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A NEW YEAR'S letter has ar- rived from our friend in Scotland. Mr. Ian A. G. Easton. the nuns minister from Dumbarton whose hobby is cookinK-

"Perhaps your widespread Ameri- can audience would care to sample some more authentic recipes of my native country." he writes. a

"in Scotland. no New Year is considered complete without the ancient custom of 'flrst footing: which is to say. visiunz your mish- bors with a gift as soon as the the first hour of the New Year peals at midnight.

"First of all. comes shortbread.

"The recipe is at least 160 years

d.

soottish shortbread: Place 1 lb. butter and 1 cup granulated sugar in 5 mixing bowl. Cream together until thoroughly blended with a large slotted wooden spoon. or by hand in the Scotch manner. .

Sift together it tsp. salt, 3 cups already-sifted enriched flour and 1 cup rice flour. or use 4 cups en- riched flour. Gradually add to the creamed mixture, blending until the dough is smooth.

shape into four round cakes a scant inch thick. Place on oiled pans. Crimp around the edges with the thumb- d forefinger to make a fancy edge. Trim with-thin slices of candied orange peel inserted on

top. ..

Bake about 30 minutes in a mod- erate oven, 350 degrees F.. or until a light brown color. If desired, make into individual cakes ass" in dia- meter.

MARY ldAWOBTll'8 MAIL

Husband Can't Forget Wife's Fliriation '

DEAR MARY HAWORTH: some time ago my wife had a. six-month romance with one of our mutual friends-not an affair in the adult- erous sense. but she believed that she was in love with him. alt all came out in one of those "tele- phone calls from a frien " that I received.

Anyway. we ironed it out, and actually have had a better mar- ried life since-except for one thing. I can't help feeling depres- sed when this other couple is in a social gathering, with us, My work is professional. and my wife and I are required to go out socially a good deal; and I maintain that if we are to have a harmonious personal life. we ought to steer clear of this couple. V

My wife insists that the mmance is long over; that there was noth- ing to it. so why.should it bother me now? But how can your heart reason this way? I love my wife dearly. and to be reminded of an unpleasant episode in the past seems senseless to me. '

The other, couple is the type that is tolerated but not liked; and my wife wasn't the first off- side interest for the fellow. He was involved with other women several times before. but not in our group. I don't want to be un- ' charitable, but neither do I want to go on getting hurt-and the same

he is around. Please give me your Uninion on how to handle such a matter." T

O. I "GIIVI Digging” A Big Mistake

DEAR G. 3.: As matters stand, you are woodenly refusing to close the book on a painful chapter of experience. that might be absolute- ly and harmoniously outlived (al- ready) if you would completely lot so of it. in the right attitude of mind.

In the words of Emmet Fox. the metaphysical sage, you are "grave digging" in pre-occupying yourself with unhappy defensive thoughts and feelings about "the other fol- low." This is a serious spiritual mistake-notalrnply as an offence

against charity; more deeply. because of the self- damaging potentials implicit in negative thought-feeling about any-

as

disappointment or injustice, either mmgguyly or in 1u,kim mu. 0, her father. wore a gown of white net with lace bodice and Jacket, Her fingertip veil fell from a head- dress of seed pearls, and she car- tied a nose-gay oi red roses and white

its recurrence, is grave digging in this sense: The emotional repercus- sions thus refueled tend to dynami- cally revive and perpetuah (per- haps in more violent form)

an approximate facsimile of same. Hence the profound'wisdom inher- ent in the moral commandment to forgive and forget. True forgive- ness is a personally protective safe- guard. not just a. noble exercise of goodness.

stricting your life in a futile way, solving nothing. to make a point of avoiding this man's path. It were more beneficial to understand your- self-to know why you feel at such a disadvantage, so heartsick, when you happen to reflect on his" over- tures to your wife. Your dismay at sight of him consists of a blend of remorse. anxiety. wounded com- placency and hidden anger. prob- ably-and if you could clear up this may personal complex, the N990 .- about him would vanish into thin air. I think.

you got wind of the flirtation and ironed it out. This suggests that old feelings come over me when' you'd been a. negligent husband be- fore, carelessly taking your wife's devotion for granted: and perhaps this accounts for your .emorse and . anxiety-by-lproducts of a bothered conscience. Also for-your wounded complacency; and for your anger exposing your dangerous selfish- ness to yourself. thus throwing you into I- great fright, from which you haven't recovered yet. I

Through Constructive

"Fax: or "God's Reach" (Manalaster Park) by Glenn Clark.

her column. not by mail or person- al interview. Write her in care of The Guardian.

