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HAPPENINGS

Mrs. Lena Thibideau. Mis- eouche is recovering at home after being a patient in Prince county Hospital.

Close to 175 persons attended a mixed shower given at the Clover Club recently for Miss Tona Edwards in honor of her forthcoming marriage to George

Mrs. Gabriel Arsenault. MIS- Mm. Ralph (keen Gauche, he to her home assisted by Miss Vera Doyle' after visiting with daughters Mrs. Mark Thistle and Mrs?

Rita and Elaine in New York

George Ga-rnhum. organized the GIU-

evenit. bywlIi)ich included piano , . mus c ouglas MacEwen and Ml:é gezthsatpesllochebrhtlls- zgepdancing by Marlene Wea- wuc en In mce enbie. Lorrai F‘l

county ww- ne anagan and

Mfitine Green.

axlne Green ' The weekly whist party was “6th M1 held on Thursday evening with

as fElklwards with a of - owers. A nod 14 babies m may. prizes were De of dancing and

the serving of refrehments com» pleted the evening. Master of . ceremon w ’ ‘ the consolation. Ephem Cassie es as hm Simpson. won the men's prize and the consolation went Tommy audet. Lunches were sold with the proceeds in aid of Miscouchc firemen.

Mr. and Mrs. Reginald Mur- ray. Bedeque had as their guests over the Easter holidayis their son. Ross and his fiance Miss Gloria Lukasik both of Winona. Ontario.

Miss Bernice Weeks. Char- lottetown. ers. Josie Minard.‘

Allan and Cathy Squarebriggs. .

Fredericton. and the Misses‘Westview Drive are spending Georgina. and Ann 'atheson. I the weekend with their grand- Summerslde were vi51tors to parents_ Mr. and Mrs. Johnl Sou-ms on Friday. I Doyle, Snmmerville. l‘

Aw '.I AMI/ORTH i

Alcoholic Father-ln-Law Creates Family Problem

Dear Mary Haworth: My hus- jadvanced in this stage of alco—- band is a wonderful man andholic deterioration. Which may e h e been married three iexplain why he hounds you and years. Unfortunately we h avethe babies with 'n‘ulsance visits inJaw problems. ‘that are plainly unwelcome: a His father is an alcoholic and {why he picks fights with y 0 ti his mother is a gossip. nice to about your sensible disapproval your face. but she carries tales of his interference with the chi]- about anything and everyone..dren's regimen. and twists the facts In telling.l In short. evidence Indicates so that the truth is hardly re-; at he is not only loaded al- eognizable. lcaholically. but emotionally off During my marriage I've had I balance to boot. when he comes three heated arguments with to see the babies and quarrel

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ELLEN’S DIARY Red Water A

nd Wind

Rule Out Fishing Trip

Mack. up early. looked down from the yard this morning. to the millstream running in an in- creased and troubled flow. H i 3 expression was wistful. . .Like the younger farmer. his dad. he is a good angler. Not drawn to it at a whim. A glance tells them when wind and ripple are In tune. Then we have seen the elder. or the younger in his turn. drop the interest of the moment and slip away. Usually with a dog at heel.

And sometimes when we have been on a stroll, maybe only to possess our soul with encourage- ment, or call it inspiration. when the woman's work of this farm. as we would have it. was proving too demanding; and we had "come apart." to gather it might be a handful of field blossoms. or just to look out over the so lovely spring or summer world. we would come by where the lad fished. by the quiet of the alder-fringed stream. How intent he would be, lost to the spell of the pastime. the dog lying nearby in an attitude denoting complete happiness.

Scampie was with Mack in the yard. this morning. eyes. ears alert. “It's no use Scampie," he said. “The water's red. And feel that wind! It's not the best one to go fishing on - that's for sure. We‘ll just have to wait.

just pick up the type I have in mind. That's the trouble. It's a mistake to put feed into one that's off - type. I believe." he said moving off to his breakfast. “I'll keep an eye out to see If I can find something I like."

There came 0 fishing for Mack this first day of the ang- ling season. However others came by to old haunts. to find them. we suspect. much chang- ed. Not. the pleasant places

ey knew in summery seasons. but bound with snow and more or less forlorn. And evidently disappointed they soon went away. I

“It keeps cool and dampish." Papa Starling commented. words

he chuckled as spread first pieces of wash. “I

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There is mist of damp now on the windows, and beyond the night is dim. But the day bron- ght Mack his pair of feeders, to go one day on a sunny spring- wind to the fresh green of the grass. It gave Alex stirring tul- ips to count in our basement- planting, of the autumn.

