-MARY HAWORTH

Wife Protests Al Hazards

Of Invitation

nan. iv .7 nawoiirn: As a any reader of your column. and one who enjoys Y0!" Wise (fbser"' tlons. I would appreciate your com- ments on the followinl mane"

My husband has recently ioilled

. very well-known national organ- ization which. like so mll1Y- h"

beautiful ideals and purposes: -N: which is restricted to members 0 3 certain religious persuas on.

The initiation consisted of sev- grnl parts; and the last step 'C0l'u- pletely dismayed and disilhl of me. Of course 1 know not n8 the ritual..whlch is secret. I only saw the result.

when my husband returneg little; three hours. he W35 "5" 5” J” exhaustion-after what ii?l!5'.. av? been a hazing type of initia ion.” can't understand what such sliiisyi ercise is supposed to accompa few unless to give pleasure in sadistic men-

WIlAT'8 THE GOOD? h It revolts me to think that giiliik mvagery is dplari: ofwasilit Ogtizsible n's procs . ' , r good can come of it? I can I S6-Li: out of my mind, as I think vi um , could happen to an older man W1 -a weak heart. How do the bsra reconcile such behavior vii their professed religion--when they are subjecting the dignity oi ma."- with his God-given soul. to humil- iating abuse. in the name of 800d fellowship? H

I can only think of the initiat- grs" as adult delinquents. If teen- agers inflicted such abuse on their members. I am sure that 8i'0l)'l1' ups would denounce them as being aenselessly cruel.

My husband isn't a weaklinl. morally or physically. But I know from his silence how he feelsgon mg subject. Thank -you for letting me sound-off. I shall be iooidni 1'07 your resP0n59- Y'

cLAsslCAI.' STAND

DEAR C. Y.: It is understand- able that a devoted wife would feeb mm-aged to the core, and would wish to organize a campnlan. 0 prevent such stupidity. 0" 599""3 her husband in a horrifying condi- tion of physical shock-as the price of joining a secret society. 0f "P- pogedly "idealistic" calibre.

In crying out against such prac- tises, which your husband has awicaily endured. you are touching on an aspect of human nature. wherein the female of the species differs radically from the mile- The woman. beinl Pflmlfily H13 creator (and hence by instinct the conserver) of the race. is pro- foundly disturbed by and burnirigly opposed to injurious treatment of human beings. for any reason.

Whereas males. 0!! "N 091" hand. down through the ages. have connived in their ridiculous and f in part) morbidly cruel secret ritu- als. since time lmmcmorial-as if trying to prove to themselves, and each other, that they aren t'afraid of hurt. And that they dont fear the possibility of personal death. destruction, maimlng. etc.

INNER MEANING

I think this business of trying to rove something-though what it s. they don't actually know-is hack of the initiation game. The truth of the matter is. I suppose. that their demonstration of guts amounts to "protesting too much." If they weren't afraid ( and afraid oi being found out in their fear). they wouldn't be at such pains to ''prove'' the contrary!

Their attitude towards fear is both ignorant and neurotic. The faculty of fear is an essential part of normal man's survival kit. whether in confronting so - called natural or spiritual forces in the universe. It is a faculty he should recognize. respect and intelligently utilize; not a feeling to be dis- pwned. desecrated. swept under lhe rug. etc.

1 see no sanity whatever. in sec- Fhritas that make a mockery of

i.

g men's souls with abomina- ons. M. H.

Mary llaworth counsels through her column. not by mail or per- sonal interview. Write to her in

touch there

KEEPIIN TRIM

8! Ida

Pull up a chair. overweight! . . let's talk about eating to control weight. The hardest pair! of my Job as a dietitian is trying IU 59.11 you on the idea that you can eat 0

lose weight. and that reducing meals need not take the lay out eating.

Countless overweight. have writ- ten in response to the coiunin Bl (lili- the two friends. each weighing 110. who started to reduce together. One followed a speedy iviii-i Md-V diet and quickly abiflidonrd ii. The other followed ii scientific plainvf eating. Well. our scientific reduier now weighs a . while her friend is still 170. MINIMUM OF FATS

If you are like llir Vli'lPIld Ml" didn't lose. let niiti-itinn svir-.im' help you. Here is the fi3il"""3 5"" up protein. cut fats to the hiiiir. and have a moderate aiiioiini of carbohydrate to burn the fat in terms of food. have an cu: or iii" a day. a one-halftcup soriiiii: of cottage cheese. two glasses of .-kiiii milk or buttermilk and a Senrmuh serving of lean meat. fish or foul Those foods furnish profs-in ii"iIt'il is the backbone of a l'GflUl'lIlE 4!” To keep fats to a miiiiiiiiiiii, trim off every particle from your iiicai -eat only the lean part. :li'O1(l

Mayonnaise and French dri-ssiiir:

ELLEN'S DIARY

The Glory Of

calm June when the sun lavcs - zjiut. gently with its first ilolfi. the miilpond below the trot” meadow is a mirroring P-00L it I5 an engaging place of 118m and shadow. edged by the green leaves of the alders that hrurlini! Caifh their ii-icey l'9flPCiii1ilS there. Here and there ion is the slim .E1"rH'P '7' a maiden-of-birch and the sturdy dark of the spruce.

