MocArtI'iur-Woite Wedding ' ls Held In Summerside

Summerside Trinity Church parsonage was the scene a of a pretty wedding on Thursday. w

United cat-nations. Mrs. MacArthur chose

navy crepe street-length dress ith white accessories and a cor-

February 14. at 2 p.m.. when Rev. sage of white carnations.

Cecil Wcbber united in marriage,

Doris Eleanor. daughter of Mr. and John. N.B.. Mrs. Frederick J. Waite. Summer- dress of aqua blue twced with) black and white accessories and

side and Newton Lee. son of Mr. and Mrs. Myron MacArthur. of Kensington. The double ring cere- mony was used.

Given in marriage by her father. the bride looked lovely in a wed- ding gown of net and lace over satin. ballerina length with match- ing long sleeved bolero. the sleeves tapering to points over the hands. Her waist-length veil was held by I hand of white net and lilies of the valley. She carried a bouquet of red roses and white carnations.

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For the honeymoon trip to Saint tbe bride donned a

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lPage 8 The Guardian Saturday, Feb. 23 .1957 I

The February meeting of Alpha

W.l. was held Tuesday the 5th at the home of Mrs. Meeting opened by

Frank Watts. singing the Ode". followed by the "Collect"

in unison. Seventeen members and

our visitors were present. Roll

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all was answered by each Ill('llI-:

ber giving an article tany l'1lIuelvW'all a-uee, an' dinna weary.

or an auction sale.

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read and approved. Coinniiticc.-2' ye,

Jackman. was gowned in pale blue gave their reports and new ones Gin ye'll only wait a-wee.

nylon net over taffeta. made on were appointed-Sick: llirs i-'ran R, M, cam"- similar lines to that of the bride's Vessey. Mrs. Clifford ('happcll.

gown with short-sleeved matching Mrs. Howard Watts and Mrs. Pctcrl. Si-ii-at:-i' l-Ilsie lniniiii arrivedl bolero. She wore a matching head- Proud. St-hool- Mi.-s not-niliyll-'i-iday eu-ning to spend the week-I

dress and carried a nosegay of red and white carnations. Waugh was bestman.

A reception was held at Mul- berry Lodge where the bride's table was centred with a three- tier wedding cake. with red rose-I buds and lighted tapers used as decorations. Miss Ada Jackman was in charge of the guest book.

Mrs. Waite chose for her daugh- ter's wedding a dress of royal blue hcngaline. trimmed with white

and a corsage of pink and white

Milllh I-unfhv Ml'5- Harry Lewis end on Prince Edward Island. Mr.iand Mrs. Willard Murray traini- wicheal. Mrs. Howard Watts isweeisl. Proulnternatioiial Night Dinner of the Louis Vessey andioitawa Business and Professional :Wonien's Correspondence was read and night in The Quebec Suite of the

Mrs. Raymond Vessey.

gram- Mrs Mrs. Dewar Swan.

Anion: those attending the

Club held Saturday

discussed. It was nioicd and sec-itfliatcaii l.auricr and seated at the

onded that 85.00 be sent it) tlielhead

"March of Dimes" Collection amounted to 31.00. Anl

Polio Fund. ' Senator

table were the following: F Elsie lnman, Miss Ruth Addison, Civil Service Com-

auclion sale was enjoyed by all. .niissioiicr. tiiiss Isabel Menzies. of

Mrs. Willard lliiirray

realized.

Maritime Girls

A Vacation In Florida

Letters writing is not I lost art. judging by the following. in the graphic description. as given by F0 Florine Cove, all readers will enjoy every mile of a wonderful

trip.

