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, ELLEN'S DIARY ' by an Island l‘armer’s Wife ,

' nonorrnv nix Teen - Age Girl Seeks Advice

CHILD TRAINING

(This nrtlcle In another in I series on child training de- signed to offer guidance to parents. All publications are pre- pared by the Department of National Health and Welfare).

And what of this day which

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Temper DIAEIIIBSDII1 ""0 l'°1““'° now closes? when the week e she has known so lo 11 PART “ trouble Iemnl "Wild dm“ ‘ml’ washing far out to,Join those fi safe and sound, for thd1‘j:y.ofkl',:,E ‘Wyn. I'm a fslrly attractive N831‘ of time that are put: the old return. . . C

The early temper spells disap- pear for I per.od of time, but us- usuy reappear in bold fashion sometime during the four and five- year old period. The temper tan- trum: of children. four, five, and six years of age can be most dis- turbing, causing the parent to _wonder if his methods liave been

be liked by his companions. It is possible to love and hate at the same ttme and it is better that your child express his hate. If you curb him sharply on this point he may become sullen.

The Child Who [I Sullcll

If your discipline is too repres-

SARDINE SALAD 3 cups shredded cabbage

Page 8 The Guardian

Woodside-Cousins Wedding

Friday. June 11, 1954

school sophomore. have no difficul- ty getting along with my family or girl friends. but would like to know how to be more p°P“1ll' Wm‘ buy... My older sister definitely doesn't have this problem. She tells me my trouble is talking too much about myself. lllilhlnl W0, loudly and being too quick to criti- cize. Do you think she could be

years full of history and the more recent too with their share. . . what think we. will they record of us farmwlvss. we whose hours are so filled with inconsequential items of living? Will any historian credit in with brave doings‘! Will they note for the inspiration of succeeding generations how faith- fully in our time we helped hold

What has June done to the spring dsndeiions? Given to some silver tresses, light end magieal gel that the children rney "Tag. me up in their dlmpled hands and blow my hair why." But. now no lilscs. and cherry blossoms_ gnu the wonder of new-hatched chick, beneath a mother‘s wide Wings.

faulty or if he has A "problem . d -I 1 1 . X BUD diced Celery mud" on his hands. _:‘{“0°m:‘“m‘..m:1f",,.f{},;’“§1; m‘;‘y' be‘? ivttaspoon salt harm. the farm-lines. the life line of the “Did you ever see snymln‘ The new outbursls, follmxing amme “(mm to Show even mud 24,189-!D°0n_ pepper 1018 9- country end nation? Bsking our prettier or half as sweet?" 9." period of more conuolled behav-..fl”gm, and develop I sum“ or ?ticrLsps;:;1;;i;;n«ifl”tiked) HELPFUL ADVICE 19".. :11; scandal; cg our-"young 4;”;-led, hlzldlérg the ve1v;¢kd.,,,..n iour. are indications of new 1 R . -d ._ ._ T ,_ ' _ ’ NEWER. Y fortunate of war s y e sreng In 0 one an M a young c ee , tollltlou (‘II n inner he behal To shredded cabbage add celei'_\. mgeed to hue fiumlizi E0 mlpml‘ gplrltof the farmers. should they Pretty . . sweet? Ay, the ‘pgu of waning spring on the farm.

not record perhaps that we moth-

‘-‘""’”h ‘ml "F M" 3 “b“"k “"“'l‘"- tour of the sullen child is often » -

In this period parents tend lo bI-- . . - “L1 999?" “ld “'dm95- Add H "I Q

rnme exasperated and :1 more ;:.‘;.:l(;(;':e(:p:;k fir ‘E0335 hi: "‘“s3°“““’" “?‘d ;°5’ “Ell”-"' cm" lkfs: zeggleliifiolflhgxsficamz ‘me; ered sons who knew and respected lends.

