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Page 6, The Guardian Tues., August 12, 1958 ‘ ‘
~ HAPPENINGS
Mr. R. J. R. Nelson, vice - president of Dosco and'general- manager of Halifax shipyards. and Mrs. Nelson arrive in the city this Tuesday and will be here
tor a few days. They are regis~
MONTREAL WEDDING
Mr. and Mrs. A. James Mc- Alpine whose marriage took place in the Church of St. Andrew and St. Paul, (Presbyterian) Mon- treal. The bride is the former Miss Rlobenta‘Anne Frizzell, dau- ghter of Mr. and Mrs. Andrew
1111.; Mr. McAlpine is the son of Mr. and Mrs. James lilo-Alpine of Montreal. The attendants were Mr. David Leilbovitch, Mr. Ken- neth Renaud, Mr. Donald But- ler, Miss Alberta McKenzie, Miss Margaret-Anne Fleck, and Miss
Frizzell of Springfield West, P. Emma Duncan. Photo by Kalb.
MARY HAWORTH,
, Wife FUII OI Remorse But ’MUs’r-Try To Go On
Dear Mary Hawonth: All her life my mother was terrifically high strung, beset with depres- sion, ' anxiety and temper, I- thought she had a wonderfully kind heart. From the time I was born until I‘was 6, I was con- stantly under a doctor’s care for nervous stomach.-
Meanwhile mother was becom- ing a bundle of emohons and my parents quarreled oontmously, but somehow stayed together.”
When I was 16. the depression hit; father’s health broke, and I took an office job, to support the
. household—Jim the next 17 years. At age 23, I started going with Henry, whom I married eight yeans later. The long delay was due' to my filial obligations—and his, as he had an invalid father.
After marriage we had to live with my parents, due to their de— pendency. Eventually, we moved
p to a home of our own, but still of course took care of my folks. .In this period I was having a series of nervous crises-bawdy able to talk at times. Through it all Henry was a? marvel of patience, undenstanding and loyalty; and we loved each other with a love that is getting more rare in this. united-up world. , - HUSBAND KILLED
So much for background. Now to get to the core of the pnoblelm. My husband was killed‘ about a year ago. If it weren’t for the faith, we shared, I believe I would haw done away with my- self; as I don’t see how I can go on alone. But here is what
bothers me—Ito the extent that I ‘
am about to lose my mind unless 'I get some insight into the~“wliy’-' of it; and, some sense that my course was “justifi ."
We never had any children. be- cause I didn’t feel capable of tak- ing care of a child—although I do like children. . . Since Henry’s death. this has become a phobia with me. He always said that un- der the conditions he wouldn‘t in- sist on» a family . . . but now I wonder if I let him clown? And if God will punish me? ,
Is there anything you can say, to give me an understanding of what is wrong with me? I shall be so gnateful for your Wis- dom. . .J—.Y.
AGE A FACTOR '
DEaAvR J .Y.: In all poobaliili‘ty it is your age, and no: only the death of Henry, that is contribut- ing to your obsessive remorse about not producing children in years when you might have.
It isn’t uncommon for women in middle age to be afltllicted with severe involutional melanc-holia, associated with the wane of their reproductive powers. And in this season of emotional depression, the childless women often are hmfnted by a mysterious sense of
grief and loss—as of priceless op- ‘
pontu-nity by-Ipanssed forever.
This heartsick-sentirment is felt :
by middle-aged spinsters, also by matronzs who simply couldn’t conceive, as well as by women
child bearing. So, as of now, your deep dismay is largely due to be- ing a woman of a certain age, I
MUST FACE TRUTH
However, another sense of loss is also involved in your acute anxiety state. It has to do with loss of your husband‘s sex com- panionship. Looking back, now that he is gone, you probably feel
that you never valued him suf-
ficiently on that score—eand you have flashes of terror, no doubt, wondering how “you are to cope
lion.
But these considerations don"t enter your conscious mind, to give you an inkling of what’s wrong, because you aren‘t accus tamed to practising insight, and facingthe truths about self. Now
' that I’ve furnished a clueto what
ails you, perhaps you can pull yourself to g at h e r emotional ally and digest your portion of grief and loss, without tonment- ‘ing your conscience further.
As to whether your childless course was justified—remember (in the wordsof the song) that “God holds the whole world in His hands.” Accept the facts of your personal history, thus far, and ask God to guide you in ,do- ing His will for your life hence- forth—:MH. V
Mary. ~Haiwonth counsels thrrugh her column, not by mail or personal interview. Writer her in care of this newspaper.
MARCH MAN
John Philip Sousa, American composer of numerous marches, was the son of a Portuguese mu- sician.
with total denial of such consola-
t'ered at the Charlottetown Hotel.
Miss J annet Ma-theson entertain- ed at a buffet supper Monday evening at her 'summer cottage at Koppooh in honor of Miss Margaret Matheson.
Alfiter supper very lovely mis— cellaneous gifts were presented
I, to Miss Matheson, the bride el-
clot.
The dhnistening of the infant daughter of Dru John S. Henry and Mrs. Henry (nee Norah De~ Blois) of Montreal took place on Sunday, August 10th., at 12.30 in St. Paul’s Anglican Church. Rev. William - T. 'Warren, Morrism'lle, Penn, oflhciated. The baby was given the name Susan DeBlois.
