Page 8 The Guardian

WOMEN

Friday, July 16, 1954.

CHILD TRAINING

(This article in another in I series on child training de

signed to offer Kllillllllfn to pnreimi.

pared by the Department of N

Baby

All publications are pre- ational Health and Welfare).

Talk

PART II

"sf' is often lisped. This happens when the tongue protrudes ilirougn

the teeth or the lip of the ion- que is pressed 2iizfill1SL the upper teeth so that the s" is pinducvd

from the sides of the mouth.

To make a purw '5' a i-Piitral column of air must be hissed through the teeth with the tongue tip being: Just behind the. front teeth. The

IEESIGSII WBY IO obtain '(l Cfll'li5'1'L "S"

is to place a drinking straw in the centre of the lower lip while the sounds on. :9, Si. su and so are re- peated. If the ”s" is bving made correctly, the sound will be magni- fied in the straw.

"Sh" is made somewhat like ".1" except the lips are well rounded and the tongue izp slightly w.th- drawn from Lhr front, of the ninuih The drinking st:-an is nf no use and a mirror is the best aid.

,"Ch" is a combination of "I" and "sh” pronounced together This ex-

Dlains why a young child w:ll of-l

Ien mil a chair a "'.air" or a ”shair". He is using only one part of the smiiid instead of the fun Harp him i-av and then 'sh" and sudden- ly introduce "chm rlioo" and he usually gets the idea.

or hard "C" and hard ”g" (as in "931" and 'Kood"I are made by tho back of the tongue being rais- :-rl in the rowf of Ihn mouth and rrlcasnd suddrnlv. it tho cmid .5 substituting ”t" for "k" and "div fny '3" in his speech, you can help him on the right track by holding the UK) M his tongue down with a Wiooirl ndlr. Then when he tries to say I." it bocnies ”k” and when

59 U195 I0 Say ”d" is becomes hardi

g' because he has to raise me back of his tongue in place of the

Unexaggerated Shoulder Line and J”1”5.k' Is it. u... duty of the W...

i lip of his tongue.

”'rhl position can be iaught by using .i niirixzir, It doesn't matter if he exaggeratts the sticking out of

' his tongue on this sound as long as he flattens the tongue between his ineih.

Lixlening Isn't Enough

He'll likely get the vowel sounds by dll'PCL imitation but make sure he sees the position of his mouth as ihn vowel is made. as well as hear it, S'.llf'E hearing alone is not suffi- cient. to bring about the correct pl'0llllllCliIlOll.

The lniportaiii lhiiig to remembeiomg me may to some of the 1,000,. as you guide youi' child into normalpooo gourmeig Wm, mated the ex. speaking is that just listening ishjbmon dencacgesy

not enough. What he needs, andi What llf"lI benefit by, is the fuller cxpeneiice of speech through the ilirs-n senses of lioaring, seeing and feeling.

When it's Deliberate

Svunetimi-s a Child will cling to baby lalk long after he's learned in spu:-.k cni'i'ei'iI.v. He may feel that utisowiiiips like him tiiat way since it's ”CillP", or he may return to baby talk ii. muse of Jealousy of a young. or brother or sister and he feels that 119'” EM more attention this way. I SIWWIIIII ihe child that will love him with.iiit tricks on his part wili' solve this problem. For the ciiilril who continues baby talk out of iazi-l nc. corrrct him in a friendly mat- eiicouraging mm. in feel he can speak well and re- minding him how mucii easier it will be for other children to un- dfrsland him if he pronounces words right away. (Next weekls article will discuss "Scx" I .

g "Romantique" Neckline by Dior.

Br DOROTHY nor: li.m,w,,,g mmm M

NEW YORK, (API-The dropped-l shoulder silhouette and the "ya.

