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BIRTHDAY MILESTONE

Older than confedcration fut still hale and hearty, Mrs ‘Catherine Moreside of North Mitton will observe her 106th

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Audrey Jenkins, Women’s Editor, Phone 4 8506

| Dr. and Mrs. George have returned to their home in Montague after attending a fra- ternity reunion at. Dathousie Un- iversity, Halifax. Enroute they visited Mrs. Inman's parents, Mr. and Mrs. Albert Halverson, at Malagash, NS.

Kathleen Williams, R.N., has resumed her duties at a Boston hospital after spending a few days visiting with her parents, Mr. and Mrs. D. A. Williams of Elmsdale.

A hot midday meal is served school children living in 86 mountain villages in Central Greece with the help of the Uni- tarian Service Committee of Ca- nada. The average inc of the children's parents is 16 cents a day. USC Headquarters is at 63 Sparks Street, Ottawa 4.

Mr. and Mrs. Morris Caseley, Kelvin Grove, have left for Mon-

birthday tomorrow Mrs “Across The Island’ by Neff trea! from where Mrs. Caseley Moreside resides with her son . will fly to Athens, Greece to and daughter-in-law. Mr. and Matheson in this issue “for (join her daughter, Sheila. They Mrs Reagh Moreside. (See story) plan to tonur Greéce.” Italy,

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: Need Constructive Action ‘To Handle Senile Mother

‘DEAR MARY HAWORTH: Once before I wrote to you re- garding difficulties we three

thiddle - age sisters were hav- fhe with our aged mother, ax to her demands on us and our waning ability to please her.

Out mingled feelings of guik and sorrow added to our pre- @dicament

, At_that time, guided by your

abjective logic. we devised a Plan that vielded a measure of relief for a number of months With specialist help. mother was persuaded to sign herslef igto a hospital ward for treat- ment of senility In six weeks Mfr belligerent attitudes had improved so much that she was felea:ed. So happy was she to iB ‘‘ow:side’’ again that all of ug had peace of mind too, due to her newly cooperative behavior. *Her commitment occurred du- g the 1963 Christmas season, making the holidays sad for us Ahd. during the Christmas sea- son just passed (1964). she rever- ted to her previous unreason, (Growing our several households isto uproar... Now all of us are at loggerheads. frantic for a y'S peace... «Because I insist it is beyond mr scope to.pacity her agita- tion, and because | am near a breakdown emotionally, my sis- t@rs-recentiy ‘have -catied © me “eoldblooded.” *But as | see it, I have grieved abd suffered over the situation more than they. First the terrib- l@ sense of loss, then the hopeless nigss of trying to keep mother contented, and now the feeling tliat my sisters’ love is lost to

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On the basis of dozens of diag- nostic tests, doctors say mother could live to be one hundred -or more will have again...

What disturbs me most is that mos: of the family speak of mo- ther, or argue with her, as if she were completely rational and responsible. And so it goes. on

«and on. My husband says mother has been a magnolia blossom Jall her life, humored and cater-

to be committed

ed to, and we are paying for it now

Would you, once again. clar- ify things for us, particularly for my sisters, who read you daily” So defeated do I feel personally that I can’t find words in conversation with them ‘any more, about mother. A.E

DEAR AE.: Objective” logic can point the way out of

befuddlement much a8 a light- house shgws stofm - tossed sail- ors the shore line

But individual courage and common sense ‘in otyer words, | inherent sane strength of ‘charac- ger' will be indispensable in moving you and your sisters for- ward along paths of constructive action, in coping with your mo ther's senility

And this brand of adult com- petence cant you. er jent to you. It is a surviv- al quality that each infividual must produce for himself, from his own inner resources, as ne-

So much for preface, in this second round of trying to help | you think straight

Now, to grapple with the fam- ily's current uproar As I see the picture, you are the gtn- uinely responsible member the sister-trio, a fact self-evi-

| feel that eventually she.

be grafted onto|

jstarch for most effective ways- Riviera) and Spain

|and . means of ‘doing good’’ in

| the matter. : | 1 don’t doubt that you've suf-| Road has taken up residence in

|fered incomparably more in re-{the Beaton Nursing Home, Mur- lation to your mother, all your |T@Y Harbour.

life, than your eisters have, due oo .

her, which also left you vulner- able to greater emotional injury’ The January meeting of Argy- at hér hands and theirs, in the | '¢ Shore WI met at the home of chronic interrelationship strug- gle for ‘preferred’ posi‘ion

As for what todo inthe two against one stalemate, with

House Warming you on the defensive, feeling re- Planned By WI jected, my advice is: Don

to prevail, Bow ou: of the a The January meeting of the tate. ~Let your sisters run the} 5t.-. Cherles Wl was..held..at. show in managing ‘or misma- the home of Mrs. Henry Gallant. naging) the mother’s care, at Roll call was answered _ by least temporarily each member donating a small You need rest, a long respite gift to Souris Hospital. The from wrangling, so take it. As a | ‘reasurer’s report was given. first step, get firestrate analy- It was decided to hold a house tic or psychological ‘not psy-| Warm! chiatric) counselling tielp l yourself, in bringing order out Hity. of chaos in your filial feelings,| New visitation and refresh- and in developing saving detach-;.ment committets were formed, ment towards family problems) and the latter decided that in- that you didn’t create and can't! stead of the regular sandwiches,

ng party for a young cou-

uproot. M. H they would serve hot beef soup.