"Bid °°“““‘1 “-“*3”-" “"95 "“° bro-n (l(‘l’llE1l something or he may ewe Tpgclfgupsolitilulcseeerut don't want to hurt'anyone's feel- 3“ ‘”u‘)y‘p°gv"h‘£h?u‘:m ;:,‘;lthd"f§1:; Um“ ‘°m°g£’; nah: ‘ DWI ~ I rs r e — — _ — - . . . .

ings; yet honest and constructive

force. "Surely by four and a half mnpe Mom, 1.. 3 mm” ‘ ' 0"" “"9" W‘ L better for worse" al fsrm-psrt-

’"'° “‘°‘“‘‘ N’ "W "‘ W’ “"'“~" ‘ill this is highly undesirable it criticism can often turn the tide . .. . . ‘ . ' _ . , d hill toys‘, a mother says In far-t,fl\.e are mm.“ M ms gmwmg up . to me other person‘ deemed ‘d_ here even as we fieflore thfigilhst The Stars Say '1" W“ 1““‘e55 and ms‘-“a“‘°‘1nlo a mentally healthy hap Ar tl our sister is d°n°? Emory ‘"1 “D ° ° 9,: mt , _ p . W C Is 0 vantage. Alilitlren Y Y mu 0 1 1 kn It By Es e s and boldness stem from a mind adult who Wm get along mlsom H ht in her judgment am“ you . ny we ourseves ow red new interests and abilities that ab“. “Cu mm mhem A mum dgnm question her conauuoml In was good to have lived gnd mun- For Tomorrow h’ h“ 1”“ B’°“'“ l‘““~ (‘hlld gets into trouble in school ' relationship with boys you “ma we upecm "mm "mt |" THIS d“ l‘ ‘n °x°°“”"' °“' ‘“ ' 3°‘" ‘ our responsibility and blessing in which to try out new ideas eiiher

F ’ I ' ' l ‘l rom his point 0 View there sn have been putting too much em- my‘ such “ me“ on "in “mm in your job or m household mp

H [0 wk U h I S T) ,1 because he has not learned to ac— . . _

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energy enough to dress himself. He :€§L.h:.m,,:::.”;m1p ?..n‘:_nC:.1_S'},B;d:.‘£ D23“ ‘::1‘e:og‘:;fi.:gegle§"';n%r$: For the June days bring such ters and domestic concerns. ‘

needs his energy to explore these me 5(.ho01'me may be one long HALIFAX (Cm _ M 1 H {mm Bdmmm nice things: weddlnll. births. lov- The results should be sur rising.

new interests. strugule ma-mi dlgcl 1'n su h G yd B - °” . "‘ ' 1 ed anniversaries. Today returned ly good. since current vi ratlang . . -B C.“-M~ "c~Pd-S-{um ‘algal tam 1; mm“ merm ‘cladlhvllhc Arcchblsdhoe Pltpm; ‘””°t‘9““‘“f d°‘sVo°“" . little boy's anniverssry of birth. will give you the determlriatlon M

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Arraeoanaie a.=s.sla:~.r-e for mm=xm- u .s only on this bass that he Dietetic Association ewegrxilgsdliy l.ie1li'i1gm1?ke'eier‘:)eliolldu-ins is what H“ 1”“ °"‘“‘“'“'““’ W" "°"‘ °-‘{,';'e'“.‘,"";‘,,,'.',‘:, °v"°°'"'° my 9°" 3' [N5 339 "lil.\’ P‘-'t’\'9lll fllSlllfl_\'S rnn arccpi discipline. To meet his night that young Canadians need you m,ed- In the "non °' Cherry blossom‘! “.1-hepgm no‘... how.‘ , of temper and .1 lEf‘lln: of hatred opposition \\lll‘l more force merely in be “steeped in the vision of I “'1 ‘hr bout m own and is but a few days her senior. a r e5Decla.l;.

