold Lsnigan was her ip us i..u tcli ' S. - '0' . g g .

i Mr. John M8CLrE8ll performed theifflix nxgtabgegx. 0,fafhf:?sur'Ensdheb,:,:f ,duties of best man. The l.lSllETSl ' Eiggwygiaxgmhi gIool:fOn0fCog31;ag;,ter of the bride, was attired in Oshawa, mowers" of the brides? (mauve net over taffeta. Each wore groom. . matching headresses and mitts and

The reception was held in st. ””””d '””.”3 SW” Pm” W” George's Parish Hall, Centre Q'9(?”'r”'l'9d mm mlsmel? m5'eS' M53 Street. To receive the guests theit'h”19yVpMac1J-1)00fl:1d lmece M the bride's mother wore an afternoon groom its V V31” ' dress of beau blue lace over tai- MP Dim M5”-Dimald mmher 0f feta, s small hat of duslrypiiil: the groom was best man. Mir. velour, matching accessories and a,'N0TbeTi- M3-&D01l61d W35 Usher- corsage of pink delight roses. The' A reception for 70 8-nests was bridegroom's sister-in-law, Mi-s.lheld at the Avon Hotel where the James Coles of Charlottetown, P.:bride's table was ceiitered with E. I. who assisted, chose a dress Oflil. three-tier wedding cake topped black and white nylon taffeta, a with a miniature bride and groom, red Vl':lVet hint with matching 1130- encircled with lighted tapers and cesso es an I corsage o ye ow bouquet; of sweet peas, r05"l- For a. honeymoon trip in New 1nY?,l0;' and rust chrysantheinurns yo,-k cm. the nude chose ,1 navy

” an mrmed 3", enecmve blue dress with mauve accessories background for the bridal tableiand E w,5a.,e 0; orchids Pink tulle was the setting for the The nem;,,,ed5 Wm ' three-tier edestal ddln alt

P we 3' C e Hamilton. which was flanked with lighted white tapers in silver candle hold- decorated the small tables for theiijng the lzndki present,” 3”. brnifal . ouquet 0 er gran mo ier, rs. lguests. Grace was said by Reverend George Nmthcon.

Pictured above follqwing their wedding at St.

A pretty autumn wedding was: solemnized by Rev. J. H. Higgins;

maid Olive M-aclntyre, also a'sis- ,

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on Sept. Left to right are Miss Olive Maclntyre (brides- MFS. Harold Lanisan imalron Of h0I10r). Mr. and Mrs. Clement MacDonald (nee Mary Maclntyre). MacDonald iflnwer Kiri). ML Dan MacDonald (best man), and4Norbert MacDonald (usher).

Patrick's Church, Hamilton, Onl., and their attendants.

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DOROTHY DlX'S COLUMN-

Her Vacillaiing Bea

After Spat Girl Still Loves Boy Now Dating Fraulein: Abroad

DEAR MISS DIX: I'm 19 and in love with Roger, who is five years older. He's been in the Army for most of the two years I've known him, and is now in Germany. He was a devoted beau at the beginning tof our friendship, dependable and considerate. However, for the past year I never know where I'm at with him. He made dates, broke them. forgot to apologize, then did the same thing again. When I called hlmsat home. he was never there. I got angry, then because I love him so much. if forgave him with the hope he would change. Twice we've broken off, but after the usual penltent over- tures on his part, we resumed our friendship. When he left for Germany he asked me to wait for him, and I promised I would. He wrote regularly at first, then his letters became less frequent, and finally one came suggesting that I go out with other boys since . dating German girls. I never answered that letter. His mother, wit whom I am very friendly, says his letters to her indicate that he's blue and lonely.

On several occasions he has told me he was send- ing gifts or pictures. which never arrived. What can I gather from his behavior? Perhaps I've given in to him too much. As the youngest of six children he is somewhat spoiled.

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LAURA B.

ANSWER: 1' have condensed your very long letter into the general facts of a vacillating sweetheart who finds it difficult to make up his mind about anything, or, having made it uD.sis unable to stick by the decision, thus resetting the cycle of uncertainty. It is not necessarily entirely his fault. A young man transplanted into regimental life in a foreign countiy is bound to find adjustment difficult.

