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THE CHARLOTTETOWN GUARDIAN

-:- Social and Personal a

‘Dorothy Dix Letter Boa

of Convenience Result in Happiness?— Must Poor Parents Supply Their Children With Luxuries They Demand?

Dear Miss Dix-What is the most important advice a father can give his son on his 21st birthday? R. C. A.

Answer:

There isn't much use in giving aboy advlceon his 21st birthday because by that time his charac- ter has been formed. It is the advice that you give a boy before he is 10 years old that counts. It is while he is clay ln your hands that you can im- press the precepts of right thinking and right liv- ing upon him.

But if I were going to give advice to any boy of 2i I should urge him to so live that he can look himself in the face. It doesn't mutt/er much what other people think of us. It is our own opinion of

.ourselves that counts. The one persons respect we arebound to have

is our own and as long as we do nothing that we are ashamed to remem- ber we are all right.

Then I should try to impress upon him the value of moderation ln all things. I should tell him that all the good things in the world are intended for us to use in small quantities and that only by doing that can we get any pleasure out of them.

To much abstemiousness starves us to death. Too much eating kills us with obesity, Too much work wears us out. Too much play bores us to extinction. Too much loitering on the way and we never reach the goal. No stopping by the wayside and we nevcr pluck the ﬂowers that; bloomed along the way. 1t is only when we cat and play and work and love and dance in the right proportion that wc get the real pleasure out of living.

I should tell him that the only free mun is the one who is master of his fate. It is only the man who can control his appetites and ‘his emo- tion and his temper and his tongue who is the captain oi his soul.

I should advise him to cultivate a pleasing address. Good manners are a letter of credit that is honored at sight the world over. The man who knows what to say‘ and how to say it, who never fails in showing little courtesies, who ls pleasant to get along with, sells himself to all with whom he comes in contact. He makes friends who push his for- tune and he does not need half the ability to get along that the ‘gruff,

mci-"s- family’, the hot ’ x2e has become pop- -(’l\i\.' Canned con- 1 or buuiiloii is uscd-dilutorl I quantity of milk. The

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“George? she hissed, “you are 11kg other men-a mere ﬂy."

“And you," he rctorted, “are like other women—a mere ﬂypaper."

Sauce or Mushroom 11m or (have drops are l :1 generous sprinkling ' .1 the seasonings we 1nd may not be popular arc excellent for use

s the flavour of spice “What d0 W“ mean?" ‘he i111 the flavour of hot milk, smlcked‘ “Oh," he grinned. “Let me ex-

‘lon of the ﬂavours s 1c. sauce and spice n ﬁvciii- that new and

plain. You see, the ﬂy is attracted by the flypaper, hovers around it and iﬂnally settles on it. And there no ‘stops to have his leg pulled for the

s1. r-viti: run cmnsriiss NIGHT ' m“ °f his “m” L. l ’: 1.1.1! relatives drop in on Cheap Enough ' ' ' . to drink to Health ' ' ' "‘ “m, Wm ﬁsh to Father criticized the swamp,

mother disliked the blunder; o‘; the Organist, and the eldest daugh- ter thought {he choli-‘s singing ah romous.

The subject had to be dropped when the small boy of the family, with the schoolboy‘: love of fail 17133‘, chipped in with the remark: "Dad. I think it was a jolly good

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ccnmmsres BIRTHDAY or YOUNG DAUGHTER.

Fqundrnn leader Augustus H. Orlebar, leader o! world-g (“mg "(my

the man with the suave exterior charms at sight.

l idea and that if people marry without love sometimes it comes in ﬁve or

surly, ill-natured man requires. Of course, a. man may have a. rough exterior and a heart of gold and a b rilllant mind, but he repels people and they never take the trouble to ﬁnd out what is inside of him. But

I urge upon my 21-year-old boy to try to ﬁnd out what Nature in- tended him to do and to select some occupation in which he was inter- ested and which he ﬁnds a pleasure in doing. Most of the failures in tho world are the people who get into the wrong jobs. They try to do the things for which theylhave no aptitude and which they loathe to do and so always do badly. The most important decision a. boy ever makes is in selecting his life work, for his happiness and success depends upon his choice. .

I would try to teach my boy patience. I would tell him that there are no quick successes in life and that behind all of the spectacular achievements in which it seems that a man or woman have suddenly leaped into fame and fortune are years and years of hard, grueling labor. Years and. years in which they worked for little pay and in which they seemed to make no advance whatever, but ln which they ‘were learning the craftsmanship and. the skill and getting the knowledge that enabled them to make a. killing in the end.

I would try to teach my boy not to be a. quitter. I would try to stiffen up his backbone so he would have the strength to carry on through discouragements when his soul was weary and hope died within him. 1 would tell him that there are no easy jobs and that there is no proﬁt in changing from one occupation to another, but that the men who just digs in in any business or profession and who sticks to it, year after year, and learns all them is to know about it, in the end always wins out.

Finally, I would urge my boy not to marry too young. I would tell him to wait until he had looked them ovcr, not to tie up with the ﬁrst pretty little ﬂapper who came along. To waltruntil his. own taste and Judgment had matured, and, above all, to wait until he could support n family. For the reason that most marriages like most businesses, g0 bankrupt is because they are not adequately ﬁnanced.

'I‘his is some oi the advice I should give my son when he is 21, but I wouldn't be optimistic enough to expect him to take it. DOROTHY DIX. O O O O O l

Dear Dorothy Dlx—I have just been reading an article by an emin- ent French psychologist in which he ridicules the idea that it is necessary for people to be in love before they marry. He says that it is astupid

more years after marriage and that it is even better thus. I have always believed in love and romance and think it better to feel enthusiastic about the person with whom we tie up for life. what do you think?

