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.\li. null .\l|~ llttlllll l.. Sniiili-ixmi ii-:~ .-on-n .'ilI1l\F' foilimiiig their Iiarringe at St. Peters Bay. on April 3rd, 195-1. The bride is the vlaughinr of llo_\ and iii. late .\li.. .\i.it...i..ic of .\I. l-‘ctcis Bay. arid‘
the groom is the son of .\Ir. and Mrs. Gordon L. Sanderson. also «if
St. Peters Ba.\'.- Me)'ets Studifil.
ioueniioiii‘0FGOoii“i>IiiiNi’“*" SAID EASED BY PLAY-ACTING
ST l.()L'IS 4A?» The tough job 0' D(‘ll1',I a good parent. is eased by :lt_--acilng ll‘ \\lllCli parents play
5 of themselves and their
-mil is to ga.ii insight into liie (‘lll4i.illlllli prtibleins and anxie- ;ie.< that ;;E‘l. stirred up in children Ind pnruiiis in da\'-by-day living.
After nCllfl2 out some ordinary nonie probleins. one father said: “I used I0 {:11 the kids off without bi'..iik.n'.' Now I stop and try to in 'he Dlf‘[‘4‘S together first."
This use of til? pla_\-acting or [\i)Fll‘iCll'Zllllii ii.elhod was describ- pd Wediirsday to the American Psyc-liiniric AS.‘.oClal.l0Il by Drs. Seorge Sliugart and Earl A. Loomis ]l'. clrld psychi.-itrists of the Uiiiversiiy of Piitsburgh school of nieciicine.
Five couples have been acting out home pmbli-ms in weekly ses- sions during ihe last eight months. “iiry pretenrl to be parents, or rhiidi'en playim; with toys, or a brother and sister in a quarrel the acting is spontaneous in or-
That Body of Yours
By James W. Barton, M. D.
Ai\‘XIF.TY STATE
No one attempts to deny that lllP5i’ are anxious days throughout the world. Perhaps the word "un- certainty" would best. describe our feelings. It is a time in which we all feel that we need some anchor to which we can be made last whe- ther it be religion. faith, hope. or work that ii-i‘.l help niir.=.elves .ini others. It is timely, then, to read the article "The Recognition and Treatment of Anxiety States." writ- ten by Dr. D. Ewen Cameron, Prof- essor of Psychiatry. McGill Univer- sity, Montreal. in Postgraduate Medicine. Dr. Cameron writes "Anxiety states are among the most prevalent conditions with Wlllcll phvsiriana everywhere have to deal. They are encountered in the form of ill aiixiety neurosis ~ anxiety‘ about a disease which is not pres- ent, (2: anxiety states with severe body symptoms. and 13) anxiety states occasioned by some conclitimi nr fllsflase of the body such as cor- onary thrombosis, «heart stroke).
Dr. Cameron poiiiis out that All the majority of cases these anxiety states can be treated adequately by the general praclitlonr-r using means known to most physicians the treatment of emotional disturb- ances as well as the use of some of the new drugs and physiotherapy- heat, massage. electricity.
In other words, much exp.°i'ienc=. and nil-round practical knowledge of human beings and their general make-up is needed in treatmcni of
in control of the child.
dinar_v situatloiis siiggested by the parents or bi tile psychiatrist. PARENTS OF Sl(‘K (‘IIILDREN
All these c-tiiplcs have childrei. in hospital with SCl'll7.0pl1I‘Elll8.‘ Each couple has other normal chil-' dren. Their strrm on the sick child handicapped their understanding both of the sick and well children In the dramas. the stress is no'.. upon sick youngsters, but normal‘ ones, how they grow, how they come to feel us they do, how chil- dren affeci parents and vice vcrsa.
The parents ate losing their feel- ings of guilt and bitterness, are becoming understanding and re- laxed in dealing with their healthy- children, for better prepared to help their sick children when they do come h0ITlP_ the psychiatrists said.
Parents‘ own trails become cleared in the H-'.lvlll£—--R fallicr wno
is consistently unable to express anger toward a child, a niolhcr who panics if she feels she ll not
probably not be cured by drugs alone. “Quite often attempts are made to clear up an anxiety Il€lll'0.\- is with drugs, especially the seda- tive or quiz-ting drugs.“ while qu.e;- ing drugs are often used in anxiety states, psychiatrists use these drugs only to a limited extent. along with other forms of treatment used .11 mental and emotional disturb- ances.
Dr. Ca.inei'oii points out iha: simply listening to the pallent's story, showing him you are really interested in him and his particular case and his symptoms, is excellent treatment; in iself. "The docor, in the mind of the patient and in his own mind, is the fellow who docs something in you, the fellow who sticks a knife into you or puts a pill down your throat - he is a doctor. In psychiatiy. the doctor ju—i sits and listens. Many times it LS difficult for the doctor to just. sii. and listen and let the patient un- fold" but this will do the patinnt more good in many cases than act- ive treatment of any kind."