REMIND HIM OF HOME

Companionship at hand h what he wants, and people state-side seem remote. If you continue to write him, you will at least be supplying something tangible to keep him reminded of home, of the permanency of family and friendship ties. along with the facts that folks on the home- frdht are interested in his welfare. This may be difficult for you, but it will do much to keep up his morale, whether he admits it to you or not, In the meantime, it would be most unfair for you to forego all dating and the fun natural to young people. I would suggest that you continue

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ito at?hewbroide,a ;hit:TOV3fi:edre:porTllaed Ouho.f-wwn guests Vere: ML 1 . and M15. Jnnies Cole? L.l"u-0.. to by the bridegroom. The bridal . ' , lattendants were toasted by Mr. mwn',Ff' E ,1" Miss Mary oamam 'iJohn MacLean. Mr. T. L. Thomas1om",m' M155 M”””” ””,'”d-' ””y

tswa Miss Glad s Ontwa Petr

M. P. P. proposed B toast to the . kh y f y' L ”' -bride's parents, also the grandp:ir- mo, 5' , r' fwxudon 05 w"y' lents Mr. and Mrs. George Nortli- T9l:”””';u; :3 Frlid Hngff ,cott, response being made by the MC 8' B I mug ' '5' ' ibride's father. During the recep- LFm8mrd' Pe'”erb0mugh' tion congratulatory telegrams were' received from relatives and friends.l i The wedding dinner was served by 'thc Boulevard Group of st. George's Church. .

The guests were later entertain- ed at the home of the bride's par- cnts.

For the hon ti toB f- falo, N. Y. Ielf:Ino(l:I.1helr pAme,.k::m Q. Is it gcodmanners for a girl mm”. the Mme donned H mm of. to ask her escoit for a cigarette. Autumn brown French Wool trim-! A' Th” L” mm” 3" ”3m' A” at" med with velvet in a deeper shade, tenme 95”" 5Mum' M c”"'T"'

make such a request unnecessary,

Iof brow ith hi h h v I V610,". I;,;;, of Yawcny sg(:1dwm:n:: but should.he be forgetful enough.

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complemented with mntching jac-lmatching accessories and a. corsage kets and mittens. Their billowlng'of yellow roses with green feathers. floor-length skirts fell in hnndker-,On their return they will reside chief points. They wore hnndeauxlin Oshawa. Personal gifts were re- of matching taffeta leaves on their ceived by the best man and ushers

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Q. How can I obliterate scratches on my mahogany fumi- lure?

A; Paint the scratches -with lo- dixie until the proper shade is reached, let dry, then polish until 3100!!

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wit is perfectly proper for the girl lio make the request. ' when invited to join 3 group in some sport you have never play- ed. but which you would like to try, what should you do?

A. First, be frank to admit that you have never played lhe sport. Then, if they insist upon your join- ing them anyway, it is quite all right to take part.

Q. What is the proper length of time for a young woman to wear inoui-ning'for her father?

A. This depends entirely upon her feelings -in the matter. The custom of wearing mourning is not so strict as it formerly was. Many people do not consider it 118028- sary at all.

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For Tomorrow . mm the Moon in Libra. this

day sugurs well for spectacular and dramatic achievements. There could be nlooked-for promotion. a raise in salary or some other token of appreciation or favor from those in high places. Changes of import- ance may involve travel or some other environmental move.

There is also the possibility of s financial windfall coming with dra- matic suddenness and, if so. it will not only bring great joy but stimu- late ambition for the future. Rom- antic and domestic affairs are also favored.

For the Birthday

If tomorrow is your birthday. you may find in the year ahead some unexpected changes uliich

The M:4;fonism. early Christ- ian sect, yer: named nitsr Bishop

writing to Roger, looking to your own social life, telling him about your dates, and reminding him of his suggestion. If your heart isn't won by

' aiiyoiie else before Roger's return, and you still love him then, give him

another chance to prove, or disprove, his dEDSllC"3'blllly. You are still tery young, so the time element isn't too vital. I hope your problem which is shared by so many young people today, is solved happily. I

Miss Nissen cannot reply personally to reader. but, win .n.w.' ni-obiems of interest through this column.

