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Dear Mary l-lauorth: My boss comes to our company dances alone when his wife is ill or out- of-town. And he doesn't just drop in, to show good will. but stays the whole evening. dancing vigor- ously and rather showing off, try- ing to be young and ll-"i.Vm35 ll making the most of being unfet- tered. I can't under-struiil uh)". 115 his wife is a gooil dziiii-or and they seem quite happy toiicilier

The boss seems to lose his dill- uity and decorum on these occas- ions and dances with greatAabdn- don with the young women, ll'lClll( - log me (his scci'Piarl”- ll” ml dance with me more than once Ln turn, much In my hushzinii's annoyance. who hassajd to "10 confidentially: "Wit?! ISM ll9.l0)!8l to his wife. instead of making a fool of himself with all this hilar- Hy?"

IT SEEMS WRONG

other men and women make open comments. behind his back. and the men seem rather embar- raued by him. They laugh self- consciously and scowi when he dances with their wives. Once when he didn't come to a dance. several of the men remarked (in dancing with me) that it was I relief. that now we could all re-

lax . . .

Still we all like him. In fact. I guess it is because we do like him and his wife that we feel dis- mayed about this one aspect of his behavior. Somehow it just doesnt geen) right. Am I (or are we) being unfair in sensing something amiss, and feeling curious?- I have worked for him for over two years and know him rather well. would I be overstepplng. to tell him what people are saying? KT-

THINK WIFE UNCONCERNED

Dear Kt; you've sent two letters in the same mail on this subject. one handwritten. the other typed- nnch tellills much the same story 4,1 your Qmployef'l Peter Pan be- havior at certain company dances when his wife isn't present. And each is a puzzler: not as regards the boss's vigorous prancing. the meaning of which seems fairly ob- vious; but rather. 011 the 800" Of your really undue emotional con- cern about his performance.

But possibly it is natural for a conscientious secretary to feel emotionally identified. for better or worse, with her employer a

pal -ity rating (good or bad), E) up one of fellow workers.

Perhaps this explains your un- conscious sense of spotlighted em- barrassment. bqth as Partner l0- and witness of, Mr. Big's gallop- ing display of vitality on the dance floor. when bzndlrops in solo-and npendl ev g.

To be about it. I suppose we not good.form, nor good lead- ership psychology either. perhaps. for Mr. Big to do the gay blade routine. conspicuously having him- self a ball. cutting a rug with young women employees at office parties when his wife can't be present. But as I get the picture. he isn't being slyly disloyal to his wife at such times. Indeed it oc- curs to me that she may contrive to send him alone to these dances occasionally. just to give him an "unfettered" feeling in relation to her.

THE LOST YEARS

As for the significance of his eavorting. no doubt it is very in- nocent. It is my guess that he hadn't much chance at youthful pleasures when he was younggand now feels impelled to make up for lost time. He probably slaved his way to the top and. looking back. would like to include fun and good fellowship. and gay-hearted friend- ship with women. in his success repertory.

Somehow it doesn't seem right. you say; but perhaps "inapprop- riate” is the word you mean Mr. Big's "hair down" caperlng after office hours lolts the staff's real respect for him. a respect based on working knowledge of his sound capabilities on the job, I suppose. You are discnncerted by the contrast between certain ma- ture, versus certain immature. as- pects of his character, it seems.

My advice is. don't try to fit

Army's home for ietired o

nlv ert liargrave.

Friends who wc..1 to tea recent-

y at the Manor. the Salvation been on an extended visit to the fficers New England States for the past five weeks has returned home.

n Toronto, celebrated a very spec- al occasion-the 67th wedding an- zary of Col. and Mrs. Rob-

This anniversary was of great

interest to all classes and creed: day, June 21st. at the.Parkd.nle but of course expecially to Sal- Hall with almost one hundred vationists.

Colonel and Mrs. iiargrave have

worked in the Army all their mar- mother. Mrs. ried life, but Mrs. liarEr8Ve. who were joint hostesses for the occa- ls in her 88th year, holds the di.s- sion. The hall was colorfully dec- tinction on having the 10118651 681" orated with pink and blue stream- vice record in all of the 87 count- ries in which the Army operates. ed table was centered with a

ller niuther, Mrs. Captain Wil- liam Beatty. was William Booth's first woman convert; and she herself. as Elizabeth Beatty. when only 12. was commissioned a lieutenant. She was also present- ed with the first uniform design- ed specially for girls.

