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The Guardian, Charlottetown, Mon. Dec. l6,_f963. 9

HAPPENINGS

Audrey Jenkins. Women's Editor; Phone 4-850!

Mr. and Mrs. George Grant, Walthen Drive, were honored on the occasion of their 50th wedding anniversary by the congregation of the Central Church last night. Also in tcndance was their son Lloyd

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and his family. There was a cake-cutting ceremony and carol singing after which Mrs Sinclair MacLeod presented the couple with a gift to mark

e occhsion. Approximately 75 persons attended.

' ols. played games and enjoyed

Alvin MacDonald returned by plane to Goose Bay, Labrador, after spending some time at the home of Mr. an Mrs. Alfred Fisher, South Lake and with his parents, Mr. and Mrs. Wallace MacDonald. Charlottetown.

Mr. and Mrs. George Hawkins have left Charlottetown to spend the winter in Fort Lauderdale.

Dr. and Mrs. J.A. MacMillan returned this week from a bolt- day in Toronto and Jamaica.

Mr. and Mrs. Peter Mellish and young son, Peter of Glace Bay, are spending a few days in Charlottetown. visiting with Mr. Mellish’s parents, Mr. and Mrs. W.N. Melllsh, N e wl a ii (I

Mr. and Mrs. Wallace Rodd left Friday for a three week hol- iday in Fort Lauderdale. Flor- ids.

Christmas party at the Women's Institute Hall, Wednesday, Dec.

Under the leadership of Brown _Owl, Mrs. Lester Johnston and

Donald, 34 Brownies sang car-

refreshments.

The Parkdale Brownies held a Alic

Tawny Owl, Mrs. Stevie Mac- in

Gifts were exchanged around a gaily decorated tree, and all were treated to candy. The ice cream and candy were provid- ed by the Parkdale WI.

The popular A d Fitness classes co Jack Proude every Monday eve- ning at Parkdale Junior High

hool have been suspended un- til the New Year. Approximate- ly 50 members are enrolled. and others from adjacent communi-

‘es are expec when classes resume. .

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An “Isla-nder" get- together in the form ofahousewsrming party was given for Mr. a ii Mrs. Alvin Burke who have re- cently moved to Toronto from Pisquid. P.E.l.

Many former Islanders. now residing in Toronto and vicinity, attended this gathering.

. and Mrs. Burke were pre- sented with two table lamps e Coffin and Mrs. Alston Burke. An address of welcome was read by Glendon Jay.

Following the presentation, the participants enjoyed refresh- ments and musical entertain-

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Mr. and Mrs. Burke have five children: G e ‘o r g e, Marilyn, Wayne, Gayle, and Bobby.

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Embiiiered And Bored, Wife Considers Divorce

Dear Mary Haworth: I am 38. married 19 years. have a daughter 18 and three sons. My husband and I have never been close friends or companions and our marriage has become so dull and unsatisfactory to me that divorce seems impera- tive unless I can change my at- titude and actions.

We don't agree on anything. He is a drinker and party-goer. lam interested in church (he isn't) and school and Red Cross work. We belong to no clubs and have no outside acti-

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we never discuss anything except when he's drinking and wants to argue, which leads to quarrels. He thinks I am too easy on the children (who aren't a disciplinary probIem);I and I think he is too harsh. They and I get along beautifully; he isn't close to any of the

Our sex life is uneven. prob- ably due to temperamental in-

tagonistic, hateful, much of the time. And I often flinch from his disparaging tone. Then he wonders why I am hurt a n d re- tire into myself. When his humor is good he thinks mine should be too.

I have read many b o o ks on marriage, personality. crea- tiveness. etc., but none h a I helped. Each says develop this or that quality but none tells how to go about it. I need advice on how to become cheerful. loving, understanding, patient. all the wifely virtues. He often says I am no wife. He never praises ‘Inc and I seldom compliment

lm.

I feel I am almost completely out of love with him. So in e- times I feel I'd like to sta rt all over with a new partner but other men never look good to me. although I can imagine no- thing worse than living without a man.

Ithink I really love him but he has hurt me so often that I want to repay him in full. How can I change? I know I c a n ‘i change him. I feel the years are slipping away without on r really livlng...E.G.

Dear E.G.: It seems to me that the positive solution of your problem consists in making bet- ter use of the situation you occupy.

You are presently at grips with deadly boredom and em- bittered frustration, a state of affairs ‘which signified that you aren’t using a fraction of the intelligence. e n e r g y and creative potential that are hot- tled - up in your largely stifled social character.

y u were to blast your way out of social Isolation. out of housewife role, in-to the public field of community usefulness. I think you would begin to bias- som. I think you would become a cheerful, enterprising, self- reliant citizen and neighbor, lit- tle affected by your husband's more tiresome shortcomings.