TOMORROW! SCOTTISH TYPE DINNER

Grapefruit Coffee Tea Milk Loch Lomond stew Creamed Whole Potatoes

Escalloped Tomatoes

Cabbage salad Snow Pudding with l Canned Peaches

Loch Utmond Stew: Cut 115 lbs. thin-sliced beefsteak into 2" squares. Add 1 chopped peeled onion. Brown together in 2 tbs. butter in a heavy stew pan, Add 1 c. beef stock or broth (or use I c. water and 3 beef bouillon-cubes) 'and I diced peeled csrrots,1 c. diced turnip and a "fagot of herbs."

Cover and simmer 295 hrs., or until very tender. -'

Oombine 1 tsp. salt. ii tsp. pep- per, its tsp. rice flour (or corn- starch or potato flour)). 2 tbs. mushroom ketchup (or tomato ketn chup). it tsp. allspice and 1 tsp. curry powder. '

Stir into the stew. Simmer 20 minutes longer. Serve with whole potatoes rolled in thick cream sauce and dusted with minced parsley. Serves 4 to 6. r

FAGOT OF HERBS FROM THE CHEF

Tie together 3 sprigs parsley, 2 sticks celery, 1 leek. is a bazyleef and a sprig of thyme, and cook in a soup, stew or sauce for fine flavor.

but rather; and

hind To dwell on a past injury or

the 'wrong" that sticks in mind,-or

Inner Meaning Of His Misery In my opinion. it would be con-

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It seems significant that. you've . 'had s. better married life" since

directed at the man. for

FOT YCIl8Ul'IXlCOp TCEO "POWGI Thinking"

(Harper 8: Brothers) by Emmet

Mary Haworth counsels through

ANNE ADAMS PATTERNS I

' . JIFFY JUMPEB4 A "must" in every wardrobe -

ronto was groomsman. ushers were Mr. George Faulkner and Mr. Lloyd Faulkner of Kings- to

a rectal thermometer are rounded). won't make him feel better, but it will give you an idea of how ill he is and what is the best thing to do for, him. --

Rev. Charles Gerald Dickieson, the former Miss Florence Faulkner, who were married in St. Luke's Anglican Church. Kingston, Ontario

Takes Bride in

The wedding took place in st.

Luke's Anglican church, Kingston. Ont.. Faulkner,'daughter of Mr. and Mrs, Thomas Faulkner of Kingston, to Rev. Charles Gerald Dickieson, M5. BD, RJCEME, Kin ston, son of Mr. and Mrs. George Glasgow, P. E. X. The ceremony was performed by Rev. R. H. Baamsn.

recently, of Miss Florence

ickieson. of New

The bride, given in marriage by

'mums. Miss Louise Enmsn of Toronto

was the bride's only attendant. She wore a gown of Jade green net over taffeta. with matching heed- dress. and carried a nosegay of yel- low 'mums.

Mr. Arnold DtckFeson of To- and the

n. . The reception was held at the

home of the bride's parents. where 150 guests were received. The bride's

By HERMAN N. nonnssrm. as. 1).

Until Doctor Comes

There are few times when a pair

of proud new parents feel so help- less as when their baby is iii. If there ever has been an infant in you; home you've probably felt this way, too.

Actually, there is a lot you can

do to make a sick ty e feel better before the doctor arrives.

What To Do

Check his temperature first. Use (both ends Now this. in itself.

Normal rectal temperature is 90.6

degrees. If his fever is 103 degrees or so. he will probably" be pretty restless and unable to sleep”

Cool Sponge Bath

You can make him more com-

fortable by givlng him a cool sponge bath. Patting him gently might also help soothe him.

The main thing. of course. is to

keep him quiet so he can fall asleep. You may have to hold him for awhile before he doses off. Maybe a couple of his favorite toys will help calm him. .. .

