MARY HAWORI1-I

Wile Worried About Husband's -ove Ailairs

I)&ll' llaizv Hawoi'lh' I am a fairly aiiraclive woman, 35, mar- ricii I5 ,vcai's to a travelling sales- man, who is away from home only a few dziys at a time. We have two cluldren. ages 13 and it.

As long as wc've been married. Carl has aliiays had other women and at first I thought it was be- cause he had to gel used to being married. When our first child was born. I hoped this would reform him. but it didn't.

It's more than flirtatious he rarrics on cnrrcspondcnce. using a post officc box to conccal the exchange I finally faced him with what I hnil lcarncd and acted the Jcalons into I asked why he was unfaithful and where I had failed him, but he inst said he didn't knoii nliy

He had no complaints and loves me more now than when we first marricd. also he loves the chil- dren Siimciimcs I think it is a sickness with him. like alcohol- ism. The years pass and I can't help feeling resentful. I want him to share his whole life with me.

CAN'T DEPEND ON SUPPORT

I haven't worked since we mar- ried and dislike the thought of breaking up m)' 1101118 alld Temf” log to business. at my 2139- (-all spends money we cant Sparta and I have saved him severahtimes. by borrowing to cover his bad cheques. , Knowing this angle, I couldn't depend upon him for support of the children if we Pal!-

I would appreciate any helpful suggestions. I am in such a state of mental stress and anguish.

FRUIT OF HABIT

Dear A.P.: When we take stock of a man's character and conduct of life, what are we appraising? Isn't it the general pattern and net effect of his habitual behav- for?

As the eminent thinker Robert Hutchins. former president and later chancellor of the University of Chicago, points out:

"The moral virtues are habits. and habits are formed by acts." Doesn't that say. in a nutshell, why your husband philanders?

He has always had other women despite a feeling of love for you. simply because he brought to marriage assorted bad habits of sexual laxity and impetuous self- gratification-as, for instance, In writing cheques for money he doesn't possess, when in the mood to spend.

CHOSEN COURSE

Your husband's inveterate infi- delity probably isn't so much a sickness as it is a chosen course -a matter of electing the weak way instead of the strenuous: Ill offering least resistance to his chaotic cravings. He is largely in- diffcrent to others' welfare, as weighed against his chances of getting by with some additional bootleg self-indulgence.

As for hclpful Insights, the truth will jar you. The fact is. you are more captive to your own weak-

:Barry E. Mi-ilcom,

Pictured above are Mr. iihoss

and I mar-l riage took place recently in Mon-

treal at Si, Ann's ('liiu'ch. The, bride is the former Dorothy Agnes

Doiron, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Peter Doiron of this City The groom is the son of Mrs, V. Rial- com and the late Mr, Maicoin of Montreal. The Rev. E. Baldwin officiated at the (.'0l'9IIlIlII)'.

ELLEN'S DIARY

"We'll just have to visit for IIIIEI weather" James offcred of the, haying, this evening. The passing. electrical storm had gathered usl after an old fashion of ours into the sitting room. there in the quiet to await its end. Grand- daughter was with us there, a lit- tle awed by the bright Hashes of lightning and thc decpel” Wm' blings of thunder-aiied but not un- duly afraid.

Mack, only grandson of the place had chosen to leave us and has- ten home to he with his mother then alone in the house across the lime, in thc absence of his Dad at work wiiti the carpcnterl at another farm. We saw the barei feet hurry along the path between. . in the ominous silence and duski-I ness of the impending storm. Win- doiis had been closed, doors too. of every huilding, as has been our custom at such timcs all dovin thc ycars,

ncss, than you are a slave of love. You lack heroic spirit, in facing the issues Carl's conduct presents. When the cards are down. almost you'd rather forfeit self-respect and expcdiently adjust to a soiled relationship, than venture to be self-reliant-if such is the price of redeeming emotional integrity.