Mrs. Hargrave recalls vividly the dangers attached to the Army's meetings in those early days. At 13 she was jailed after a rioting mob broke up a service. Another time she was locked up in a dairy and barely esccped with her life.

She first met her husband when she was an officer at Chelsea and he was one of her soldiers.

They transferred to Canada in 1895. coming first to Toronto. Mov- ing to different parts of the count- ry. Col. Hargrave. who is now in his 92nd year, held many pos- itions, including that of divisional commander in Hamilton. When he retired in 1930 he was secre- tary for property affairs ar nat- ional headquarters.

They have two daughters, Mrs. Albert Edward Montgomery. who lives in New York State. and Mrs. W.N. Goodier of Montreal. and both their husbands are Salva- tionists. The rest of the family in- cludes six grandchildren and 14 great-grandchildren.

Chief Petty Offlozr James W. Ward. R.C.N.. Mrs. Ward and children David, Robbin and Alan, are visiting Mrs. Ward's parents, Mr. and Mrs. Frank Walk- er, city. Mr. Ward has been trans- ferred from Hamilton, Ont.. where he was stationed the past two and a half years. to H.M.C.S. Corn- wallis, N.S. En route from Ham- ilton the Wards motored through New York State, Vermont, New Hfimilshire and Maine, where they visited friends and relatives.

Mrs. John M. Walker, Toronto. accompanied by her children Heather. Debbie and Donna. is visiting her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Phillip Doyle, City.

Mrs. Richard M. Over with her children Dianna and Graham have arrived from Quebec City to spend several weeks the guests of Mrs. 0ver's parents. Mr. and Mrs. Ar- thur Mutch. They were accompan- ied by Mr. Over and Mr. Frank P0Wer. M.P.. Oi Quebec who have since returned.

KINGSTON WJ.

The regular monthly meeting of Kingston W.I. -was held at the home of Mrs. 1-Ieber Campbell on Thursday. July 5th., meeting Opened by repeating the island Hymn followed by the Creed in unison.

Roll call was answered by 10 members. one visitor. Minutes of last meeting were read and ap- proved. The treasurer gave her report. Bills were mesented and paid.

53.55 was passed in from ice cream. It was moved we send hi to Polio Post.

Mrs. Newson and Mrs. Hanson gave a report of the Convention in Charlottetown. Correspondence was read by the secretary.

Lunch committee for next meet- ing is Mrs. Merrille Green. Mrs. Edgar Newson and Mrs. Fylpha Newson; next meeting to be held at the home of Mrs. George Dix- on; roll call something for an auction sale.

Lunch was served by the host- ess assisted by Mrs. Keith Dixon and a social hour spent.

persons into grooves in your think- ing. Observe them "as is," try to understand them. and don't be a busybody about others' shortcom- ings. M.H.

Mary Haworth counsels through her column not by mail or per- sonal interview Write to her in care of this newspaper

ANNE ADAMS PATTERNS

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I'lQUSEI'lOLD HINT

were honored with a shower pre-

Seud order to Anne Adams. care '1

Mrsfliarry Matlieson who has

Mr. and Mrs. C. Alan Lonaphie vious to their marriage on Thurs- guests present.

Miss Marilyn McGee and her Ernest McGee

ers and balloons. A lace cover-

wedding cake and candles. The bride and groom were es-

corted to the stage where two chairs were pretilly decorated with streamers. A table was piled high with presents which were then opened by llnrilyn McGee and the many verses read by Lois McGee. .'ilrs. Lloyd Shepherd ar- ranged the gifts and Mr. Longs- phie thanked everyone on behalf of his bride and himself gor all the beautiful gifts. The guests joined in a chorus of "For They are Jolly Good Fellows". A delic- ious lunch was then served by the hostess assisted by Mrs. Peter Doyle. Miss Lois McGee. Miss Rita Gaudet and Mrs. Lewis Mac- Fadyen. Dancing became the chief en- joyment of the evening. Music was rendered by Donnie Gallant on the guitar, Douglas McEwen at the piano and Eddie Aisenault on the violin.