'Your youngster may vomit, he

may have diarrhoea or he may have both. If he does suffer from both, don't feed him anything.

If he suffers diarrhoea only, you

Rev. Charles G.

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can give him small amounts of bull-

ed or specially prepared commercial nursery or baby water. You'll have to stop even this.-however, if he be- gins to vomit.

You can try the water again if

he does not vomit vfor about two hours. But if this again cause

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M.A., B.D., RCEME. and his bride.

Dickieson Ontario

mother was in a gown of navy crepe with pink accessories and s corsage of pink roses. She was as- sisted by the groom's mother in a gown of black figured bengaline and a corsage of pink roses.

For I. wedding trip to Montreal, the bride wore a Bermuda blue dress with navy accessories. On their return Rev. and Mrs. Dickie- son will reside in Kingston.

out-of-town guests were from New Glasgow, P. E. 1., Lillaloe. Gananoque. Toronto, Windsor and Renfrew.

' Ruhamah Scheinteld

Frank

ON NEW !lAI'I

In a few days on the stroke of midnight, New Year's A ' ions will fly thick and fast. some wii undoubtedly take root, but more will be gone with the wind before the week,is over. Ia breaking or keeping such a. resolution a real test of your seifccntroi-of your strength of character?

Not necessarily so. say the pay- choiogists. It all depends upon the nature of the habit you wish to give up (and wnether you really do wish to part with).

Every habikserves you in some way (of this more later) or it would have died automatically of disuse. The habit may reach far into your past and have become a basic part of your personality, or it may be just another pleas- ant surface device to relieve tens- ion.

For example: should you decide this New Year's Eve to stop being a worrier, you are almost certain- ly doomed to failure. such a. habit has a longrand complicated history and may involve problems you re- fuse to acknowledge as well as those you know about and feel unable to cope with. Or it may

'. be based on nothing in particular.

, Or suppose you really want to

Igivc up your habit of losing your

temper when you are thwarted. Like worrying, this habit too may go back to your ea.rly- childhood and it will need a great deal more than a New Year's resolution to ensure a mature way of handling the frustrations that come to ever -

one. - ' on the other hand, if you de- cide to give up smoking. your chance of success is good. We all have friends who made such a resolution on New Year's Eve and haven't touched tobacco since. They had a strong motive, of course, and loyal supporters who followed their progress with interest. a e s ,

In much lighter vein, perhaps you intend to make a New Year's resolu- tion always to tell the truth! But what abont the effect of absolute truth-telling on other people? That may give you pause.

Must one always tell the truth? Years ago I asked this question of a wise old Hebrew scholar, him- self noted for his strict adherence to the truth. He smiled and told me the following story from the

Talmud (a collection of works con-

KEEPINTRIEI

Why Don't You Stand Up?

By Ida

Teenagers. try this posture he- lcrlptlon on for size , . . you stand up to every inch of your height. you lean against your own backbone instead of your waistband, and you walk with rhythm. Recall the description of the heroine in a story: "The way Katie swung along with that airy lift of her head, you'd swear she heard a band play- ing." Catch that quickening of the spirit . . . and you'll never settle for a dumpy posture!

A school teacher once lamented that out of-a class of 130 girls, less than 30 had good enough pos- ture to model in a school fashion show. Well, where do you stand? In the distinctive 30, with the pos- ture of a princess - or in the run-of-the-mill 100? It's really all up to you!

True, you cannot always Just "will" perfect posture. If your shoulders are stooped and you don't feel like standing up, find out

vomiting, don't give him anything.

but me emphasise right here that diarrhoea in a baby can be very dangerous. It can be fatal. May Have laraohe '

If your baby pulls at his ear, puts his hands at the side of his head or rolls his head from side to side he may have an earaohe. Warmth might relieve the pain.

Usually, a hot water bag wrap- ped in a. towel or some other soft ccloth will help. You can even use your palm. Place it next to the baby's sore ear to keep the ear warm.

All of these things will help keep your ill.baby comfortable until the doctor arrives.

QUESTION AND ANBWIB

Mrs. 11.: What would cause swell- ing of the breasts in a boy twelve and one-half years old? Iait a gland condition?