MARIA L.

Answer: The French idea of marriage does not". concern itself so much with

Father's Advice to no Sum-Will a Marriage

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CHARMING POSE FOR llon. Mrs. Francis Erskine, wife of Hon. Francis Erskine, A. D. O. to the governor-general of Canada from 1922-25, and her young daughter. Mrs. Erskine is the daughter of J.F. Burstali of Quob€c.—(7vpyrl¢ht Photo by Hay Wrlghtson, London, Eng. .

their marriage settlements. If we think of marriage in the terms Q1 the family only, of course, love and romance are minor considerations,

But in this country we regard marriage from a different standpoint. With us it is the union of two hearts that beat as one and we scarcely give a second thought to the family.

As a. matter of fact, we don't consider the family enough, or else there would not be so many divorces when husbands and wives part just because they have lost their taste for each other. 1

Continental husbands and wives may be able to endure a marriage

but it wouldn't suffice in this country. It wouldn't satisfy ardent Ameri- can hearts that want to thrill and be thrilled at least in the beginning of matrimony.

Personally, I think that love is not only the only thing ‘that justiﬂcs‘ marriage, but the only thing that makes it endurable. ' "

Every marriage is bound to be full‘ of‘ disillusions and hardships qnd sacriﬁces. Every man and woman in the world have their little peculv larltles and whims and faults and foibles and it takes love to throw a golden glory over all this and make marriage a great adventure instead of a life sentence at hard labor in Jail.

As for men and women who marry without love falling in love after they have been married ﬁve years or more, that is a miracle that seldom happens. Married people are for mo re likely to fall out of love than they , are to fall in love, and that is why every couple should start out with a. full head or enthusiasm and romance. It peters out quickly enough, anyway. DOROTHY DIX. I I O I I 8

Dear Miss Dix-We are parents in very moderate circumstances and I want to ask you if you think that our girls should demand silk under- wear and our boys from 16 to 18 years of age demand n. car and money from us to take their girls out. We cannot possibly nllord this, yet our children think we are treating them very badly because we do not give them the things that rich children have. FATHER.

Answerzl

0! course, it is natural that your boys and girls should want every- thing that other peoples’ children have, but you would be very foolish to let them run you in debt for them. Just explain to them that you cannot afford it and tell them that ii they want ﬁne clothes and automobiles they must get out and earn them. The thing that has driven many a man out to fortune is his desire for luxuries. DOROTHY DIX.

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Baby Used to Lie Awake Nearly All Night. Healed by Cuticura.

. "Eczema broke out in a rash on my baby's face, neck and head, and formed wet, sore eruptions behind his ears. It itched awfully, causing him to scratch. He was restless and fretful and used to lie awake nearly all night.

"l tried different remedies but they did not do any good. I began using Cuticura Soap and Ointment and in about a week the eruptions began to heal, and after using two cakes of Cuticura Soap and two boxes of Cuticura Ointment he was completely healed." (Signed) Mrs. N. Brown, Box 74, Elm St., Paris, Ont, Oct. 17, 1930.

the happiness of the individual as the good of the family. and so the _ state of the young peoples‘ hearts is not so important as the amount of

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onc-month-old birthday of Bridget GI], llldl 70in‘ daughter,

..-- Fashions -:- Literature

based on a mutual respect and a suitability of social position and fortune, . j

meisiiroi Sire l6 requires 2% yards of 99-lhch material with l/t yard o!

‘baseman 24.1931 _

Whot the Fashionalblets are Wearing

Illustrated Dressmaking Lesson Furnished With Every Pattern

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By Hnnabelle Worthington

30-inch 35-inch

30 requires 3% yards of material with 56 yard of contrasting.

No. Silo-Empire Mode. This styls is designed in sizes 0, 6, 8. ind ll years. Size B requires} yards of 89- - inch material with $18M of 89- inc hcontrosting. ,

Be suretonllinthesizeof thl pattern. send stamps oreoin (ooin

nlnilvri-Easuy Made Slip. This style is designed in sizes 12, 14, 1s, 1B,~’20\years,'36, 38 and 40 inches bust

35-inch all-over lace and 41/. yards of bindlné.’

Ne.‘ MGM-Youthfully Smart. ‘This. style isndesigned in sizes 14, 16, 18, 20 Wurst-JO, ﬁﬂzand 40 inches bust

measure. Size l6 requires 8% yards preferred.) 1 of 39-inch material with 9s yard of Price of pattern 1s cents. ' IB-inch lace. "- -_ .1. -.,,_,~ . w, ,,,__ " _ g

No. 6B3—1"or Wee Lads. This - - - - _ _ - - - - — — —

style is designed in sizes 4, 6, 8 and 1O years. Size ,6 requires 2 yards of 35-inch material for jacket and yards or 35’1nch IIIIIIIIIIRIIDIIQImuQIIIIIIIQOIUIIII material or blouse. , . , m». 510—All-Day ’I‘ype. This 5mg,‘ ,_ " _. ~ at‘? Aft“?

is designed in sizes 36, 38, 40, 42, 44 .. . 46 and 48 inches bust measure. Size City

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scams dilinm" 5o Although llttlc Beiiy Robinson would make just about l. mouthful

Soap 25c. Ointment 25 Ind 50c. Tllcurn 25c. Sold everywhere. Sample each free. Address Canadian Depot: J. T. Wok Company Umlud. Manual. I

A Thought for Christmas Eve

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for this huge Si. Bernard at the Metropolitan and EIIG! Dog Show, c”. stal Palace, London, she isn't afraid. lie doesn't bite-much.

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