If you are going to stay with Carl. learn to forgive and bless and pray.for him-because of the transformation this practise will work in your personality, lifting you out of the climate of sin and sorrow. For spiritual leveraile In this endeavor. read "God's Reach" illiacalastcr Park) by Glenn Clark; or "Stake Your Claim” lllapersl by Emmet Fox, M.H.

Mary Haworth counsels through her column not by mail of PET- Ional interview. Write to her in care of this newspaper

MORNING SMILE

Office Boy-Please sir. I think you .re wanted on the phone.

Boss-You think? What makes you say, "I think?"

Office Boy-- Well, sir, someon at the other end said: "I: that you. you old Idiot?"

ANNE ADAMS PATTERNS

And now a SIIOVtPl' iias washing

the uindowsi accompanied by lightning and thunder. Grand- daughter counting seconds he-

twccn flash and rumble to detei'm- l inc bclicr its intensity.

"Yes" James nodded. cyes on! the liniiitlfy in the near field bond- ing to the damp, "we'll just have to unit for fine wr-atlicr...ilasn't this hccn a miserable week-not one hay-day yct!"

"Was there ever a siimiiicr that you didn't get the hay saved" Granddaughter asked,

".Vo- but there's always I first time" he smiled.

"It won't be this said sobcrly.

"Not this lovcly summer" we promised. "so full of beauty and bloom." Young gcraniums blos- ,som now-gift-slips of the spring. siirprising us in the colorings: white, pure and dainty. the sal- mon shade we think we most love though it it difficult to make a selection. the pink, the purplish. the red and the crimson.

And admiring one opening to- day we recalled a remark made by ii companion on an outing not long ago as we drove by village and country-homes now enhanced by their flnwerings.

year." she

WEEK'S SE W-THRIFTY

A Wrnpon for your daughter! Just sew two or three. Mother- and RELAX for the season! As you see. it has FEW patlcrn parts, whips up in a jiffy, opens out to iron and a child can dress her- self so easily! Make it of cotton in flower-frcsh pastel colors!

Pattern 4634: Children's Sizes 2, 4. 6, R, It). Size 6 takes 2 HI

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Waiting For Fine Weather

"It's ii poor creature of n wom- an nowadays who can't muster I geranium-slip and a tin to brighten her window or doorl"

If as someone has said with I chuckle "The greatest improve- ment I notice in the country is that you can't tell a farmer's daughter from a city girl" to our mind one of the best is to be found in the fetching lawns and flowers about the hnines. Where one time a fine garden of such was the exception, now they are among the obvious prides of most homes.

From ours, which mostly ".lcs' grows" we gathered Bachelor's- Buttons in a pretty bouquet to- day. Dclicatc flowcrings. we find these most attractive in their var- ied shades in the border and ideal as cut flowers, with sprigs of as- paragus or the mist of baby's brcath lasting well and easily ar- ranged.

And ”Oh!" Granddaughter said admiring them.

The weather-how closely farm- folks regard it tlicse days!

"It looks better now" the young- er farmcr comes in to say." not exactly cleared though thcrc are odd stars. We never know” he nods "it just may be a hay-day tomorrow.

Until tomorrow - - Diary- Goodnight. . . . .

ST. CATHERINES W.I.

The July meeting of St. Cath- erines W.l. was held at the home of Mrs. Annie Morrow. In the ab- sence of the president. Mrs. W.R. Shaw presided. The meeting open- ed with Mary Stewart Collect in unison.

Roll call was answered by six members. Minutes of the last meeting were read and approved. Cuirespondsnu: was read and dis- cussed, and it was decided to pur- chase cans for the members,

The delcgateii to the Annual Convention gave a vcry interest-

committea reported sending flowers to a former mem- ber while in hospital. The mem- bers accepted with thanks and an invitation to attend the August meeting of the Long Creek W.I.

Mrs, W.R. Shaw invited the members to her home for the next meeting.

The meeting adjourned and a de- licious lunch was served by the hostess.

