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THE CHARLOTTETOWN GUARDIAN '

,Womanl's Realm -:- Social and Pelfsonal -.'-i Fl:

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SEPTEMBER 22. 1931

What the Fashiona bles are Wearing

Illustrated Drosemaking Lesson Furnished With Every Pattern

Bu Annabelle Worthington

Hero's a iaunty little model that is so smartly wearable for early Fall and at the same time so marvelously easy to fashion.

The original in dark green tweed- effect sheer woolen, had a tiny vest oi yellow mesh woolen. Double yel- low buckles fasten the self-fabric belt.

Style No. 568 ls designed for sizes l6, l8, 20 years, 36, 38, 44 and 42 inches bust. The 36-inch size rc- qulres 3% yards of 39-inch material with it yard of 18-inch lace.

A little more dressy ls black crepe

Dorothy Dix Letter

have ever seen. office.

tires burning. fusses.

wants to be with me.

Mother and Wife Who Tear a Mauls Heart in Two Between Them -- Kind Stepmother Who Feels Herself a Failure — Shall Parents Censor Letters ‘f

—-——-\- Dear Miss Duo-I am man-led to the prettiest, loveliest little girl 1 We have been married three years. Spends her salary on the home and helps mo to keep th bcme She ls unselﬁsh. Never naga or A dandy cook and housekeeper. but here is the rub: My mother ls old and she is very attached to me and she wants to live with us. have four sisters, but being the only son. my mother My wife oblects. toying that as my sisters do not work in an office my mother should stay with them. She does not object to my Vgiving mother money, but she says that she wants

She works in an

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Gnmstrres

cleans the bathroom in hall the usual time

provides

QNE tcblespoonlul of Gillelt‘: L"

dissolved in a gallon ol cold* w“,

en ideal, sale solution that

quickly cleans everything In the bath-

room. Use it lo wash wclls, the lloor, In 1|“ sinl: and bathtub . : z end remember,

when you use Gillett’: Lye, each is dis- Inlectecl es well es cleaned with ihq one operation.

Once cub wnlt pour lull Strength Gilletfs Lye down the closet bowl and

satin with eggshell trim.

shade is adorable.

Canton-fallie crepe in rich brown

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Makes You Look. So Fresh, Young

MELLO-GLU, the new face pow- der, will keep your skin from expos- ure and preserves its youth. The new French process by which it is made makes it stay on longer,

Stew

Be sum to ﬁll in the size o: the pattern. Send stamps or coin (coin

going to leave me.

are ﬁghting over like dogs over a. bone

other.

to try to get along together in peace.

to llve with mc alone and she doesn't want tho ad- ditional trouble and work of caring for an old person, and that unless my mother leaves ‘she is

I Full mcngth for the toilet bowl

llmaiuilon iorgcneraieluning

It will clweys be clean end lree-running. Q Q I

Gllielt’: Lye has dozens of other

Whe we are alone we are the happiest, Jolllest couple in the world. but when my mother moves in my wife is the most silent, sick-hearted

AREADER.

prueuedJ little thing you ever saw. I love my mother and hate to ask llcr to 8° Pm’ o! pattern w emu to my sisters, yet if my wife leaves me I will be broken-hearted. What Q03; can I do? Give a man a lift, please. Miss Dix. . . . . . . . Answer: Name In the eternal squabble between mothers-ln-law and daulhters-iu- law-and it makes up‘ a large proportion of the misery of the world-it il ‘ ‘ ‘ ' ' ' ' ' a strange thing that neither one ever seems to consider the man they I86 1'63!

They both claim that they love him, yet neither one cares enough for him to be willing to sacriﬁce her own jealousy and sense oi possession and her own desire to monopolize him to secure his happiness. ‘they know that they torture him with their quarrels. They know that they tear his heart to pieces by running to him with their tales against each They know that they make his i118 a burden to him by_calling upon him to take sides. but the sight of his suffering doesn't cause them

It doesn't make the mother leave the home that show sou the la

I Full strength forsinl: Drains

GILLETPS Lye “Eats Dirt”

hnndv household uses. Send for the

newFIEE GilielfsLye bookletdeserlb-

lag the many ways itwiii help you wide all your cleaning.

she won't get it. worry about lt and let it so at thit-

are up to.

