[WOMEN’S ORGANIZATIONS Volleyfield UCW Review "

' Tho Guardiinfcifailfitcmrfwodi’mt. 2.1953. 1;

GARRITY-P Mr, and Mrl. Frank Garrity are photographed (allowing their August wedding at St. John The Baptist Church.

Miscourhe. Mrs. Garrity is the former Patricia Pnirier.

MARY HAWORTH

Marital Crack-Ups Cripple Children’s Morcii Future

Dear Mary iisworth: AS yo u trcouontly point out, neurotics lows an amnity ior their own kind, I: in the iollowing instan- ces.

My roommate'r isthcr askcd ills devoted wile Oi E years (or a divorce one day. When shc had obliged him. he lclt the city a tow days later. to marry a di— vorced woman.

Soon the newlyweds were back

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eldest daughter oi Mr. and Mrs. John C nlrier. Mil- couehe. The groom ia the Mm oi Mr. and Mrs. Francis G. Gurriiy. Wcstlield. Mass. Mr. and Mrs. Garrity are residing at Sherwood Trailer Court.

slibily crippling eilcct on their‘ own moral nature. The potentlai‘ damage extends to include that cliildrPn‘s moral nature also, I introducing a possibility that to. children may grow up twisted rnthcr than straight.

llowcver. the wnniieriui assci (If ynllih is Ih' on your side. in which to out. tgmw disadvantages of that anrt. Time in which to take prollt

in town. where he announced his from special trial: and sorrows.

marriage In the local papers as Lhuugh it was his iirst. He ia linst

Simi.rly there is the casc my mother. She deserted my lather and me

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a divorced man 10 years her junior. shc s a v ed lace by not returning. howevi'r. her recent letters to me plain. ly reveal the anguished cry oi a rcmorseiul broken woman who realizes now. too late. hor toliy. 'I have forgiven Mr and tool only Tilly for her. But I 0 not want liar back. Failirr luho has been a good mother as wcil as a goon lather to me) doesn't want her back either. i My roommate has both pity and batrcd ior her lather. Are 1 we wrong in tooling and thinking; " Aren't our neurotic ‘ one responsible ior 'r uTon way pursuit oi what thcy min-k is happiness? ROOM- ATEs Dear Girh: Tbs tragedy oi the

Varenta' failure, in a marital i ed to [La

another neurotic. '

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by nccoming a decper, stronger. more prudcnt. richcr character than you might have been with. nut that painrul chapter in your history

when . lather or mother do.

some years ago. to run oil with sorts spouse and oltspring, «7‘

take nil an a wrong-way pursuit nI happiness [to use your

_ a pt .phrsset. it usually is the culmin-

ation cl a chainresc t i n n of [unity behavior in the marriage.

which means that tor some time IhCIan the b re a lit th u children had horn willing. as it werc. Iikc tcnder plant. 'n an un- tavornblo climnlc. or m a sea- son of drouth They ih child- rnnl have been subsisting on starvation rations oi love a n socurii inasmuch as parents stymied by crucial interpersanal nliilculiics simply c a n n o t res- pond sntisiarinrlly in children emotional needs.

Which brings us to your pre- sent condition, that I would like You to "Camille and remedy. so that you won‘t ahrivei on the vine. in runaequenno of your parents' mistakes.

mic o1 you says you‘ve ior. given your mother you [eel only pity for her, but you don’t want her back. The other roommata lcels both pity and hatred ior her father. But most regrettably. neither oiyou ieela love, i term] (if caring compassionately about the errant parent, with de- cent generous willingness (ii occasion lrml In work at re- storing a iamily relationship with that person.

This is a malor ilaw in you r , mural composition at presen . a deficit thrult Ili'N'lll M parental inadequacy. yes; for Which you aren't tn blame. count. But it ll adelectymi must overcome. by deliberate Iiioughtiul eiiart, if you are to be iulLV iorm Iduitl. not lla‘ilv l‘eu crippled, in deniinz with 1 ie.

Thurston. let‘s not by to ion. tily or inflame your distarts ior y o u r waywaid parents‘ lolly. Address yourselves. rather. to rising above the level oi their inadequaciel. books may point the wa Art oi 141v. ing" insrperri bylrich mem and "The Enemies oi lxenedyt by Dom Aslnd . Mil.