Gard-en Hints Meeting Topic

Thirteen members of Fortune Bridge W.I. met on April 2 at the harm of Mrs. Lloyd Town- ahend. Minutes of last meeting were read and approved. I-‘in- ancial report was given. show- ing cash on hand 8182.21. 386.29 being realised on six card parties held during sea- son. Prizes for high scores for season were won by Mrs. Hen- ry Townshend and Roger Fran- s.

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ndence was read.

(kirrespo Eight pamphlets on flower-gar-

dening were distributed. as well as Institute News.

Mrs. Lloyd Townshend and

rs. Henry Townshend, con- vener for meeting on Agricul- ture. the topic of the onth. gave interesting readings. gar~ dening hints and put on a con

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Next meeting will be held at the home of Mrs. Harry Burke.

we lunch committee. Mrs. George

Jackson and Mrs. Billy Aitken. Roll call to be answered Housecleaning Hints.

School Is to be scrubbed dur- ing Easter Holidays.

eetlng was brought to a

close with the Queen. Lunch was served.

HOUSEHOLD HINT .

I “I think this Will be a S oodl Grease spots can sometimes summer." he smiled ibe removed from wallpaper by Until tomorrow -— — Diary—gholding a piece of blotting paper Good-night. : . .

3' Perfect for slims.

l Holiday Fun ilncreased By Right Clothes

Going south! What a wonder- ful time for a vacation In the warm. golden sunshine.

Any holiday can be more fun if time is taken to pack the rialt clothes. Many styles may rve a dual urpose. so pack carefully. For instance. a dress and Jacket may be both day and evening. and a mix- match set of shirt. slims, shorts and skirt, has endless possibiill-

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The same holds true for foun- dation garments. Although one foundation won't for all your fashions. with a little extra plan- ning. a minimum num ‘ carry you through your holiday trip.

SMOOTH LINE A long-legged panty girdle is an excellent all 'round garment. Jamaica or Bermuda shorts..it is also right for slim skirts or eases. be- cause it gives a smooth line from the waist to the thigh. For a flattering midriff and lwaistline. a long-line bras. may ' the long-legged

consideration might a all-in-onc gar ment with legs. which combines ' the features of both.

For the cocktail hour and af-

I worn panty: or be given to

I peared in the St. Laurent col-

against them with a warm Iron. ;' tor-five wear. the deciding fac-1

wont things clear away. Then we‘ll go."

"That will be the day!" we smiled. "A ‘happincss day' " we said. -

A company of Canada geesei flew overhead. winging acrossI

from rim to rim of our valiey.:

"Seven." Mack counted. I

“A lucky number." we offer-5 ed. “You know. - the seventh day. the seventh year. . .t e‘ seventh son of a seventh son.l the seventh daughter of a sev-l enth daughter!" ‘ I

“This might be a good day tori me to do something I‘ve had in mind of late." he grinned. “I've been wondering. if it wouldn't' e a sensible move for me to invest what that animal of mine brought me at the Fat StockI Sale. in a feeder - or perhaps a pair of them. You see. I could put them on the'grass. and if this is a decent summer. they'd make a’ nice gain. I don‘t seel that I would stand to lose on

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WOMEN’S ORGANIZATIONS

Missionary Groups Combine; To Present Easter Program F”

A combined meeting of the W.M.A.S. and W.M.G. Mission- ary groups was held in O’Leary Baptist Church on Tuesday ev- ening. with president Mrs. Dan Smallman in chair.

very impressive Easter program was carried out Inclu- ding the following: “An Easter Meditation" by Mrs. Ralph Bishop. Scripture Reading by Foster Smallman. follow- with prayer by Mrs. Nesbitt.

Monologue. “Magdalene's Story“ by Mrs. Wilfred Dennis duet. “In the Garden" by Mrs. James Harris and Mrs. Lawr- ence Harris: Prayer was offer-

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Mr. Y (the father). The lat-y

with you.

eat. a few weeks ago, wasl quite heated. He said. among other things. first I am no good and henpeck my husband.

He feels he is such a good grandpa that he insists upon seeing our two babies at least twice a week. at any hour. and wakens them if they are asleep. which I disapprove. He claims our elder child, 22 months old. is being brainwashed to dislike

It may be that in an lscure way he feels specially at-‘ Itracted to you and is pursui n g -th i s attraction compulsiver lwhile also denying It. when he lbarges in to provoke heated ar- guments.