And she just has to make up her mind that she won't

As for tho it... girl wanting w s» her own way Ind xesentiol Id- vleq mm you and being importlnent to you, that is not because the ll a stnpchild, but because she is o human child. "sass" their mothers and talk back to them and need to be minuti-

And don't deceive yourself into thinking that there would be m! intuitive understandin between you and the child if she was your own ﬂosb and blood. There wouldn't be. You never mcct a mother W110 doesn't tell you that she doesn't kuow what to make of he: children and u“; ‘he can't do a thing with them and that she never knows what they It is the diﬂerencoln age, in temperament, in what child- ren are taught in schools and what they learn from others that makes the bar between every Imwn-ul? Ind Ivory ycunliter-

They all do u. They e11

few lines will tell you.

brim.

Paris Styles (Unliod Press Stat! qorreepondezz" By may KNIGHT .

PARIS, September 21.-(U. P.)—-Tvn hats in one with the ma; one costing not more than $10 at a maximum and the othe; m“, averaging 50 cents each-are yours if you know how, and these nest

Get a plain black Milan straw hat with a small, or medium For the Fail switch to felt or velvet. - Other straws are also permitted for Bummer in accordance with a personal prefer-em, ’I‘hen buy nine small crocheted straw, or silk-felt or velvet skull caps (that you cm llso wear separately) in different colors m4

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the pores.

For 77w Coo/r l

ful lace powder.

Toilet Goods Counters.

91w we rhubarb Juice. one-half

RHUBARB runcu

spread smoother, and will not clog Its special tint is youth- ful. No ﬂakiuess or irritation with MELLO-GLO. Try this new wonder-

Sold through all Druggists and at

WP 011-1189 Juice, one-half cup lemon Juice. three tablespoons of cyrup. one cup water. Cook three cups cut rhubarb, one cup sugar, and one cup water for twenty-minu. res. then strain. Combine one cup o! this Juice with other ingredients, chill, and garnish with sprigs of mint.

Gullah-alt Punch: One cup of IYaPeIruit juice. line-quarter cup 9751180 Juice, two tablespoons 19mm Juice, one-quarter cup each o; chmil’ 1'11“ and Syﬂlll. one cup Water. Combine ingredients; add ice. chili and serve. To vary this, add “m” Jul“ in Place o! the lemon Juice, or add tea or ginger ale in. stead of the cup of water.

Etiquette

Iyloldlllaa

Q. How are invitations to a christening sent, A. Occasionally engraved invlta, tlons are sent-but more often m- formal notes or the telephone an; used. Q. Should the butter knife rest at the side of the dinner plate with the other sliver, or on the butter plgtg?

A. Wltll the Other 5113/93

Q- What is considered the helsht of discourtesy in conversa- tion?

A. Inattention; whether inter- ested or not, always show an inter- 95$. in what others ere saying,

Shampoo Regularly with Cuticura Soap

Preceded by lnlllleaﬂonl o!

wrecking by her presence.

with her eccentrlcities and her faults for his sake.

who is torn in twain between them.

lng to sink their differences for his sake.

that a broken-up home means always a. calamity to a man.

be with you.

the ordeal.

pollze you and have her house to herself alone.

Nor does it cause the wife to show forbear- ancc and patience and klndllness to her husband's mother and put up

Truly no man is ever put in a crueler position than that c1 tho one who loves both his mother and his wife, who is appreciative o! all that they have done for him, who desires to do his duty by both oi them and And surely the mother and the wife love themselves better than they do him. ii they they are not ylll-

Just go on being a good stepmother and you will have your reward.

DOROTHY DIX. . O l I a O U ‘l O

Dear Miss Dix-Has a parent the authority to read all letters. ll"-

lonol or business, sent to a young woman who is oi age, then give to thl

girl what the parent thinks she should have, suppressing the balance?

MARY BROWN.

ABEWIIS

put them over the crown of the black hat to match whatever color note is to be your contrast with the black. You will not even need a band for the lower edge of the cap rolls to form a bend itself. A feather, or a pin, may be added if one wishes. It ls really a mum, to soy ten hats in one for in reality you have i9, considering that the caps may all be worn without the hat and that the hat may be used exclusive of the cops. .