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Mary ledrtli noun Ill mouth her column. not by mail or personal interview. Writ. im- in an 0! Th! Guardian.

T'I‘ MYB "WILCDMI' Guest: ion In “MINE”. II

"an 7380: tranlier lull LD- color chart.

THIRTY-m: cam lcoina

AI)- Famrnond Warren. iormerly at

” At Freetown

. Mr. Payntar'l Ind Mn. Camp-

Famiiy Reunion

Mr. and Mn. Cecil Paynter and Mr. and Mrs. Walter Camp- bell iton I imlly reunion in Freetown recently. in honor of

beil'l cousins trom out at the poo.

They are Leland Warren.

Smml . Alta. Nelsnn Wint-

Thly Ire Vlvlnl children at Mr. and

ban and

‘ Spurgaoll Grldert and

land accompanied Mn. Thoma]

“ u you: In M ed by Clair Museum The guests

Niflflan Miuim Field. when Haw rd C trill. the!

HAPPENINGS l’

GBgt|A$y (fielded and Clair visiting her sisters and brothers. l e or. are , accompanied y !\ . . .'.' 1 Mrs. Bernard Gallant. Charlotte~ .zr‘lcam’ ‘7'" 5"" .21“ “7'; town. attended the roilesrrnnc- " ""5 "i “mm” "' a “ is wedding in Trcmoni. N.S. on.Claudo and Parker "Manna A1- Sunday. They also visited Canblhany- rs. Cellini-t In Liiiieiiburiz and iiir‘ Mr and Mrs PN’SU‘H Wood. and Mrs. Fred J. Chappeil. Hal- Charlottetown, rciurncd Sunday itax. ‘evcning irom nivcr licbert, NS. whcre Ihi‘)‘ were guests at the

Mrs Garnet Monro. .‘iionla~ shlpiey-Macisaac ucdrimg on gue. entertained a Izmup ol‘Sbturday. rim lrienda at a delightiul inn~ chson party last week. Mr. and Mrs. Charles natlee. guaats spent the aliernoon sew- Manse Jaw. Scsk.. who were g and the result was lwo lo Visitors to F.E.i, wcrc greatly ly quilts ior Wsiiarc. The unm~ mpressed by its beauty. Thur mlttee in charge again sircss lhc wcrc guests of their unclr and urgent need inr children's warm mini. Ru» and Mrs G P v r fie clothing and ior bedding. Dickinson. Nrw Glasgow.

Bill Flack leit Sunday tor Hal- .\ir5 Jan Vols , oung son llax to attend Dalhousle linwor bloke. and miant daughtor Jane sliy. who iizlvP bcen i log with her

parents Mr and Mrs, Nocl H

Mr. and Mrs. .tack McGuigan Dcalois ior thc summer. ion by Euston Streci. entnrtalnetl Sa - lpianr Saturday ior Montreal urday evening at a iamlly party lwhcre shP will bP the guest ot honoring Mr. Mcc-uigan's braih- her sisicr and brotherrina law, or Robert, who was the recentlbr i hn mi ilirs. Hen iirst place winner at. the M2 ' Mrs. \‘nirsky lliii ily by irt to time Truc eo held in Am ‘ Zurich. Swiizcrland on Friday herai. Mr. McGuigan held the whorc she will be met by her highest civilian score. lhusband. and will motor to rcld-

R u by Neth. Sa u gus. kirch. . isirin. where Mr. Vol- Mass., has returned to her home esky Is sngagcd as a textile en- aitei- spending the past monthlgineor.

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was the worahip theme 0! lhe‘Mrs. Parkrr Caniield and Mrs ‘ 1'

Valleyfieid UCW'a meeting. This was led 17y Mrs. Lib '

i icrexting readinfl an the Audit!)

l Mrs

Mn ‘

cc , Scripture was read by Arinur MacKinnnn and

Mra

sx MacPherson led in prayer. P.T. Peardon was pianist.