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The pungent. fruity odor of ripening grapes on the .Ilde of an: oldbarnorfenecisn.surorenilnd- er of Autumn with its bountpous harvest and its changing tint: and sludu whlclhenllven the landscape. The clear sunny days and that cur- ious. encircling purplish haze which often settles down on hilly regions in the afternoon when the sun is on, the wane add to our enjoyment of the ever changing d .

Tosoms. Antumnis s ssdtime of the year. but why should it be? Is it not but the approaching rest period for the flowers shrubs and trees that we have cdltivated and enjoyed since the last Spring frost disappeared. Yes. and it is time to plant anew for another spring. No true girdener ever grows old-he looks-ahead to the changing sea.- sons, and becomes richer in experi- ence. of what the fragrant earth yields to him for his efforts.

' Autumn is the time we gather, in the fruits and flowers of.the garden and farm. Visitors to the garden will be pleased to know that five peaches have been harvested and will be used in some - way that is not decided at pre- sent. A lovely basket of green grapes from an Island garden and fruit farm has been made into de- llclous jelly and the citrons are now lovely clear preserve.

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A ROYAL GREETING - King Paul and Queen Frederlka of Greece acknowledge the greetings of people on the pier as their ship dock: at New York City. They will be the guests of President and Mrs. lElsenhower at Washington after which they will make a one-month tour of the U

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By An Island Fumsoris Wife

;, Thai Body Of Your:

By James W. Burton. M.D.

When a call was made at an- other country home we learned that the annual supply of Quince preserve had been made, and so we find that Island gardens can produce many good fruits that was not thought possible several years ago. There are many mild days of gardening now and much wor can be done. Planting can be clone until freeze-up if carefully done by keeping some earth around the roots. It is a happy time on sunny mornings transplanting the seed- lings from the field Where they were sown in the spring, and is pleasant thinking of the beauty to come and as the spring season is overcrowded with gardening work, fall planting relieves some of the pressure of the spring rush. Soil-moisture is ideal at this time.

Autumn mornings, clear and bright and still are the finest times for gardening.

The sun is warm on the garden- er's back and if suitable clothing is worn any work can be good fun. '0

This is the time to look at the form of your garden, the hedges, and the evergreens; if more of these are needed they can be, planted this month. There are so many varieties that 'one must choose wisely to secure the type best suited to the location and not one that will outgrow its allotted space in a. few years. l

Form. color. and scent-these are the chief qualities upon which we

But today encouraged by the pro- mising morning it was early up and away for the farmers to the harvesting of roots at Alderlea with only "a little old woman" and a lad of six, nursing a cold, left behind . . . And "Oh dear, but this place is lonesome-I wish I had someone to play with!" was a fre- quent plaint before the afternoon at length brought Jamie back from his classes.

"But there's the sunshine!" he looked up from some passing inter- est at mid-morning with is pleased

PSYCHOSOMATIC MEDICINE - EFFECT OF MIND AND EMOTIONS OF THE

Ten years ago a term crept into medicine that described a num- loci of diseases of the body unit were caused by the mind and emo- tlons; it Ls, therefore. called "Psy- chosomatic Medicine."

In the Canadian Medical Associa- tlon Journal, Dr. John H. Toogood, smile. How welcome it was after MoGill University, Montreal and the damp. gray "Fall" weather oflcornell University, New York, recent days! It gave us back the states that "In a broad sense, the clear l;lillls,!tlhe chatter of the spar- term psychosomatic medicine may rows e ash of pigeons' wings be said to describe the pattern f ?)tefWBi”'l:l1'l,6d ttilie paitures whergon modern medical thought regardirgg

ore is, e stoc had graze s organic 'dlsease' caused by the litle coldly How lovely had psyche (emotions) and psychic dis- been their summer fields green ease-caused by organic disturb- and decked with flowers. adomedl ances. In a more restricted, or lim- wtitlli vdaisies. sweet with the whitelited, sentse, gtnislused tilt describe s o o c over group 0 in ca pract loners m-

This evening gathered the F'a.m- playing 3. somewhat speclallzed ily cozily about the hearth-lads to, technique tondeal with aimore or tiljiglr hogrlie-wt:(i;k,hJames rnittttiingxlilyglesshiiligiforrighlclass of diseases (a.

