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Ellen ’.s Diary A

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"Not understood!" I complained to myself this morning, and sat in Judgment on the members of my family at Alderlea. until pres- ently I was able to recall contilu- ed kindnesses and to remember Ev-ERAGES that only as recently as the wed- . ding, among the guests, James

hand (or had mine been the first

to move?) had reached out warm- li: A M? COFF Ea‘.

I DOROTHY DIX SA YS—

For the reel; INJOYM INZT

of all the family-

Monopolistic Wife .

Woman Errs In Being Jealous or Nate's Mother Ami Family

i ' DEAR. MISS. DIX: I am a young married woman. My husband is good and kind to me. but he loves his mother and his family and I am so Jealous of them I cannot stand it. 1 can't bear it when I see him kiss his mother. I have tried in every way tcfbreak him away from his mother. but I have not been able to do it. ~ Do you think I am too selfish in wanting him to I give his family up and have nothing to do with thorn? He refuses to do so because he says his par- - enls have been so good and kind to him that he car!- , not forget them entirely. What shall I do? ,

iy to clasp mine. Human nature is perhaps too demanding of ones own, or they look in the wrong places for tokens of esteem. "I wouldn't mind working my fingers to the bone for him" a bride of ,milny years said to me not long ago -“lf only he would show me that he appreciated it. But I never get as much as a Thank You." I think she forgot for the moment the long tedious days in the field-for hll, and the evident concern in his tones. when sllc was missing from 5w“ the kitchen briefly. However femin- i

inity is a faltering estate at best i

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and needs often to be bolstered by

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nose we ove ‘an’ rus I Yours By '

This came to my mind today, when early and in a hasty step l fell to mark my lgngth - and breadth on the good—but hard,, earth. "Oh dear" I moaned. and‘ Itlcn being near to tezlrs_ which at‘

Cm white’ tender celery m ham |surh a time would only be wasted. inch piece and cook “mu tender. ll smiled waniy, rose and made my 300m. a bxking dish. cover the ‘way rather painfully to the house, 51502000 has been donated bottom with crwnbs, add a layer 0f .tilcre to ‘determine the extczl. of mpdlcal college ceyery and the“ one o! Oysters‘ v-my lfljllfleS. Fortunately, there sprinkle the latter wltih salt. pepper - “m? no broken bones‘ Dnly an and a dash o; mace, and dot “hep aching shoulder. bruised ‘knees (per- any with human Repeat ‘mm mo, haps by way of reminding me to dlgh 15 gull, havlng the crumbs and ' drop to them more frequently) and butts;- 35 a lop lay-en ' a barked elbow. “I-fcll" I explain-

Dip oyster crackers 1n milk, 19¢ ' ed to Jeanie, who found me seated them swell a minute, and with l‘ in James’ old armchair when she them make a circle around the T chanced along. "Now. isn't that too edge and a smaller one in the mld. I bad!" she said in a manner l once

A WHIE

ANSWER: If you expect to keep your ‘- ‘-

in love with you. you will have to conquer your

Jealousy and learn to conduct yourself like a ra-

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you know anything about human nature at all.

You must be aware that when you kill your husband's res ect for you

you also slay his love. l-Ie can have nothing but contempt r a womar; who is so mean and little and self-centered as you are.

Cook's Corner

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GIVE I-iER FLOWERS‘ on HER ANNIVERSARY

THIS is one day e woman

cauanvscglvn OYSTER 1.1.01- THAT'S DIFFICULT

WIVES T00 MONOPOLISTIC

Many wives are monopolistic about their husbands and start as soon as they are married to try to separate them from their families. If the man is weak and the wife is determined and shrewish. she often suc- ceeds in doing so. Rather than fight a perpetual battle with his wlfg 1W" hi5 family. the man Elves them up- I have known cases in which a man never went to see his old parents. never wrote them a letter, never sent them a gift, and who was so estranged froth his brothers and sisters that he scarcely knew them by sight.

The selfish wife gloais-d over her triumph and never seemed to real- ize that while the hli50$lid was weak enough to let her dominate him. he secretly revenged himself by hating her. That will be your fat»: if you keep on trying to alienate your husband from his family.

