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solution of hot water and alum.

Woman is Realm"

PAIIE TWO THE GUARDIAN

filial: Tempted In Say These --- Please Don't

Even if it's true. never remind your husband: That you warned him lgainst taking a step that turns out bad-

Y. That he isn't as young as he was and is beginning to show it. That he doesn't seem to love you as much as he used to. . That he made a fool of himself at Last night's party. That he wouldn't be where he is today, except for your help. That one of his former rivals is doing better financially than he is. That you are the hard-headed. practical member of the family i of the quarrel that has been set-l tied and supposedly forgotten.

He Won't Like These Either

of the times he has let you down in the past. Of any occasion when he made a'

Of y incident of a friend's dis-. loyalty he has chosen to overlook or (org '!

his parents don't seem to like you or have faults he seems unaware of. t

That he hasn't given you as much materially as you expected.

That he has "changed" - in 3 tone of voice that implies. "and not for the better."

That you wish he wouldn't, dol this and wouldn't do that.

That you are perfectly capable of looking out for yourself in any kind of situation.

How Can I!!!

5 ' By Anne Allsle, :

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Q. How can I relieve tired eyes?

A. Try bathing them in a hot Epsom salt solution before retir- ins. Dissolve a. half-teaspoon of Epsom salts in a cup of hot water and apply pads dipped into this solution. just as hot as can be borne. Repeat several times and the strained feeling will disappear.

Q. How can I soften paint that' is hard and apparently useless?

A. Pour an inch of turpentine on top of it and allow to stand for a few days. Then pour off the fur- pentine and stir with a stick until soft.

Q. How can I harden the brist-

A. Dip the bristles into a strong

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Mo-dern Etiquette Br lloborta Lee

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Q. Is it proper to breathe upon one's eyeglasses in public when one is cleaning them?

A. No. In the first place. try to avoid cleaning the eyeglasses in public. and above all, the act of

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FEBURAM 5. 1951

:'hal' Body of Yaurs

lly Jnnlu W. Barton. bu). IMOTIONAL ILL HEALTH

CAUSES MOST LOST TIME IN INDUSTRY

If we were asked what ailment or disability caused most absence from work, most of us would prob- ably say the common cold. head- ache, and rheumatism, in that order. It may surprise us to learn that emotional ill health is the major cause of lost time in in- dustry.

In industrial Health, Dr. H. Gru- ham Ross. writes on emotional ill health, basing his conclusions on a series of studies by M.cGill Uni- versity Industrial Relations Cen- ter. industrial Health is publish- ed by the Health League of Can- ada. a most worthy organization.

Dr. Ross concludes that emo- tional disturbances account for more than 50 per cent of industrial illness. Emotionally disturbed peo- ple also make up the accident- prone groups in industry, since emotional disturbances may be due either to causes outside the employee's work, or by tensions deriving from the work itself.

A major cause of tension and tiredness in the factory worker is that on the modern assembly line. the work is so divided that a man often performs a piece of work that has no meaning to him in re- lation to the finished Job.

The tendency to excessive ten-

sion is further increased by such factors as undefined responsibility. responsibility. excessive responsibility and responsibility without authority. ' Human relations also play an important part in producing emo- tional states in such cases as the following:

i. Employers' job standards

and those of the employee may differ and cause tensions. 2. The worker may have inade- quate qualifications. which means he is working under a handicap. This keeps the worker unusually tensed as he tries to keep his work up to standard requirements.

3. There may be inadequate supervision. Overdirection or un- derdircction by the supervisor

will produce a sense of frustra- tlon or insecurity. leading to ex- cessive tension.

we know what tensions mean to us not only at work but in all the circumstances of life. and we can readily understand why emo- tional disturbances and their ten- sions take the mental and emo- tlonal stremzth from the worker and cause him to feel unfit for his daily work.

Tenseness always tires.

and exhaling upon them. If ob-

solutely necessary to clean them in the presence of others. try to wipe them without resorting to this last offensive method.

Q. When setting a dinner table. should the cutting edge of the knife be turned away from or to- wards the plate?

A. The cutting edge of the knife should be turned towards the plate.

. Is it proper to write a let- ter of condolence on the typewrit- er?

A. Never. This letter should al- ways be written by hand to give it more personal. more sincere

holding them in the open mouth

warmth.

