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MISFORTQNES

Most of our misfortunes are more supportable than the com- ments of our friends upon them.- ﬂ. O. Colton, bacon-

‘ INDIVIDUALITY

. gywhatever crushes individuality is despotism by whatever name it is called-John Stuart Mill.

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~ INIPULSE

~¥Ie who wiil persistently follow his highest imoulses and convictions. ‘who will trllst only these amid nois- qler claims, and constrains him- to go with them alike in their f.’ ntness and their might, shall not d his struggles everlasting; his

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' terrible, the hand of God so ﬁﬁ to him and doubtful at the "ﬁrst, shall in the end be the only aﬁjing that; is clear and sure: his “gt shall be his strongest, too.- “ tineau.

P!" _._i, SEVEN MISTAKES IN LIFE

Q .(l) The delusion that individual advancement is male by crushing gathers dwon.

q (2) The tendency to worry about athings that cannot be changed or gﬂorrected-

3 43) Insisting that a thing is im- mssible because we ourselves can- ‘fjaot sccomplsh it.

5 (4) Attempting to compel other jpersons to believe and live as we

(5) Neglecting development and rcrinement of the mind by not acquiring the habit of reading fine literature.

(6) Refusing to set aside trivial geferences, in order that import- t things may be accomplished.

('7) ‘The failure to establish the habit of saving money.

OFFENCE

What a wretched and apostatc‘ late is thisiTo be offended with _‘Ell€l1(1€, 'and to hate s n be- cause we approve him! Tbecondl- lion of the envious man is the most emphatically miserable; he is not only incapable oi rejoicing in nnothe"'s merit or success,,but lives in a world wherein all mankind are in a plot against his quiet,

studying their own happiness and advantage-Addison.

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beginningl.—ﬂ. P. Herron.

LOOSE MAT ON POLISHED

Polished floors are certainly a guarantee of cleanliness in the house. And polished floors, provid- ed we know them to be Polished. are not exactly a. direct source oi danger, for like Agog, we. can go delicately over them. But. the polished floor when its polish is concealed may be very dangerous. A. loose mat on s polished floor is a thing to be avoided, for it is extremely liable to slip away from the feet of the unwary person, causing him to fall heavily.

It is the suddenness with which a mat on s polished floor will slip from under s. person that is dis- conoerting-

Particularly dangerous is a mat placed Just at the foot of s stair- case if the floor of the hall is highly polished. A person is so liable to run down stairs and step on to the mat which flies from under him so that he falls heavily on his back and strikes his head on the stairs.

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Minced chicken with shredded let- tuce moistened with lemon juice and oil.

Finely chopped prunes combined with peanut butter and made moist with cream.

Finely chopped dates with cottage cheese.

Nuts and rsietrs chopped and moistened with cream.

Shredded lettuce and finely chopped hard cooktd eggs made moist with cooked salad dressing. Cook the eggs for thirty minutes in water just at the boiling point.

combined

ANTS IN THE GARDEN

plants, but they may be injurious indirectly should they make their nests among the roots. They feed on the sugary exudations of gieenfly, and are known to carry the crea- tures from plant to plant. They do the same with scale insects and if ants are seen running up the stems of fruit trees, especially vines and peaches-it may bc assumed that. your land is infested with the pests. The first remedy is to get rid of the grecnfly and the scale incects- Watering their nests with paraffin will destroy the ants. Waterinll with diluted creosote, csmphor or ammonia water suffci- ent to smell strongly where they congregate, will drive them away. You may also use traps in the form of lreaclespread paper and raw meat bones can be used to catch them. If you can find the nests in winter before-they multiply you can get rid of them easily, for

-tbe colonies are then mere nucbi.

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To t: tumblers which have become struck tttether, pour cold water into the inner tumbler, then stsnd the outer glass in s. bowl of warm water. The inner glass will contract and the outer one expand,

so that they may be separated, mily.