There is no excuse for a vl'ife‘s jealousy of her husband's mother, be- cause the love a man nas for his wife and the love he has for his mother do not clash. They are entirely different emotions.

DEAR DOROTHY DIX: Will you advise me on how to keep my home together. as my husband says he has never loved me and has never been happy with me and he wants a divorce? 1 am aware that

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SCIENTHF“. ATmCK 0N ese dog, to whom slhe Whispcrp

. endless endearments. An ell l IKUBLEM DRINKING wan“. sum“ oplmnel Mfg

could bear it no longer, "Don't you think," Si... l; “ ly to the blondc. "that

and hospital, we , naturally have in mind that some, look bet“! Wm‘ B‘

wealth ' man or ma s - “W” ,

buied the amounfotouflirldareglegllgb ‘NO’ Indonw" the. blond" aimed- in diseases like cancer or infantile ‘Vtfily- Y“ 5”’ 1m m" Yum‘. paralysis, Whon we learn that the med’ ' ' disease is alcoholism and the on- ganization composed of physicians, Jlefilymen and businessmen. we realize that alcoholism is really a disease and must be fought as vig- orous-il‘ - "‘-'l1‘i' diseases that af-

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' never forgets. A bunch of lovely, fragrant a 1.0km.

flowers will put a glow around her heart,

and tell her that you, too, remember. Flowers bring when we road that a fund of .d r t ll 1n" g

back the magic touch of romance as nothing else bab§PLL“";’L‘i§ f

can ; z l and renew again, for both of you, the

memories of s never-to-be-forgotten day.

THE FEET

For better selection, and good value, buy wbm you su flu Allied Florist: Emblem.

He was a stout man, andhil! feet were large Ln proportion. gs). wore stout boots, too, with broad]

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ALLIED FLORISTS. AND GROWERS OF CANADAJNC

Modern _ Etiquette

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Q- Il it proper to “talk shop"

- when one is out in society?

A. Not unless someone has ask- ed you a question pertaining to your work‘. Your work may be very gnteresting to you. and even to your ‘riends, but to talk it continually B in poor taste.

Q. What is indicated when I ILri refuses the invitations of a young man without s reasonable excuse?

A. It indicates but one thing- that it is obvious she does not wish to develop iihe friendship.

Q. If someone starts to tell you

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By Roberta Lee

How Can -I 1!!

I By Anne Ashley

. l 1 ~ frghefim can I steslm ve vet to l Cnmhmx Jacket

1 _Milady'combs her hair many A. Stretch the velvet right side times after she is dressed, and she up over a bowl that is two-thirds should have one of the small rub- full of boili-ng water, and brush the her caves that suns oveir her head~ nap gently with a soft brush. [and covers her dress during the process. Then she will not go out Q. How can l quickly clean panslwlth any evidence of hair ccmbing that are scorched by food adhering on the shoulders of her frock. to them?

A. These pans should be sprink- led with d-ry baking soda and lowed to stand for awhile. Them they can be readily and quickly cleaned.

Q. How can I make whipped E“ bu“

Iron;

One of the best methods for mak- ling an iron slick and smooth is to ,run the iron over a piece a! m; 10111 68111118. used on a folded news-

paper.

I. joke you have already heard, should you stop him? A. No,

cream much sweeter? , If it is desired to keep egg yolks A. Try adding a small pinch of‘for several days, cover them with wit to the cream before whipping. cold water until needed.

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Better English M

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1. What is wrong with this sen- tence? "Tlhe message was sent pll over the world.” '

2. What is t-he correct pronunc- iation of "siesta".

‘3. Which one of these words is misspelled? Hauteur, harlequin, haynous.

4. What does matics" mean?

5. What is a word beginning with des that means "tyranny"?

the word "chro-

ANSWERS

l. Say. "The message was sent over all the world." 2. Pronounce si-es-ta, i as in i-t. e as in less. a as in ask unstressed. accent second syllable. 3. i-Ieinous. 4. The science of colors, (Pronounce first syllable kro. o as in no). "Her knowledge of ohromatics was evident in her paintings." 5. Despotism.

die. Add hot milk or cream. Bake used to my mother-ln-lenv. polite, in a hot oven until golden brown. . slmpathetic, though‘ distant and

sensibly shaped toes. When he anal,“

ii’ t ki . m m“ “d into the shop to buy ilnolhnr puirllr‘

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Time in baking, 30 minutes. Tern. perature 400 degrees. Serves 8.