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Yes another, your baby too will love Aylmer Strained Carrots. And thrice go them. These c grown for Aylmer-than carefully procure-cooked to retain their delicate Iavor and vitamin content. Velvety smooth, easy to digest, so delleiousl

are specially.

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By An Island Farmers tvuug,

"This is always a hard time year on older folk - yes. . and on everyone. Mr. C. smiles. He draws the rocking chair at all ang- le to .lames' old armchair, so that they can visit more comfortably together. They have been discuss- ing mutual ailments - twingcs "in this here shoulder" and ”a laggy feeling" which makes a fellow slow in the mornings. And they both agree they ”Can't put the same weight under a log" at thel lumbering, as they once could. Andl

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James observes now "if that Flu they have overseas reaches this Island, it won't be too good, not if it's anything like that which

was here at the close of the first war. That was a dreary Fall on farms" he recalls. "Sometimes whole families came down with it. 'Black Flu' they called it. And many a one died from it- it was deadly. That would be in the Fall of '18. There were plenty of new graves that year. Do you remem- her it. Ellen? You and Rob were sick at the same time. and I never saw a child so ill. I hope I never see one so miserable again. Ellen was bad enough too, but somehow a. grown-up ill, is different. from a child." 0 U C

Not long ago, when the Doctors car. a siream-lined modern convey- ance, came up the driveway, that spell of illness of the long ago returned to mind, though the in- terval had dimmed somewhat the

recollection of our suffering. algl the weight of despair. which was a part of the malady. Sufferers

of those days did not benefit from the help and the healing of the miracle drugs which in many directions now work their magic so quickly . . .we can recall being

ill, indeed extremely miserable, and a small quiet fellow on the next pillow to ours. we slept fit-

fully, both of us, through” 9; days and nights, feverish listless, and then there was a per- iod of weakness, from which he made a quicker recovery. We rc- member, the gray beclouded skies

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xmmav) lg Morning Smile u -ooc-cvnooocv. vacy. :(.,:4.,x9,cxVv.m :1" Fair Enough Myrt: "1 get paid on Friday. and by Tuesday I'm always broke." Marge: "How do you manage for the rest of the week?" Myrt: "Oh. I worked opt a loan agreement with Meg. she gets

paid on Tuesdays and is broke by Friday."

Room For Rent

The inspector of tenement houses found four families living in one room, chalk marks quar- tered the room for each family. "How've you been getting along here?" he asked.

"Pretty good." was the reply. "until the old lady in the far cor- ner began to take in boarders."

Simple-to-make Skirt in Fake Fur

Attending the opening ceremonies or others of their ” if

cf Parliament were Mrs. Jean- 31537 "5h0W tbg 3:91.; C 'ad;””:li'1li ey are no oya an

P3,"! st Laurent” ML daughter 01 be introduced at this session v of prune minister; his wife. and Mrs. purmmemj um wrong spggclh Raymond Thivierge.Leglslation that made by Viscount Alexander, in- can be used to deprive Communists dicated, .

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How To Be Popular

Consideration And Kindness Most Attractive Virtues In Long Run

DEAR DOROTHY DIX: I have finally come to the conclusion that in order to be popular one needs to be beautiful. witty and vivacious. It is not necessary to be sweet, considerate of others. and so on. as you have said I have found that people who are the least conslde ate of

' others. who are selfish. who never regard any onc's pleasure but their own. who say catty things and who never entertain others are the most P091113? and have the most invitations to other people's parties

ONE WHO HAS THOUGHT

ANSWER: Well. my dear. if this is the result of your thinking. I don't think you have reached '( the right conclusion. At any rate. not for the V great majority of women. nor for the long pull. You are quite right in thinking that If you are extremely B1lcT3Cl' ive you will be sought after. You will he invited about. no matter how selfish and inconsiderate of others you may be. At IEBSE 3'0" Will 10" a lime and while your attractiveness lasts. but if you will observe yo: will see that the glamor soon passes. and that the popularity which i built upon just a surface never lasts long.

BEAUTY'S NOT EVERYTHING

We all admire beauty. for instance. We are all attracted to a girl who is a feast to our eyes. We like to have her around just to look at. But if we find that she is dull and stupid to talk to. or that she is obsessed with vanity: if she monopolizes all the men: if she is never willing to do what other people want to do. how quickly her attractive- ness vanishes!