The final instructions for treat- ment in anxiety states is to teach the patient how to relax. to carry on with light. exercise and massage with daily reassurance as to the favorable outcome of his mental and emotional disturbance.
RADAR ROAD TRAP
TORONTO (CPI -- The use nf radar screens on Ontario highways to trap speeding motorists is ex- pected to be introduced within the next few weeks, Provincial Police Commissioner E. V. McNcill said Friday. The 18-inch screen is mounted on the back of a patrol car and measurcs the velocity of
anxiety neurosis. Dr. Cameron states that anxiety neurosis will
an approaching vehicle. A graph] records the speed.
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Anne Adams Patterns
HALF-SIZE FASHION
Flattery for the half-size figure! Sew this smart. youthful costume in a pretty linen or cotton. The brief capelet makes it suitable for spring or summer. town or cnuntryi Proportioned lo fit. -— no alteration problems.
This pattern easy to use, sim- ple to sew, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instructions.
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Other cooking and baking
Salmon is a favorite fish for cas- serole dishes and a member oi Suffolk W. I. has submitted a tasty recipe for homemaker: to my ideas will be suggested by this insllluli‘
during the week.
SALMON OOUFFLE
Foundation sauce for souffir to serve 4 or 5 persons: 3 level tablespoons buiir-r at. level tablespoons flour 1 cup milk I1 teaspoon salt Cook and let cool 4 eggs 1 cup bread crumbs Small can salmon
Beat whites and yolks of eggs repeatiedly. \\'hen sauce is luke- warm, add the llakcrl saint egg yolks and bread crumbs.
Add this mixture to the well-
beaien egg whites. Fold and genilg, pour iliis mixture into casserole. Only grease bottom and not sides of casserole and place in a dish of warm water in an oven at abou' 325 degrees. Takes about -14 of an hour to cook.
A cup of minced ham or chicken may be used instead of salmon.
-—.\lra. Jam-I .lohnai.nn. Suffolk W. I.
DOROTHY BIX
Widow Meets Cheat
DEAR MISS DIX: For the past seven years I nave been intimate liilh a man who hail been ii child- hood sweetheart some fifteen years before. I am a widow. He is an- ticipating a divorce so we can be married. In the past six months I have discovered he is seeing an- other woniaii. I-le dunes it, but I know it's true. fie still declares his love for me. I have considered fol- lowing him, to prove my suspic- ions. Do you think I should? I think your solutions to others’ problems are perfect.
L.
ANSWER: iou endow your friend with praise, but he has cheated on his wife for seven years and is now deceiving _vou. lying in his teeth about it, yet you call him "fine!" well, his attributes show up undei a far different and much less complimentary ad- j€CLlV€‘ in my estimation. Per- haps your re.l.soning runs along the line that since your own code of ethics is scarcely above re- proach. his qiinliiies are “fine" in comparison to yours. Have you really b€ll£‘.\"‘fl that you could hold a man after you had stolen him from his wife? There is even
less honesty a mong adulterera than among thieves. Oh yes! You had a question-
should you follow the man so you cniild find him out in his betrayal of you? That would be a good idea. You'd discover exactly what you deserve to know~—that a man who isn't true to one woman will not be true to another. You have if. coming to ;.ou. and never can you look fate in the face and crj that you. have been mistreated.
HAVE A LITTLE PRIDE
In order to save at least a bit of pride. why not get out of this mess before _mu’re forced out? I'm afraid you wont consider this advicc as "perfect" as some you have read. but certainly there is no perfect solution to your pro- blem. You aren't a young girl: surely you've seen enough of life to know that happiness can never come from wrongdoing If you want happiness again, re-establish your personal integrity and face the world. It won‘i be easy to throw off an obaessioii of seven years. but the reward will transcend any pain of readjustment.
DEAR MISS DIX: I'm 16 and have been going with Ray for two years. We went steady for A while. then brclc up and though we went out together occasionally, he spent most of his time with girls from a group not too highly regarded in our town. Recently he was zn an accident and I went. in see him at the hospital. I told him he'd have to choose between me and the other girls. He claimed he really likes me best, but also is interested in someone else. He asked me to wait for him. I know I can't forget him. What should I
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Pattern 4591: Half Sims 14‘-.-ad L H ioiq. I8‘-.-, 20». 22-.. 245. size‘ ' ‘ 16'? takes 43- yards 35-inch; -in ANSW-ma. You Me both we y"d “"3"” "‘b“°' young to be involved in definite
commitments. Don't promise to wait, and don't make it too obvious that you'll always be around when he's ready to date you. Go out with other boys. and tell Ray you don't think his vague promises are sufficient basis for you to tie yourself down to steady dating- or steady waiting. You're growing up, and life ahead will have many problems. small and large, for you in solve. "I can't" will never do. learn new that what you make up mind to do can be done. Forget.- tlnl I boy who lni't worthy of you is one of the things that mun be done. -
LONG DORMANI’ The metal titanium. now recog-
nised as a steel substitute, was discovered in Britain in 110.