CUP CAKES, WITH CREAM CHEESE ICING

V: cup shortening

V: cup sugar

1-3 cup corn syrup

2 eggs. beaten

2% cups sifted pastry. floi.

3 tablespoons corn staroih

4 teaspoons baking powder

l4 teaspoon baking soda

l-i teaspoon salt

1% teaspoons ground cinnrmon

1 cup sour milk or buttermilk

1 teaspoon vanilla

V: cup broken nuimeats (if avail- able)

‘b cup seedless raisins

Cream shortening. add sugar gradually. Add con-l syrup and beat well. Best eggs thoroughly and add. Mix and sift dry ingredients 3 times-(reserving V. cup of the flour). Add alternately with sour milk to first mixture. Stir in van- i-lla. Add nuts and raisins, which have been dredged with the reserv- .ed i4 cup flour. Pour into greased muffin tins. filling 2-3 full. and bake in a moderately hot oven — 375 deg. ilk-about 20 minutes. Makes about 24 average cakes. Cool. and frost with Cream Cheese Icing.

uith some awe. "Nothing ’brolleu, I hope." I swallowed the lump in, my throat smiled brightly managed l a "No" and she went out to her house auross the lane. I I I O

Jurk was tllc llcxt to hczlr my >I|li1Tt tale of woos. I might have made it much longer given a good Jstener, but of necessity it was brief! “Yes" I said “I fell." "And isn't that too bad? Hurrylng. I suppose?" I nodded. Then he add- ed "Rob wasn't calling me yet was he?" And James? James asked: "And where did you fall? And what were‘ you in such a hurry fl- bout? And let's see. can you move l your limbs?“ I did with 501116 1111' t iiculty. "It's my elbow" I said sho\v- lng him “and my shoulder - and knees." "f had an awful had knee l myself, Ellen. this Summer." “You- _ none of you—\vould care . . .“ began, and James laughed and said ; “Now what would you want us to do. Ellen, stop work and sit around holding your hand? And the tur-l nips not done and this the last day . of October?" '

So it was, the very ,iast day of the "nut-brown" month. Jamie's Halloween day had come. Jamie came himself and some other small lads after dusk to see again a

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t-l-ulion. known as the Research Council on the Problems of Alcohol. organized 10 years ago. is sponsoring individual research projects among scientific institu- tions i0 get at the fundamental causes of problem drinking which affects the lives of 750,000 persons in tlhe United States. For every alcoholic there are parents. child- ren and others who are made to suffer because of the grief and div-vs. mined by this disease.

The object of this organization is not only to find out why men and women drink to excess. but also to develop effective methods of treatment and prevention. hopes to establish research diag- nostic (finding causes) and treat- ment centers in loading medical schools. One already has been es- rt Cornell University Medical College. New York Hospi- tal tinder a grant of $150,000 cover- ing a five-year period. Wlhat have these research workers discovcrrd as to the cause or causes of al- cohoii-sm?

They have found that alcoholism runs in some families lust as does rheumatism. tuberculosis. cancer and other diseases. It ls called an

had- some difficulty in getting u-llat he wanted. A dozen pairs were shonn to

"No, no! Square toes _- l must have square toes." he insisted. _

"But, sir. replied the shop 35-.‘ sistant, "everybody is nearing, shoes with pointed toes. Thry are . fashionable this season. _

“Well. said the stout man. bra’ -" ly as he prepalred to leave the” shop. "Inn sorry to have trcubll-li you. But. you see. I'm still wearing" my last season's feet."