Also. of course. he may feel that his son's household is an extension of his own (the fath- er's) life and that he has a right, therefore, to come and go as he

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him. isn't true. Our doc- pleases. tor says children that age often In typical alcoholic fashion. throu a f being I moreover he probably feels de-

sperately lonely, isolated. un- wanted and worthless when in his cups. and may head for your

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frightened by outside adults. After the latest argument.

my husband'twho wasn't home

at the time) notified his father house. and proximity to the ba-

not to come here unless he, my i‘bies. in'hopes of having a non-

husband. will be home' nd. lrejecting human encounter

‘thcm. If." he added. “I could;

Graham’s Road

' M .N bltt. Womens Institute . '“iI‘YSI': sulsg airing the ser- Helps Hospikfl ‘vice were “When I survey the

Wondrous Cross". “Alas a nd The regular monthly meeting? did my savmr bleed H. and ' ‘ i ‘I ~ 1 I. of the Grahams Road wJ. wa J Christ the Lord is R sen held April 16 at the school with‘

A letter was read by the pro; ' . l o the president Mrs. John Camp-l “dent from Mrs M0“ son ell in the chair.

Summerside regarding the sale The meeting opened with the;

cd by Mrs. Wilfred Dennis: a 'dialogue. “The Easter Story" was presented by Mrs. Earle Jelley. Mrs. Emmerson Small-

nf handicraft. After some dis-

Mary Stewart collect in unison! refiaggftadgd to leave The _mlnutes of the previous] Plans for our annual Moth, meeting were read by the sec-a ".5 Day “wide to be left to retary Mrs. Waldron Ferguson]the program commission 81_ Thirteen members answered! ready appointed I roll call with impovements to Visiting committee reported , be made in the district in 1964.‘ T

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also, not to come unless sober. But the next week he was back I again, drunk. bringing beerl ‘ which we don‘t al- ways keep on hand.

After trying hospitalization and other remedies to no avail. doctors have dismissed his case as hopeless. saying his days are numbered if he doesn't stop

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How can I get along with this pair, when I have lost all love and respect for them? Every- thing ey do. I was taught is wrong. I Just dread to see them coming up the walk to our house. On holidays I find my- self making excuses to 'avoid being with them for long hours. I don't want to hurt my hus-

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ere. It has been observed that quar- reling is a neurotic equivalent of emotional closeness. used by persons wanting attention. hun- gering for acceptance.

can’t achieve a positive relation- ship with anyone. This also may play a part in Mr. Y's harass- ment of your household.

As for how to cope with your in-laws, you seem to be doing very well. You have remained clear with yourself about your real values: you are honest with yourself about your moral aller- gy to them: your husband ap- preciates your problems with them; and you’ve wisely invok- ed your doctor as referee. in re- sisting Mr. Y's interference with

ltwelve calls made. he correspondance was read - . and discussed. ' Meeting closed With mizpah.

. , T A delicious lunch was then aer- It was deemed t0 send.5““"‘ ved by the hostess. Mrs. Rosa clent money to the Prince Stung. one:

County Hospital to buy

mattress cover. The paper on‘ ARGYLE SHORE WI agricultlarc 30m Mrs. Mellish‘ The April meeting of Argyle. W85 Tea 8 lllle Questionnaireisihore Women's Institute was .was discussed and answered. held at the home of Mrs. Fred ‘Copies of the Institute newsl MacPhail with eight members were distributed. It aws decid-l present, and the president in the Ed to send two dollars to the I chair. ‘ aster seal Campaign. Mrs.’ ~ { bazaar were I GWEe MacLe°F‘.and MFS- R°Y MASS-251T: :3; :0]! call. The sick ‘Brown are to VISIt the school. committee reported one visit . Mrs: Fred. Campbell had ‘ and treat given. Correspond- lé’erl’ mtficngg 195?" :11 3:: ence was read and dealt with.

emng. rs. a amp e a

. ~ Members discussed ways of

Mrs. Marshal Whitehead pre- improving the community and

pared fun and nonsence. Mrs. . . . - ~ the institute. It was decided to Louis MacLeod Is to prepare s or n Cross sewing.

band. Please advise me. C. . the children. You may be har- Programme for next mwt'lng v

Dear C. Y.: The drunkard ried. but you aren't swamped or on citizenship. Mrs. Armel Ne“ meeting "5 to be he” 3‘ Who is systematically drinking defeated. acKinnon is to have .fun and ’ ‘ v v ‘ ‘ ‘ himself to death may coast into Read Hannah Whitall Smith's nonsetlce for next meeting RP“ h n Em“ CARR I sort of alcoholic psychosis in llassir “The Christian's Secret Ball to. be answered With I ' 4 the final phase of his addic- of a Happy Life" (Revell). It your favorite sweet. The meet- “In...” Conan,“

lion. so that he is no longer ra- tionally accountable for his mis-

wlll point the way to making the lag W88 Closed by singing The ueen.

