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Page 8. The Guardian Monday, Oct. 3,' 1955

ELLEN'S DIARY

By An Island Fsrlnerls Wife New are our hearthfires good-- takers. I don't need a home. all

Cod. Mass.. for their honeymoon.

Mrs. Joseph Francis of Everett. . Mag!” I'M '3'lW-otClP0mCW-viz! The wary driver nsanoeuvered hosessor emor po e,' t M M

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Recent Autumn Wedding OI Wide Interest Here

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H te f h s ecedlnl Mr. and Mrs. William Ernest the Edam, 3,2,: JIELE C0,. Mlcllllllln In If their I105" I3 tello. Milton; Myra Catheringuh Vernon River after their marriage -MacDonald and s Joanne c- ' ht , 8 uw aw" t d I Sept. 14 at 4 p.m. in st. Joseph's Donlld. Brighton. and Mrs. Marion Why dldnt you wait to see w a s m on us.

I y it wug" for furniture. Church. Belmont. MIMI” of sumend 1: ' e

so-. and Mrs. MacMillan (the i .

a tacit rag. fold it and wrap is alumlnlrn foil or place it in a ver; small in with I Hate us. 'l'acI

former Mary 6. Chisholm of Vet- non River and Belmont) received more than 70 guests at a recent- ion following the wedding. for which Dr. and Mrs. Edward D. - Churchill of Belmont were hosts.

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with evenings lengthening and doors closed against the chill which belongs to the season. We gather h for the night-burning, sticks from the woodshed: the seasoned hard- wood stored with the heat of a hundred summer suns, stout maple and birch; and sometimes a stick of wild cherry for its interesting aroma, or an end of apple-wood for its witcliery, or pieces of resin- sua fir or spruce. .the fragrance of which takes us wandering off in mind to some sweet-scented aisle of the woodland. And in this house of .lames' people, against a quiet hillside. we two cherish the con- tent that is home.

"It takes a heap n' livin' in .a house to make it home." someone has said. Irving S. Cobb agrees with this. "A house isn't necessar- ily a home." he said. ”no matter how complete it may be. A home is a place that has been or is being lived in by kindly wholesome people: where there has been joy and comfort and companionship; where the very essence of its oc- cupants has entered into the walls

I need is a garage."

"No, i don't expect to come to the Island next summer", a vis-

itor of this year remarked soberly.

"You see. with my parents gone

now-it's not like it was- The home. well, ”Slle smiled whimsically, ”lts only a house now to me. Before.

no matter how much the world or how far one of us children roamed, they were always the same and always there to .wel- I can still picture them- lso dependable and fine. That's what the home it's the hearts

changed.

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lmakes ,ihat beat there for you."

' The farmers of this place haul-

,ed logs to the mill this afternoon to have as they said "a few boards and a bit of scantiing about" for

lany works of repair that may ap-

pear. And James riding "second" on the trailer, turned there by the

rowan tree at the bend of the lane

to wave to us at a window. to be sure that we were catching another engaging scene of the farm. Seated not far from where he stood, scarlet shirt making a splash nf autumn color Mack rode with

so that entering it. the stranger him. And beside him in an attitude cepuon followed at club Lynd- . e

feels that here ithered has beer: lendjoyment the hglossy-cotaetrevd September 5. 1955. for the mar- MacLean. Northam, P.E.l., and hum. Tommog The couple Wm vows Exchanged peace and good wll an t e splri 30 08. 8 WW 0!! l 9 YOURS! I riage of Miss Marie Victoria Mr. Franklin Little. son of Mr. reside in Rosemonl, Ont. A

ef helpfulness." . . H shoulder. We smiled. It was going Lower Montaque .

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the mill.

No blight of frost yet to take our late fluwerings of lawn and .bags. I spend my mornings on the yard away. A long blossom-time we golf course. my afternoons at the have had this year in this valley bridge table and my evenings ati"down by the old mill stream." the movies. And when I die I am Until tomorrow--- Diary ----Good going to be buried at the under- night...-..

college. courted in an automobile and married in a church. I live out of the delicatessen and paper

KEILTINTRIM -

Pounds Tend To "Grow"

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Au those vacation pounds play- Put the sciene of nutrition to Ing hard to get off . . . or hadn't work. Fats boost the calories you noticed? Enjoying good food highest. so cut out the extras- la part of the American vacation the gravy. the fat part of the meal. plan. Naturally calorie caution is cream sauces. and go light on toasad to the sea breezes or brsc- French dressing and mayonnaise. ing mountain air, always. of course On desserts. take your choice- with the optimistic thought that have a low calorie dessert. such you will diet as soon as you get as fruit or fruit ice: a slim por- back to routine living. It's ii.me to tion of the regular dessert; or if step on the scales. you are an "all or nothing" dieter,

Well . - . did you slim down? skip dessert entirely. The trouble with overeating for a Practice getting HP (Wm II" delightful t 0 or three weeks is dinner table just short of that full not so mac rtlie pounds you put feeling, and in less than a week on. but the appetite you build up! you can cut your appetite down It's a fact that overeating for to pre-vacation size . . . and in even a short time elevates the "ap- two weeks time, you'll be five pestat" and increases food capa- pounds slimmer. eity. With an enlarged appetite you are tempted to continue est- ing until you get that nice satis- fled feeling. Be alerted . . . at this point. enough food to satisfy your appetite is quite likely to lead to more poundage.