>k’age_V8 1110» Guardian
OMEN
Monday, May 10. 1954
"Out of the night that covers" us, what now have we on this farm? Mist of hoar-frost. lifting from the stream. to veil somewhat. the lights in the neighboring houses and the friendly old hills above. Somewhere among the stars in the west is the new moon 0' month. Before here reign is over she will look down very tenderly we fancy in her femininity on lovely scenes: on dewy fields and quiet woodsy places rich in treasure-trove of wild flower; an orderly grain-lands and rows of promise in the "early" root.-lands.
Jamie‘5 flower-border to which these days he devotes odd minutes of his leisure, untangling the ten- dl'lls of couch-grass from plants set there by loved hands, will blos- som: with tulip and iris, with daf- fodil and pansy (“if there should happen to be a white one . . .' he said this evening. And Gage nodded, his mind too on a grave in the Kirk-yard. “She'd like that. wouldn't. she, Jamie?" he offered softly.)
May-blossoins. this moon will smile upon, brightening the hedge- rnws and woodlands that roam along the valley. No whit less benificent but with a wise old twinkle the May-sun will see twain: of birds, sing their love songs, build and nest and fulfil their missions of earth. Of more moment, we are sure, and always exceedingly inter- esting are the "man and maid" couples who choose to have their
Ff Hoyv C215?
By Anna Ashley
Q. How can I remove lipstick stains?
A. If aponging with carbon tet- rachloride does not remove lipstick stains from washable materials. try rubbing them with a colorless grease such as white Vaseline jelly. Then sponge them again with carbon tetrachloride.
Q. How can I keep salad greens crisp and fresh’!
A. They will keep crisp if pre- pared at least a half hour before needed and allowed to soak in cold water. They can be dried by shak- ing in a wire basket or on a towel.
Q. How can I give iron to ihe canary? -
A. Place a rusty nail in the canar_v's drinking water and it will supply the iron lost while the bird is melting.
The Stars Say By Eaireillts For Tomorrow
CREATIVE Work is favored now and personal relationships are friendly. For the homemaker. it will be ii good day in which to complete unfinished tasks, to tackle overdue correspondence and to make plans for home renovation projects.
The evening hours are excellent for extending hospitality to friends or business associates, for making travel plans. and also for particip- ating in community welfare plans.
For the Birthday
lf tomorrow is your birthday. the next two months should bring you career advancement and un- expected financial gain. Advice from a business associate may show you a way to reduce expenses. and his interest in your occupational problems may have an important bearing on your future.
There may be some stress in domestic or romantic matters in July or August, but the fall
months will see a renewal of har- mony in all personal relationships.
During November and December. stick to routine tasks and do not allow yourself to be side-tracked. Don't let doubts. fears or nervous tension put you in a negative mood. Avold extravagance and guard against property loss.
A child born on this day will be practical, realistic and endowed with the qualities which make for executive leadership.
ELLEN’S DIARY
by an Island Far-mcr’s Wife
nuptials in the springtime, the oc-
casion as the Peddlar-man said “Solemni"
Fencing, a work of some extent on these streamaids farms was odd interest of today though at Alder- les there was s first bit of field- cultivation as well.
"‘Whlch field?" Granddaughter repeated our query on the ‘phone. “You know this one just. below the lane—by ths pond?“ We smiled remembering . . . seeing the crops growing there, reflecting the sun- shine, bowlng to the showers, rs- sponding to the moods of summer- wlnds. And evening shadows coming in so engagingly. covering the pond, climbing to the heights above. And sometimes when the new moon was as now but a slim bow to the west or when at full it sat above a barn to the east, James has come to join * us there on the old stone doorstep to look out upon the dimming field: to be perhaps somewhat worried. since front fields once had a way of being most fertile, last. a storm should come to break it down or wind-toss it and thus‘ make the gathering more difficult.
"Mother aaid—and I remember it too, it was in that field, we first used the tractor" she com- mented. But there instead at her words, James, for us, drove some remembered team of old years.
“Out of the night that covers" us in mist of hoar-frost lifting from the stream, comes now our hours for repose.
Until tomorrow — -— — — Diary — - -— -— Good-nizht . . . . .
I Morning Smile
A little girl, Palsy. from the city. was visiting on the farm for the firai time and was quite interested in watching the cattle emerge from the stable.
Suddenly a pure white call came out and Patsy excitedly exclaim- ed, "Look mummy, at the baby cow with his nightls on."