tea ng ear a. e e- spec y w n is b anch of In di- 1&2; l!tt'nlIl!l)s spellilngsidin the evil-antlgirile), mthsuunlon of!-the xlnind and o rrow.so reurn in"oy ease as wel as in

to school. Pleased . . Lcommendinglhealth." This specialty was really all gfxffzrtgg ipyingz "at rthis iaatilforced an thchmedical! profession as W 118 1111 YOU it ,every ay e pro ession came SE.” 5232:. ”3i'"3l?3.. 5.35.7353" iifili uY””..”3.i ”" ””””'””'.i

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with-how will you like that? And'by the mind and Ellis reem::llo5r:s. supposing we should want to know! These observations were reported by how many acres it contains, couldpvarious specialists - phychlatrists. you make it up for me? ' A solemnl gastro-enterologists (stomach 'snd

d OI (I , - ;1l9EFlff:”d Flgrztlkgs amnjllfn arms; shake of a young head, a shy intestines) andskin specialists. achievements. should rank first Emlkf Then with ” chuckl-9'4 wh”e'me expmenced medic” - you ll need to go to school a little practitioner has long known the

but, curiously enough, though we pay due attention to the plan of our gardens. the actual form of

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while yeti" leffect of the mind and emotions on And then it is story-time: the the body. the coming of the name reading of a selection from this onpsychosmnstic medicine has my. that preferred book or if James is, ected more attention to this fact. in the mood and not anxious t0iHOWQVCP. Dr. Toogood states that. resume his newspaper or magazine, from personal experience, cases of tales of those fascinating, almost real or true organic disease have lncwdible dflls: of the long ago,been mistakenly attributed to the . days bl'sl"fYs.lll with remember- mind and emotions but this has ed horses. of foals that arrived not occurred more frequently than '.'.l..'2.'.'-".'..':f..';'.i;'.:'..".'l 3f.i:'l'?f?..S.i ..:".i"'2.".i""' '"”""" """""”" '0 ease.

"that box-stall" door a crack t0i Ity is pointed out that the suc- look in upon "four white stockings ccssful use of the psychosomatic and a star on a forehead, so real idea is finally dependent upon the it all (seems. 6 . , same factors as the skillful use of ldggf, be.oved cre tures as w.se the electrocardiogram. chest X-ray. 23...”???.fI.iif:.R"i3..f;'"i5-.i"l.'ifa "p”.Z';i'?l..”i.””" """l'.:"”'"..". . . - s ave we 3 er t a

younger come, along beaten and there is no question blft that the OHEII WOOGSY Paths to the mlllt- mind and emotions can cause or 1!1;l- 'S,ht:8P. ,meelS fives. burlv- aggravate existing organic ailments headed contrary ma.es are lkeable -asthma, arthritis. skin diseases

Boiler English

By D. 0. Williams

What is wrong with this sen- itence? "I bought two pairs of stockings. but I don't choose to wear them.”

2. What'is the correct pronunci- ation of "orient"? , 3. which one of these words is p ' 'i-ad? Fleur-dc-lis. franchise, fraternize. fusillade.

4. What does the word ."recnll'

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mam ggw riled-re1d. charariiiiers gheretigi. and 'others. While this is true. it is l 5' Wm, ,. I word belmmng "on: 'B.P.8uu9-Tghe wig" u: Don ed out that s. patient should

be given a thorough examination,

.with 1:. that means "confused. un- pg (Continued on page 11)

intelligible language"? sivsyvsss

1. 'say, "I bought two pair of stockings. but I would rather not wear them." 2. Pronounce o-ri-ent, o as in no. i as in it. accent first syllable. 8. Franchise. 4. To return to the starting point. "An evil deed

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come as a prelude to most worth- while i achievement. Good fortune for which you have waited so long. will come closer to realization and even temporary disappointments. such as a family objection to rom- ance, will be ultimately cleared up.

There is a possibility that some particular talent, artistic idea or the use of personal inliiativeimey bring special recognition or hon- ors. Despite the stimulation of mob creative ideas, however, it would be well to remember um achieve- ment will be easier it you follow the conventional paths in fulnll- ing themrsther than to attempt the bizarre or spectacular. I

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