If you gained 5 pounds this sum- mer. and instead of taking them off have piled on two more, then I can get you 10 before the first snowfall. There are 10 to In pounds between women's sizes and about 16 pounds between suit sizes for men. It may jolt you into deter- mined action to face the fact that you may shortly be forced to wear a larger size. It could happen. Many overwelghts date lho onscf. of their obesity to a summer vac- ation wight gain. DON”! BE GRIM

Here's a promise . . . right now I will be fairly easy to take off those I or 7 pounds This Mon- day is the perfect day to start. The most workable plan is to eat three meals a' day, but trim fats, omit "secondis" and leave off all

, desserts. And cut out that lettth "evening snack" meal.

Dhft diet grimly-suit your tom-

Former Resident Marries In B, C,

White and yellow gladioli and white hyderangea decorated the alter and chancel steps at Ellis: Gospel Hall. Courtenay, B.C. for the marriage on Monday, August 29, of Mary Lydia Farrow only daughter of the late Mr- and Mrs. George Ives Farrow, Hampton. P.E.l. to Frederick Marsop, eldest son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles Mar- son. Courtenay. Vancouver Island. BC. The double ring ceremony wwas performed by C. 0. Bowen.

Given in marriage by her broth- er, J. C. Farrow, Calgary. Alberta. the bride was costumed in a smart- ly tailored suit of blue grey serge, a close fitting hat and accessories of delphinium blue. Her corsage was of soft pink carnations and rosebuds. and she carried a white Bible. gift of the groom.

Her only atts .nt was her cou- sin, Mrs. E R. ieo. Royston. who chose a deep blue afternoon dress pal-ement. If black coffee starts of silk rrcpc pnhtcd in white. Her your day all wrong, have cream hat was while with navy trim. and and sugar. in the first run of the lnavy accssories completed her an- day only. Siistaln your energy by semble. She wore pink carnations.

Wycliffe College Chapel, Tor- onto, Ontario, was the setting on

William J, Little. Rusemnni, Out. and the late Mrs. Little. A re-

MacLean, Toronto, daughter of the late Mr. and Mrs. William

and accompanied Mrs. N. E. La- Forge who sang "The Wedding Prayer" during the signing of the register.

The groomsman was Mr. Art West, and the ushers were Lawr- ence Burns. Roy Yea and Donald Llntott.

A reception followed in the Ang- lican Parish Hall which was decor- ated with pink sweetpeas, pink gladioli and white hyderangeas. The bride's table was decorated with a white linen damask cloth. centered by a triple-tier wedding cake. Flanking this were low crys- tal bowls of deep pink sweetness- Presiding at the tea urns were Mrs. J. Tweedie and Miss Kay Pearce. ' Receiving with the,brlde and groom were Mrs. . M. Moody sister of the groom. frocked in a pale blue flowered dress, with navy tuxedo jacket. and pink ac- cessories and corsage. and'Mrs. Mabel Pearson, wearing a pale pink dress with white accessories and pink carnation corsage. The bride's brother G. R. Farrow. North Battleford, Sask., Mr. Bill Marson, brother of the groom, and Mrs. Julia Marson also assisted in receiving.

Solos and duets were sung by Mrs. Norman LaForge, Doris Moody and Alfred Lintatt- Mr. Art West Sang "Because" while Eric Gemmell gave a trumpet solo. The bride is a former resident of Prince Edward Island.

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MONTREAL tCPl - A British postal order for one shllling-ap- proximately 15 cents-has reached the treasury of Canadian National Railways along with an anonymous note saying it was in "payment for the use of box cars etc." The sender wrote that the "nominal" fee was to settle his "guilty con- science."

eating breakfat which includes

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ALICE BROOKS DESIGNS

to worry needlessly about some- thing for years, but we are gel- ling more and more upset about Edith. Too many dates, in too; large groups. flitting lilIIl('l' and you having "wonderful times." just seems immature to me.