My firend, L.A.W. Margaret Woodbridges (formerly of 0'- Leary. Prince Edward island)

and myself F-O Florine J Cove. (formerly of Oxford. Nova Scotia) atid now with the Royal Canadian

Alrforce. stationed at Rockcliffe

just returned to our base from a

most enjoyable motor trip. through the eastern United States of New York. Pennsylvania. Maryland,. Virginia. North Carolina. South Carolina and Georgia to Florida. Leaving Ottawa. January 23rd. during a snowstom. it took us over three hours to go the sixty miles to Prescott, Ontario. where we crossed the St Lawrence River on a ferry to Ogdenburg. New York, and headed South. Had poor driving conditions until we had gone beyond Syracuse. New York. We visited with relatives of Margaret: in Arlington. Virginia, from where we went sight-seeing to Washington Monument. Smith- sonian Museum, Lincoln Memor- ial. Jefferson Memorial. The Pent- agon. and had a look at the "White House" and visited a few pawn shops.

Found our route through North Carolina very interesting. with weather neither too warm or cold. Once in South Carolina a definite change in climate was noted. Here we saw our first palm trees also tr as just drooping with Spanish tools. There was plenty of green grass and flowers were blooming everywhere. The air was so warm we were driving with all the car windovwa open. Had a garage oper- ator here we stopped for gas along our route say. with a real Southern drawl from Nova Scotla. is that 1 part of Spain"?

Inst. Agustine. Florida we were gland to have a chance L, with Mrs. Doug. Casy, of Amherst. t . We visited the "Fountain of uth and Park area", at St. tine. Had a drink from the lain water and if a taste

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means anything we're good for a thousand years. as we were sol thirsty driving in the warm ' Southern sunshine. I Our next stop was at Marine-; land. This is really an interesting place. At "Marine studios" many varities of deep-sea life are kept in an ocean-floor setting in out- door aquaria. We just coiililn't take it all in and believe it at the same time. There are not iiords to describe the multi-colored and different species of sea-life to be seen here. from turtles tn sharks to saw-fish and sea-horses. We arrived in time to see the porpoise being fed and then to watch the trained ones in action. When we left here it was mid-day the tem- perature waa so and a beautiful sunny day. .. .. We drove on to Dayton Beach and spent some time here. soak- ing up the sunshine and enjoying the water. The beach sand is so hard you can drive a car along the waters edge at low tide. liow- ever we each rented a motor scooter and toured the twenty- elght miles of beach strip. enjoy- ing every mlnute of the ride. the Weather. and the scenery. While in bathing at the beach we could see friendly porpoise swimming a- round a short ways off shore. Although reluctant to leave Day- ton Beach. We drove on to the Beautiful Cypress Gardens. its hard to describe their magnifi- cent beauty. We aaw a water-ski show here. which in itself was "Wonderful", and while wander- ing through the Gardens, we saw the world famous reflection pool. also the swimming pool M.G.M. used when filming the movie "Easy To Love". starring Ester Williams.

Saw beautiful orchids growing and numerous varities of trees and flowers in such settings and ar- rangements we could never imagined possible. They had loud apeake a hidden in the tree tops. over which you hear beautiful music as you stroll through these World Famous Gardens.

From here we went on to Tampa Florida, where we visited the Florida State Fair and enjoyed ourselves in "Fair" style. Then on to St. Petersburg. sibted on the shore of the Gulf of Mexico. By this time we had passed the "sun-brun" stage and had our- selves quite a "Tropical-tan" as the da,tima temperatures were any where from 79 to B9. cooling off at nights to aound 65.

Sunset: in Florida are also beautiful. To see the sun going down over the water behind those

MINI 35 illiontrcal. nylon friil. with white accessories auctioneer. The sum of 516.60 tl'iiS1lIlt) Caiiaiiian Fcdcration of B. and

first vice-president of P (fiiibs: Senator Nancy Hodges. Miss Dorothy Cadweil. Miss Blan- ch.': Bosscnce, Miss Milligan. Miss Holmes, Miss Isobel Hill and the guest speaker. Mr. Larry Hender- son. News Coinmcntator. lie spoke on the vital Middle-East problem facing the Western iiorld.

The opening of the Prince l-'.d- uard island Legislature will take place this coming Tuesday after- noon.

lninicdizitely folloiviiig the opcn- iiig cereiiioiiies the t'liarlolteiown Womi-ii'.s Liberal Club ivill hold for all their friends an afternoon tea in The Confederation Cham- bcrs.