R‘E‘l Montague Women's Mrs lmei m the (Tummuniiy Hall tor for the Masons at Stanley Bridge lthcir rogular monthly meeting.

uiies Of Church Women .

h M .slbility in home and community sick commiltcc. and l

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September Arthur Simmons

reside In Ontario. anI'En MONTAGUE w]

institute

Mn. A..i. MacPherson presid-ers' 5"”m3“ “ad‘m‘m P’E'

ed Ior nusinear oi the meciing; correspondence was dealt with and 31 women responded to mill '5 call with a verse oi scripture concerning "gather". er reported £23.15 in August oi~ faring.

An article about Mission work. in Brasil wn read by Mrs. w A. drum. is was conducted by Mrs. W.A. Manual.

A chapter oi study book. Sig. nals ior the Sixtiea, was review- ed by Mrs. Lloyd MacKinnun. A committee wu appointed to llnalize arrangements ior thank olicring service, and s u n d ay School nally.

Meeting closed with prayer by Mrs. Ciiiiord MaCPhermn

in unison.

During the social hour Mrs. Cooper. who is moving into I new home at Eldon in the near iuture. was presented with giit. It was accompanied by l poem composed and read by Mrs. WA. ane.

Tea was served by the com. mittee: Mrs. Herb MacKenLie Mrs. Glen Peardoa. Mrs. w, . Anne MacDonald

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‘ ME. AND MES. ROLAND K. SILLTKER Reception Follows Ceremony

‘Ai Margaie United Church

nahiiss and gladioli decorat- ed the Margate United Church when Diane Elizabeth. younger daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Heath Mayhcw. Marzate exchanged marriage vows with Roland Keith. son at Mr. and Mrs. Lorne s iiker Maipcoue. The Rev. W.A. Paterson pcriormed the double ring cersmony on Saturday. September 1th, ma.

Miss Margin! Walker was in chargs oi the wedding music.

were ushcrcd to pcws marked with lily oi LiIE \‘niirv and white bows. by Clair Mayhcw, broth. sr oi the bride.

A reception ilir 30 Eursta wu held in the church vcsiry.

The bride's table was center- ed with a three ticr wedding cake lianked by white tapers in crystal candleahra. A toast in the bride was proposed by Rev. w . Paterson and responded y the bridegroom.

Mrs. Mayth chase tor liar

r oi the

Bruce up .

Mrs. Ciilfnrd McPherson and

the hostel! assisted in serving, BRODKFIELD WI

Member! of the B r o a k l l eid anen's Inltit

alter routine business Tramp hm discussed. WSW“; at the home oi Mn. oar-r Mac-11y. yet, we ianry. how cxircmclv ,2. r m .. .. 5 w m... mum. in which included plans ior caier-‘ ing to an institute banquet were ilnalirod.

won by \Irs Plans acre completed ior loilowed by The Lord's Praycrgcieanme or the hall.

- menls were served by the com-

had new

A mmmlilee was appninled

nible Quiz on Matt. chapter root oi the hall kitchen. The “'5 W“ h”! "Id Ind it's nu-

rum oi slooo was voted ior thel "'0" - .iack Ma G ’ an Fire rund. An additional aim was voted to—‘Mumyv m“ “‘9 “mm” 0‘ "‘9 “me” wa (he Kings County Meemorinll Hospital The club had already donated 535 on.

rds the now oxygen tent ior

A penny auction was conduct» by Mrs wiltred Burke and S. MarKinnon. the Reiresh»

itlce in charge and s oclal

. hour coloycd.

EBENEZER W!

Mrs. Curtis Ford was hostcsc Francis Murray, and Mrs. Dau- in September in the Ebenezeriglns Cole entertained with WI

The mccting opened with the Mary Stewart Collect which 12 members and two vis». itors nnswcred Correspondcnce was read and‘ with in members and two v discussed. and various enmmlt» nra reading a verse cl scriptur . lees gave their ' Norman Macnae

the roll call.

reportJ.

ute were Home Nursing course ht wheat-1

in Nut Hal. hula-iii. It I anal. Monday aveninx. Slpiem

r find. The aurpriu pack-Kc

was won by Mrs.

Dover.

The October meeting will bc held at the home or Mrs. Doug~

Donald with Mrs

ins MIC {red and Mia.

Stand

2 Church women's respbn and Mrs. Donald James {or the MacDonald on lhe lunch com»

mlliee.