If mother unselilshness was really as great as we exploit it to be. in a case where a. woman saw that she was ruining her son's life and that she was the cause of constant friction between him and his wife. she would withdraw from the scene of strife and at least leave her son in peace. Not that her cause is not as Just as that of the wife. not that her claims upon her son are not as valid, but because she puts his happiness above her own. and she knows that she is unintentionally alienating him from his wife, that a divorce will be disastrous to him in many ways and

Such seems to be the best course in this case. No matter how much your mother wants to live with you. she should deny herself that plea-l- ure if your wife is so violently opposed ‘to having her. There would be no happiness for her in a home ln which she knew herself to be so un- welcome and so she will be far better off with your sisters than she will And l!’ you had to live under the strain of trying to keep the peace between two antagonistic women you would lxeak under

Of course, your wlie has this much Justification, that she works in an office and has to do her own housework afterwrcd, so it is harder for her to take care of your mother than it is for your sisters who do not work outside of their homes, but it isn't the additional labor o! taking care o! your mother to which your wife objects. It ls her desire to mono-

Certainly not.

Every girl oi 2i has a legal right to her own cor- respondence. Neither her parents nor any one else has a right to open ha: letters and long before she ls 21 she has a moral right to get he! mall without its being tampered with.

DORUPHY DIX.

Booked Cucumbers

, . I171‘ UUOUMBIB I! QUITE AS TIMPTING Al WHEN COLD AND MOB! NOVEL.

Cucumbers are far more versatile than many people credit them with being—aa witness this pair cl’ reci- pes for their cooking ln ways that may be entirely new to many pec- plo. when you hsve praised and used cucumbers to accompany your fish and to give their own inimita- bly refreshing touch to the salads or sandwiches, try these hot dishes that show them in quite a different light. Delicate, they are when cook

bcoop as much of the seeds portion

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By mod vapor-mag‘ ' oinuuengJustnsbon

1 cup bread crumbs 1 cup tomato pulp l. teaspoon salt Pepper Wash and pare the cucumbers and cut them in halt lengthwise

as possible without breaking the ﬂeshy part; parboii the cucumber shells in lightly salted water for i0 minutes and drain. Meanwhile cook the onion and parsley in the

Rad Gatsup

Everyone likes catsup-or so close to genteel is its favor that one does not feel very rah in making very broad statement to this effect. > We believe that the molorlty o! people buy their catsup rosdymadc these dl-ys; excellent catsupl at a very moderate price; tempts one to do so. ma‘ those who feel the housewlfely urge to mil-kc theinown here is a good recipe.

Caioup

l0 pounds red ripe tomatoes 8 onions

2 sweet rod Poppers

l cup vinegor

8-4 cup sugar

2 teaspoons paprika

l teaspoon ground mustard 1 teaspoon celery seed

i tablespoon salt

A MorningSmilo

"speaking of animals rememtco lng," said the tall. elderly n» "when 1 was a boy I once gm a circus elephant a stick oi stripet candy."

“Vi/ell?“

"After that, whenever that circus was to parade in the town, the bor- bers had to take in their striped poles."

about 30 minutes. or until acm- what thickened. Add the vinegar, sugar, paprika. mustard, celq seed and salt. and the spices which have been tied in a small piece d cheese cloth. Boll tho mixture un- til thickened and stir frequently Fill hot sterilized bottles with till catsup. and use new cork stopper! and dip the bottle tops into ml- lng wax to make an airtight sell.

Cuticura Dintment

This treatment will keep the scalp in a health condition and the hair soft an lustrous.

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a‘ mus: . u so... u‘. lam-L poll JJflWall Otpuy,

desire to be with him.

was weak and helpless.

something for athletes to think about.

Sponsoring pansies for the button-hole, slickum for the hair and ruby luster for the nails? '

Style Chats

-_—n- WITH ‘ALMA ARCHER

I recently read. with tears in my Qygg, "men-mg to the d,

feet that various famous coaches have decided to give up and take

a hand in moulding the style inclinations of the youth o1 the country.

It seems that some big king manufacturer of spats has pulled

the trick and will shortly have Stagg of Chicago, Sutherland or Pittsburth. Zlllmko of Illinois. Yost oi’ Michigan, Anderson sue. cessor to Knute Rockne. and some oth the Columbia chain.