The naiiics of tlie liostesscs for the Charlottetown (Turling Club are the following: Mrs. Jack Wil- son. Mrs. Henry Peters. Mrs. Arthur Wellner and Mrii. J. E. Burnet.

The Excinplar Cliaptcr of Beta Sigma Phi met Wednesday even- ing at Mrs. George Rogers, Fitz- roy Street. Three tables of bridge were in play and all had a most enjoyable evening. The hostess was assisted by Mrs. Ralph Jenkins. Miss Allie MacLcod and Mrs. Alfred McNeill.

rived safely Tho the iiiiiters lang ani dreary.i from Detroit. Mrs. Paquei made Minutes of last iiweliiiu iicrc.-Isiininier days will come to cheer' iiing her son-in-law and daughter. Mr. and Mrs. Pete Landry.

and Mr. and Mrs. R. A. Hoi'ne of Summerside for an extended visit in the South- ern United States.

Road. was hostess to her bridge club on Thursday evening.

by car Thursday on a businessi trip to Stuart. Florida. He was accompanied by Mrs. Hickey.

in San Francisco

he trip by plane. She will be via-

Mr. and Mrs. J. Arthur Clark

left by car Friday

Mrs. Ernest Walker. Victoria

Mr. 1'. Earl Hickey. C. A.. left

Mrs. Laurie Coles. Grandville Street. entertained friends at bridge on Monday evening.

Mrs. C.W. Whitlock has return- ed to her home in Charlottetown after spending a week with her daughters. Mrs. J. M. Logan and Mrs. Ralph S. Ramsay, of Sum- merside.

Mrs. Lloyd lnman and Miss Shirley Simpson were co-hostesses at bridge at the former": home on Tuesday evening, honoring Mrs. Ralph DeGrasse and Miss Betty liiacfilurdo who are leaving Stim- merside in the near future. The guests of honor were presented with farewell gifts by the hostess- es.

Miss Margaret Enniaii. Ottaiva. is spending a week with her sister. Mrs. D. 0. Stewart. Summerside.

Mr. and Mrs. Keith Pillar. Con- vent Street. left by car Tuesday for Ottawa. Mrs. Pillar will remain at her home in Ottawa while Mr. Pillar is taking a two months' course in Edmonton. Alberta.

The curling hostesses at the Summerside Curling Club on Sat- urday night will be Mra. Claude

lves tconvenorl . Mrs. Edythe. Woodside, Mrs. Henry Bishop. Mrs. Amos Hubley. Mrs. Jerry

Her many friends in Borden and Cliarlottelown will be pleased to know that Mrs. A. B. Paquet ar-

Sheen. Miss Joan Compton. Mrs. James MacGregor, Mrs. George Clarke.

Solemnized In

Marriage vows were exchanged OI SI?-Illflly. February Out. at 4 p.m. in the chapel of Northrnlnster United Church. Flin Flon. Man.. when Audrey Joyce. youngest dau ghier of Mr. and Mrs. C. A. Leod. of Charlottetown. P.E.I.. be- came the bride of Orval Stuart Finlay. son of Mr. and Mrs. F. Finlay. of Flin Fion.

The Rev. D. Rupp officiated at the quiet double ring ceremony. The bride wore a grey tweed box style suit. with pink accessories, and her maid of honour in atten- dance. Beatrice Gauthier, was dressed in a dark grey suit, also with pink accessories.

Neil Washburn acted as best man and Elmer Arnold also at- tended the groom.

Mr. and Mrs. O. Finlay will

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make their home in Flin Flon. The bride recently was the guest of honor at a miscellaneous shower was held Friday evening at the home of Miss Beatrice Gauthier. 21 Hill St. in honor of bias. 0. Finlay. bride of February 9t . The bride was seated in a chair decorated with pink and white streamers and wedding bells with confetti filled balloons overhead. Corsages were presented .to the bride and her mother-in-law.