Likewise. we all admire a vivacious and witty girl. We laugh at her sallies and we like to be: In her company. But only so long as she is good-natured and considerate of others. The minute her wise- cracks have malice in them. the minute she begins holding up people to ridicule, the minute she begins clawing other girls. we become afraid of her. Many and many at girl cuts her throat with her own sharp tongue.

50 it all comes back to the homely virtues that you despise. if Nature iurned you out a headliner. you may have a brief popularity because of a pretty face or a clever line. even if you are mean and selfish and little-souled.

But in thewegnj hewthjngsmpeople are going to like you for. the qualities that are going to bring you real friends who will stick to you year after year. are consideration for others. and kindness and doing unto others as you would like them to do unto you.

DEAR MISS DIX: About six years ago I was in love with a girl who turned me down when I asked her to marry me. I persisted until I got discouraged and married another girl and now have a young son. The girl married another man land also has a child. But the trouble is that we are madly in love with each other in spite of our being married to others. and we don't know what to do. Shall we go to her husband and my wife and tell them the truth? I D

ANSWER: Why lovers' tiffs so often result in their marrying strangers. nobody knows. Whether they think they spite each other by tying themselves up for life with someone they don't care for. or whether they think that marriage is a sort of poultlce that will take the sting out of their wounded affections. is a mystery. but it is a fact that anybody can catch a heart on the rebound.

Certainly it is a foolish and vein thing for I man who is in love with one woman to marry another in the belief that it will solace him. And it is a cruel thing to do because it ruthlessly sacrifices the woman who has a rlllht to expect from her husband the affection that he has given to another.

However. your mistake has been made and it seems to me that the fairest thing would be for you and your former sweetheart to make a clean breast of it to your mates. Perhaps they would not be as unwilling to give you up as you anticipate. because living with a bus- band or wife who is in love with someone else and feeling marriage a prison cannot make for A very satisfactory union.

DEAR DOROTHY DIX: Although my wife and I are both working, our income is just enough to live on. with a little left over to save for a future day. but from the beginning of our marriage my wife has been giving a great deal of her money to her mother. So much. in fact. that that We are now in debt. even though we have cut out all amuse- ments and are economizlng on our food. If her mother ded the money. I should not complain. but she has an income twice as large as ours. How can this situation be handled tactfully?

JOHN

ANSWER: This is no place for tact. speaking and reading the riot act to both women. Make the mother see how unfair she is in taking her daughter's hard-earned money when she does not need it. and make your wife see how dlsioyal she is in enslavlng you to her mother's greed. i

DOROTHY DIX cannot Derlonnliy reply to readers, but wlu mg. was letters of genenl Interest through her column.

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Dr Robert: loo ; m ' nos-ran mar Lou H Frosted Glue '

Frosted glass can be made in a bathroom or sleeping porch Mn. claw as follows: clean the glass

Exceptionally good. nice for company with your favorite salad. Temperature 850 deg. I. 2 thus. shortening. 1 onion shop-

It is one for-forthright" i

thoroughly. Then cover with white tissue paper which no exactly and apply clear waterproof varnish thinned 5 per cent with turpen- tine. The varnish soaks through the paper, sticking it to the glass. and thus affecting a frosted win-

dow. Drink for lnvnllils

A drink for invslidl. often served In hospitals. is made by putting two tsblespoonfuls of grape juice I to a wineglus. adding the

uteri white of an egg and a little chopped ice; Iprinkle sugar over the top and serve.

Griddle Cakes A teaspoon of molasses or brown

suslr added to griddle cake bums- wiil cause the eases to brown

more easily.

seed. 1 lb. around uncooked pork. 1 lb. ground beef. 1&6 teaspoon: salt. Pibber. lt teaspoon dry nuis- tard. it cup soft bread crumbs. 1 egg slightly beaten, 14 cup canned tomlt-oel. 1 cup cooked carrots. 2 cups-fluffy mashed potatoes.