~ - . . . -‘ ' - -~ 1- ‘ “° .33 “ 3’ To a nel hborlng form he came YEW? EFPINVG W153“ and hobbies. "H115 Parents It tan l\t‘lp him to airgzlaiaics the situation and will habitual greatness. nchlevemenw m (act, 1 won‘: b. . 3m In uh hi , to but H“ mm to make dew.“ - _ 1 _ . ' ' “ rm ing s ve w m‘ - become more responsible. as a. re not cox.ect it. n the schools of Canada there memlon them “run H me boy nnkelm no “me n H“. mm M‘ puma hem” "flung my maim-

sult of which he will volunlarily;

take hold of many rt-sponslbilit-.es'

during his fifth and sixth years. if his temper spell nausos

plenty of attention at other times, reading in him. talking in him. and spending more time in his company. When it is obvious that he is trying to make you give :n to his wishes by a temper spz-ll. ii may be advisable to isolate him for s few minutes. And don't worry if he yells. “I hate you!" He will get over this habit of talk- ing back, because he will eventually copy his parents’ example of cour- tesy. He will learn to master his tongue also because he \\_'allis to

this

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Set A Good Example

‘ Prevent anger from becoming I an sci-nous handicap to your child, As outburst on your part. it Will cnl_\'.:\n adult you can‘i. afford to have increase his nppnslllnn. Give lnm‘a “half gm-'ge,~~ temper exploding every time things go badly. Avoid _ _ in your Child by setting a good example. See to it that he does not meet too many frustrations Be sure that his training and his opportunities are suited to his age level.

Angel‘ ls not something that you can eradicate from a child's ns. turc. but you can help him to man- age if.

type of behaviour

In early

lNext neck‘: SHYNESS.)

articles will

life.

dis-

ivas tremendous opportunity for inspiring children with the high ideals that spurred the men who founded Canada. the Canadian martyrs, who evangelized it and lhe Fathers of Confederation. who united the nation. Archbishop Berry said.

Orange Snow The ideal acompanimeni. for any of the fruit snows is a cus- lard sauce. Actually, it would be worth making the sauce as a complement for the pudding even if the home-maker doesn't have egg yolks on hand for the job. But there are two egg yolks left over in this case, and they couldn't. be better used than in

How Can I?

By Anne Ashley

Q. How can I easily remove all grease and dirt from painted walls’?

A. Use two pails of lukewarm water: wet. a cloth and sprinkle with baking soda; wash a small space. then rinse with clear water and wipe dry.

Q. How can I freshen the st- mosphere of the house?

A. The atmosphere of the entire house can be freshened by apply- ing unslaked lime with a garden spray to the moldy cellar walls.

Q. How can I remove fruit stains from the teeth?

A. Remove the stains at once by rubbing them with a little salt.

Two stout. middle-aged women. having successfully dodged their way across a street roaring with fast.-moving traffic, paused pnniim: on the curb.

"Well" demanded one of them. "where do we go from here?"

"Let. me think". begged the other. ‘I'm so thrilled getting safely acrnsxx that. I've forgotten What I came over here for."

Morning Smile

Household Scrapbook By Roberta Lee

Marshmallow Sandwicl

Thinly butter a few round crack- ere. Place a marshmallow in the center of each with Just a little.‘ bui- te-r on top. Place in the own until the marshmallow spreads over the cracker and becomes slightly brown.

Marble stains

Acid stains on marble can be re- -moved by rubbing with ammonia. one should avoid allowing any acids such as lemon. come in contact with marble.

Restoring Silk

Black silk can be restorcd by spomging it with clear. strong. cold tea. Then iron while the silk is still damp.

W.l. Executive“ Hold Meeting

A meeting of the Prnvinclal Ex- ecutive of Women‘: Institutes was held June 7 in the institute rest room. Mrs. M. J. Doyle. vresldent. presided.

The meeting opened by reciting “The Institute Creed." Final ar- {angement for district conven- lons were dealt with. An execu- live member will attend each can- vention as well as the supervisor Ir her assistant.

Mrs. Herold Laird gave a re- port of the 1’.W.l.C. executive meeting she attended in May. at Ottawa.

The annual conyentlon prgram VII Irrsn ed. "The Chicken Bar- becue" wi be served. again this ear at the Experimental I-‘arm.

e annual convention will be held In Prince of Wales College Audi- torium as usual. The dates. of the convention are July 8 and 9.

