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Slovenly Housekeeper Children Often Blamed For
Mother's innate Laziness
DEAR MISS DIX: I have been married for three years and have a sweet baby girl. Even before the baby came my wife and I quarrcled over her slovenly housekeeping and untidiness. Still. then she would make an effort to clean up for a while. but now she just lets everything go and uses the baby for an alibi. I am able to afford one servant for
her. What can I do? ' . SALESMAN
ANSWER: If a woman is just naturally trifling and lazy and siovenly. she is incurable. She will always love her ease better than anything else on earth and no consideration of her family's comfort will galvanize her into action. The only thing that a man cursed with that kind of wife can do is to make enough money to hire a good maid who will make him a comfortable home
in which to live.
There are some faults in a wife that a husband can correct ff be goes about it with tact and firmness, but he wastes his time trying to reform a lazy one. There is nothing in her to which he can appeal. She has no sense of duty. or else she would realize that she isn‘t playing fair in not being a good housekeeper. She has no sense of pride, or else she would be ashamed to go sloppy and untidily dressed and to keep a house that looks like a plgsty. Hence the man with such a wife must either get rid of her or make up his mind to endure hcr as she is. He can never change hcr.
As for your wife making an alibi of the baby, that's a common fem- inine practice. Thousands of women use their children as a standing excuse for everything they do and leave undone.
Plenty of women simply slump after the first baby is born. let themselves go untidy. They don't even comb their hair or put on a decent dress for dinner. They never read any more. Ihcy give up their music or their painting or whatever accomplishments they had. They drop out of their old clubs and associations and gct dull and unattractive and lose all their old graces and charms.
And the excuse they offer for it is the baby. They make a smoke screen of the poor little mite in the cradle, behind which they hide their indolence and general lack of pep and ambition . Also this supermother devotion saves their faces because it sounds grand and noble fbr them to be devoting themselves to their children.
But in reality, it is only a subterfuge. It is a lazy woman hiding behind the baby's pinafore, because any woman who wants to finds time to take care of her children and do everything else she desiresto do. As is witnessed by the myriads of women who are model mothers and house- wives and yet frequent beauty shops and belong to clubs and play golf
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\nd help run the communities in which they live. But al a standing excuse there is nothing equal to a baby.
DEAR MISS DIX: What do you think about the married woman
DOROTHY DIX
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OLEANING GARMENT!
_ dten a ring will be left when Izleaning a spot on a. garment. If ithis la the case, try steaming the
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ettle. ‘this will frequently re- move thering.
RUST
To remove rust on painted nir- aces. use sandpaper. Do not try o cover the spots with paint, ls
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I eat NABISCO SHIZEWEU WHEAT
Washingdishes, making beds and all the other house- hold jobs take lots and lots of energy! So I ear nourishing NABISCO Shredded Wheat every morn- ing. It's pure 100% whole wheat. (kmtninl vital food elements we need. Try delicious NABlSCO Shredded Wheat yourself - you'll love every
Modern _' Etiquette
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Q. When signing her name to a business letter. must an unm - rled woman use "Miss", al “ ss Hilda J. Smith"?
A. Yes, but the "Miss" should be enclosed by parentheses, as (Miss) Hilda J. Smith.
Q. If a double-ring marriage ser- vice is used, does the bridegroom buy both rings?
A. No; the bride should buy the ring for the bridgegroom.
Q. Is it. considered good form’ for a guest to open conversation with another guest, when there has been no formal introduction?
A Yes, this is perfectly all right.
To cool their hands on lummer days, American ladies of long ago used to hold a smooth handmade glass ball.
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l A Country Garden i
By Mrs. Gordon Macmillan
Lavender and Roses perfume the garden. It is true that my Lavender is just a small bush that I have had for several years and nothing like the large mounds which grow in England and other places, but when I gave a small sprig of it to a lady from Paisley, Scotland, who visite my garden last week, she was de- lighted to have something which reminded her of home.
It is blooming now and this is the time to cut it for Pot-Pourri, the fragrant bowl of roses and scented leaves which is kept in the home as a reminder of happy sum- mer days.
Mock orange Philadelphus some- times called Syringa, but this is in- correct, is also adding its fragrance to the garden, The old single va- riety which I have, grows to a
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Mr. and Mrs. John David Honsberger photographed at their garden reception held at the bride's parents’ summer home, Inkerman, after their wedding at the Kirk of St. James on July 5. The bride, Miss Helen Lawson, is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. J. A. Lawson, Charlottetown. Miss Alfreda Pickard was bridesmaid and Mr. Hugh Honsberger was his brother's groomsman. -Ga.rnhum Photo.
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Q- I-low can I relieve sunburn?