As this more mature version of yourself began emerge, you would stop looking forlornly to him r ego - support such as he has never given. ‘You would have other sources of income on that score. And as he noted your growing indepen- dence. he would react instinc- tively to the change. by taking steps to court your approval of

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All of which should vastly at home.

As for how to begin. I au g- gest you start by getting a part- time paying job (easier on the children than divorce, I should think). Do this partly for poc- ket money. for spending as you please. but also to pull yourself out of a rut at home. and to ion- ter the habit of looking your best. routinely.

Next, get into volunteer work. for your church. political party a charity organization or two-

’ as many good causes as your 0

leisure can cope with. ver- commitment is better than under - commitment. It keeps you alert, turning vibrantly from one pressing interest to another, with no time for

c a r r y through. enlisting the children and possibly even your husband in emergency to lend a h and with your good works.

For help in healing y on r

Aeirid Watkin's book le of Love" (Kenedy, publishers). Ml-I

Mary Haworth e o ii ii aela through her column. ma Write her in care of The Guan- dian.

improve the emotional climate _‘

not by- II or personal interview. w

The December meeting of the I North River WI was held at the home of Mrs. Roy Bruce.

The president, Mrs. Earl Younker presided.

Roll call was responded to by 19 mem rs.

The secretary. Mrs. Elmer Yeo read the minutes which were approved. Correspondence consisted of a letter from the Unitarian Service Committee thanking members for a lay- ette received.

Letters from the Travel Bureau and Carol ane Award were also dealt wi .

School and Sick committees igave reports on their activit- es. Program conveners were ap- pointed for the year, and they will be responsible for program outlines each month.

Plans were made for the Talent Caravan to be. held in Junior Famier’s Hall in Dec- em r.

Mrs. Fulton Warren invited .members to her home for J a . ‘meeting. Roll call will be "A

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HOUSEHOLD ‘HINTS

A rubber pad in the seat of baby's high chair will keep the restless little one from slipping out.

A nylon hairnet slipped over permit

a feathered hat will the hat to be stored with the

feathers nnruffled. If you use hot water for sprinkling clothes. they will be

ready to iron much sooner than if you use cold water.

Streak a few teaspoons of powdered coffee through a plain cake batter with a spoon

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WOMEN'S ORGANIZATIONS

North River WI Members Plan For Toleni Corovon

New Year's Resolution". Lunch committee will be: Mrs. E r i c Butler, Mrs. Buddy MacKin- ey, Mfrs. Emer Yeo. and Elea- nor Younker.

Members gathered a r o u nd the decorated Christmas tree for the exchange of gifts fr 0 in their “secret pal".

Lunch was served by th e hostess and committee. T h e singing of “The Queen” brought an enjoyable evening to a close.

SUMMERSIDE WMS

The WMS of Summers ide Presbyterian met Tuesday afternoon in the church parlor. when a Christ- mas program was enjoyed with Mrs. Eric Macl(ay as leader ‘of the worship service. The meditation was entitled “No Room In The Inn". Mrs. Lloyd Gorrill read the scripture les- son from St. Luke 2, and Miss Clara Mountain offered prayer.

hymn was "Joy To The World".

The business was conducted by the president, rs. Vernon Campbell, after‘which a Bible quiz from St. Luke was present- ed-. Mrs. W. E. Forbes and Miss Jean MacFadyen read interest- ing excerpts from letters re- ceived from friends travelling

Asia. The Mizpah Benediction concluded the meeting.

TIGNISH UCW

The Tignish United C h u r ch Women held their Christ in a a service" of worship at the home of Mrs. H e n r y Christopher, Tuesday evening_December 10. Mrs. A. C. Green. Alberton con- ducted the worship and chose

for her topic. "Love was born at Christmas". The scripture reading by Mrs. Wilfred Boyce was taken root St. Luke's

Gospe , Chapter 3.

Assisting in the service w s s Mrs. Wesley Hardy as s he read the story “The GI ". Mrs. I-‘red Lea.-rd led in prayer. The

singing of Chri The business

stmas Carols. portion of the

lltflflnl VII Tignish president. nar Pedersen: \ the previous meeting, and respondence le r in the Retarded Children's A s s o c.; and a letter from Mrs. Ruth. corresponding sec- tary of the United Church

business meeting a social hour.

served by the hostess.

BEDEQUE UCW

The December meeting of the Bedeque United Ch.irc-In Women was held in the Churchl Hall with 11 members present. The theme for the worship was “Christmas", which was! conducted by Mrs. P e r c y ,1 Affleck, who gave a rea din gl followed by the singing of, ‘hymn “Who is in Yonder Stall" and prayer. I

Treasurer, Mrs. George Hen-‘ ed the offeringi and reported the allocation‘ had been exceeded.