A from Miss Lens Mac- m. . I. representative in Eng-

wes read by Miss M. Robin.

Contract Bridge

By Josephine Culbertson

MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT

custard. However, cream is also delightful on the orange snow. with a soft mixture which just sets and no more.

Yield — 6 or 7 servings.

-".4 cup fine granulated sugar

SIGNAL!

South dealer.- East-West. vulnersbld 3 7

nallmg wilh high or low cards. Let's review a loo-typical case:

South was extremely optimism- when he leaped to five clubs. by- passing the noirump and the major

queen. but he thought better of it and played the three. In all prob- ability, this didn't m.att,er much; \i/est obeyed his partner's com- mand to desist. shifting to g heart, That was all South needed. Win- ning with the heart jack. he risk- Ed three rounds of diamonds. dis- arrllng his spade queen, and when that move went. off nicely he could well afford to lead trumps and give East his ace. . It. may be thought that West was responsible for this outcome because of his failure to cash a second spade trick. but this view ignores realities. East’: play of the spade dt-urn on the opening lead was inexcusable. He knew — West did not know—that he IEast.l could not. stand a shift. to either dia- monds or hearts, and certainly, if East discouraged a spade con- tinuation, his partner could scar- cely shift in trumps. Thus. hold- mg the trump ace. East should have been extremely anxious to see his partner put. down another high spade if he could. and the

courage a continuation!

The play of a very low card by one defender rloes not merely deny .1 high card in the sult—by impli- cation it announces the desire for a shift. and the ability to support the right shift.

Q 5 1 tablespoon lemon juice. @643 2 egg whiies. QAQJSI Measure into a saucepan ‘Fl ‘Q2 cup of the sugar: add 2 cups of 196‘, water, orange rind and salt: sAKi0 N ‘.075 bring lo the boil. stirring until UQ932 ‘V F .832 the sugar dissolves; boil hard 0765 ‘ . 5 for three minutes; remove the 4.843 S ‘A ‘ orange rind. ‘Q3 Combine the corn starch and QAKJ the remaining V4 cup water; sllr ‘Km into the hot sypup and cook, ogr- +K°“°“ :‘.:l.*.....°..°.“:;':.'*.‘.l S "H b‘da3:sg" Non]; East low heat. stirring occasionally. _“‘" ‘ P B 1. pug until no raw flavor of starch ir- 1‘ " Pu. pug mains - about 5 minutes longer. 5. 2"‘ Remove from heat and stir in the butter. orangle juice and Many players-—perl-la s most —- lemfin illice. C00 19 Ukewfigrm-‘ hug me “mm; mm Dam." My Beat the egg whites until stiff

but not dry: the remaining beating well until meringue will stand in peaks.

5"” ]°"'F,l5' bu‘ p'”'h,“p“ he W“-5 Turn into individual dessert :‘“°d “"1" "°°”“d 5‘l‘h"~ glasses. Chill until set before West made his natural lead, the 59,-Vin‘,

spade king, and East followed suit

with the deuce. South (as he said _

later) considered dropping the Better English

way to see that was not to dls- '

2!’; cups water. Thinly-shaved of 1/: an orange.

1/: teaspoon salt.

5 tablespoons corn starch. I tablespoon butter.

'4': cup orange juice.

rind

gradually beat in "4 cup of sugar. after each addition

Fold meringue into cooled pud- ding mixture.

By D. C. Williams

1. what is wrong with this sen- tence? "I have no doubt but what he will come. and I know that we are not going any place today."

2. What is the correct pronunci- ation of "philanthropic"?

3. which one of these words is misspelled‘! Predicsment. predeces- sor. predominance. pre-eminent.

1. What does the word “frailty" mean? 5 What is It word beginning

with par that means “a model"? ANSWERS

I. Say. "I have no doubt that he will come, and I know that we are not going anywhere today." 2. Pro- nounce Ill-an-throp-lk. both l‘s as in it s as in an, o as in on. accent third syllable, 3. Predominance. 4. State of being easily tempted: a moral infirmity. “May we always look upon the frallties of others with the same eyes we look upon our own.“ ll. Paragon.