Mary Haworth counsels); At the close of the meeting, re- threugh -her column, not byj}freshments were served by the maj] or personal intervie w.jhostess and committee in!

Write ber in*¢are of Guardian. | charge.

IDA BAILEY ALLEN

Gingerale In Real Flip With Milk, Ice Cream

We asked our food-conscious!% tsp. ground cinnamon teenaged guest to write this in-| 1-16 tsp. salt troduction for today’s column./3 tbsp. sugar This is what came out: 1 pt. vanilla ice cream

“When the winter sun's over In 2-qt. bowl, mix ingredients

the yardarm in Teensville,/in order given. Beat well, pref-|

ithoughts turn naturally from)erably with an egg beater. | books to pick-me-ups, and there; Serve foaming. Enough for

of! are a number of ingenious and. six glasses.

delicious trefreshers for the hip

Inman,

Mrs. Malcolm Beaton, Peters,

for Ple now residing in the comm«e> |

;dent in your humble readiness | set as near as the {amily re- >

to leave ne stone unturned (in-| frigerator.

cluding wriing twice to a re- | move outsider, to - wit, this col-| COMMON MIXER

GINGER FLIP

If you're alone and have a! heap of homework to do, try | this fortifier: Pour equal parts}

Elizabeth MacDougall, with ten members and one visitor in attendance

Genera! businessywas carried out and it was decided to ob- tain a water fountain for the school. Mrs. Gordon MacNevin was in charge of the program- me

Mrs. Bert. MacPhail will be hostess for February, with Mrs. Douglas MacPhail and Mrs Morris MacDougal! assisting with the refreshmen's

Florrie Beaton Montague, has as her guest this week her aunt Mrs. Daniel Gammon of Meredith, Ontario. Mrs. Gam- mon will also visit with her bro ther D. H. MacPherson. who is

a patient in the Kings County Memorial Hospital

Hon. J Angus MacLean, M.P., recently visited Charles

S. MacDonald, who is a guest at the Beaton Nursing Home, Mur- ray Harbour

spent home

Errol Caseley, Halifax the past week end at his at Kelvin Grove

Russell Williams has return- ed to Elmsdale after having spent the past few. months in To- ronto.

Gary Phillips,» who is employ- ed with the firm of Laidlaw In- corporated Ltd, a branch of the New York Stock Exchan- ge in Montreal, recently visited | /his mother, Mrs. Marion Phil-| i lips, sisters, Darlene and Agnes| and brother, Dale, at O'Leary.) Allan T. Matthews, formerly of | O'Leary is resident manager of | this Montreal firm.

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INOW ON STAFF

| Mrs. John Wallace, RT, who successfully passed qua- lifying examinations in Nov- ember, is now on staff in the X Ray of the Wes- tern Hospital, Alberton.

She is a registered member of the Canadian Society of Ra- diological Technicians.

Mrs. Wallace received her training at the P.E.1. Hospi- | tal, Charlottetown, and is the | daughter of Mr. and Mrs. | George Carruthers, O'Leary.

| St. Mark’s CWL Meeting Held

ze 16% takes 3% yds. 45-in. |

jumnist) in your anguished

| for these top. shapes,

| , Puffy, fuffy, warm-as-ur hats |keep you cozy, pretty. Beret with pompon, other in ¢ut loop istitch. Pattern 7253; directions,

Thirty five cents ‘eoing. ‘or, this pattern (no stamps, Please) to Alice Brooks; care ptipeg: Weegee let dee 60 Front St. W, Tessas. OSS Ontario residents add 1

“Milk is the mixer for all.| gingerale or root beer and milk But, cool it, cats, before utter-} into a tall glass. Top with scoop jing a ‘dullsville.’ Riffle through) of vanilla ice cream.. the spice cabinet, check the freezer compartment for some| TOMORROW’S DINNER frozen fruit and ice cream, | Consomme in Cups

Roast Half Ham with syrup, mo- Cider-Raisin Sauce lasses, and instant coffee. Add (previously columned) la dash of that incomparable | Baked Halved Sweet Potatoes,

The January meeting of St. Mark's, Lot 7 CWL was held at the home of Mrs. Charlies Rog- ers, when 14 members answer- ed roll call. Mrs. Gerald

| teenaged ingenuity (ahem!) and| Green ee ee Se dares Seeuemne | you've got the makin's of some Choc District Superviser pretty wild (but tasty) thirst-/ Coffee or Tea Milk $ Charlettetowa, P.E.L, quenchers. And building them The Chef a W Sun Life of Canada is half the fun, | ates inves tveies Ann ebet, | Phebe 44687 - 6505

“Before starting a count-\1 am hep—I mean hip—to ali |¢

down .on the launching pad, an} your shakes. But don't forget to

ample supply of milk is a must. | clean up — tout de suite!

an’ mene ot — . To a

muss a minimum a VIOLINIST’S SCHUOL

good health to a maximum,

kids, look for milk in plastic-| - World famous violinist Yehudi

coated cartons. One of the new-| Menuhin has opened a music

est, a 2at. size, features a su-| school in London for gifted chil-

per-easy, opening and a}

serrated, lip that offers - far)

greater pouring control.”