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171E COOK'S CORNER

JELLIED TOMATO BOUILLON

1 quart canned tomatoes

2 cups water

2 tablespoons chopped onions

11/. teaspoons salt

‘A cup chopped celery

1 bay leaf

6 whole cloves

2 tablespoons gelatin

1/; cup cold water

Pepper

' Dash nutmeg

Method: Cook the tomatoes, wat- er, onions, celery and seasonings for about =56 hour. Strain and add to this liquid the gelatin which has b soaked in the cold water. Cool $.11“. 1t u; set in refrigerator until firm. When ready to serve, break with for’: and heap into bou- illon cups and serve garnished with parsley.

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3 tablespoons chopped- onion

3 tablespoons buvter

3 tablespoons ﬂour

1 cup boiling water

2 bouillon cubes

3 cups milk

3 cups coarsely w“

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4 tablespoons butter

3 tablespoons ﬂour

s cups milk, scolded

1 teaspoon salt

3i teaspoon cayenne pepper

2 rips bananas

Method: Melt 3 tablespoons but- ter in s saucepan and add 3 mole- spons flour. When well blended. I“ the scolded milk slowly. in order not to lump. Cook until thick ’, rc- move from fire, add seasonings and i tablespoon butter. Mash bananas through a sieve and add to the soup, mixing well. Allow in heat and serve with s spoonful of siilhilv

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Intelligence is Just as Much a Factor as Love in Making Marriage Successful Because it Dispels Jeaiousies _

Dear was Dix-My husband and I married when we were boy and girl. Now-twelve years later we find that we have outsrown our youth- ful passion, that we are completely out of love with each other and that there is little congenia-lity between us. Neither one ofuswouldnowseieotthsotberforamate. If there wen no children and wo had only ourselves to consider we would not hesitate to part, but we have given hostages to fortune. We have two splendid children who are lust coining to the age when they most need a home and s. mother and a father, and we do not feel that we have s right to take our happiness at their expense. Besides, we both adore our children. Can two people situ- ated as we are make even gnear success of mar-

" MAHEL.

riage?

Answer: , Undoubtedly you cm, Intelligence is lust as much a. factor in making a succcuful marriage as love ls. Perhaps, indeed, it goes farther in making a happy marriage than loves doc-s because the more emotional a man and woman are the more prone are they to jealousies and quarrels and un- reasons and the various temperamental qualities that ~are thrilling at moments, but uncomfortablefor dilly companionship, » In proof of this, you have only to observe that in this country wher we marry for love alone, we lead the world in divorce, whereas divorce is relatively rare in those countries where marriage oi convenience obtains and where men and women marry on a basis of mutual interest and res- pect and where they live happy and contented lives making a home and

rearing s family. glory and the circling wings that the

Perhaps such marriages lack the love match possesses. at least in its beginning, but it has a solidity about it that endures often long after the Iiory of the love match has faded and

its wings have been crumbled and broken and swept into the dust bin. For the husband and wife who are not wildly in love with each other do not expect too much of each other. They do not demand too much of each other. They are less tyrannical and more willing to live and let live. Hence, they are far less apt to get on each others nerves and far more able to get along peaceably together. After all, mantle love seldom outlives the honeymoon. Common- place people in a common-place world cannot long thrill over each other and palpitate at the sound of each others footsteps. Most husbands and wives cease to be lovers and settle down into being friends, and, that is a very beautiful and comfortable relationship,

That is what you and your husband can make oi your marriage ifyou will- A friendshiu- A partnership out oi which you can mm get great happiness if you will make an intelligent effort to do so. Nor is this as diﬂlcult as it sounds. You have only w nuke as much trouble m m“; yaurselves agreeable to each other as you would make to attract any s anger. To begin with you have s common interest in your children that. in- sensib‘y draws you together. Your dominant desire is to make them happy and to rear them into being ﬁne men. There is nobody else in the world who feels toward them as you do, nobody who will listen while you tell oi the clever things James has said and what good marks Freddie got in school. The man and woman who have bent over a cradle together and watched over a sick baby, and taught a toddler to walk have s. tie be- tween them that nothing can ever really break.

As for getting along harmonlousl, or that is simply a matter oi volition. There is no use in saying that you can't be on your P's and Q's and watch your tongues with the members of your own household. We can do it Just as easily with them as we can with strangers and every one of us mind our manners with those we desire to propitlate.

