' grievance and grounds

A traditional floor length gown of lace and net was worn by Mary Sylvia Palmer of Al- bany for her wedding at St. Peter's C h u r c h. Seven Mile Bay. The groom, Wil- liam Earl Perry is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Wilfred Perry of

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Freetown. Mr. and Mrs. Dan- iel Palmer are the bride‘s parents. Rev. Preston Ham- mill, the bride‘s cousin offic- iated at the ceremony. assis- ted by Rev. Reginald MacDo-

MARY HAWORTH

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Kicking Husband Out Easier Said Than Done

DEAR MARY HAWORTH: To “kick the husband out" (a psychiatrist‘s advice to a long- suffering wife, as quoted in your column) is easier said than done!

I have been married for eight years to a selfish narrow - mind- ed man who complains abOUL everything but never does any- thing about any problems.

Many times I have wanted to leave him. But we have two pre- school age child ten. and a woman who leaves home los- es custody of her children.

Also I have to stay horn e to look after them; hence, how could I prov “far m‘lifli’ myself? He refuses to give me a divorce. C. G.

Dear C.G.: The specialists advice. cited above (to “kick

‘ out") was given to a house- wife whose husband was can- didly involved in a presiste at love affair, unwilling to renou-

ce elgier woman (wife or par- amour) for the other.

Thus the nature of that wife‘s for vorce (if she so desires) differs trom your brand of travail, it appears. She might lock the door against her spouse and be justi- fied. The nub of her problem seems to be that she is unwilling to part from him, despite her

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suffering disapproval of his adulterous routine.

So it doesn’t make sense to grab at the psychia-trist’s re- commendation to her, and then complain that it isn't really ap- plicable to your situation.

The gist of our problem seems to be incompatibility: or (to spell it out) chronic friction between a negative -type, sentially non - self - giving man and a passive depend e n t woman. each of whom frustra tea and aggravates the other's rather distorted emotional cra- vin 5.

Your husband sE’obably res ants :theefispon . a' meat. situation (call it what- you - will) of having to is e d , clothe. h o u s e and general I y care for a wife and babies. who lookto him (legally) for adequ- ate social security_

It probably goes against his grain to be spending himself (as

were) in any respect in these domestic relationships. As I get the pitch. his continual grow- ling dissatisfaction with every aspect of family life and home- making is a camouflaged rejec- tion of the marriage itself and its attendant obligations.

As you feel tied to him. how- ever, chiefly as a source 0t sup. port for the children, but also because you can't make up your mind to leave him in any case (much as you'd like to, in certain moods). my advice is get first - h a n d psychological help from a Family Service Agency counselor.

It is possible that such a sten might lead, by degrees, to a gradual maturing in your per- sonality and in your reactions

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to your husband's trying tem- perament. it is axiomatic that as on e

partner in a conflicted relation- ship begins to move towards maturity (activated by growing awareness of what goes on. sub jectlvely and intes - personally), other partner is go to have to give ground, one way or ano- ther. It happens irresistibly. Either he falls in line with the moving tide of constructive changes set in motto first party's growth: or he is left so far behind by the progre- ssive partner that the latter finds it not to difficult to bre sk away and go on without him. it this s e e m s necessary to shore-

up the greater good of the gree-= ,

fer number. M.H. ,

Mary storth counsels through her c olumn. not by mail or personal intervie w. Write her in care of the Guard- fan.

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The Guardian, Charlottetown, Wed. Oct. 21, 1964. 7

HAPPENINGS

Audrey Jenkins, Women's Editor; Phone 4-8500

Mr. and Mrs. W. Warren in- man of Hampton were honored by friends and neighbors with a farewell party at their home on Friday evening, prior to their taking up residence in Charlottetown.

With Rev. Bryer Jones as emcee. a presentation was made-to Mr. and Mrs. Inman.

Mr. and Mrs. J o h n MacRae of Manchester, Mass. (form- erly of Cherry Valley) recently attended the “Pass - Out" their son. Donald Kenneth trom the RCMP Training Centre in Regina, Sask.

it their way home they spent some time with their son, Cst. Malcolm MacRae. his wife and family. in Toronto, They also stopped off in Ottawa. Montreal and Vermont, USA.

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Mrs. Frank Oros of Branlford, Out. and Mrs. Roy Newson of Burlington, Ont. arrivad in i. week by air to spend some time with their father. Melville Fer- guson who is a patient in the P.E.I. Hospital. They are stay- ing with Mrs. Ferguson in Bri- stol.