A very pleasant evening came to an end with Miss Weatherby, Fred Gallant and Vitley Birt en- tertaining with a lively step dance.

On Sunday. June 24th. Mrs. Fred McMahon entertained at an after- noon tea in honor of her niece Miss Pamela Gaudet, a popular June bride. A beautiful table covered with hand crochet lace cloth lighted candlebra and delicious dalnties made a very charming scene. Mrs. Fred Gallant poured from a silver tea service while Mrs. John Thistle. Miss Rita Gaudet.

Beverly Gaudet assisted in serv- lng

pictures.

"r. and Mrs. Henry J. O'Shea and sons Patrick and Michael have arrived this week from Cal- gary to visit Mrs. 0'Shea's mother. Mrs. M.G. ,McNsely, Water Street.

Mr.and Mrs. B.B. Jones. Bun- bury. have as their house guest Miss Marian Jones. West Rox- bury, Mass.

HUNTER RIVER C.W.L.

Mrs. Andrew Gallant was host ess for the July meeting of St. Marys of the People's sub-divis- ion of the Catholic Womens Lea-

gue.

The President, Mrs, F.J. Dou- cette presided, opening the meet- ing with the League prayer. Correspondence contained a let- ter on the ”Decenty Crusade" re the sale of literature; also the nomination forms to be filled and returned to Miss Arsenault. The President and Secretary were appointed to attend the Annual Con- vention August 21 and 22nd. The Church committee to assist Sac. ristor for July is the Misses Mary. Rita and Luetta Gallant. Mem- bers decided to start a travelling basket. The August meeting will be at the home of Mrs. Curley. Refresh- ment commlttee. Mrs. F.J. Cou- cettae, Mrs. Gerald Proctor and Mrs. C.H. McGuigan. Mem” 3 reported making Holy Hour each Thursday as outlined by spiritual convenor Mrs. Arthur Gallant. Spiritual convenor for July Mrs. Ernest Bolger. Meet- ing closed with the Hymn to our Lady of Good Counsel and the Act of Conseerntion followed by a social hour and refreshments.

CORRAN BANN C.W.L.

Twelve niembe . of the Curran Bann Subdivision of the C.W.L. met at the home of Mrs. Emmett Martin on July 4 for their month- ly meeting.

The president, Mrs. Aeneas Mac- Dougall presided and opened the meeting with the League prayer. The secretary read the minutes of the previous meeting. These were approved and signed as read. Two members paid dues. The Sacred Heart Dime-a-week banks were distributed to ten members. Correspondccne read iucludeda letter from Provincial Diocesan Council re nominations.

Four members volunteered to re-finish seats in Sanctuary. Dis- i on holding dances in the hall for summer months followed. Arrangements for annual picnic were talked over and a meeting of the executive to be held later to make the final plans.

The director. Fr. Wood. spoke briefly to the mcmbe a after which he gave his blessing to all present. Meeting closed with the Act of consecration by the pres- ldent.

Mrs. Daniel Bradley. kindly in- vited the members to her home for the August meeting. Lunch was served by the hostels and com- nittee in charge.

I Sell and Install

Automatic WATER H EATERS

Miss Marilyn McGee and Miss

The hostess gift to the bride of the month was a set of silhouette

Page The Guardian Wed-. July 18 1956

ELLEN'S DIARY

. These days as haylands ripen toward the mowing the air is dad- en-wlth the scent of clover-. We catch its fragrance now through the open window, borne in on the night-breath that stirs gently the curtains. . .And with it. would we not know? The delicate summer lullaby of the water dropping from the .spillwnys on the darn. . And we recall that last spring. James declared he ”'never saw hemr promise than the catches of clover”, showing then in the 51 nlng meadows. Of late he and Mack mark the growth of the bay in-the field by the laneside. watch- lug it reach to the upper wire of the fence, then top it. They smile, and by this we know that given good haying-weather there will again be plenty to save'to take the stock through their season of stabllng. Meanwhile it grows and takes summer along ot its zenith. One summer-aye. only one sum- mer!