The doctors and the lawyers and the merchants do not tell their women clients and customers that they are fussy nltwits and unreasonable and that they don't know what they are talking about. The xvomcn in business who have good yobs don't talk back to their bosses when they are criticized. No woman feels called upon to tell any other man except her husband of his faults and shortco .

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persona grata to each other if they are willing to tlke the trouble to do so. There is not a domestic spat that cannot be avoided by the use of s little tact and diplomacy, so‘ making a peaceful and happy home is not s matter of one's feelings. It's solely a nmtter of determination.

Anti as for husbands and wives who‘ lack ccngeniality that is bound to be a matter oi ‘cultivation in any case, since men and .. are teinPor- smentally different by nature and seldom want to do the same things. irhey have to adapt themselves to each other and develop similar tastes and habits, but. this also is a matter of volition,

Any marriage can be made fairly happy and comf able if both par- ties will put their heads and their backs into it, even it does lack the love interest. ~

Dear Miss Dix-l was reading the other day that about 80 per cent of women in general marry where about 55 per cent of college women marry. Why is this? Signed by: A girl who doesn't know whether or not. she should get an ‘ucation. "

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Well, according to these figures, if a girl wishes to marry it does seem that the higher education is a handicap, and; that it is more proﬁtable for her to try to improve her figure and her complexion than her mind, but even st that I'm strong for the education. Very often it is more dcsir. able than a husband and at any rate you can depend upon it's sticking to you longer than to s husband's doings. And in case husband does leave you, you've got a. consolation and a means of livelihood.

There are many reasons why ¢01198e girls do not marry ls early and often as other girls. One is that they are generallyin the schoolroom at the time of life when a girl is mosbsentimentsl and most likely to fancy herself in love with any man who comes along and to marry him. Also girls in their teens and when they ars sweet and 20, undeniably possess a dewy freshness that they never have again and it makes them peculiarly attractive to men. .

College takes a girl out pf circulation and leaves the ﬁeld open to the maldenswhombentupm 'a ‘ "“ofa.d’ ' and that is one reason why college women do not marry, for by the time they get their M. A. degrees they have often lost out on their chances of ever being Ma's.

Another reason is that perhaps college girls are more choosy than the nonoollege girls in the matter of ‘ bands. They want husbands who are well educated or better educated than themselves, and as so many boys have to go to work as soon as they ﬁnish high school there is not enough of the male intelligentsia to go around. And still another reason is that the college girl has almost always acquired some trade or profession bykwhich she can support herself, so she docs not have to marry for a meal tic st.

But perhaps the real reason why fewer college girls marry than non- college girls is because of men's vanity and their foolish fear of intellig- ence in women. Most men want to feel superior to their wives, . they

er had- her guests strolled out onto the lawn than three are lights sud- denly came on yid focus-sod on a small portable stage under the tress, and a moment later three bare-leg- ged girls in silk shorts and men's high silk hats emerged from the darkness and proceeded to prove themselves extraordinarily good tap dancers.

Ann did not 10in the other guests when they settled on the grass about the stage but moved on! into the shadows beyond. She stood with her to s tree and thought

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the quiet of this lovely, place with a show that had been drawn, obvious- ly, from the city's night clubs. Presetly, while s tall blonds young woman with a. man's voice sang "Love's a Little LiuW-Iee Monday came up, cautiously, and struck s match.

"Well, how's the little woodland spirit?" he asked, laughing. The match ﬂickered out. "Isn't this ter- riblo?"

“It isn't appropriate to the set- ting," Ann said. “How did you like the ovation?" She hadn't meant to be ugly, but the question slipped out almost before she realized she had asked it

Lee chuckled. "What I liked best about it was the discovery that you had the courage to behave ration- ally. There's nothing I resent so much as these little hand-warming acts." She felt his shoulder touch hers, quickly withdraw. "I hope you believe that; it's true." 4 She did believe it, but even as she accepted his sincerity she reﬂected that modesty had no place in her preconceived notion of this unusual young, rather good-looking, famous

want their wives to look up to them as oracles, and so they marry Dumb Doris who roll their eyes at them and ask them what they think. Mon still prefer femininebrsins scrambled and steer clear of s. girl who knows as much as th|y do or perhaps more.

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