H , fail she be mves in the costume. consistinszi I'll d”-55 and Jacket. dress and full

in g y -. maniique" neckline form highlights! Amuh Cm” 01 moi will C””Vd”l'

of Christian Dior's New York mi. l('.Cl.if)n for fall, previeui-ed map. for the benefit of l50gvl5iLlng (ash. ion editors representing newspap. ers throughout the United State; and abroad.

DEDRTUIIQ froiii has loiiiicr cits. mm M Wlidllli: the shape into ihc Iarment with stiffened interim- -"F5. Dim" dPDPnds principally on irlipe and cut for his new Slll1i')ll- ette, which is soft, feminine, slim and iinexaggeiatcd.

A climax is found in collars and llPCl(lil'lE5, which are almost al- ways dramatic. Collars are big and bold. either buttoned flat to the yoke or st'ind;nz up and Om

Th? neckline is lea. -l"9d- . ln5.'l.V. on nfiornonn "lid FWIIINK Rowns. the latter

vificn with covrrcrl Sll0lli(iPlS and marks

MANY-siiaiiizn SATINS

Satin is newly import.-inf fnr aft.

"i'il0nn and cvcnzng. and is mm in a series of hrilliaiit shatlzs favorlbes of which are haylpaf zrecn and bulberry Dior also

likes red in every tone. from deli- l:”'F Dink to deep lVlllPv which he .eels is a color vital to the ”i-U. ninritique" look,

C3179 collars. and sailor Collars I” Pl'”11l' lmflillllllblf ivrsioii arc firlilnst a signature of this collec- -:1ann. Pavnd -fabrics are lmnrlsomcr sh” P ci,Wiliii(;i.ii: Iholgamul (mm rifto 1'' I ".5 in swpk smlns

ii in COIllDlllllIl0ll. Satin ascots and blniises are shown with day limo stills, and there are "glace” woolcns for daytime wr-nix

Cmnlietiniz in intercsi at today"; l'"”'UIl 0I fllienings was the coliec. I.nll oi Hallie Ciznc-izip, noted far .2'iY)3llSIlFnlPFl fasliioiis hcllnod by

aterl blouse or weskit. These she Elioiss in a dazzling range of fab. iics and. co.ors ranging from fcritlicr-weiglit. tweeds to sleek broadcloth. from silk - and - wool

inixtiircs to butter-soft flanncisl VAII Iuive the Carnegie touch :31 rrniniiie detail, unexpected jeu.l els, smooth, easy lines. ! YORK ALPHA W. I. i

The Ill(illi.Illy meeting of cm

,Y”l”k Alpha Women's Institute me: Igt I.5lF1'l1OfIle of Mrs. Louis vewey ll ill 6. Meeting opened with 0 Canada followed bv Creed in: unison. Roll call was ianswercd by Rrmixiuics with my first datc.i

IN visitors were present. , qfniltection in the district for the ”i V” -0'1-'iT"U' amounted to 539.25.

lcctioii aiiiountcd to 31,15,

' Miss Frances Vesiiey gave read. ,ll'l)llf! on Old Cliarlotleiown ie flist settlers of Little York, Coiitesls were conducted by Mn L10-Vd Vessev and Mrs. Leigh veg. soy. Lilnch was served 1),. Hwy hnslpss 3551”-Cd by Mrs 'Pcirrl Proud, ' l

I Anne Adams Patterns

Ql'l('a: SEW TWO: l lmsl ”””i ii GM of sewing tn WIND Ill) 2 smart halters that top

all vol I .l -. .

.nM”n',i IlRlk”;l:'h:rl:'lr:'1”l”k5!vF"' it low card, hoping to drive out lion -- for coolness llllzilllr lgI1m'.the king or queen. Actually. this I ” 1"" lost in the tnn, and West returned

,'round the house. Youlll love both istylrs in this value-wise pattern! Patiern 4641: Misses' Sizes 12 14.