Household Scrapbook ‘ By Robert: L00
Old Putty
Old putty can be removed with- out injury to the glass or to the sash, by passing a. hot soldering iron or red-hot poker over it. Do not let: the iron touch the glass, or ii might crack it. Or, cover the putty with a soft soap and allow it to stand for several hours. It can then be removed with any sharp instru- ment. .
Soup
Before serving soup. put a piece of cheese about the size. of a walnut. in each quart of soup and it will give the soup a rich, creamy flavor.
Bay Run
To make bay rum, mix I dram oil of bay, 18 ounces of alcohol. 15 ounces of water. Then filter it through magnesia.
Modern Etiquette
By iiobem Leo
Q. Is the typewriter now proper for social correspondence?
A. Yes. it is correct for many personal letters, especially long ones. Formal notes are preferably written by hand — and invii.atlor.s (excepting engraved ones), accept- ances, and regrets written in the third person must be handwritten.
Q. When salad is served with the main course at a dinner. docs ll have to be eaten with the salad fork, or may one eat it with the dinner fork?
A. Although the use of two forks is considered correct, you may use the dinner fork if you wish.
Q. If men are sitting near. should I young woman offer her seat to an old woman, when on a bus or streetcar?
A. If one of the men does not offer his seat, the woman should.
Alice Brooks Designs
NEW TOASTEII. COVER
Her full skirt protects your toaster! 'rhat’a how this pretty old- fashioned girl earns her keep in your kitchen. She's fun to make —- eharmlng to see! Use scraps.
Pattern 1013: embroidery trans- fer of face, pattern pieces for nov- dlty toaster cover.
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Lake Huron. second largest of the Great Lulu. was dlacmcnq in 1615 by Ohnmplsin and Pstlior In Caron.
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Ainlia.<sailor their daughters ileft to right’ _snme da)'——Saiurrla). June 19. marry Angel (.‘ni'nii\'nli Lima, Peru.» (('l’ Photo)-
Better English
By D. C. Williams
1. What is wrong with this sen- tence “lt seems funny that he hasn't ieiiirncd back home."
2. What. is thn correct pronunci- ation of "despicable"?
3. Which one of these words is misspelled? Assured. occured, thor- oughbred, referable.
4. What does the word "laconic" mean?
5. What is a word beginning with if that means "ignorance of learning"?
ANSWERS
1. Say.“lt seems odd that he hasn't returned (omit. backi home.“ 2. Accent first syllable. not the sec- ond. 3. Occurred. 4. Expressing much in few words; brief and pithy. “His laconic style impressed his listeners." 5. Illiteracy.
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Contract Bridge By Josephine Culbertson NOT GOOD ENOUGH
Victoria of Caracas, Venezuela, and Luzmiia is engaged to Dr. Roque
is engaged
fortunately for himself. however. even the conservative small-slam contract got away from him in the play.
West opened the spade queui- South won with the king, laid dnwn the heart ace, and then, evidently reflecting that either the club or the diamond finesse would give him the twelfth trick. took the club finesse first. This, of course. lost to East. and on the dia- mond return South had little choice but to try that finesse also —— he could knot know that the diamond king was cff-side and that West could be squeezed be- tween spades and diamonds if South maneuvered properly. when
1-‘prnandnz Cnni-ha of Peru and Mn. Conclia have announced the engagements at Victoria, 23, Amparo. 20, and Luzmila. 21. All three will be married the to Peter M. Bonardelli of Montreal: Amimm is in
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the diamond finesse lost. south was an embittered man.
Leaving the unlikely squeeze 1.. side, South could have made the contract without. the slightest ruf- ficulty. After drawing the out round of trumps, he could have cashed the spade ace and ruffed a spade, and thereupon he would have discovered the spade situa- tion. On that knowledge alone it would be supremely simple ta maneuver for a throw-in play on West .All South had to do was in cash the club ace and ruff the club queen, then go back to dummy in trumps and give West a spade trick, discarding the diamond eight from the closed hand.
The declarer figured that he had a good enough chance for his slam in the following hand by succeed- ing with either of two finesses, but he was mistaken — an infinitely better line was available. I
South dealer. Both sides vulnerable.
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south lingered wistfuliy over his last decision. obviously tempted to try for ii grand slam. but he final- ly elected to "play safe." Un-
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' Cuts and scratches picked up
‘ in mock warfare often lead to real battles
with infection. It's a wise Mother
who defeats this enemy by cleansing
cuts and wounds with non-poisonous
‘DETTOL' — lllc all—pt_irposc antiseptic.
'DETTOL' is a reserve force
alllfaniilics can call upon to fight
infectious germs in every case
of antiseptic need.
Always keep swift-acting 'DET'l'0I..' handy. Often a child's health rests
on this one important iact— '
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