A. One of the very best reme- dies is to mix two parts of lime- Water to one part of linseed otl, beat. it to the consistency of cream, and apply. Vaseline jelly or olive oil are also often effective.
Q~ How can I avoid the strong, unpleasant taste when preparing turnips?
A. Peel the turnips, then cut Just as if there were a. core in
height of fifteen or twenty feet. It is very hardy in this climate, rind any part of the old tree. Annuals is comforting to know that will be colorful until frost. So many perennials bloom for a short season and then need trimming that it keeps the gardener very busy cutting seed pods and old spent branches. O I
You may save your own seed of many things and sow immediately. They will amaze you in their speed in ‘coming through the ground and you will have many plants to re- plenish your borders at little cost. They will not be true to type but may be very nice indeed.
Anthemls is making a bright golden corner in the garden. It is a daisy-like flower with strong stems suitable for cutting and long last- ing. This perennial is easily grown from seed, and the fragrant leafed Fluerfew Matricari is also a gcpd cut flower and easily grown. I Am particularly fond of fragrant leafed plants and this is‘ one of the best.
Many of the plants I have men- tloned the last few weeks are still blooming. but the Delphinium and Sweet William are making the hest display and they were grown from seed. A ardener takes particular pride in plant grown from seed and this week I have sown more seed of several perennials for next year,
The tying up and staking of tall growing plants is not easy and I avoid it whenever possible as I think it detracts from the beauty of the garden, but sometimes one rnust do it and I find that grcen painted stakes or heavy wire with green twine the belt to use. Tie around stake firmly then gather loosely and use more than one stake if necessary.
A few years ago a kind garden friend sent me a sift of a largo ball of dark green dyed tying ma- terial with a typed garden verse every few yards. It was such a nice gift. I would be hurrying and worrying with some plant and then I had this message from her, telling me of the delights of a garden and my attitude toward my task would he changed and I became much happier in her; thought of me.
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A garden il much more than weeding and growing of plants. There is the friendship among those who love to garden. The president of a gardln club from Ohio told rne of her activities last week, and laid at this time of year
' their gardens were very dry and
burned up. She thought we were very lucky on the Island to have luch a climate. I am trying to photograph the garden in the dif- ferent seasons and when certain Rroups of plants are at their best. I find this takes time and I do not seem to have much of this but I
graphs especially in color. Black and white nlcturel of a garden can be disappointing.
Fragrant Sweet Peas are in bloom and I arn especially fond of them. Also the budding Dahlias in a single dark red. I shall tell vou more of them next week.
Left-over baked potatoes can be
easily rooted from roots taken from in a faded garment?
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the centre. Discard this part, and there will be no strong taste. Q- How can I revive the colors
A. Use a little vinegar in the
are now showing good bloom and it rinse water after laundering and they it will help revive the colors.
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The Stars Say--
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For Thursday, July 21
The sidereai operations seem to hold up the onward course of ad- vsnced objectives, being indicative of oongestions, stagnation or some form of impediment. postponement, or other fnlstrating state of af- fairs. It may be a pause for study of far-reaching or basic prospects of matters in hand. This may concern tangible or property rights, or fundamental issues of long-term scope and significance. ‘There may be interference from elders or old institutions. Extravagance o r forced issues may impede, but dili- gcncc, sound tactics and prudent efforts might batter down all op- position or static conditions.
Those whose birthday it is, may be confronted by a blocking or stagnation of cherished plans, hopes and aspirations. Some de- lay or postponing influence may
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For today’: article I have chosen "w 11mm Rhymm Boys in that two of their memberl play musical instruments made by their own hands. liamely: Roland Hyde of Comwali and George Ohappeil of Charlottetown. Mr. Ohlppellu violin is a beautifully wrought ~work thlt must have received a llot of skill in the mlklng piul al- -most unlimited patience, Fashion- ;ed after the flmoul Stradivarius Jtl scroll. peg box, pets. nut. jftngerboard, neck plate, sound ‘Mien. bruise. tlllpim and button.
made fresh u new-baked if insvlell nvlnt to Mlfllmlmhlv of a are dipped in hot water for a few i V"? m!" 0P4". "5131 h“?! 1m-
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Better English
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i. What is wrong with this sen- tence? "She is going to go to col- lege."
2. What is the correct pronun- elation of "joist"?
3. which one of these words is misspelled? Supie superior, super- sede.
4. What does the torted" mean?
5. What is a word beginnin! with fu that means "stealthy; sly"?
word “dls-
ANSWERS
i. Say, “She ls going to college." 2. Pronounce as spelled, joist, not jois. 3. Supple. 4. Twisted out of regular shape. "He has a distort- ed view of life." 5. Furtive.
l prove disheartening, caused prob- ably by lack of funds, credit or the promised aid of those in posi- tion. These might be affected by show of extravagance or over en- thusiasm, when carefully studied ideas, attention to detail and prac- tical plans might regain their in- terest. ‘Tread cautiously in all ef- forts, with s. vision of enduring values and future security.