Ifethod: mat shortening in frying pan. cook onion until ten- der but not brown." Add all ra-

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By Genevieve Kemble

For Tomorrow

WHILE the augurles are excel- lent for a. sudden turn of events. quite unanticipated and of high promise. at the same time it might be advantageous to postpone de- cisions since the mentality may be uncertain, obscure, liable to blun-

der. There could be unusual ang- les, dramatic and exciting, yet to Pancakes--comin' up! Yesslr- be disclosed. and such surprising and they're golden brown and

developments could warp the judg ment, there could be an urge to take a change. to speculate or recklessly "grasp at straws."

done to turn. This young chef is

Old and yet ever new-that is file story of the pancake! History tells us it is one of the oldest foods known to man. In some communi- ties. primarily those stemming from English background, the pancake has ever been honored by a. special holiday.

This holiday, known as Parl- cake Day, is celcibraicd on Shrove Tuesday just before the beginning of Lent. Ever growing in popular- lty. the celebration began as a re- ligious observance at least 600 years ago.

The pancakes were mixed ac- cording to a formula prescribed by the church and when the cilurch bell tolled it was time to

If It is Your Birthday

Those whose birthday it is. are confronted by some unforeseen turn in the wheel of fortune, per- haps dramatic and emotionally stirring. Sudden change, fresh and exciting opportunities, of radical and far-reaching importance are forecast. Novelty. strange enter- prises. keen emotional responses, may inflame the desires to take destiny by the hand. Yet under such qulckened energies and de- sires the judgment is not to be relied upon. nnd could lead into error. mistake and over-sensitive and speculative drives. miscarriage

of plans. prepare them. Then the people

A child ham 0,, this day, whue all hurried off to church to be enterprising. inventive. with 'jshr1ven" or absolved 0! their highly stimulated energies and sins-

l The Pancake Day Story

HE'S IN PANCAKE DAY M00!)

Day by mixing up solne ballet and making pancakes for mg breakfast. Looks like he's right at

gelling into the mood. for Pancake home in that uniform tool

This ancien-t custom was grad- ually replaced by merrymaking and the tolling of the bell touched off a gay cclerbration. Today :n many Canadian, African. and American communities the ob- servance is still the same, min" contests and games and pancakes as king!

The old and the new meet in a pancake designed especially for your celebration of the gala Pan. cake Day. These are Pimlenio Pancakes-a novel and very dclic. ious new rolled pancake topped with hot. cheese sauce. Especially festive for parties, they contain colorful pimiento and green ml)-

per.

Altar baking the pancakes, keep them hot till serving time by plac- ing them on a baking sheet ln a warm OVHL

auctions. ye: may nullify its un- usual chanccs by bad judgment.

inspiration) , pa.sse- partout. an easy-to-wear cioche line done in felt or summer fabrics or straws. with interchangeable belts for for- mal or imormal occasions and. best of all, the peiit maitre. The latter are derived from French classic comedy and particularly

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1. What is wrong with this sentence? "I have every reason to believe that he is absolutely cor- rect." 2. What is the correct pronunc- iation of "caffeine"?

3. Which one of these words is evoke headgear worn by French misspelled? Carbohydrate. cartil- aristocracy. court vicars or "ab- age. caricature, carborctor. bes." town and country footmen

4. What does tratc" mean?

5. What is a word beginning with re that means "sensible"?

the word "lus- and flunkeys. Bent brims point to variations of tricornes which have become Breton shaped. Many ro- mantic shapes are reminiscent of shepherds and sheph-erdesses, further stressed by bo-peep four loot canes and umbrellas with very long handles in the Watteau mood. Flowered crooks. straw or prec- lous wood team the cane to the hat in color of fabric.

Orccl uses straw fibre. hemp, transparent plastic, grass lalze and saucer shaped veils with I

ANSWERS

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1. Say. "I have ample (or, suf- flcient) reason to believe that he is (omit libsnlutcly) correct." 2. Pronounce kaf-c-in, as as in calf. e as in me unstressed, i as in in. with three syllables. accent on the first. 3. Carburetor. 4. To make clear or pure by a propitlatory of-

appear throughout round the clock.

Glamorous Touch

Jcwelled bands tie around the crown of classic sports cloches dressing it up for after dark. Glit- ierlng sequin embroidery is found

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. .. heavy darker band he calls "sac- S;::"g;l5::"l';"rg:;' xIVt'h,;"":g glggf ret veils." Versailles red, l"ont- ' 5 Ramon” u 5'' ainbleau green are seen with ' ' dark gray. Much rose and black