The white bridge of road along which presently the first Md " may be the only carriage 05 the any will pass-the mailman out- ward bound to the corner-silorevtn pick up his treasure-trove of mail. painted on the still surface be- low in detail. And down the DOM- the mill with its windows. its quaint half-doors and Sables. 135 spillways and length of dam are reflected beautifully there.

And sometimes breaking the placid surface. s muskrat 00 I morning excursion leaves a riP' pling trail behind him to 1211 05 his passing. Swallows dip and skim above and often a quick- and hungry, trout leaps and fails in momentary disturbed eddies there. And even as we "steal! and stare" loving the scene. familiar yet ever new to us. a heron or it may be a pair of them. comes iill from the river. and descending silently to this fishing-ground. add an intriguing touch to the pretty

mornings. I

These Ilic fif'iilS

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Beautiful Proof Of Scientific Dieiifng

of "100 calories.

trim 125 pouiirls,

J can Kai:

and butter or margarine come un- der the classification of fats too. so these must be if c guy in mind that most fats count 100 cal. orles per tablespoon: leaving them out is the fastest w” to subtract

LOW IN CALORIES

To get that nice full feeling. use some space - filling bulky vcgg. tables. such as celery, tomatoes. lettuce. cucumbers, string beans, asparagus. etc. Have generous por. tions. These vegetables are so low in calories you can eat as much as you please. provided no. fat is l adtlcrl.

Siimc starch is needed in the .-viciitifir pattern. Take starch in your favorite food. potatoes. bread. rice or corn. Have only one starch tllffl a meal. and keep starch to 50 or 75 calories at a meal.

A sweet at the end of the meal is .-tiiiitoiiiing. but limit every day ilusscrts to 100 calories. Fruit is llii-ti choice. as it furnishes vita- Iliiila. too. A peppermint cream or a small piece of hard candy can provide a satisfying "sweet taste" to finish off: meal. Let it dis- SfIIli'C slowly to saturate the tasti- l:iu .s. ; if you have never tried scientific

fried foods and skip the claw lsliiiiminlz. you really have a treat

. in store.

New Green

caress gently and go and return- ing caress again. an affectionate 7-vrliyr of morning come in time to iirite characters there for our farmers to read.

"I reckon, Ellen." James read- ing it will say, "this is going to make a fair-gnnd day after all. I giioi-.5 we'll get something done today! Ii'.s a west wind. I see."

And the graliilaiids all about now put an the glory of new green- feathery soft is that velvet and good to the eyes of the sower. We talk of it at breakfast. the table drawn close to a window lest we by our indifference should chance to miss any of the June-loveliness about-speak too of the plans of the day. our part to leave it all to the farmers yet do what we can as farmwives to help and further their ' hopes in this season of cropping.

They come to us-the cropping- days. fresh and new and overlaid with June's magic. And so soon, too soon indeed are gone. edging into night-shadows to be quite lost to sight as is this one.

Until tomorrow - .. ..D1a;-y- Good-niilht

Six N.S. Women Make Souvenirs For Tourists

picture already there.

And presently a little breeze lands too out of the nowhere to lightly the surface here and into ribbons of silver. to

COOK'S CORNER

PEANUT BUTTER COOKIES 1 cup white sugar

1 cup lard or butter

3 eggs beaten

2 cups flour

1 teaspoon baking powder

1 teaspoon vanilla

ls teaspoon salt

Mix in order given. put on a cookie sheet. press down with fork.' Bake in moderate oven 350 deg.

eueoftlibaewspapn.

ANNE ADAMS PATTERNS

about 15 minutes or less.

4 yards 85-inch fabric.

SHIP ARBOR. N.S. (CF)-Six women in this small Halifax county village are leading the way in .5 Protect to icinpt the tourist trade with souvenirs of Nova Scoiia. Working in their own homes. the

women are turning out a variety

of items to an ever-growing local market. Examples of hand-wrought silver jewelry. wood-turning. lea- ilier craft and pottery are all b- ing prnriuced.

Weaving is a big part of the handcraft business and items like Dlaccmats. handbags and towels. all readily bought by tourists. are being concentrated upon.

The we-avers work on looms rented from the handcrafts di- vision of the provincial trade and industry department. but plan to buy their own soon.

This shore community was chosen this year for an exhibition of handcrafts because of the en- thusiasm that local women have shown. Once. a community of mills and shipbuilding projects. Ship Harbor has suffered from lack of actlty in such businesses and residents feel the handcrafts in- dlusl.i(-y will take up some of the sac .