Lord‘ I Prayer" altar

NEW LONDON WI

Activities at New London w1 club mcmbcrs oi the aner.durint1 the menu: a! September lacr

included catering to a sup

The group was pleased to rc- .sldcd anti tho sccrctary. Mrs. ceivs a gilt oi two dozen iutuc BPrt lianclclti, road the mlnut— Slam: tar Ihe hail kitchen immlblesi . and Mn. Walter Mclhnts

Mr.

Cheater

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be meeting closed with the . which Membcrs prcscntcd a gut to lunch w-s nerved by the has-‘ an in-iMrs T E. Ladar who is leaving‘ tea and committee in charge. ‘

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1 Challenge Of Work Keeps Minds And Bodies Aciive

Now with ihe stars smiling down and the Lady Moon lollow- l

Douglas

loud to mount high. there's much inbosaidin us tavnr "he mg an old iraii. high above the ‘ nticrcd “And ihPre's another mill In the valley what do welthtnp. :ilrn" he added. "when recall oi this day. lirrcs are being planted in the WP think most oi all. how on. vsrris .ind about. rare should be cecdingy good it was ior us to tabs-b to set: that ihr‘y won't pa. hsvc Ihbse In our would about, come a nu.sancc, and a hazard obie. blessed to body and spoil. to ihc inrming, in re ars to in go happily in the duties that com ‘* were theirs. .A work lU‘dO. and I'm considering ittc amazing the heart to undertake llisomr m...“ m o... farming. a... 1,. mines! to keep mind and holiv o... .2... “an... mm... M... active. when Ioiks has}: this. mm... W...” u. pruphcsywha, than indeed are they altugcther m I... My 0, math...“ and ma. chincrv. In mclhods oi larming.

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Mrs. a n nnuncedl Wi’.) bunsiord presenting a nor-i Pruvencher presided a n d tn that she will be conducting a'tiun of scripture. ACIS l7.22-23.l treasurer reported a box of used

Eden's garden may have boon Th! "an!" meetlnil was held.delightiul. was aurcly vcry Iove~

Kay. The president. Mrs manlirylnga day would bccomc. .l lei Morrison opened the meetingmno were not aiinwcd to assume with “0 Canada". at least some or the rarcs. the

A total ot lcl members re. challenge oia necessary wnrk m

.m m" _ gammy .0 mm“... sponded in roll call with "A‘Ilil its hours! h .

We think too. oi the sunshine oding in today. in a harvrsl. tary. Mra. wiibu..giit to the lleitis And the joy or who reaped and the previous meeting and the radial-ed home the gram At ‘correspundencc. A donation was Alderlea. as the women cooked. votcd ior the Kensinglon Hand... and tidied their rooms. and look- .ornlt ' nisr. ed as best they knew to are we it was decided n. hm . Hm... oi their households. they were Nursing course later in the s... aware oi the continuing bolti- son. work Machincs were busy c ‘ mg 0...," Bernard "Wed combine And ihc paler. bales .ihe members to her home ior‘WM “"9” 3"“ 5°21“ ""“V the octobsr meeting when roii 0" “‘9 “5;” “'i‘t'g‘l' i?"°“"‘- call wni be answered with a do Th” ,5” 3 .5“ 9. PM?” mm... of .M q“... Mum watching a bit anxiously later.

v . - .. . lobe sureihe load would pass “imam. “""mdeddh‘ saier beneath bough or wirc. on c ' "CF" y ' “' IIS way along the yards to the

The more

am . 5 James brcathcd a sigh ni ro. liei when a load was drawn up

game. . DESAELE new at the pole—barn.

‘ The Desable ucw held their. “on.” m. armpicpy 9...... to September mew“: II “1! home the farms. iolks didn't give loi Mrs John

W» Mlcnnnqall. much thought to having the lead. is. -

in. wires put underground But

.The meeting opened with Mrs.