Mr. and Mrs. William E. Mc- Lella'n, Pleasant Valley have returned home after a trip to London and Bracebridge, Ont- ario. In London, they were guests of their son. Willi am and family, and in Bracebridge, their daughter Ruth and fam- ily. They also attended their grandson’s wedding. (D alw- son Forth).

Mr. and Mrs. James Gibson, and son Jamie, Moncton, were

recent week-end guests of Mrs. Gibson’s parents, Rev. and Mrs. Alexander MacKay, Ken- sington.

Connie Hunter, Melrose. Mass. is visiting her brother andsister-in- law. Mr. an Mrs. Cedric Hunter, Alberton.

Mrs. Horace Paynter. Clin— ton. and Mrs. Fred Semple. Ken- slngton. moto red to Sydnev, Cape Breton recently. They were accompanied by M r s .

Arthur MacKay, Darnley who

visited her son -'in - law a nd daughter, Mr. and Mrs. Paul Jacques and grand son Tracy. Mrs. Paynter and Mrs Se in pie were guests of Rev. and Mrs.

. H. Bean. former pastor of Remington and vicinity. Mrs. Sempie also visited Mrs. Jean Warren, Sydney Mines. Their interesting side - trip wa a drive up the Cabot Trail, as far as Bay St. Lawrence.

Mr. and Mrs. Fred Weeks left on Tuesday morning for their home in Toronto after visit i n g members of their families in- cluding Mr. Weeks“ pare nts, Mr. and Mrs Roy Weeks, Fre- dericton, and Mrs. Weeks' pa- rents, Mr. and Mrs. Wilfred Pin. kering, Cavendish. They also attended the Profitt - Johnston wedding at Cavendish Unit- ed Church.

Mr. and Mrs. William B. Cousins of Rose Valley who recently observed their 56th wedding anniver s a r y were married in 1919 in Winnipeg but returned to the Island to live in Rose Valley.

With Mr, and Mrs. Cousins for the celebration was their dau- ghter. Mrs. R a'lph Burns. (Annie) of Freetown and sons James and Ben of Rose Valley and their families.

Mrs. John Maclntyre and daughter Cathy of Winsloe have returned home after spending an enjoyable trip to Toronto and Bracebridge, Ontario. Toronto they were guests Mr. and rs. Earl Docheriy land in Bracebridge of and Mrs. Kenneth Forth, where they attended (the Forth-Daw— son wedding.

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Mr. and Mrs. Boyd Beairsto, and family, Kensington, have returned from a recent trip to Boston, Mass.

Mr. and Mrs. Edwin Sim- mons and daughter Bev e rl y, Darnley, left on Sunday on a holiday trip to New Brunswick and Maine.

FREETOWN

Baskets of pink and white pom pom da‘hlias and baby breath fern decorated Free. town United Church for the wedding of Audrey Marie MacEachem, R. N.. and Wayne Ian Hicks. Sackville, NB. The bride is the daugh- ter of Mr. and Mrs. Elmer

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The Heron Ca

In More summery Days lShower ls Held

No anglers come now to fish along the stream. Not even the heron, who knows no restrict- ions as to this, other than those which Mother Nature imposes.

uncle, Albert Patterson. th e bride wore a street length gown of white peau de sole, with lace

Mr. and Mrs. John Stewart of Sturgeon Road have left for a holiday in Beverly, Mass. where they will visit their son and dau-

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- law Mr aners

covered bodice and lily - point sleeves. Her circular chapel veil of white nylon tulle was

eld by a tiara and she carried a bouquet of red roses surroun- ded by feather fern. Her 0 n l y ljewellery was a matching pearl

ghter - n . {Jackie Stewart and family. L .

Forth-Do wson jVows Pledged

Cooler temperatures and turning leaves indicate that the fall. and another social season ishere.

The Guardian - Patriot Wo- men’s Editor will be happy to print all your social news free of charge. Call her if your son or daughter is home for a weekend or holiday from school or college. if you are being hostess to your club meeting in the near future. if you are entertaining friends. having visitors, taking a trip or have d a shower, or taken part in any social act- vity.

The number is 4-8506.

‘At Windermere

A wedding ceremony was so- lemnized at United C h u r en, Windermere, Out. in September when Edith Louise Dawson. dau- ghter of Mrs. Gordon L. Dawson of Winder-mere and the late Mr. Dawso became the bride of William Kenneth Forth. son of Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Forth of Bracebridge, Ont. Rev. Doug- las Muir of Bracebridge Uni- ted Church, performed the double ring ceremony assist-

by Rev. Clarence McClcnat- ghan, Mrs. William Patterson played the wedding music.