She will forgive a girl friend any trick on her, and takes every- one at face value. She is so bright "and lovable; perhaps some day she will meet the right man and marry- Motherlike. I think that would be wonderful. Have I made the problem clear” I do hope you will be able to help me tinder- stand it. T. F. PATTERNED LIFE

Dear T. F. - it appears that Edlth's parents ldon"t know their own child from the inside. so to speak-which suggests that they weren't adequately or consist fly close to her. in sympathetic pen ceptive care, during her infancy and formative years. Too busy be- ing popular. hospitable, successful. elc.l as friends of their friends. I gather.

And it seems Edith has uncon- sciously patterned her life after her parents' "bright" example- as she saw it from a distance. through the child's eye for imag- ination). Never having been really

Mother Asks Help In Understanding Happy Daughter

Dear Mary llaworth-My prob- lem is my friendly and popular daughter, now 25; and I've never been sure just what the problem is. But I am sure I have spoiled her in some way that may hurt her. Life just isn't as delightful as she seems to think.

Shotis attractive. congenial with all ages. ompetenl tor better! in her job. She is hapP3'. friendly, continually dating and getting dates for her unmarried girl friends-

Durlng her college years she was informally engaged twice. Both boys were athletes. One was nice, but socially and financially about as different from us as possible. tWe are in the upper income, club member bracket). The Navy parted them. The second boy had a criminal background, we learned ,which horrified Edith-who says. .however, that he was a really nice

At their reception there were rela- tives and friends from New York, Ottawa. Cape Cod and San Fran- cisco, Csllf. Telegrams of congrat- ulation were received from many parts of the Dominion and the Uni- ted States.

The bride was given in marriage by her cousin. Joseph A. Mac- Donald, Medford, Mass. Miss Eliz- abeth MacDouald. Cambridge. was an attendant and John MacMlllan Milton. MIll., was best man. The bride wore an afternoon dress of blue taffeta with matching accessories and an orchid corsage. Her Jewelry was the gift of the groom. Miss MacDonald wore an . ensemble in a similar shade. The ushers were Edward D. Churchill, .lr., Frederick Church- ill and Algernon Churchill. Rev. John Cosgrnve of St. Joseph's Church officiated.

Following the reception the . couple motored to Truro, Capel

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The Riverview Tourist Home.

Lower Montague. was the setting on August 31st for the marriage of Mr. and Mrs. Cephas Davey. The ceremony was performed by Rev. Cari Currie. The attendants were Mrs. Russel A. Gillls and Mr. Cam- eron Reld, sister and brother of the bride. g

The bride was given in marriage by her uncle and she wore a pow- der blue costume with matching accessories and a corsage of red roses.

Following the ceremony a supper was served by Mrs. Thomas Jack- son.

The couple left on a honeymoon in Stellarton. N.s. where they were the guests of Mr. and Mrs. Alex MacDonald.

On Sept. 2. a reception was held for the couple at the home of the groom's mother where the bride received many lovely gifts.

good (mother - child) "we"-rela- tionship-warmly loving, sympath- etically loyal, dependahly true-blue -she hardly knows when she's be- ing ill used. either. She "sees" most "nice" people in terms of her parents. probably-that is. as well intentioned towards her, evui,

J: person” but sick! LIKES GAY MEN

Since college there has been a steady stream of beaux. Those we favor she thinks dull tbut nice): The ones she favors are big and slow thinking. or with years of schooling ahead, or the gay bach- elor type. All are sports enthus- iasts-fishing, skiing. tennis. etc. of We sincerely try to like them all. but there are so few whose attrac- tion for her we can understand.

Her father is very handsome- she is very proud of this. And I am considered attractive and viv- acious. We have many friends of our own. and our house has been full of .penple (hers and ours) for

close to parents. with a sense of being at the centre of their heart- interest, she hasn't an ingrained aptitude for thou-and-me fellow- shipewhich leads to cherished in- timate "preferred" relationships on the adult plane. Rather she lives on the surface things, psychologically non- meshed with others-an uncons- cious extension of a "social" rela- tionship with parents that isn't rooted in deep reciprocal emo- tional involvement. so far as she feels or knows. She is every- body's friend: she doesn't even parry the thrusts of tricky female opportunists-and in this respect

when most disappointing.

You lsm t Edlth's random pur- suit of wonderful times. which "just seems immature to me," you say- But isn't her social circling as described a sort of carbon copy of her parents' performance when she was a child? Aren't you see- ing your immaturity in a mirror. as it were? And regretting the ef- fects upon her? Isn't this why you've worried about her for years, wondering if she'll ever win through to anchorage with the right man?

My advice is to discuss your concern with a psychiatrist or psychologist. to get at the roots of

her .....-diardedness may be likened to tone-deafness. REGRETS NEGLIGENCE

Never having felt the pitch of a

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