KINGSBORO W.l. On July the twenty-fourth thr- Klngsboro Women's Institute met at the home of Mrs. Wcndcll Rob- ertson. Ten members and two vis- itors were present. Meeting open- ed with the Mary Stewart Collect, followed by roll call answered by each member paying twenty-five cents. This amounted to 32.75. Minutes of last meeting were

OMEN

Page 8, The Guardian Friday Aug. 3 1956

LET'S EAT

Foil Can Elirrii

ant half hour on the cool terrace comparing notes on easier ways of handing the pot-and-pan wash- ing problem. We both agreed that one way to foil at least part of the clean-up-after-meal difficulty is to use plenty of heavy-duty aluminum foil. FRYING PANS Line frying pans smoothly with foil in up the sides. The food fries quickly. Remove the foil and the pan is clean. Wrap seasoned vegetables pre- pared for cooking snugly in foil and boil two or three kinds to- gether in a pot of boiling water. Result, more flavor, minerals and vitamins saved and a clean pot. Place a square of aluminum foil on the oven rack under a frozen fruit pie while thaw-baking. It won't boil over into the oven. but onto the foil, which you can throw away. CAKES AND ROLLS

If a cake or heat-and-serie rolls are getting too brown in the oven, cover with a piece of foil!

l.ine pans with heavy-duty alum- inuui foil before roasting chicken. iturkey. duck or Rock Cornish lgame hens or before baking fish or meat rechauffees. Happy end- ing, a clean pan!

Cover the bottom of the broiler pan with aluminum foil, not be-

Messy Pan Problem

Q III Bailey Allen

The Chef and I spent I pleas--dainty cook.

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Tomorrow's Quick and Dinner: Jumbo aspai'ai:ii.s salads roast beef slices diable, black-c:v'0 pegs lil'flZCnl; sliced no - cook blackberry pudding; or milk.

All measurements are lei cl re- cipes proportioned to serve 4 to 6.

Roast Beef Slices Diable: Cut leftover roast beef lor pot roast) In sliced 1,-4 in. thick. Brush with sauce diable or commercial bar- becue sauce,

flour. sifted with 1: tsp. P8Pl'lk8

pan-fry on both sides in butter or margarine. Serve very hot,

No-Cook Blackberry Pudding: Remove the crusts from 1 small loaf sliced enriched bread. Line a plain mold with the slices, fitting them into place.

Wash, hull and mash I qt. black- berries. Stir in 1 c. sugar, 3 tbsp. melted butter and it tsp. cinna- man

When thoroughly mixed, put a- layer in the mold. Cover with ii, layer of bread. Continue in llllsl way until all the blackberries and bread slices have been used.

Makg the last layer bread. Weigh down the pudding with a plate.

Refrigerate all day or orcr- SPFY9

cause you are too lazy to wash It. but because you aim to be I

night, Unmold, Slice and with light cream.

HAPPENINGS

Deep sympathy will be felt by the citizens of this Province for the Hon. Dr. J.J. Bowlen, lieutenant governor of Alberta and all mem- bers of the family in the death of Mrs. Bowlen. Boston bred and born, but living most of her life in Alberta, Mrs. Bowlen was a woman of refinement. possessing a most gracious manner which had endeared her to all.

Many poeple visited the CN.R, Museum train which was on in- spection at Track Four. C,N.R. station. There was a greal deal of interesting Canadlana on dis- play. One person commented upon a similar pamphlet in her posses- sion.

This was an eight page type- written letter on heavy parchment paper from the office of the gen- eral manager of the International Railway of Canada at Moncton.

The letter is dated 21 Septem- ber. l897. and is addressed to His Excellency, the Earl of Aberdeen, (later the Marquess of Aberdeen and Tcmair) then governor-genen al of Canada.

The letter describes the trip in detail to Halifax and Cape Breton. The following excerpts give an idea of the requirements of those days.