The balance of 38.15. owed to Mrs O -g:lsitri.:tiZn for music, was paid bvi 10' .'.K10862 iue. ' A 52 AKQ43

I It decided. that the bill of saw yiovss N QK

-oi cliildreiis treat at school clos-l OKR4 W E QAQJ mg bc paid. It was decided to 4.A7a 73 MVP 3' picnic on the evening of f I S A J5 A”””5" 3 at Stanhope picnicl AAJ9s7

zlniincls. each member to take I 9.182

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Ves:r)' and Mrs. 'l"l.8lib:I1 The bidding?

Ninzilhi Mrs. Flaude Lewis and Mrs. East I Smith Wu-at Nam.

lilo g Wa.ts. Lunch committee 1 0 Pass INT Pass

for mi” meal”! 1-5 Mrs. Louis Ves- 2 9 2 A Pas; Pu; -WY and Mrs. Dolph Murray. Col. Pug

Says Canadian Cooking Ranks With European

MONTREAL. (CP)-'!Nivo of M - treal'a top chef: arrived ho e Wednesday from the international ,i-ulinary art exhibition at Berne, Switzerland, with ll gold medal: and the belief that Canadians eat as well as anybody.

Pierre Demera, chef at the Mon- treal Ritz-Carlton Hotel, uicl cana- dlan cooking now ranks with the best. that Europe's great master: can provide.

'We've nothing more to learn from them about cooking and pre- paring dishes." he said in an inter- view.

Mr. Demers was accompanied by Hector Lahaie, second member of the team which took second place in regional competitions at the ex- hibition. Max Rupp, founder of the Quebec Chefs and Pastryimkerl lAS.!0(llBIl0n and third member of the kitchen team, is due in Canada later this week.

Moose Won The Day

Lahaie put the team's success down to one item.

"Our moose really day for us," he said.

The team served up 150 pounds

carried the

l'Everybody wanted to taste it and within a few hours there wasn't 3. steak left," he said.

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Morning Smile I

A fat lady stepped on the scales, not knoiviiig they were out of order. The indicator stopped at 75 pounds.

"Holy smoke”! exclaimed a drunk who watched her, "She's hollow!"

Modern Etiquette

By Roberta Lea

Q if a man is taking post- graduate work for the P11112056 OI adding several college degrees, would it be proper for him to mail an- nouncements to his friends after each dcgree received?

A He could hardly in good taste mail out a series of such announce- ments. It would be much better for him to send out one card at the end. announcing his completed

act to buy the dresses and acces- sories for her bridesmaids?

A. No. It is her duty to select the designs and material, but the brides- maids must pay for their own out- fits.

Q. Is it all right to eat an open- face sandwich with the fingers?

A. When a sandwich is served in "open-laoe" style, it should be eaten with the knife and fork ;

Contract Bridge By Josephine Culberuon

A BAD PERFORMANCE ALL AROUND

South's rash bid in the follow- ing hand was certainly made no better by his play of the contract.

Rubber bridge. East riealcr. z Both sides vulnerabl:.

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...,&.-vwmy mm.

for fall wear. either side for further interest. are continued on the slim skirt to der silhoiietle.---(CF Photo).

That Body of Yours By James W. Barton. M. D. oaoup PSYCHOTHERAPY

I have spoken several times about the gmup method of treating men- tal and emotional disorders. Al-I though the group method is a coin-I paratively recent development. .ls. compared with the individual meth- od which entails private consulta- tions between patient and psychia- trist, it has made great strides for- ward. A survey has now been made, of 500 papers written on the sub- ject and makes it. possible to sum- marize some of the main ideas of this method.

First, it is being used for all pur- poses, from the management or physical disease to the improvemrn. of family relations. It is being used everywhere-in mental hospitals. prisons, out-patient clinics, child guidance, military retaining, in general hospitals and in privatr practice.