A child born on this day may be easily disheartened. with its ef- forts discouraged by indifferent in- terest ofvitaiity, its ambitions thwarted by frustrations, hind- rances or handicaps.
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Arrange six or seven large, ripe. clean, strawberries that have been rolled in powdered sugar in small. crisp lettuce cups. Sprinkle light-
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Mr. Roland Hyde's ball or bull fiddle. came into thl rhythm pic» lure fhil year. The work was be- gun in February and finllhed last April. That it is an exceptionally fine immanent may bl gleaned from the fact that it carries insur- ance to the value of $300. The top of Hyde's instrument is made of seasoned lpruce; and it took 87 worth of Vlfllilh to givl it the high polish that it now clrriel. The sides and back are made of ply-wood, wbill the scroll, neck- pilcl. finger-faced and tail-place. are wrought from nltivl maple. the machine hooks used for tight- ening the siringl are. of course. from common mltol. M
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A robin in an apple tree beneath our window singing “of what the world w.ll be when. the years have died away" brought us back to ours this morning and thinking for the moment that it was our lad-of- a-fellow in the birch in the yard at Alderlea who had ivinkcd at us non- chalantly and yet had been we felt a bit apprehensive over his court- ing, we put out a hand expecting to find James clasp it. Now where hadl he gone? Had he already riuen quietly to slip away in the quiet_ and early dew to a field to satisfy’ himself that "those turnips are do- ing well" or to be sure “that heifer's thriving" or just to leisure- ly admire some field or another of his sowing.
Ah me, as we leached towards‘ wakefullness we recalled that James was far and ever away from us now. and with an unsettled feeling which] could become most disquieting, we. remembered that likely they were into the haying. But the robin's song was reassuring. The very calmness and serenity of its presen- tation advised folks on holiday to enjoy their days to the full, to try if possible to gain from them the strength of body. peace of mind and inspiration of soul that would be their stay. should the future pre- sent them with harassing cares. And so another :lay has been ours to enjoy, one as delightful as ever July can offer which brought varied duties, which in reality were mere-
ly entertaining, and outings to hand.
O O I We must “run" errands to the
sisters’ and brothers-in-lawfls stores nearby when the nccd for sugar or such-like arose; we must gather and can some cultivated strawber- ries and this evening with great grand-mother to Jamie and our
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ly with chopped nuts. Place on individual salad plates and serve with a fruit dressing. A smooth and light dressing can be made by similly l-hickeninfl a mixture of fruit juices and then making i; light and fluffy by folding in
Whipped cream.
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The accompanying photograph lhowl the five piece orchestra in action at Bunnyside Dance Jllil where they do their stuff three nights a week. The ‘Eastern Rhythm Boys also play one nightlt Winsioe. and one over at East Royalty. at the Hockey Club Dlncc Hall. All experienced musicians, the group have been playing to- gether ls an orchestra for the past year and their popularity il
acclaimed by all who "trip the light fantastic toe."
Reading the photograph from left to right the players are:
Owen Keenan, George Chlppell, Pius Bilckltt, Harold Gltel and Inland Hyde. _ , __ I
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YOUTH - . ____ When the doubters sneer, _ Heed not the jibes you hear. Scoffcrl will fawn on you lf but your dream comes true. I
Deaf to what old men speak, Dare for the goal you seek. Always for newer truth Progress depends on Yfiuth.
Age il a stubborn thing, Bound to the past to cling. Ono young and fearless mind The better way must find.
Scoffers have always lneered. Doubters have failure feared. Into the vast unknown Youth must set out alone.
l -—Edgar A. Guest.
I GLOVES PROTECT HANDS AT WORK
While women appreciate sthe, "looks“ value and protective value of gloves worn outdoors, they too often pass over the idea of gloves indoors. This is the opinion ex- pressed by the Canadian Glove‘ Manufacturers’ Association. l
"Gloves in the kitchen mean pro- tection against the roughness that comes from constant cleaning. washing dishes, peeling vegetables," the Association said. “Just reaching . for the hand lotion when the hands become red and rough is not enough. Rubber and plastic gloves prevent the hands from ever get-| ting into this condition. They are comfortable to wear. And for pro- tection against burns oven mitts are the answer." '
The Association admitted that' while work gloves were not glamor- ous, they were not expensive eith- er. and it advocated loose cotton gloves as an essential part of a. wo- man's indoors wardrobe.