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Couple Fefed At Ma rgate

Friends and neighbors gathe- red recently at the home of Mrs. Preston Woodsida, gate, to extend congratulations to her son Hilbert and his bride. former Joyce of Kelvin Grove.

D.R. Baker outlined the pur- after were

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Martin Woodside. Mrs. Wally Bryantoa and

gifts and the names and best

wishes were read by Mrs. Scott

am. oodsidd Clair Mayhew. Mrs. res and Melissa Msyisew.

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st Paul's Church: 5 ' sign.

necklace and ear - rings. gift the groom.

Her attendants were Mrs. Carl Smith of Parry wh 0 was matron of honor for her sis- ter, and Barbara Forth of Bra- cebridge, sister of the groom as bridesmaid. They wore identical street - length gowns of willow green rocade, having a has- que bodice. short sleeves and wrapped skirt. Their access- ories were white wi head - dresses of matching green halo circlets. They carried bou- quets of yellow mums.

he flower - girl was Gall Smith, niece of the bride wear- ing a yellow frock trimmed with white pearls. She carried white mums.

Th best man was Carl Smith, brother - in - law of the bride. and the ushers were Donald Coates, and Peter Dawson. cou- sin of the bride.

Follow-ing the ceremony a reception was held at the Port Carling Community Centre.

The bride’s table was cente- red with a three tier wedding cake with a miniature bride and groom, and flanked by ligh- ted tapers.

The bride's mother were a tea] blue brocaded two piece dress with coffee brown acces- sories and a coresge of white mums. The mother of the groom chose a pink sheath dress with jacket and matching list trim- med with grey. grey accessor- ies. and a sorssge of white so .

Honeymoonlng at His g s r s Folk and Baton. the bride chose ‘for travelling a three piece_beige suit, brown access- ories and corsage of white mums.

Specidl guests included groom‘s mater n a l rents, Mi". and Mrs. William E. McLellan of Pleasant Valley. lP.E.l.; his aunt, Mrs. n “‘ “2“ and cousin Ca Macinty-re of Winslos. PEER!

guests w North Bay. Milton. Kitchens. Windmme Bracebridge. Mr. and Mrs Forth are reside

ing on Thomas St. arses- bf'ldge. Ont.

will a" retiree due 6 turn to the fieldwork in the little truck which plied so busin to and fro. Thus far, no horse has been pressed into service. T h e farm - cart sits, shafts down. idle in the cellar - run. In form- l er years as we attended to the‘ affairs of our household cares, it was a pleas a n t season a ‘ sound to hear the hoof beats and the voices of the farm- ers reach up from the cell a r below. This is another of those once familiar sounds of the farm- ing we must put away. Give it to lie with a legion of departed items. including that of the cream - separator, the binder. the thresher, and the grind in g and sawing at the mill so near

The sun warmed the wind : then blowing down on us fr om i the upland fields. Yet there was , a decided edge of chili to it. ‘

“Will it snow?" Peter inqu-l ired stopping a moment to re- 1 gard sky and cloud.

“It might" we replied.

"I mean — to cover every- thing: grass and leaves and‘ flowers and all?" he queried,l smiling to think of it.

restless leaves, crisp“, and sere were gathering in lit-

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were he - draggled. Marigolds firost - touched, ‘ were 1 cold, as were the petunias that l of late some gardener had dec- lared were “the showiest bed- ding - flowers of all.” Only the calendulas caught the bright of the sunlight in their sunshiny cups.

“We’re making fairly good

headway in gathering up those mangels" Mack reported this evening “We are on the last

l when one g e ts along the last f stretch of the way.” , i They will make a nice lot of; feed for the things through the ,-

NUPTIALS

MacEachern. Freetown. Pa—

rean of me mmm are Mr. months ahead” James said,‘ and Mrs, Cameron Hicks of bearing ,3" a”? “I” 0“ ‘0 Sackville. Rev. R. M. aw ,tmughs m the Dissent '

"No lingering by the fi re- ;side tonight. Mother!" he a Vises now, putting aside his reading and glancing at the 'clock. “Why? Have you forgot~ E ten? The power is due stop- l because of some work on the line—at nine in the morning. We must be up in good time to get the choring done before that!" Until tomorrow -— Diary Good - night.....