" 5 there will be three or four cars necessary it will probably be better to use a special train, . instead of the regular trains-The International has very good sleep- ing cars, and one of these will be provided. as it will furnish sleep- ing accomodation for more peo- ple than any private car will do. -The train will then probably con- sist of the Car Victoria. a sleep- ing car, a first class car, End a baggage car,

In regard to sleeping in the car. we will be able to place it during each night in a quiet position where you will not be much dis- turbed by passing trains.

In regard to the carriage of horses In the baggage car, that can be easily arranged, and we will have accomodatlon fitted up in a portion of the baggage car for their reception.

If it would be possible to send one of your grooms to see Mr, While, our general car foreman, in regard to the special fittings,

ltheir summer estate on the out- skirts of St. Andrews.

British Columbia's 19th lieuten- ant-Governor was born in Glas- gow, Scotland. and was educated at the Royal Academy, Tain, Scot- land.

After the first world war he had a meteoric rise in Canadian in- dustry with vast interests in New Brunswick and Western Canada.

A former resident of St. John, this widely known indiisti'ialist was named lieutenant-governor of British Columbia last year.

"Whist-Whee" by Wilson Mac- Donald, and one of the numbers read by Mr. Wilson at his Tues- day evening rccital has been re- viewed in this way: "Into 'Whist- Whee' he has crowded all the love- liness of childhood, and the poem is filled with the infinite yearning

lilasy '-

cream: hot or iced coffee or tea .

Then dust with 3 tbsp. eni'lt'he(I '-

and la tsp. chili powder. Quickly

of the seeking to save that which was lost." tAlbert E.S. Symthe in his Introduction to "The song of the Prairie Land," I918.)

.Mr. and Mrs. Walicr Macken- zie, who were married recently in Calgary, Alberta, were guests of honor last Saturday evening at the rcsidence of Mr. and Mrs. Pendcrgast. A large number of friends gathered to extend good wishes and congratulations to Mr. and Mrs. MacKenzie. The Hon. C.G. Duffy in a brief humorous address--presented Mr. and Mrs.

MacKenzie with a walnut tele- phone desk and chair. Congratulatory remarks were

added by Mr. James Pendergast. Hon. J.A. Bernard. and Dr. W. J.P. MacMillan. Although the par- tyihad been in the form of a sur- prise. Mr. and Mrs. McKenzie ex- pressed thcir appreciation in brief most appropriate speeches.

Piano selections by Mr. Elmer Power. readings and humorous songs by Mr. George Beers and a hearty singsong were very much enjoyed.

Those assisting the hostess to serve refreshments were the fol- lowing: Misti Hazel Moran. Miss Rllda Praught and Miss Dorothy Cullen.

Mr. Edmunds Christopher. Tor- onto. well-known Interior Design-

er is a guest of his mother, Mrs.

,In the car. it would be better, as lthe accomodation could then be lprovided in a way that would be more statisfactory. 1

Arrangements can he made so that there will be no difficulty in loading and unloading the horses at the various stations.

In regard to the programme, I have understood tthat the Prem- ier, Mr. Murray, is preparing

Frank E. Christopher. Mr. Chris- topher has recently been vacation- ing in Lake Placid. New York.

Mr. and Mrs. Alfred Cordell and their son Bruce of Montreal are the guests of Mr, and Mrs. John Simmons at their summer resi- dence, York Point.

Last Saturday word was receiv-

tomatucs: ' t

Mildred Harrington.

Mr. and Mrs. Vernon llill, llam- ilton, Ontario, are enjoying a hull- day at the home of their parents, Mr. and Mrs. Harland Hill, New Glasgow and Mr. and Mrs. Mil- ton Grccu. (faveiitlisli.

A family get-togctlier and dc- licious dinner wa' ciijoycd at "Lakevicw Lodge". Careiidisli. on Sunday. Mr. anti Mrs. Louis llcn- ry, Kcppoch, Mrs. Anne Gillis. New Bcdford, Mass, and Mr. and Mrs. Donald Hill, Cliarlottelown, were also present.

Mr. and Mrs. Vernon llill re- turned to their home in Hamilton on Aug. 3rd.