"s. doing a big number over

I fear for our fashions l! spate are on the Verge. o; bgcqmmg

What ll they should start

their selfish in-lawei

girl of 9. every attempt to control her or advise her.

own blood.

gards me merely as a housekeeper. Can you help me any?

Answer:

Bo cheer up.

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and be forty-seven different varieties of a domestic angel.

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a good mother and requires an extra supply of all the virtues.

than her due. '

A natural desire, and yet a very selﬁsh one, for li she had any gen- erosity of soul she would feel some gratitude toward the woman who had the travail and turmoil of rearing for her a good husband and she would l have some understanding oi that other woman's love for him and her Nor would she begrudge her husband th privilege of caring in her old age for the. mother who had cared for him when he

But is there anything in the world sadder than the situation of these unwanted mothers, who have given their lives to their children and who, when they are old, have their children's doors barred against them by DOROTHY DIX.

Dear Dorothy Dix-I am a stepmother to a. very beautiful, talented l adore her and she seems to love me. yet she resents my 1 would make any sacrifice for her, but I do not seem able to get at he: and I so long for the coni- panionship and complete understanding that come naturally to who's My husband never corrects her when she acts unkindly to me, nor docs he seem to appreciate me as much as he should. trying so hard to make a happy home for him and the child and to ba a real mother to her, but I feel that I am such a failure and that he ro-

PUZZLED STEPMUFIIER.

I think you are taking a morbid view of the situation and that all you need is to try to look the facts in the face and you will see that you! position is not different from that of almost any other wife and mother.

‘more are precious few husbands who ever really appreciate what a I l good wife does for them. Most of them Just take n. for Irantod that, of '

course, a woman ls going to be a good housekeepe and make an attem- ,tlve homo and look after their comfort and take core o! their children 8o they don't go around handing he: compliments and telling her what s wonder she is.

And that is the kind oi’ plain or garden variety of husband you have And you have to take it for granted that he does coo all that you do and is grateful to you and ln his soul is offering up thanks to whoever is tho among the angels for having bestowed you upon him.

Being a good stepmother is a hundred per cent harder job than being

the man who hu been lucky enough to draw one in his second matiri- . monial venture should be always making whoopae over it. It is no mo"

But probably he thinks that second wives come that way. anyhow, and so ‘he takes her as much a matter of course u ha did Ho. i. 1mm- ally this is hard on the stepmother, who knows that she is pulling o! an extra big job and deserves a daily vote oi thanks from bcr husband. but

ed-and of a haunting flavor that is qulto delightful to all who like them.

fat and. add the other ingredients and the cucumber pulp. and then cook the mixture for live minutes. Fill the cucumber shells with the hot utlliilrls ondqllace in a shallow biking dish. add a little wster tc

I?!“ Cucumbers

l medium sized cucumbers

1 m keep them from sticking and then 1 "41P mm‘ bake in a moderate oven for fif- 1-7 "NW9" ll" teen minutes or until the stalling 1 cup flour

ihas browned on top. Serve in the

sieve-

Para the cucumbers and cut them lengthwise in thin slices. Beat the nag slightly and add the milk and

baking dish.

l teaspoon whole all-spice i teaspoon whole cloves ll pieces stick cinnamon. 2 in-

Wuh the vegetables. slice and re move the coeds from the peppers. Cook the vegetables for about S0 minutes, then press through a fine

Store in a dark cool place. ‘Phil quantity of tomatoes will yield ai- together from 1 to i quarts of clt-

sup choc long, or cinnamon ex- erect

mal gowns. It may be triﬂlmil with lace or narrow white fur be!!- ing.

Boil the pulp rapidly for Buckles and buttons are mo"?

ant among the new trimmings.

the salt, pour this liquid into the flour and atir until smooth. Dip the slices of cucumber into this but ter sud brown them on both‘ sides in hot fat. Drain on paper and larva bot.

1 l‘ lab! Ocoaalbcn 6 largo cucumbers 3 tablespoons chopped onion’ 2 tablespoons chopped pars-

ley ‘ 4 tablespoons butter or other fat '

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Canadian - Grown Grapes for every iamily in Canada --aml prices are low

Inok for tho grade mlrki -

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velvet ls a leading fabric for lor-

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