A decorated basket of matching pink and white. heaped with many lovely and useful gifts were pre- sented to the bride. Games and contests were played and enjoyed by all during the evening. The host ess served a dainty lunch to the 15 guests present.

H. I'l'IPlIN'I'.A.

Ilrs. Bordon Campbdl and Mrs. Ill. Maclaeod were hostesses to the members of St. Stephen's AI- glican W.A. at the regular meet- lngheldatthebomcoftheforiner on February 12th.

The president. Mrs. Euls Prof- itt led in the devotional period. and twelve members red roll call with a verse of scripture containing the word Honor.

The treasurer. Mrs. Keith Har- rington reported that the 311.50 pledge for 1956. And affiliation fees amounting to 83.50 . also 50 cents library fee had been paid and acknowledged. 33.00 was paid to a special fund.

Mrs. W.J. Harrington. a metri- ber of the Diocesan Board. read extracts from the report of the January meeting. Announcement was made that the annual meet- ings will be held on March 18 and 19th. The Dorcas secretary. Mrs. Ev-

MARY HAWORTH

ELEANOR Ross

Girl Is Mean To Stepfather

Dear Mary Haworth: My prob- lem is my young daughter's be-

'havior toiiards her stepfather. He

is a wonderful man and has loved her and treated her as kindly as if she were his own; but she is mean to him.

I am divorced from her father, and married John 10 years ago,

Iivhcn Janie was two. She doesn't

want to kiss him and doesn't want him to come near her, and I can't understand why. He is always try- ing to please her. trying in every way to win her love, and it's no H58.

she gets everything she wants

.that we can afford; we let her go

with her girl friends. etc.; and John never has punished her. nor laid a hand on her, so we don't understand what possibly could be wrong.

Janie is in the eighth grade and gets all A's on her report card. and is loved by everyone at school; but at home she behaves differently with her stepfather. This isn't only a present prob- lem: it always has been this way since i married .lnhn.

WHO'S TO BLAME?

I feel awfully sorry for him as he is so good to Janie and me. and I can't think of a reason for her behavior. She knows he isn't her father. and also knows that her own father never cared for her, and is no good. I would ap- preciate your advice. and would like to know whether we are at fault, or what is causing it. P.Z.

Dear P.7..: This is indeed an unusual pro blem, and Janie shouldn't be put on the defensive about it. Rather. every effort should be made to get behind the scenes of her thinking about her stepfather iand-or fatherl; and to get to the heart of her feelings

DIARY

A storm today? Yes one of Feb- ruary's own with wintry drifts. wind-swept and white. Not that we in this spot where the houses find much shelter from the sur- rounding woodlandti and hills, found it to be "a raging snow- storm" but at the same time. one which with the restless snowfall spread field and path. and kept the housewives pretty well to their precincts indoor.

This evening saw I succeeding calm. And tonight the drifts of day lie still. Odd stars are now alight in the dark velvet of sky. We saw them when we came a few min- utes ago from the house across the lane. small tapers lit above our world of white. And it came to mind then. as we managed with .lames' reminder to "keep on the old path, Ellen - it will hear you tip" that the moon now promising to rise will look out on a beautiful scene: fields white. evergreens fet- .chingly snow-adorned. roofs too. And from the houses here and iiereabout. the lights from windows and yards spreading their homey beams along the new reaches of SHOW.

Because of the weather thcre

stately Palm trees is a picture that will remain vivid in our me- mories forever. From St. Peters- jurg to the mainland of Florida. we cross: over an eighteen mile-long toll-bridge, at the en- trance to Tampa Bay. This was

work.

