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Mr. L, part of whose farm lies next to ours to northward, was at the digging this morning, in its rounds, the digger uncovering what James reckoned was “a right good crop." How anxiously farm-folk await a sight of these first rows. to find out what the interval since planting has done for them! "Yes" James nodded appraising the po- tatoes that lay white and promis- ing along the frcsh red of the ground, “he's got a right good crop.” lVe had come with James" then to gather stocks for the threshing from our field at the end of the road along the stump- tield, which neighbors Mr. A.'s. And how did it happen that we were there instead of sitting “on a cushion and sewing a fine seam"

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In some ways we admit to be- ing a creature of circumstance. Notwithstanding many a resolu- tion that would keep us away from them, those happenings seem to creep up to catch us unaware. James had appeared at the door when the others of "the staff" were busy hauling the threshing gear from Rob's, and setting it in place in a harn. lie wore a piti- ful expression, and was plainly concerncti about the weather. "If l just had someone to help me. Ellen," he commented. "l could have a load home and ready to be ihrcshcd. “And that was why we ltnd put ‘by our household cares, and with todays wind at our hacks, were away along the farm- llne with James to help him gain his objective. Presently up the road along the stump-field, turn- iniz always at a spot. lhcre to ob- tzlin a glimpse of the spire of the old Kirk at the corner against the southern sky.

It is o. nice privilege of farm- ing to he able to leave the work of the moment-lo rest it Rwhiit’. and chat with any comer, and re- turn refreshed .n mind usually. and body, from the respite. Mr. A. left his digging and came to the line-fence, while nearby James continued to toss only odd sheaves lo us on the farm-wagon. James sun and cloud will likely bring rain before too long- busy nowi" Mr. A. nodded. l-le is a hilz man, calm of mind. of studied words, and methodical in his movements—but making each one count. Meticulous in any work. no matter how seemingly inconse- quential, and as James points out t.o our sons, "there's no one can plow a straighter or neuter fur- row than Mr. A." They talked of the crops, and this season of shortening days, of folks we know‘ ill now and in hospital, and we sighed over the perpetual "chanxe and decay" that time brings. They spoke of the affairs of-the old Kirk and the new manse close by it. now in the course of construc- tion, subjects dear to the hearts ‘of both, for in this Church their people have worshipped for gener-

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DEAR MISS DIX: I have discovered that my wife has been un- faithful to me for several years. She has told me that she did not know why she did this, asked me to forgive her and said that I could always trust her in the future. For the sake of our son, now about 11 years old, and our parents I am trying to think this thing out carefully. I am sure that my love for her which has stood so much for years, for she has been cold and unsympathetic with me, has fin- ally died. She has seen this and has become panicky in her plea of "why cannot I care for her again as- I used to?" I fecl awfully sorry for her, but it seems to me that a separation is the only solution. She has been a good wife and mother except for this.

L. C.

ANSWER: Many women forgive their husbands for being unfaithful to them. Why should not a man now and then extend the same mercy to a wife raying off the straight and narrow path? man is a lonely creature without a wife. He is a forlorn crea-

ture without a home. He is a helpless creature with a child with no one to look after him, no one to make a home for nim, no mother to lloeveei and cuddle him and give him the ceaseless attention that children i HARD T0 FORGIVE p Of course, infidelity l: a hard thing for one to forgive in one's Imate. It is a particularly hard thfng for a man to forgive his wife, because when a man marries he puts his name and his honor in his wife's hands and he expects her to keep them clean. But often for- giveness is better than revenge and brings a man more happiness in ‘the end. I Often a woman 1| swept from her moorings by some sudden ‘storm of passion just as a man is, and when it is over llie creeps back to her husband, battered and bruised, and spends the balance of her life licking his hand in gratitude if he does not. shut the door in her face. Sometimes she, too, hungers for romance that her husband fails to give her and when she has eaten of forbidden fruit and found it dust and ashes in her teeth, she ever afterward eats the plain bread and butter of domestic life on her knees.

So suppose you give her another chance.

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DEAR DOROTHY DIX: 1s there any formula for forgetllngi’. 1 have been trying to forget someone for nearly two years, but have had no success. Can you suggest anything? .