the home of Mrs. John D. Mac- Phail with Mrs. Morris Mac-l al lid rs. Douglas S.I MacPhail on lundh. Roll call isl‘ to be answered with a grab bag. I

SUMMERSIDE WMS The April meeting of the WMS of the Summerside Presbyterian Church was held Tuesday after; noon in the church parlor. Miss Jean MacFadyen led the worship service on “Great Eas- ter W o r d s" with responsive reading from St. John and prayer by Mrs. Lexie Gillis. Mrs. W.E. Forbes was pianist. During the business session conducted by the president, Mrs. Vernon Campbell. it was decided to take a special collec- tion for Kier Camp at the next meeting. The mission study was pre- sented by Mrs. Ernest Walker on “Religion; Situation; ‘in Tai- won".

‘ sure to include

,tor will be your fashions. If Iyour party wear requires it. a

'stra-pless bas. will be included. . . I This may be a bandeau style. a' the h‘gh'Shape‘j 51”“ m°d°l'

basque or one of today’s love- liest all-in-one garments which has straps which convert to ' e you a high. off-the-should- er halter or strapless neckline.

SPECIAL DRESS

And don't neglect your "pet" foundation when packing. Most women have a special dress that looks best when worn with a specific foundation garment. Be it. Foundation garments are light-weight a nd easy to pack. and that one extra garment may make the differ- enCe between a flattering and a 50-50 outfit.

Whichever f o u n dation gar merits you choose to pack. con- sider these points:

ordinate your fashion wardrobe with your foundation garment wardrobe. It will pay off in com- flattering silhouette.

Second. keep your foundations fresh while traveling by rolling them in a plastic bag. And take along some gentle soap flakes for regular laundering while

fort and a

First. take the trouble to co-

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SUMMERFIELD CW1. Miss Mamie Cameron was IhosteSS to the St_ James parish

of the Summerfield CWL. Director Rev. B. Croken open- ed the meeting. Fifteen mem bers were present. Correspondence consisted of a thank you car from Mrs. C.W. letters from Mrs.

grade against the odds describ- behavior when "under the in- ed. M H I fluence." as the phrase is. Your father-in-law may be well

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Femininity Appears Keynotef'l-eather Linings For Paris Spring Fashions

The mood of the Paris apringl collections Is first and foremost;

portance was the semi-fit coat, with the high mounted p e r k y

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In Spring Shoes

There's another side to

one of softness. prettiness and1 sleeves of Dior. These sleeves feminine footwear fashions this

great femininity. The news of the collections is top level, that isl

were definitely new. set high on‘ the s to the neck. I

spring—the Inside. Leather lin- logs that are smooth. sleek and

above the waist and probably; slightly. almost invisible puffed colorful add a smart new dini'

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the most pronounced influench and definitely giving an appear-I ension to comfortable shoes.

to be seen throughout all the col-‘ lections is that of the common- place well-known peasant shirt. I

The shape... is an lmpresslon§

ance of width at the shoulder; line.

The new Paris suit is skinny and feminine. has a slightlyj

Seen at the New York spring

‘preVlCW at Shoe Fashion ser-

vice of

were an abundant variety of

of slimness. Shoulders that arellonger jacket. a higher belti shoes featuring new hues and

slightyl wider. waists that ride,

worn above the natural waist-

finishes in leather linings. Moat

high and are sometimes loosely' line and. wider shoulders. It ap-.I numerous among the colored

belted and sleeves that have the strong shirt inf‘uence gathered into a cuff band above the waist.

The colour: the outstanding . colour was the old, old favourite navy blue. Navy and white ap-

lection— navy suits and dress- es accessorized by sparkling white organdy scarfs. collars and cuffs, sometimes starched.

In day time clothes. b‘ack and white remained in top priority positions. The colours have lost their very sharp, rather harsh look of the past seasons 8 n d ranged from a depth of brilliant colour to the palest of almond candy tones. WOOL TWILLS

Wool twilIs were still v e ry predominant but the surprise of. the collections was the strong: return of wool gabardine— aI very finely twilled gabardine in a very light weight. It appeared in many dresses and suits a in slightly heavier weights for coats.

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The most popu‘ar coat was

us- ually collared and belted high at

CHOSEN PRESIDENT

WASHINGTON «AP! — Her- bert Brucker. editor of the Hart— ford lConn.) ourant. was cho- sen president of the American Society of Newspaper Editors Saturday. Brucker moves up from first vice-president to suc-