HERE IDA TAKES OVER

The use of plastic-lined drink-

ing cups will save

glassware. One of

to-fix refreshers is

flavored fruit-miilk drink

» Here's the recipe

two other teenaged treats. ‘

[ELLEN’S DIARY

~ The Sharp Snap Of Frost At Odd Times Is Heard.

night, Ellen” ers see painted trill James, husband of ours, obser-| along the banks of ves, come in now from an outing | wood's path. which, in company with the youn-| farm, the old, ger farmer from the house ac-|turned into # ross ‘the lane, closed doors and of pink and white

“This is a cool

adjusted windows in the stba-

les. and shut off the water-line night is. How here and there about, lest the it? Ebon dark frost of tonight should occasion | by the dam below, a them some later regret.- ‘Yes, rows up the rise, the farmlands it's one of the coldest this win-| all white, and touched by ‘th The wind drives| silver of moonlight.

ter, I'd say the frost in’ he says. A from an old-time winter, is. Bright and more wind . blown than we best recall! : .

“It's on a night like this” he continues, “I wish we were back

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to the old ways of the farming — | won't be like summer — that to winters when the horses and/1’ll warrant!”

wi Hold Meeting At York Point —

chuckle. The singing of the institute ode and the repeating of the Mary Stewart Collect I know. But the old stove soon ‘he January meeting of took care of that. And there| York Point WI at the home of were no worries over water - Mrs. Gordon MacEwen. | pipes freezing, or no bow! im the, The president, Mrs. Reginald MacEwen, read a poem with a bers, now in the old armchair. | thought for the New Year. Min- utes were read and was answered with an article for in | layette.

cattle went down to drink at the Stream, and the pump in the yard supplied the piggery and house. Not bad days, those” he smiles

“With a pail of water, by the kitchen sink!’ We “And it with aa inch or more of ice on it by the morning ”

stable to be thawed’, he remem-

There is a lacey tracery of frost creeping up an inner pant, like the finest Valenciennes its delicate pattern. Odd times, sharply. almost like the report of a rifle, one hears the snap of frost in the timbers of this old house, that would settle down | now to its dreams.

“You have drawn off a pail or so of water, have you Ellen, to have i on hand in cast the power goes’"’ James inquires, looking up from’ the newspaper reads.

“Oh yes!"’

Tabby on the couch, yawns,

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charge of

Health and Welfare- convener} and a contest, which was won! by Mrs. Golden MacKinley.

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Mrs. Ralph Bain was in

MR. AND MRS. LOWELL FINNAMORE

Donations are to be made to,

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wood Hospital. Y Refreshments were served by : "Retest At Holy Redeemer Church . } : | Wedding vows were Fi , = Sh Same ott ate te maa cree Pin Presented Most Holy , Charlot-| wool dress with black accesso- tetown, when Gail, daughter of| ries. Her corsage was of white At Kensington ira bese Ses ee g Fred Duncan, became the! y, the The as : ei toa v ee oe Oe netane. 8 te Mrs. Earle MacKay, was pre-| 0! Mr. and Mrs. Loute Finoe-| the bride A potty ry Ep a sented with a past president's more, Andover, N.B. The double] Ging cabs. topped witht mime, pin in recognition of two years|Ting ceremony was performed bride and es service as president of the Ken-|by Rev. W. M. Comerford. ocean tis er . Canadian| Given in marriage-by her bro-| the bride See eee 0 lee tod Ce ia, sae eee dee = ae pin was presented by the pre-|full length gown of white peau-| ¥- M- Cotterford. f sident, Mrs. D. L. | Melnais, at |de-sie, “with rounded neckline For a honeymoon trip to Hali- . January meeting held in| and lilyy point sleeves. Her waist | bride wore # yellow suit; her home . “*Tiength, four tered veil of talle| with black eneeens , Eighteen members answered |ilusion was held in place _ by| ~ to roll call. A card party wa g|4 crown of pearls and multi-col- 4 planned to be held im the Legion| ured gems, and she carried a i Home and plans were made to| cascade of red roses. =. 3 cater to a Lion’s Club dinner on|__ The matron - of - honor, Ethel ¥ January 26. It was decided to| MacDonald, and the brides- po ffl pf or Si the+ Aaanadiend pore y aoe oon Foe gers stype usual baby’s diary. full length blue Mrs. Clair Mayhew tavites| and white aakaeasls, wah oe the members to her home for| Wedding ring headpirces con- - the next meeting on Monday, |training shoulder length vells. HE February 2, when refreshment | They both carried nosegays of committee will be Mrs. Le@|white carnations, tinted with Crane, Mrs, Judson MacLea,n| blue. . ‘ Sudsbury was appointed phon-|can, brother of the bride, and ing committee for the regular | ushers were Gordon and Jack dances. Duncan.

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