Young Vancouver Women Become Movie Executives

different careers movie executives here.

WARDROBE WONDER! Make a wonderful new ward- robe-from this ONE dress pat- tern! Vary the neckline from man- darin collar to a low squared beauty: sleeves in three smart versions. Easy to sew. a joy to wear-those sleek slim lines are pure flattery for your figurel Pattern 4605: Misaes' Sizes 10. 13. 14, 16. 18. size 16 takes 8 1-8

This pattern easy to use. sim- ple to saw, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instructions. send THIRTY - FIVE CENTS (35 cents) in coins (stamps can- loi 50 accepted) for this pattern. Print iainly SIZE. NAMI. AD- DIEIJ. ITYLI NUMBER.

Send order to Anne Adams. care of Charlottetown Guardian. Pat- tern Dept. 00 Front Street. W.. Toronto. Ont.

HOUSEHOLD HINT

To keep leather furniture clean. whaloffweeuywithaoldlior

Mrs. Sheila Reljic. who was an

Films Ltd. Studios here. and Mrs Marguerite Rm zeboom. who stud- led to be a landscape artist. is the company's art director.

The company turns out docu- mentaries and industrial films, some of which have won merit awards.

Mrs. Reljic said she works with the director in assembling the film after the original footage is shot. "The film must be cut to action. If the film is in color. a black and white copy is made. This is cut

VANCOUVI-JR 1CPi-Two young, Vancouver women who trained for have become

actress. is film editor of the Parry

Baskets .. pastel spring flowers and lighted candelabra provided a picturesque-setting at the Sum- merside Trinity United Church on June 7 at 1.30 p.m. for the mar- riage of Beth Marlene. daughter of Mr. and Mrs. R. Victor In- man, North St. Eleanors. and Char- les Gordon. son of Mr. and Mrs. Leslie F. Simmons of Summer- slde. Rev. C. Daniel Matheson of- ficiated at the double-ring cere- mony.

Givcn in marriage by her fath- er. the bride was gowned in French Marquisette and fleur-de-its design fitted bodice with flowing skirt fashioned on the new torso line. Flattering neckline formed over shoulder to make cap sleeve with French embroidery edging in Car- ry out the motif of the dress. iier finger-tip veil of tulle illusion was held by a bandeau of white net embroidered with seed pearls. She carried :- cascade bouquet of yel- low roses with feathered carnat- ions.

Mrs David Morrison. sister of the bride. was matron of honor. and Miss Audrey Horne. R.N.. bridesmaid. They wore identical gowns of while organza with scoop neckline and cap sleeve. fitted bodice. blue riimmerbaud with large bow at back. full waltz. length skirts with large picture hats. They carried nosegays of blue and white carnations.

Mr. Donald Simmons. brother of the groom. was best man. Mr. Walter Simmons. also the groom's brother. and Mr. Maynard Schurf man ushered the guests to the pews which were marked with nosegays oi sweetheart roses and gypsophilla with white satin streamers.

Miss Ruth Simmons sang "Wod- ding Hymn" previous to the cere- mony. and during the signing of

and spliced until it is the right length. I must also cut the sound effects and narration to the proper length. Then the various sound iracks must be synchronized with the picture.

miss my acting.

SIMMONS - INMAN

"Scissors are my vital tools. but it's a very absorbing Job. I don't

.the register Miss Audrey Horne isang "Because". Miss Mary Ciel- dart was the organist. -

For her daughter's wedding, Mrs. Inman chose a dress of Cuban hello baby cord bengaline, plain lines with matching lace trim. a black picture hat, with black and white-accessories and a corsage of white feathered carnations.

The groom's mother wore a dress

of navy floral nylon taffeta with white accessories and pinned on .a.corsage of yellow roses. . A reception for 100 guests wasl held at Mulberry Lodge. Thci brldels table was centred with ai three-tiered wedding cake and candelabra. flanked by silver vases of oarnations. Mrs. Allison Beck. aunt of the groom. and Mrs. Keith Mann. aunt of the bride. poured. Rev. Sam Holmes of Wolf- ville. N.S. proposed the toast to the bride which was responded to by the groom. The Misses Mary MacGougan. Doris Heckberi.Nanne Colcs. .R. N. Florence Dunbar. R.N. Helen Cameron. R.N.. Flor- ence Coffin R N. Barbara Eng- land. R.N. Dorothy Cannon and Mrs. Warcn Lord. R.N. served. Mrs. Edith Woodslde was in charge .of the guest book.