East. might have doubled the re-i

Ml” marknble two-spade bzd except forJquiremeiits for any group method

his feeling that the opponeni.s' would be able to get into a better contract. As it happened, he was; coi'i'ecb in this thought - a three?

heart. contract by North would have! ""00 15 OM WOTIKET I0 3 Diiilcill-V

fared much better. 1

West opened the diamond king and, on sight of dummy, shifted to a low club. South should have put up dummy'is king, but (like so many players: who mishandle this particular situation) he play- ed low, and East's jack won. A low spade was now returned and declarer, forced to guess, put. in

I diamond. East collected the ace land queen and led 3 third round. lDeclarer ruffed low and led the

One of the most important rc-

to succeed is that it must be demo- cratic. The size of the group may vary from one psychiatrist in from 5 to 15 patients but the prnferi-ed

How does the group method si'0lYlI to work? . There is A strong helpful ef- fect from public "confession" or disclosure. There seems to be a heal- ing effect in stating forbidden; thoughts and guilty actions. This same effect is obtained in private treatment but is heightened when performed among ii group, pcrliaps for the following reason. I 2. Very often the remarks of onei member will strike a sympathetic cord in other members of the groupl who may have the same. forbidden

thoughts and actions but felt they

This is the new "i-oiscttcri" look in a fitted suit of wool houclcl The soft curve of the open neck collar is tabbed on Seven fabric buttons on the jacket

iself in social situations with other

Iopoi-atlon among all those who have

BANANA CAKE

1 cup White sugar

2 case

Vi cup butter

4 lbs of sour milk .2 bananas (mashed)

1 tsp. soda in 1A. cup cf1i:t water 2 cups flour

2 tspa. baking powder salt

vanilla.

Bake in layer pans.

rm Newton smith New Perth W. I.

DOROTHY DIX

Regrets Heis Not Married I

DEAR MISS DIX: The problem that besets me is-myself! At the age of 38 I am a man moderately endowed with good health, educa- tion, fairly good mind, at least average looks and a pleasant dis- position. I realize that by now I should be married and settled in my own home, but I have never had the easy manner and assur- ance with the opposite sex neces- sary to developing social contacts. when I do meet a single girl of the appropriate age, she either has made up her mind never to marry, or there's some element in her personality that is detrimental to marriage. Also I feel I don't have much to offer since my Job is a mediocre one and may salary small. The situation has preycd on my mind to the point where I've lost whatever little religious faith I possessed. I have many .lnteresLs which should facilitate my con- tacis with other people-such as music art and science-but I just don't know how to use them. Car. you help me? C

ANSWER: Apparently, you spend a good deal of time in self-analy- sis, coming up with negative ans- wers. Your approach to a young lady is iii a brief but thorough sur- vey in which you manage to find any flaw the poor girl possesses, then, I2) a "How do you do?" with the mental resdrvalion, "I know you couldn't possibly like me, so why should I try liking you."

V .- ,. SEEK PROFESSIONAL ADVICE

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5 5-it Since you have tried, and failed,

to overcome your social handicap alone, why not seek professional help? The mental health clinic at- tached to one of the large hospit- als in your city will be able to lgive an objective analysis, and 3consequent. help. You have a strong defeaflst attitude to overcome, a problem that is by no means in- soluble. Follow the advice of your counselor, and I know you will see definite results. I might suggest that it seems rather odd for a college man of 36 to be stuck in a mediocre, low-, paying job. You have intelligence and talents, beside: your physicell endowments of good health and looks. There's no reason why you should be satisfied in a run-of-the mill position. The employment mar- ket for young men is very good and I do urge you to get. out of your present. economic rut. That alone will give you confidence. to say nothing of the possibility of the increased social contacts that often go with a new Job.

Stop regarding yourself as a hopeless misfit. You have very good potentialities and there are hundreds of girls who'd recognize them.

give further emphasis to the slen-

Housciiold Scrapbook By Roberta Let

A Dry Mop

Tomiikc i-1 dry mop lake an old. broom handle and tie pieces of cloth firmly onto one end. Slit the pieces of cloth into inch wide strips, dip in kerosene and let it drip for sev- eral hours, or over night, before us- ing.