Mrs. Walter Wright was ap-_ pointed convener for Berwick; Camp. Mrs. Ernest Johns o n; presented the study the "Evan-‘ geliam in India" with oth er members. Mrs. Orville Join-I son, Mrs. Affleck, and M rs. , Waldo Gardener taking p a rt.

hour enjoyed.

MARGATE WI KENSINGTON: Mrs. D. R. Baker entertained the Margatc WI at the December 10th meet-N

Mrs. Boyce read the minutes Afe Enfeffained cor- ‘ hs:ctreI.:I'ymI)IdtIig Ma rgafe

was enjoyed and lunch was‘d

Lunch was served and a social 3 A

Kensington : The Margate United nursery and kiiidergart-- en classes, their mothers a n d the Messengers, were guests on T h u r sday afternoon. of th e UCW at the church Vestry.

The nursery class superintenu ant. Mrs. Don Taylor, the kind-

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Combat Common Colds Wiih Fresh Fruit Juice

AMERICANS are living in thei most food - conscious era of our times. If not watching our diets for var I o u s health reas o n 5. about one - third of us are count- ing calories to lose weight. I

Thompson. were in charge of the meeting. A worship service was followed by the Messen- ser's h y in n. purpose a n d prayer, and a demonstration of some of the work done by this group.

Five members, Ruth Hender- son. Shannon Johnson, Dean Dennis, Stephen Adams nd Joy Henderson. graduated from the kindergarten class to the Messengers. and tiny corsages were pinned on each‘ by the leaders.

Those taking part in the short program were Marills Woodside. Linda Howard, Mar- sha and Lynn Profitt. G ra nt Andrews. Larry Mayhew. Eva Henderson, Shannon Johnson, Dean Dennis. and Stephen dams.

Rev. WA. Paterson spoke in appreciation of the work d one by the leaders.

The members of the UCW ser-

ved lunch. I

ing. With the vice reside nt. Mrs. Lorne Adams n the chair. the meeting opened with the singing of "Jingle Bells". and the repeating of the Collect. Roll call was answered by 12 members donating a toy for a needy child. These will be pas- sed in to the Kensington Lion's Club for distribution. Corres- pondence was read and dealt with. It was decided to pack a box of used clothing for USC, also to remember the shut ins of the community at Christmas. The Red Cross convener re- ported work on hand, and sev- eral members volunteered to complete some of the pieces. The program consisted of a Christmas reading. and a

game.

Mrs. Keith Warren will have the next meeting, with J e a n Mayhew. Shirley Thompson and Enid Johnson as committee.

NEW LONDON UCW

KENSINGTON — Mrs. Wei- rum MacKay was elected presi- dent at the annual meeting of the New London United C h u r c h Women held Thursday evening, December 5. other offi c e r s elected, were vice presid e n t. Mrs. Lewis Campbell; secre- tary, Mrs. James M. Campbell, treasurer. Mrs. Ray MacLeod, fre-elected); press secre t a ry, Mrs. William C o t t o 11. (re- elected): auditor, Mrs. Lou is MacLeod, (reelected); manse,‘ Mrs. Frank Ramsay; finance, Mrs. Louis MacLeod and Mrs. William Cotton; program and literature, Mrs. L o u l s Mac- Leod; social functions, Mrs. Hamid Mayhew, Mrs. Keith

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' offered prayer for

Woodside. Mrs. Sutherland Montgomery. Mrs. James E. Cole and Mrs. William Cotton; nominating committee. r s . James M. Campbell and Mrs.

Lewis Campbell: citizens h i p and supply, Mrs. Sutherl a n d Montgomery. Mrs. E d w a r d

MacMurdo and Mrs. John Mac- community fr i e n cl - MacKay and Mrs. Louis.Cole: visiting. Mrs. James M. Campbell, Mrs. Frank Ramsay and Mrs. Keitih Woodside; flower and member- ship, Mrs. Frank a m s a y: representative to official board of churches. Mrs. L on is Mac- Leod: committee of stewards, Mrs. Harold Mayhew; Christian education committee. Mrs. Ray MacLeod; missionary and main- tenance, Mrs. James E. Cole.

The meeting opened with th e reciting of the UCW purp 0 se in unison. Mrs. Welrum Mac - Kay was devotional leader. The hymn “It Came upon a Midnight Clear" was sung. followed by scripture. in e d i t ation a ii d prayer. Mrs. Hugh Campbell “our mis- slonsries".

The president. Mrs. Harold

Mayheiv presided. and 12 mem- bers responderi to roll call with a Christmas verse.

The community friendship report was presented; the trea- surer. Mrs. Ray MacLeod gave the financial statement for the year. and other committees gave their reports. The corres- pogdence was read and discus-

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It was decided to pack a b on of used clothing for missions in the church on the following day.