We stopped awhile at ara.-iota. winter quarters of Ringling Bros. and Barnum and Bailey circus and Museum of Art. A cross coun-

glades from Fort Myers to Mi- ami was very different and most impressive. "Miami" pIOSCTIlEd to us a ,' of summer wonder- Ian truly a glimpse Into the realm of "Fairyland" itself. We spent two glorious days in 85 degrees lemparaturu at Hollywood Beach just outside the city of Miami. Then as we must keep travelling.

for another stop-over. before leav- ilg be beautiful state of Florida. our northland journey we via- It Savannah. In Georgia. and peach

surely a masterpiece in bridge.

try trip through the Florida Ever-I

was no talk of the woods' work to- day. Though we recall now with a lchuckle that James. passing the op- yen door of the woodshed where we lgathcred the Sunday-kindling-wood ,came in to take stock of our re- :maining stores of fuel.

. "it's a day like this. I-Ellen" he loffcred "that makes folks apprec- .iate the blessing of having plenty of it at hand." He watched a gust of wind chase a drift -along the iyalrdl. Jfowtwnuldhyoii like to hold ca -s l(' s a a c upping-block in this?" he asked with a smile. But after all what difference the comfort of the seasoned and pre- pared hardwood stlcks or the chal- ieiifie of preparing and using that drawn recently from a woodlot. so Ions as with it "the heart beats young!"

Folks Do Appreciate The Big Old Woodpile

Only the choring - that was the farmers lot and portion today. in- cluding of course. that trek they must make along to take care of the "out-patient" cattle and sheep. wintering in loose housing scheme in a far barn there. This is a daily outing, so far. one ef- fected without interruption of winds or weathers. It replenishes manger: and creeps and sees that an open path is maintained to the milistream below.

''I love the scent of the new snow" one of the family said this evening, stopping in the yard.

"But is there scent to it?" ano- ther quericd in some surprise.

"Oh yes" the first inhaled deep- ly" and it smells so clean and Hood!"

Scent too of woods” work some days of the week gave us . . . of the wash frosted a bit and fresh and clean from the Winter-line. ln- doora fragrance of baked loaves. of savory slewings and baking: to he intermingled. intertwined with . .the memories we gather up these days from this season at hand.

And the week goes now. It gave a fragrances of season and other varied giftii . . . joy and bliss and Iiillh Iinllcs --- and we doubt not its share of disappointment and tears. Whatever it gave. it is ours ". . . to argue not

Against Heaven's hand or will. nor hat a jot. Of heart or hope: but still hear up and steer. Right onward."

Until Monday - - - Diary - Goodnight. . .

IBDEQUI WJIJ.

The Feb. meeting of the W.M. S. of the Bedequr United was held on wed. afternoon Feb. 6th. at the home of Mrs. It-nest Johnson.

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tag from Ephesians 4th Cbspt. 11- 24th verses. Her thought was: Put

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. Ira. ::.astlb'!.IId':'g gzuaowed 0! the unset h amstia.Rolleallwaaauwsrsdby Iminbursandsaevfaltsrwas um. nIedia"ApIaoaIws&

about him tor lheml.a, . first step towards establishing a right relationship between her and John if po ible.

Persons with experience percep- tive understanding of child behav- ior will re! ,;nize, reading Janie's story. that her fixed distrust of John merits sensitive respectful study-in a sympathetic spirit.

From the psychoiogisfs view. there is hidden serious signific- ance In the fact that Janie has been frozen, so to say, in unyield- ing reserve towards John, from the time you married him. It is the more significant. inasmuch as she gets along nicely at school. where she is succeassful and loved. BURIED SIIOCK

it appears that a "shock" of sorts lies buried in her early memorles. or' in her unconscious mind. as regards babyhood ex- perience of a father's. or a man- in-the-famlly's. very fr” htening potentials. W i t h o ut consciously knowing why she dislikes or fear: John (in the family circle). she may feel that he tin his position as your partnerl is somehow an enemy of her moral or social wel- fare; and therefore she can't let herself be cajoied into "closeness" with him.

If ther: is one thing we do know about children, it is that we don't know what their experience have been (from their view)-um less -and until we win their whole confidence. and they tell us freely "how it was" from their angle. So don't make the mistake of trying to speak for Janie. in arg- ulng that John is tin relation to her) a wonderful man, fniatrated in his attempts to be a true-lov- ing father to her.