Mending

It is quite often that a rent or fair in -I gnrmeiit can be mended much better on the sewing ma- chine than by hand. and the result will be a much neiitr-r repair.

Apple Plea

Whrii baking open-top apple pies” invert another pie pan over the pie and the steam will cook them thoroughly.

were alone in this feeling. Knowing that others feel and think the same way is vastly reassuring.

3. In the group method one member tends to help another. which is totally missing in the private method.

4. In the group method. each member has ll chance to test him-

DEAR MISS DIX: The girl to whom I am now engaged, and whom I have known for a year, tells me she went with every Tom, Dick and Harry that came along, before she met me. Twice she has broken off, bht made the necessary overtures to recoiiciliation. She has been very liiconslderate on many occasions, but I have always overlooked it. Do you think she can ever be true and settle down to making a happy home for one individual?

kindred spirits who will encourage him. Turning the whole group into it healing agent. is one of the most important procedures in the treat- ment.

Finally. it has been found that there is a spirit of increased co-

A. C.

ANSWER: No one can predict the sort of wife any girl would make. Sometimes the most promis- ing prospects turn out to be duds and quite often a young lady. with no apparent qualifications for domestic bliss surprises everyone

boncfitcd from group psychother- npy, both patients and therapists alike Co-operation iii one of the corner-stones of our civilization and an esseiiiial in happy commun-

ity living. 1 A k , g peasaritly by becoming a moat co- kur: 2::l&ied;in'gl:ralfn?r”'AEeg;ln operative wife and a first-class

l-iousekeupzi. It would be best for

Journal of Psychiatry.

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1:, yards 354nm fabric. gm" tlesiclub nine. West, -A player with

510,1; 11,, yards 35.mch. plenty of nerve, again ducked, and TM, mum.” ea" w u”. Simple the ininetwagllallouietd 5: ride. Bguth

m ,7 .' -A J, ' g iopng o rive on c ace. ill, will H mg Pd in m" H” mm ihowever, won with the queen and

Piste iliiisiratod Instructions. send -I-,,my,m,e Cam! (350 in continued diamonds. declarer again

com. (,um cannot be H C M, yruffing. Now the heart finesse was for this pail):-lrn. Print plalr(ilfpSize).'””'d' 3”” W" with W i'I"'k N31-ne'lddx-955' SW18 Numbh. iking and. realizing that he had

send om" go ANNE ADAM5glforced declitrer sufficiently, with cto Th. (;um-man. 50 "am Sm,” diamonds. returned the spade king. west, Toronto, ohm-lo, Declarer won. but that was his lut trick. on another heart lend, But ruffed. picked up doclnrei-'n lone lspade Jack, and led I club to Wat's ace.

By giving South all pocdble op- portunities in go astray - op- purtunities which he graciously no- cepled - the defenders collected no fewer than 10 trlckl. for I III)-

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1T'S "Tourist Time" on Rood did P. E. I. There are many visitors here for the very first time-there are others who have returned for 8 "Deal of a happy holiday-then there. are pailve Islanders who live in other parts of the world and they "9 hark to my a visit. in their homeland . Each and every one ivanis to take away with them 1 SOUVENIR or Keepsake to give to a friend or to keep II a reminder of 1 grand vacation. The if and 10 Department of Holmnnlu in Surn- merslde has a marvolloul collection of just the very things each Torus Isl will want . . . Here in the one Department can he found unulual and useful articles as wnll In unart little trinkets. rioveily china. tooled lutlnir. lurid lettered tree cut: and jewelry; uni-' quely marked for "Trio Inland" . . . You wul have no trouble at All finding jun what you vnlfin the way of interesting articles. Make A very Ipeclnl point of vliililng the 5 and lo hopurfnmir On Holmium

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you to discuss the matter with I third person of some lexperience who knows you both. Your pastor, an older friend of both families or a teacher who has known both of you could fill this role.