For summer wear outdoors. the Association advised fresh white| gloves to ,lement summer :ot-| tons.
And for the young woman addict- ed to active sports, it suggested tennis gloves with leather palms and string backs and golf gloves that are really half a glove leaving most of the fingers free.
And if when bedtime corner, the, need for gloves seems to have dis- appeared, the Association had an answer even for this one-wear cot- i ton gloves to protect your sheets after the hands have been creamed.
CLEANING HINT
A little vinegar or ammonia on a damp cloth is better than 598D for cleaning mirrors.
The care given fruits and vege- tables in storage may be the de- ciding factor ns to whether they retain their full food value or not. Fresh fruits and vegetables must be stored in a cool, dark place as bruises, warmth and light are harmful to them. They should be kept in storage until needed, with
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A wealthy ‘wDetroiter, returning from his grand tour abroad, was asked by an artistic friend whether he had managed to pick up l. Vln Gogh or Picasso abroad.
"Now, said the traveler. "They're all left-hand drive, and I got three convertibles anyway."
Policeman — You saw this lady driving toward you. Why didnt you give her half the road?
Unhappy Driver-I was going to. Just as soon as I could find out which hair she wanted.
T!!! “MILES! CAUSAL
Smartest of the new shirtwaist jwlesmwith neat rever necklfnl and natty pockets. plus the cool comfort of cap sleeves. Elly to make with saddle stitching accent!
No. 2975 is cut in sizes l2, i4, 10, 18, 20, 36. 8B. 40. 44. 46 and 48. Size l8, 4 5-8 yds. 86-in.
Send 25c for each Pattern which includes compute sewing guide. Print your Name. Address and Style Number plainly. Bl fire to stlto size you want. Include postal unit. or sonl number in your address.
Address Plttpm Department The Charlottetown Guardian. Pattern No. 37M
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Heat. lemons well beforl using and there will bl twice the quan- tity of juice. When a recipe Cllll for melted butter, alvvnyl meal- ura the butter after it. _hll been melted. not before. To prlvlnt cakll from sticking to pans. sprinkle the tlnl with equal artl of flour and fine luglr. hln taking l cake from the oven place it for a few minutes on a cloth wrunrout in cold water lnd it will be turned out easily without stick-
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cutting or shredding loft to the‘ last polllble moment. -
Cooked beets, either sliced or cut" in strips, may be dr d with V; sauce of sour cream flavored with a little sugar and prepared mustard, and seasoned with salt and freshly ground pepper.
Fried fillets of flounder may be served with a sauce made by com,‘ blning a quarter cup of mayonnaise‘. or creamy-type salad dressing, r quarter cup of sour cream and twi ‘
‘tablespons of bottled brown meat
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Foot health specialists against using old razor blade; scissors or needles in removin - corns. They said unsanitary ol - cutting tools could cause blood poisoning. . _.
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lf your eyeglasses have heavy; frames. do not wear a hat loaded. with flowers, feathers and yards of, veiling swathed around your face. '
Do not use too much mascara when wearing glasses. It will be magnified through the glasses.
On her wedding day a bride may’ wear a soft subtle shade of nalh polish -but she should never wear earrings. l"
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THE SILENT GALLSTONI
Many of us may think that it any one has gall stones thesl stones should be removed to avoid the pain of gall stone colic. Whel gallstone gets into the small tube carrying bile from the liver it- lelf or from gallbladder, is very severe. The pain is unbearablr and morphine may be necessary to relieve pain. ‘
What most of us do not know is that after the age of forty, it is believed that more people have gallstones than those without them, yet only about one in 20 are afflicted with symptoms. Be- fore women stopped wearing tight corsets. women with gallstonel outnumbered the men with gall- stones by 4 to 1. Since the wear- ing of loose girdles the ratio il less than 2 to 1.
While only about one case in 2t with gallstones has symptoms that is from painful colic, gallstone! though not causing colic ma! cause other symptoms.
In “Annals of Surgery," Drs. M W. Comfort, H. K. Gray, and J‘ M. Wilson. Mayo Clinic. report their follow-up of 112 cases "silent gallstones." for other con- ditions — cancer. ulcer and oth- ers. In 61 of the I12 cases n1 gallstone symptoms developed. In the 5i cases in which -symptomi occurred, 80 patients complained
of dyspepsia, and 2i had painful seizures, five of whom had jlunr dice. Until recently the usual method of treating gallstones was not ta interfere with them unless thr patient was having attacks of gall- stone colic. Rather than lubleci ‘he patient to fear of another at- tack, the gallbladder was removed by surgery. These surgeons of thl Mayo Clinic state that whil! operation for removal of the gall- hladde may be advised it is not imperative if the patient prefers to accept the chance of having
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