"hereditary tendency" and can-- show itself Pn other symptoms 01.. behavior disorders besides alcohol- ism. sometimes called- constitution al inadequacies. The ccmmonesl. "lack" in their make-up is inabll. ity to meet obligations or responsi- bilities, so they take to alcohol,“ “s way out." The problems ma ' financial. domestic. religious of others. "' Many alcoholics have been he ed by Alcoholics Anonymous. t members of which-all former _ coholics-gather together to ct fess their former weakness a pray for themselves and oiher_ ooholics. They help anyone has fallen again. even tn tin- point} of standing by till he recovers. . ‘ A method that cured 49 of 54 "a1".

witch on her broom-stick, Wh0'if she did not actually ride up and over the house across the lane, as Jamie had explained to our small one moved with a fearsome ghost athwart Rob's car lights then dis-

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s New York police court is the dru _

benzedrine sulfate by. day and

sleeping pill at night. 7.4-.

CARE IS NECESSARY

BABY'S CULDS

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(Blx servings) if cup seedless raisins ‘A cup vinegar

more than a shout!

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l4 curp sugar

1 teaspoon salt

4 teaspoons plain: gelatin. soft- ened in

2 tablespoons cold water

2 eggs, beaten

1 tablespoon prepared horse- radish .

2 teaspoons prepared mustard

1 teaspoon onion Juice

1 tablespoon lemon juice

2 cups ground raw carrots

i6 cup finely cut sweet pickle

1 cup mayonnaise

Cover raisins with boiling water and let stand minutes: drain thoroughly. ombflne vinegar, sugar. and salt; brlngto a boil, add softened gelatin and dissolve. Pour while hot over beaten eggs. stirring briskly. Add all ingredients except mayonnaise, blend and oool. When thick but not firm, add mayonnaise and blend. Pour into mold or in i-n- dividusl mold: and chili until firm.

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The Stars Say--

Iy Genevieve lemblo

for lanrdsy, November I

ALTHOUGH there is sign of ox- oellent , ‘ fo a gesture of reward-anti apprec ation for abili- ties. unusual ideas or ingenuity conning from highly desired and influential sources, yet it seems that an erratic. irregular. or extreme move in thought and action may prove devastating to moat astute programs or brilliant plans. with drastic and far-reaching denoue- ments. it might be advisable in de- fer the‘ lauildning of exceptional milk ol- ideas until the danger of rush or erratic flairs have van-

Ior the Birthday

‘Ihoao whose birthday it is. ai- thougli having a hopeful indication of tion and sound support

‘ moi project or interesting lmldVl- tion. with eager responses from high pisool. yet many find an effort to rudl into an impetuolis or. ir- fltllilr modebf thought. or 6Q! might be the means of forfeiting

small fellows had their Jack 0' Lan-

for some sort of brilliant ides, orig-

tivq npoort or endorsement.

appeared, but returned to allow them another sight of both. The

terns and were masked and the pumpkin Jamie had hollowed we set in a window so that the broad- ly smiling face would amuse them and remind older folk, that this was a night given over to the chil- dren.

_ O There were treasure trails io he followed indoors. and apples to en- joy as well as the plate of fudge. Karolyn had brought. Indeed. “There's no candy to my mind lhat tastes any better" James said reaching out for a second square of it. And there was fun, and laughter with no sign of tears. and Jeanie and Karolyn found l lunch for all. of sandwiches and dough- nuts and a cake with a depth of frosting. Jamie intrigued by the ghostly night at hand quite forgot to dip his nose in the frosting, ac- cording to the Mutt dog. or it may be that he is fast growing up and iurgetting many childish tricks. Mut himself was here. a dark sha- dow about the yard in the moon- light. The grand-daughter was in her cot. for her bed-time had come. "It's too bad" Jamie said nodding his head in the direction of the house across the lane "that she'll not know a thing about this. But next year she will." Jamie's small brother was round eyed at the strange sight-s but unafraid. "Ha can walk now" Jamie said. but. only around the piny pen_ assist- ing himself by holding to the sides, though "wonderful!" James and ! have just agreed . . . We have been talking it over, this Hal- loween which has been so good to us. Very quiet it is here. now that all have gone home. Outdoors all is still and cold. a stick falls to the grate with a sound increased ‘oy the quietness. "What's that?“ James asks. This is the witching hour.

‘Until tomorrow - Diary -Gcod-' flight.

feet can afford to wait the propi- tious houmt the turn of the tide.

A child born on this any although original, ingenious and exceptional- ly talented may defeat. itself by rushing into action. with half- balred plans. Reflection and pat-

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that make baby notices an fo-