Answer: swelling of the breasts in a boy is not unusual prior to the -beginning of the maturing period. It is no cause for concern.

Jean Kain

why. It may be deficient muscula- ture caused by lack of exercise. By the way. do you cut gym classes at the slighest excuse, and when you attend. go through the mo- tions with about as much spirit as a wet mop? Try s. fresh ap- proach. Ask your gym teacher to show you exercises to correct your posture faults; and then follow through.

All the thumping on the should- ers and "for-heavens-sakes-straight- en-up" exclamations won't help a whit, You are the only one who can change your posture.

Check on your food habits. Do you sligh-t breakfast. complaining that you "Just can't eat in the morning"? If you wake up tired. go to bed an hour earlier. Then get up fifteen minutes earlier in order to eat a good morning meal. Re- gardless of your weight, you NEED breakfast. You'll do better in school and learn easier. If you are pathetically thin, a good break- fast can help you to feel like a new girl. If you are too chubby. it can keep you from piece-meal- ing later.

All you thin girls have to do is to make up your mind to eat. break- fast and you'll build the appetite. Ask your mother for a hot whole grain creeal, and eat a big bowl of it. Fruit juice, cereal, buttered toast and milk will give you a fine start for the day.

If your weight is on the plump side, have eggs for breakfast, not fried. two pieces of lightly butter- ed toast, fruit Juice and a glass of skim milk, Alternate with cereal instead of eggs, but add whole milk. not cream. Just skip the 400 calorie chocolate bar at recess.

Girls, get a picture in your mind of the way you want to be -- welght at healthy normal. posture on the beam. with a band-playing walk. You can be that girl . . . if you "will" to be. But nothing just happens - you have to- make it happen! '

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We And Our Neighbors

RESOLUTION I

taming the Jewish laws and cere- monies together with the com- mentaries put into writing between the second and sixth centuries).

one of the most beloved-of the Hebrew sages was Rabbi Hillel (born about '15 no.) He was famed forlhis gentleness, loving-kindness and patience. Once an impudent young fellow, named Adam, decid- ed to test these qualities.

Late at night when the light by which the Rabbi studied was no longer burning. Adam shouted under his window, "Rabbi, Rabbit"

"What is it, my son, can I help ' you?" asked, the Rabbi (Rabbi, denotes" teacher-"master") who aroused from sleep, had hur- ried to the window without wait- ing even to draw a shawl about his shoulders against the cold wint- er air.

"1 Just wanted to tell you," cried the brazen one, "that you are get- ting balder every day."

"Thank you, my son," said Rabbi Hillel mildly. "Good-night. Sleep well."

Half an hour later Adam re- peated the performance this time telling the Rabbi that his should- ers were getting more bowed all the time. Again Hillel thanked him and bade him a good night.

When for the third time the young ruffian aroused the Rabbi to inform him of his laughtcr-pro- voking limp, the neighbors who were of course all awake but had kept quiet out of respect for the Rabbi, made ready to catch the rascal and give him the beating he deserved.

But the Rabbi begged them to go back to bed, and spoke to Adam. in a tone as kindly and unruffled as ever, "Let us not disturb these hard-working people any longer. Please come to me in the morning and tell me anything further that is on your mind. Thank you, my young friend. sleep well."

"At this," concluded the old scholar, ”the rough fellow was so abashed that he begged forgive- ness and was ever after a devoted follower of the great and good Hillel.

"And as for your question. (he continued and his eyes twlnkled). 'Muat one always tell the truth?' The truth is sacred indeed. my daughter. "But it isn't written any- where that it is necessary to wake one out of a sound sleep to tell him an unflattering truth!"

Named Canada's Woman Of Year In Field Of Literature and Art

Mazo tie is Roche, who has been writing the Jalna series since the first book won the coveted 810,000 Atlantic Monthly prize, in 1927. has been named Canada's woman of the year in the field of literature and art in a Canadian Press poll of women's editors of newspapers. Latest book by Miss de la Roche is called "Variable, Winds at Joints", and is the 14th in the series. Her writings have brought her world fame and have been translated into 13 languages.-(CP Photo).

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