Illisses Eliialiciii Jenkins. R N.. and Sarah Brchaut, R.iV.. Cleve- land, Ohio, are spending their va- cation at their respective homes at Cross Roads and Murray liar- bour for three weeks, After the Island visit they will tour Ottawa before returning to United States.

KINGSTON BAPTIST W.M.S.

The July meeting of the King- ston Baptist W.M,S. met at the home of Mrs. I-Elmer Walsh with the president, Mrs. Newson. pre- siding aiid Mrs. Calvin lfolmes as lcadcr. Mccting opened by sing- ing ”Sun of my Soul" followed by repeating the "Lord's Praycr" in unison. Scr Acts 2. ' '

ipture was read fiom. . "The church of the,

first days" was read and prayer

offcrcd by thc leader. A reading was gircn by Illrs. Oswald Now- snn, Sliidy book was read by Mrs. Everett llolnics.

Minutes ncre road and approv- ed, this being the annual meeting the minutes of the last annual meeting were also read. Treasur- er reported receipts for thc ycar S98164. I-Ixpcnscs 382.18. balance on hand Slit.-16. The officcrs for I956-57 were elected. President. Mrs. Eliiicr Walsh. Vicc-President Mrs. 'I'yriis Holmes rc-clcctcd. Sec- retary. Mrs. Myron llolmcs, Trca-I surcr. Mrs. Calvin llnlincs rc-clcc- ted. Organist. Mrs. Everett lini- mes rc-clcctcd. Sick Commiltcc. Mrs. Earl Ward and Mrs. Clif- ford lfolmes. Correspondence mid thank you cards were read. Of-, fcring amounted to 31.00 sick fund I9 cents, Five mcmbcrs plllfl thclri dues. l

Roll call has ans-wcrcd by 8 members and two visitors were present. Mrs. Oswald Nrws-on in- vited the mcmoicrs for their next, meeting. Mrs. Myron Holmes is to have Study book. Word for roll! call "Holy". Meeting closed by repeating thc Mlzpah bcnediction. Lunch was served by the hosi('ss,! assisted liy Mrs. Calvin Holmcs.

IN A vAl'i'iiivi Rockets work licttrr in I vac- uum because thcy do not nt'f'fI air in push against, and air re-

sistance slows them down.

MR. AND MRS. ROBERT ROY JONES

A very pretty wedding was sol- einnizcd at It) Lapthorne Avenue, Charlottetown on Wednesday, June 27. 1956. at 3 o'clock when Vcliua Edna, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Alvin Myers. llazelbrook, and Robert Roy, son of Mr. Roy Jones. Hazelbrook, and the late Mrs. Jones, were united in the holy bonds ' matri; ony. Rev. J. H.

COOK'S CORNER

ICE BOX DESSERT

Butter well, an 8 or 9 inch square pan. Put a layer of gra- hams wafers on the bottom.

Spread with the following: I can sweetened condensed milk V2 cup lemon juice 2 eggs Mis together until well blended. Put another layer of graham

wafers on top, spread with a thin

butter icing. Put in the refrigera- tor and chill several hours. Cut in squares and serve.

mun ovens Iiol To point of ulo goods are non! Known to tail. Excellent baked food for table or picnic basket awaits you at Stewart's.

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road and approved. Reports of committees were then given. New committees are the following: Sick Mrs. Clinton Stewart. Mrs. Fred Robertson and Mrs. Robert Rober- tson. Lunch. Mrs. Ralph Robert- son, Mrs. Clinton Stewart and

yards 35-inch fabric. This pattern easy tn use. sim-1 pie to sew, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated Instructions. Sand THIRTY - FIVE CENTS (35 cents) in coins (stamps can- not be accepted) for this pattern.

one to be submitted to you. ed by Mr. W.J. Harrington, Hali-

So the letter from Mr. D. Lot- tlnger continues, while customs change, yet the service of the In- ternational which amalgamated with C.N.R. continues.