The president. Mrs. Homer‘ciolhing sent to Toronto

now that machines and loads

in hit» and hung. does lie ahead We rct-all of today that it our

groin arc “only lair". that Scampin. th grrai shaggy-coal. ed clog had his discs in Lhe pic- turc or thr hni'vCSling. hailing as hr dill hltlticly the approach oi this or that litllc truck in the lane. hrlnzinz In the increase to tho granarios. this periecl har- \(‘si dav

“it's odd to think that a child thc age oi Peter will perhapl lnever romembcr having seen a binder at work on this tarm“ .iamcs commonts now in a \‘lxir tor -\nd i. in my day, have soon iiiP old rcaper harvestingl Sccn iirst hinders come—and .how morvclious those were in jthcir limeirseen too the im- lpriiVE‘d machines up to now " . Sunshine and harvesting. there ‘oss loda) at those rams. with the tamin and the Scampiednl lending. oath in his or her own ‘wcy. a bond to the wnrk. l Until tomorrow—Diary—Good- nllllt

., W : IT. BENNETT CARR

. insurancs Counselling g min. Supt. Sun Lite oi Canada Phone tom . 4.543: g Charlottetown. P.E.l. ‘

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urged to bring blocks of dark material to next month's meet- ing. These are i» made into. a quilt tor the use.

Thelma Sentner and Ella Moore arc to ilnd out it the. i-iandimit Van can come pol Bronkfieid:

At the meeting held at Missl Grace Woods. 5 members and 2 Visitors w e r e in a t t e n dance.l Correspondence was dealt witnl various commltlns presented their reports. and the birthday

ox was circnia .

Next month's roll can win he ‘ answsred with an artlcis ior an auction sale.

Following the Lord's Prayer. 1 a contest w a s conducted y , Grace Wood. l

neirsshmenis were lervad by‘ the hostess, assisted by Bernice

and Shirley Wood.

CORNWALL ucw Tho united Church women at Cornwall met at the home oi Mrs. Watson Livingstone. stotlons, in charge oi Mrs. Walter noyie. opened with a hymn. followed by the medita- tion, One Day at a imc. Prayer and ihc hymn. Now the Day is Over. closed the wor. ship 5 e r v i c c Mrs. George Quaimiilan presented the study

oc . The roll call was answered by i5 mcmbcrs and ma visitors. The landscaping ot the Church wu reported upon. and plans .‘were made in park a box a! l clothing, An altering was received and lunch was scrved by the hosiels. assisted 11/ a committee.

anPAUn wt Mrs. Frank Myers presided at the September scsslbn oi Crapaud's Wl. when riftl call was answcrcd by 20 members. During the business portion. members votcd to purchase a gilt coupon to help the Wamen'l Institnle oi Norlhern Canada. A sister lnsltiuts in Victoria are to ba lnrlicd to the next meeting. Two new committee: were appointed. Mrs Hubert Harvey

daughter"! wedding a tunnel" hmadr lheaih with mltchlnl Jacket, While accessories and I coranae oi pink Carnations. Mn. Silllker. mother of the

. t: bride. who Ian. "I Luv: You Tru y belorn the Ceremnny. and "0 Perfect Love" durinI the signing n! the register.

The bride. given in marriage by hcr iaiher. was lover in her finur iennlh wedding gown a! white nrlzimu over taiieh lea- turing I noon neckline trim— med with lace applique! and ll!‘ qulns. titted bodice and long 1y point sleeves The flowinfl aid“ “4 insert: and was accented by I {lilond W. and crushed ml. in back. Her shoulder lenflh veil of wlon tulle Iell (mm a Cori-III“ of flowerettoa and peli’ll. 5M carried an arm bouquet of dew pink and while CIrnlIiDnl.

Mia! Georlil Om“. maid oi honor. Wore I met length gown oi turquoise nylon over Mfletl styled with (mad bodice. scoop built!» and ball skirt. Her helddl'w V I a role can tax-ed whimly In matching lhadl and Tile carried an Inn qust oi yellow and visits carnation.

The little iii-um atria. Kama Champion, niece oi the groom. and Nancy Mlyhl'. nice: at tho bride. 1van W m d pale yellow drum over talus t. with maternal mm. and carried ballet- of duet Inn.

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I ' . home of their natal-uni more. ' Eli-gimp». was tita occauo. sow-rd son an... no. a”. 4925 of the ntnrn of Mr. and Ila. iotmwn. 3mg”- . mend Wm'l doubler .isu. T'- hw it: is: nflvlw . lfl'lfl. III M. m BUDGET-Ilium

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finned" ' brimmsd elocbs in towclbrlght

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bride groom. was attired in blu- printed aiili with matching |c~ ceasorles. and wore a con-u oi pink and white carnailooa.