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ANSWER: If it is not ponlhle for you to travel, you will find that a little common sense is a good antidote. Just realize that you are letting a memory ruin your life and consider how idiotic that ls. For you know we can cultivate unhappiness just as rruch as we can cultivate happiness, and about nine-tenths of the misery in the world ls sheer morbldnen. It ll Just brooding over unpleasant tiling: that have happened to you, and that you can't change, when you might Just as well snap out of lt and be having a jolly good time.

If death has robbed you of a loved one, you do not want to forget him. bu! you want to think of him beautifully and tenderly and in a way that will bring you a sort of sacred happiness. There is some- thing fine and uplifting in such memories. but it ls weak and coward- ly to spend the balance of your life in making your memory of your dear one a purgatory.

And if the one you wish to forget Wll n traitor to you and failed you, don't you think that you have been very lllly to let the memory of him darken your life? Try to see him for the cad be was and then forget him. He isn't worth remembering.

DEAR MISS DIX: I am a widower with three children and know a woman, a widow with one child, and we are thinking of getting married. Our relationship ll vary congenial, but I am not strongly in love with her. II it not likely that after marriage 1 ‘might meet some woman with whom I would really fall in love?

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ANSWER: You would be practically sure to meet the "other wo- man" because your letter shows that you are already looking out for her. l0 why tie yourself up beforehand? Divorces are messy and GXPQIIIIVI things. But any man with children who would marry a woman with a child and thus mix up two ready-made families is certainly out hunting trouble. Children do not rnlx. Nor do women with children of their own make good step-mothers. They can't be fair to the little steps.

DOROTHY DIX cannot reply personally to readers, hit will ins- wer problems of general Interest tlrolub bar column.

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OCTOBER 12, 1949

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THE AMERICAN HEART ASSOC- lATION-A GREATLY NEED- ED ORGANIZATION

We know that tuberculosis can be transmitted from one individual to another and so we have large institutions to care for these pat- ients. While heart disease and dis- eases of the blood vessels stand first as a cause of~ death we know that heart disease and blood pres- sure disease are not directly trans- mitted from one to another. Fur- ther we know that cant-er is nut transmitted from one individual to another.

While we think nothing of grants being given by governments and private individuals to organizations and individuals trying to find the cause of cancer. it may cclnc as .l surprise to many of us to learn that organizations and private indivi- duals are contributing IlllJQIS to help prevent, and. if possible, cure. heal-t disease and diseases of the blood vessels.

From a news release from the American Heart Association, 177.3 Broadway. N. Y., we learn that. this organization, which is able to watch research work on diseases of the heart and blood vessels through- out the world. recently made ll grants. approximating $50,000, for investigation of heart and circula- tory disease. The announcement was made by Dr. H. M. Marina of New Haven, president of the Ameri- san Heart Association. There were 60 requests received by the Re- search committee of the American Heart Association's Scientiﬁc Coun- cil. The Council investigates the work being done by individuals or groups, some of whom are estab- lished investigators and others bright recently graduated physic- lans who have decided to devote their lives to, and have a lcve for. this type of work. How different is this great help to research workers (mm former years, when the you“! physician had to make a livln; and devote what time he cculci spare to learning things to help his fellow man. Not. only is a fair liv- lng assured him by these grants, but if he so desires he can continue this research work for his entire lifetime. _

1t is believed by all physicians that the greatest contribution that can be made by the American Heart Association and those who support it, ls to not only Sl-lPDQTi- investigators in training. but as for as its funds pen-nit. undertake the support of the full career of proven investigators.

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Costume Jewelry

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Denied Linoleum

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Q. Should. one write }Mr. and Mrs. Robert B. Smith" on the in- ner envelope of a. wedding invita- tion. as it. is written on the outer envelope?

A. Just "Mr. and Mrs. Smith" is sufficient. i .

Q. 1s it all right to butter a whole hot biscuit at once?

A. Yes.

Q. Should gifts that are brought to a birthday party be opened by the recipient immediately, or left until after the party?

A. It shows more appreciation to open each gift at once.

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Q. How can I clean gilt articles? A. Gilt frames, or other sucn articles, can be restored to their original freshness by rubbing with a small sponge moistened with oil of turpentine, which soon evapor- ates. ,

Q. How can l restore hard and sugary jam to its original fonrn? | A. Place the jam ln the oven until the sugar melts; then remove and allow to cool.

Q. llow can I remove rain spots frmi velvet?

A. sponge the velvet with clean- ing fluid. being sure to rub always in on-e direction.

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For Thursday. October ll

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