Following the reception Mr. and Illlrs. Simmons left. mi a motor g trip to the United States. the bride. travelling in a dress of printed. white and cocoag wltir cocoa dus-. tcr. large picture hat. bi-own ac-I cessories and a corsagc of yellow; roses. On return. the couple ivilli reside in Halifax where the groom.j a graduate of Acadia University,- iias taken a position with imper- ial Oil Co. Mrs. Simmons. a grad-l uate nurse of the P.E.I. hospital; has joined the staff of Grace Mat- ernity Hospital. Halifax. '

Out-of-town guests were Mr. and Mrs. Allison Beck and daughter. Kay; Mr. and Mrs. William Cran- dull. and Miss Joey Bret. all of Moncton. N.B.: Rev. Sam Holmes. Wolfville. N.S.: Miss Audrey Horne Miss Helen Cameron. Miss Bar- bara England: Miss Nanne Coles. Miss Florence Dunbar: Miss Fran- ces Coffin; all of Charlottetown; Mrs. Warren Lord. Cape Traver- In. Sears Photo.

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idresses with matching hats and!

lay of Ciermont, P.l:.I.

Rev. J. ct;lIdII.c:Gg.I ceremony. e c urc w ifully decorated with sister lilies. daffodils. and tullvl.

The bride entered the church on t' : arm of her father who gave her in mari”lOl9- M-ill Hidher. aunt of the bride sang. "En Ta Peravi." (I Put My Trust In Thee 0 Lord). A mixed choir ran "0 Saiutaris I-footie." follow- ed by "Oh Lord I Am Not Worthy."

The bride was beautifully gown- ed in brocsded satin lace and net. Her matching petitpoint overloo- ket was topped with I Peter Pan collar trimmed with sequins and pearls. A tiers trimmed with rhine- stones and pearls held her finger- tip veil in place. She carried a white prayer book and a silver rosary. a gift of the groom. Her bouquet was red roses.

Matron of honor 'was Mrs. Ida Schibli. sister of the bride. She wore it semi-formal gown of pink matching balero. A pink coronet ' hid her shoulder lpngth veil in

wisit-3 carnatlona.

Bridesmaids were Miss Glen Curiey. sister of the groom and Miss Betty Martin of Prince Ed. ward island. Miss Curley wore g semi-formal blue brocaded lace over taffeta gown with matching balcro. She carried a nosegay.oi pink carnations.

Miss Martin wore a semi-formal jturquoise gown of brocaded lace over taffeta with matching bolero, Her nosssiiy was of vellow and white carnations. The brideg- maids veils and coroneta comple- mented their gowns.

Miss I-ledy Schibii. aged seven, and Miss Judy Hidber aged nine. nieces of the bride were flower girlia. They wore pink and yeilowi

carried Dink Jud yellow nosegsys They also carried silver rosaries gift of the bride and groom. Best man was Mr. Oscar Hid. ber. .lr.. brother of the bride. Ushers were Mr. Harold Bates and Mr. Stanley Pidsadny.

The wedding dinner was held at the Telkwa home of the bride's parents.

Guests were received by the

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Cecelia 0901!!!! by Mr Mra. Frank Hidher. Dancing fol- orled to

place. She carried a nosegay of I

-VIRUS Leukemia

County Hospital. report to the third National can- cer conference in Detroit. has pre- sented evidence thatileuiiemia- blood cancer-is caused by virus. and may be controlled by a vac- cine. The doctor said he has made such a vaccine and used it suc- cessfully in mice. At present. leuk- bride's mother who was gowned emla is 100 per cent fetal.

JUNE l5fli

JUNE 2411!

l Curley-ll-lidber Wedding . Celebrated In Br. Columbia

Louie Hidbtr and

Eric Martin and daughter of Prince Rupert and Mr.

and Mrs. J. Bchibll and children. of Kitimat and Miss Glen Curley of Vancouver. t

For their honeymoon the bride

wore a blue grey suit topped with a white wool coat. were red. They w ii on where the groom is on the school teaching

Her accessories reside in Smith-

staff.

ELEANOR ROSS "

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iodieally bol moreelnzeotfobofriiaiiiiigtlic home.Noneoflf?esewomealea prof .'l'iiey

er. Each one takes her turn as fess. Refreshments are served so that there's a social tone to the gathering.

GOOD IDEA

The idea certainly does make sense. for-some women are good at organising housewo it, others are kitchen wizards, others have a imaclr for decorating. while still others have a knack for speeding up the family laundry. some of the specific ideas that were pooled and

fer chore. .

HOLIDAY LAND P.E.I. is a holiday iaiid

, Won't you come over and get a

sun tan? . You may rent a boat lryou wish

, Or sit all day on the" bank and fish.

The country is pretty as it can be. The people are friendly as you can

see.

Our sandy shores are smooth and bright

And you may swim by day or night

The obovs poem was written by Catherine Iliepherd 10 year old

Shepherd. King St.. Charlottetown.

- Catherine is in Grade Five Roch-

ford Square School. Charlottetown.