—7\?n_i.s: otnsrrn

FORT WILLIAM. Ont.. (CF); Biep-danclng by M. Winters. 32

Mr. and .\lr.<. llolmnn \\'oodsl above following Ihcir wedding at the former of Darnley. and Ihe groom is the

\\'ood.<ide. besl mun: .\lr.

lit-rt Studio).

That Body of Yours By James W. Barton. M. D.

SOME REMARKS RE(lARDll\'G SURGERY OF THE STOMACH A considerable number of stom- ach operations result in a distress- ing amount of complaints which probablyhsve nothing to do with the original condition but are a re- sult of the operation. Although the loss of a small part or even all of the stomach may seem a. small price to pay to avoid the conse- quences of the return of an ulcer or a. fatal cancer. yet a slgniflcani number of patients show inadequate nutrition to the point. of being ill- capaclialed.

I am quoting Drs. Edwin H. Elli- son and Robert M. Z.-alllnger. Col- umbus. Ohioyin the Journal of thc American Medical Association. These physicians state that most who look after patients after stom- ach operations have long been im- pressed by the problems they pre- sent. These problems are loss of or lessened appetite. smaller size of the stomach, frequent discomfort after meals. a large number of foods to which the patient is sen- sltlve. and diarrhoea. These may result. in a significant weight loss in the inability to gain weight and sometimes prevent the patient from being able to earn a living or take his place in the community,

They studied a group of patients from one to six years after a slam- ach operailon. The youngest pat- ient reported on was 30 years old and the eldest was '15: the average was 52 years. There were 162 men and 41 women and of the total number there were 163 cases of duo- denal ulcer.

Records of weight gain or loss were used as an index for the state of nutrition. Over nnr--half, or 109 of 203 patients. failed to regain their previous wciglit and. further- more. a total of only 16 reached their maximum weight that they had before operation,

Of importance is the fact that the weight following operation was found to be below the minimal standards‘ for sex. age. and height in 127 of the total cases and in one of every four patients the weight loss was considered extreme.

In summing up. these physician.-' found that the patients weight after operation had a definite re- lationship to his weight before in that those who were always under- weight did not put on any weight after operation in any single case. Those who had had an ideal weight before operation had a much better- chance to regain that ideal weigh’ after operation. The type of oper- ation the surgeon selects should bc so decided with the weizlit of the patient in mind. some types of sur- gicsl procedures on the slomach do not. seem to cause as many after- effecis as others and must be care-

years young. was an entertain- ment feature of the Whitefish Val- ley Agricultural Association dance.

fully chosen especially in cases who are underweight before nperatlan.

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Queen Elizalaetli H Spoon?

Beautiful silverplsted lesspoon. Handle embossed with head of Queen side each giant package of NEW BLUE uper Suds. Ask your grocer for it —nr msil 25c and any Super Suds box to , along with r your name and all use snrl _\-our

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Eilitli Cousins. (laughter of Mr. and .\lrs. Robert Cousins

singion. and the late Roy \Voodslde. and Mrs. and Mrs. Elmer llivkry, matron of honor.

stances. It would be unfair to make

their ailonrlanls are seen 2'-‘. The bride is

do \\'Illl Darnloy on May

son of Mrs. Hilda Duggan of Ken-

}-‘rom left to right are Carmen Woodside, the bridc and groom: —- (i'Iiul.u by I-Jdiviu liveli-

Modern Etiquette By Roberts Lee

Q. If llie friends of a iecn-ago girl am permitted to stay out. late. should her parents insist upon ner being home early?

A. This depends upon circum-

your daughter the exception for very special occasions. such as her school dance. But at other times. it is up to the parents to set the dead- line they think wisest. Q. Does it matter in which dir- ection serving dishes are passed around the dinner table? A. it is most practical to pass these dishes toward the right, or counter-clockwise. Q. Is it proper for the bride- groom to hand the clergyman his ee?

A. The proper procedure is for the bridegroom in allow his best

‘compliments me on a school hon- . or. or the like. I'll acknowledge