performed the double ring ceremony. The newlyweds are living in Sackville

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Like a small plane. he comes up , from the River in more summery times, winging high above tllel spruces in the low of the valley,

to taxi down to the stream... , V Leaman Caseley, Kelvin Grove H? had come by'.“e “9” I" g to honor their son Garth Case- canmg' that mommg Whm we lev and his wife the former Luc- were planting the tubers of the m'e gmirh of ’Port Mou'm dahlias we harvested this af— q ‘ ‘ ' ' ternoon. Spring was here than. a , . nd Mrs. Cascle were The W“ Cherry trees up the l married in Mav and spirit the creek. whence comes the westlmmmer in wegtem Canada. wind were crowned in the sea-1 Allison Mach/turd“ as 5°“ 5 While blmm' Nm” " was ichairman for the presentation of AUtulm" “d. the San.” werelgifts. and an ddi'ess w as wean“ ‘ cums“ ' l‘ke Shade' read by Mrs. Duncan Picketts. Peter, is little‘lad to be helping A presentation was made by

At Kelvin Grove

Friends and neighbours at the home of Mr. and Mrs.

harvest the mamgels,‘ taking Renda1Caseley and Clair Hogg stock of our en ti eavor, on behalf of the community. we to remain at home A basket of individual

tie heaps on the is w n. Asters 1M

wart and Mrs. MacKenzie.

‘ Mr. and Mrs.

gifts was ean-led h by Stew- ss-t Caseley and Allan and the ribbons cut by Mrs. Ivan Gill and Mrs. Carmen Paynter The gifts were arranged bv Mrs. Robert Hogg.

The couple were attended by Mr. and Mrs. Keith Sudsb u r v. brother - in - law and sister of 1 the groom. l

Lunch was served by the hostess, assisted by Mrs. Morris Caseley, Mrs. Frank Baglo- le. Mrs. George Caseley, M i s s Lillian Court and Mrs. Carman Paynler. .

Mr. and Mrs. Caseley left on Sunday for Halifax where the former is attending Pine Hill College in his final year as a theological student,

Auxiliary Meets

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At Nurses Home

MONTAGUE: Mrs. . H. Stewart, Montague. presided at the regular meeting of the Kings County Memorial Hospital La- dies Auxiliary at the N u rses Residence with a large number of members persent. The fin. ancial report and the minutes of the last meeting were read by rs. . G. MacDonald. . ew business included plans for hol- ding the annual meeting Nov- ember 13th followed by the annual Bring and Buy Sale. Mrs. A. F. MacKenzie and Mrs. Marvyn Johnston were appoi. riled on the nominating com- mittee for Novem .

A delightful program. featur-‘ ing folk singing, was enjoyed. Taking part were Mrs. Dou 2-l las Coffin, Mrs. Arnold Wight-l mas, Mrs. Lloyd Fraser. Mrs; Lorne Bonnell. Mrs. R u s sell ,- Burns . George Moor. 1, At the close of the meeting, the ‘

mbers spent an hour men- ding hospitai linen. after which I lunch was served by Mrs. Ste.

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seri- Sudsbury. ous mishaps and no loss at

equipment by storms. An above '

average catch and good price, I ' com-

munity consider it one of their

best years.

the fisherment of this

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make

meals more delightful by keepv

ing buns. eggs warm.

Done in red and white rug

cotton, they

Thirty - five rents

are crocheted Lli : loop stitch forming a thick pad: Hall is slipper - stitch. Patt P r n ‘7378 directions. Vs

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MPS- Eva Dallm‘v Elmo“ has for this pattern 4no stamps,

returned home

from Prince i please! to Alice Brooks, care of

County prnal Where She "n" l Guardian - Patriot Needlecraft Dept. 60 Front St. W. Toronto 1.

derwent surgery. Her grand-1 daughter Becky Stewart of ; Slemon Park, Summerside, is' spending some time with her.

, rs. Louis Dalton and daughter Pattie of Char- lottetown spent the holiday weekend with their parents, Peter Dalton.l Burton and Mrs. Anne Howard,l Cape Wolfe. l

Mrs. Cecil returned home from the O‘Leary Community Hospital .

Eileen MacGregor students at PWC and Elaine Howard, SDU stu- dent apent the Thanksgiving holidays at their respective ghomes.

T A large crowd attended the lsale on Oct. 3 at the home of :Mr. and Mrs. Bernard Mac- iDonald. Glengarry. Mr. and l Mrs. MacDonald have sold their 'farm and willi reside in Am-

herst, Nova ‘ .

Leland. Currie, SDU student spent the holiday weekend with his parents, Mr. and Mrs. Reggie Currie. Cape Wolfe

Oct. 13 brought the

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