"Now who dat chile done lef' dat flshin'-pole on dis back ve'- andah right dar befo' mah eyes to be a wile ob Satan fo' dis wo- man dis mawnin”! Wid dc nices' little ripple a-running' tlong dat pon'!" we giggled rolling eyes estatically-we duty-hound. con- science-bound woman. but so eas- ily inveigled away.

What a nice morning this was to go fishin'. To lose such cares of office as are ours along stream and pond: to give thx.-m over to this and that trout that teasingly made the stout float on the line dance for a moment in the rip- ples before with a long laugh which reached the surface in bub- les he retired to other haunts of stream. Buttercup. belch. Queen

Morning To Go Fishing

bird-galleries of Alder and other trees. what a fetching company was there to sing for our Pleas- ure.

"Bites. bites! Yo' is a no-good fish-woman. Ellen! Not a one did yo' lif' above dat dar watali. Must not tell the chilluns. Dcy'll laugh fit to kill. so dey will. Fish dar- uice 0nes4anlt catch 'em no- how. Beltah pile yo-sei off home an get yol dinnah to cookin'. As yo” ole man says, tDat's one thing yo-al can do!"

"its something I always enjoy," James said at dinner. "Yes, there is noting I like better than to be putting some building in repair. Now when we get those sills under that barn and the roofs shingled. well. it will be nice to have it done."

That was the work today-re- pairing the buildings at another farm of the place. The carpenter with Gage and Mack as his ap- prentices. both well practiced with hammer and nails, shingled a low roof there; the others. in- cluding Jamie. were intent on raising a barn so that fine new sills might be put into place, many hands serving together to lighten the labour.

"We brought you and my moth- er shingles for your fires" Mack announced coming in at his day's end. l"Ans.” he smiled, "we brought the new moon. Want to see it?"

ilMind you look at it over the right shoulder.” said a voice from the dusk. We found it in a bright '.bOW. "Up above the world so fair" over the sleepy summer fields.

''It's right new," Mack offered.

A nice day? Aye, one pictured and kind.

Anne's Lace, every kind of water- weed. . .how lovely! And in the

Until tomorrow - - - Diary Good-night.

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MRS. GORDON MacM1LLAN

'A COUNTRY GARDEN

Give me a gradan filled with quiet tim

flowers. I

Fragrant at morn-

Sweet lavender, delpliinium and rose,

so shall new hope be born.

So shall niydroams be glad. who watch than away,

All rapturously through the long summer day;

And when the long days close,

Give me a rose.

Lavender and roses bloom to- gether in the garden; and if you plan on making lavender sachets it is now the time to cut it when the bloom is at its best. All the lovely scents of the garden can be gathered up in a pot-pourrl for the winter season and many gar- den books give recipes. some sim- ple and others very elaborate.

Here is one that seems easy enough for any of un. . .Gather all the following flowers and herbs on a fine day-Roses, Thyme, Rose- mary. Sweet Marjoram. Lavender. Myrtle. Southernwood B I l in. Sweet Basil. Bay Leaves. Dry them thoroughly by spreading out on sieves in the shade. when dry rub all to powder and add at discretion pounded clot es. a little musk and orrla root. Almost all of these flowers grow here in the garden and I cannot think of any- thing more pleasant then gather- ing up these lovely scents for the months when we do not have them.

In addition to the fragrant flow- era mentioned and blooming now. are the Madonna Llllles. In the evenings it is possible to find them by following the scented bmze to their planting in the rock gard- en here with pale pink roses and delphinium nearby. Sweet William in another good companion flower for the lilies blooming at the same

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And think the thoughts that lilies speak in white,

33' Kreell Wood pools and pheas- ant passages.

We are not wholly wise to love the spring. for there is splendo in long summer days. in misty mornings. When no shadow plays upon the water's surface. glitter- ing like some smooth shining mir- ror. And birds sing still. more rapturougare they in their praise for theirs is life's fulfilment. No- thing stays unchanged forever. for lummer gives a host of flaming colours, blue and gold In sum- mer'I cloak. and loyoua music lives in simmer woods.

T114! Hamill! ' of the an- nuals are just beginning to show. and they are such a ' 2 as