The retiring president, Mrs. Harold Mayhew, thanked the members for their co - opera- tion during the past two years, and asked for the same for th e A in o n _ Items mentioned in her report was the re - decorat- ing of the interior of the church, and fixing up the Sunday School rooms. Money was raised by afternoon teas, suppers, ic e cream soclals and bazaars. A vote of thanks was extended to the retiring officers for th eir faithful work in the past two years. '

Mrs. Frank Ramsay present- ed the chapter on "Mary of Jer- usalem" from "The Women Of the New Testament". Mrs. Louis MacLeod presented th e chapter “The Bible and the Word of God”. from the s t u dy book. “The Word and the Way".

Meeting closed with pra ye r by the president.

Lunch was served by Mrs. Louis MacLeod and Mrs. Suth- erland Montgomery.

St. Simon and St. Jude CWL

The regular monthly meeting of the St. Simon and St. Ju d e Parish Council of the CWL took place Tuesday evening Dec. 3 in Dalton School; with 19 mem- bers in attendance.

The president. Mrs. Harold Cormier opened the meeting with prayer. The minutes of the previous meeting were read by Mrs. Howard Harper. inclu- ded in the correspondence was a request for a towards the Music Festival.

Mrs. Howard Harper gave an encouraging report on the sale

candy. to help pay expens e s for the national convention to be held in Charlottetown next sum- er.

There was also in report on

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I ergarten superintendent. Mrs. Fresh fruit and veget a b I e: ‘Arthur Profitt, and the leader I of the Messengers, Mrs. Roy organization clarified by the‘

spiritual director, Rev. M. J.‘ no

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Various conveners gave their; reports, Including Mrs. EmiIeI Gallant. Mrs. Milton K e o u gii,l Mrs. Thelma Harper, Mrs. Frank Gaudet, Mrs. H. Harper-[I Mrs.Roy Gallant. ’,

The group sent 116 rosaries to; the missions in India.

The meeting closed with th ei usual prayer. A social evening‘ was enjoyed which included decorating a Christmas tre e» for the needy with gifts brought; in by the members. and a fe w. games of cards. The 1st prize; went to Mrs. Sylvester Arsen-I ault. consolation to Mrs. Frank; Gaudet, freeze out: Mrs. Irving] Mokler and Mrs. Roy Gallant.

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In spite of weather conditions‘- there was a good attendance at. e monthly meeting of MI.

drinks should be placed h I g n on the daily diet as they are pickups, offer effective nour-.‘ ishment, are easily digested.‘ and give quick, general einergy.I Juices from raw fruits a n i! vegetables bring to the ho d y‘, vitamins. minerals and enzy-I mes. important to good health.» increase Citrus Intake

At this time of year. common colds and respiratory infections begin to spread. As citrus fruits in sufficient quantity help to‘_ avert these infections, it is a‘ good plan to serve at least as much again as usual. ,

if appreciable fatigue is felll in mid- morning, late afternoon‘ or befo re retiring. 6 ounces; of fresh orange juice or grape-~’ fruit juice usually proves help-I ful. it's a good idea to warm ‘it; slightly. If really fatigued, add; a pureed banana, as it is a good! energizer. I Should Be Fresh ,'

To be most effective, fr u I t; juices should be freshly pre-I

maximum juice from fruitsy (vegetables. too), leaving the} pulp sawdust - dry and the‘ juice high in flavor and nut

hr.. iemon juice, bananas aiil _ powdered sugar.

Stir in cream. orange Ice and ginger ale. Pour into tall glasses. Garnish with o r a I: go segments. rves .

GRAPEFRUIT JUICE COCKTAIL

I egg

1 c. fresh grapefruit juice

4 tsp. honey or sugar or 1/4 tsp.

granulated sugar substitute

l-l6th tsp. salt

Ground nutmeg or cinnamol

Fresh mint leaves for garnish

Separate egg. Beat white stiff and yolk until Iemon-coIor- ed. To yolk beat In fresh grape-

- fruit juice, then honey, s u g a r

or sugar substitute and salt. Fold in beaten egg white. Fill

tall glass 1-3 with crushed ice

Pour in grapefruit mixture.

Dust with fresh mint. Servel 1

1'0MORROW’S QUICK DINNER

Grapefruit Halves

Diced Beefsteak with Vege- tables Whipped Potato

Cole Slaw with Chopped Oli-

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Peaches

Coffee. Tea. Milk

THE CHEF’S DICED BEEFSTEAK WITH VEGETABLES

Heat 2 tbsp. each oil and but-

Ipared in a juicerator that is sol gar in 3 10 inch frypan. Add Us ,-constructed that it extracts the} c, chopped onion; saute un til