Godparents were Mrs. Tom D. DeHlois, Miss Suzanne “Palmer and Mr. Jan Volenky of Buenos Aims, who Mr. Tom DeBlois I‘e- pmsented as proxy. Following the christening a bulith luncheon wosheld art the home of the gnandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Noel DelBlois at their monomer cottage at Keppoch.
Mos. J. E. Fleming has been vacationing at French River the guest of Mr. and Mus. Hall Burt and and Mrs. Hilliard Mack.
KINGSTON W .M .S. _
The regular monthly meeting of the Kingston W.M.S. was held at the home of Mrs. Lloyd Mac- Kin-non on Tuesday, August 5th.
Mrs. Lyman Newson had charge of worship which was
ed by prayer‘and psalm 145* in unison. Hymn and prayer closed this worship period.
Reading by Mrs. Tyhpha New-
son, ‘God and You', and 17th chapter of St. John was read in unison. The minutes was read and approved. Sixteen members answered roll call, there were four visitors present. The collect- ion ‘amoun-tcd to $3.65. _ lt was decided to have Baby Band picnic at Mrs. William Proud’s on Friday, August 8. licecream to be Teach- ers for Mission Band: Mrs. Wil- liam Proud and Mrs. Ralph You- n‘ker.
Next meeting‘at the home of Mrs. James Jewell on September 2nd, with ‘the following‘ commit- tees: Reading, Mrs. Lyman New- son; Worship, Mrs. LorneSmith; Mrs. Owen Younker, Mrs. Ralph Younkec and. Mrs. Lloyd Mac- Kinnon.
Meeting closed ‘with the Lord's Prayer. Lunch was then served by hostess and committee in cha- rge, and a social hour spent.
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Mrs. Margaret Christie, Brud- enh‘eim, Albenta, and Mrs. Rus- sell Ramsay, Lac‘ombe, Alberta, are visiting in the province. While here these sisters are staying at their old home in Baltic and are the buests of Mr. ane Mrs. Ro- bert Cousins. They also visited with Mr. and Mrs. Hall Burt, French River. , 3 They had an interesting visit to the oil wells at Tyne Valley. There they renewed their friend- ship with the superintendent who they had known in Albert-a.
Mrs. William Pickering, Borden spent last week the guest of-Mr. and Mrs. Hall Burt, French Riv- er. .
Mrsf Elliott Gordon, Portland, Oregon, is visiting in Charlotte- town the guest of her brother and sister-iin-lalw, MII'. and Mrs. Henry Macharen.
Mm. John Coles, Stoneham, Mosaic. the guest of her mother, Mus. Colin Cameron McClure, Bnaclcley Point, and her sister Mrs. C. W. MacArthur and MI. MacAnthur, Greenfield Avenue. Mics. Gales will be in the pro- vince until the. end of August.
and Mrs. Borden McClure arrived from Boston Friday even- ing and are the guests of Mr. and Mrs. Earle C. Baker, Stan- hope-r
Dr. and Mus. Martin L. Mac- Donald, who have been in Eur- ope since June, have arrived on Pnince Edward Island. Dr. Mac- Donald, a native of Brook'f'ield, mcflsod in Waltham, Mass.
Annual Bach FestivoI Uses Old Instruments
The 21st summer Bach Festival at Cianmel, California, this year had attendances 'so great that every conceit turned away would be ticket buyers. Bach music. of course, pendotminated but the festival took on an extremely lllb- eral View of its traditional title.
To those who greatly enjoy Rena Johnstone’s recorder ensem- ble, her own spinet playing and her choral group it is interesting to read that concertos, chamber music and larger ensembles at Carmel fremently made use of old irnslruyts. Captivating perv formers on the recorder were
ELLEN’S DIARY
Roberta ,.and Colin Sterne. They also used the Baroque flute, lute, virginals and the little-known woodwind .cromorne.
One artist, Alice Ehlenswas completely skillful but too drily strict and unyielding id .tempo in the Bach D minor hanpischord concerto. Ralph Llinley, a feature harpischord player, was invalu- able in his “continue” accompan- iments.
To quote Mrs. Johnstone: “Peep
'1e are getting back to the idea of
using instruments for which the compositions were originally writ- ten, e.g. the Brandenburg con- certos. '
0, Remember, City Folks I To Rise At 5 In Morning
“This won’t do, Ellen." James exclaimed. nising quickly this morning. “Not with the haying not done.” V
How pleasant was our pillow. inviting us softly to return to our interrupted dreams. To c ome hack to that land of perpetual summer where we had been roaming, where scented dream.
noses and all the other loved
flowers bloomed; where grass was evengrreen. and bnooklets rippled smilineg over smooth pebbles away to some everlast- ing sea. 'We burrowed a little deeper into the pillow, tucking the Sprigged moss - green quilt we had stitched by in=a young spring, about a night-cla shoulder. \
“llt’s plenty late, Ellen" James said noting the gesture. “This time of year we can’t sleep all day!"
The clock in the kitchen below struck the hour. And we smiled recalling to ounsel'ves this jingle which has lain in mind with
strange bed-fellows, better and
worse through the years: , “City folks longing to live on a farm,
Ought to be given this warning: They dream of twilight and 5 o'- clock charm . ‘ But not 5 o’clock in the morning”
“It’s another nice morning" James ‘observed easing a sus- pender into place by‘the window which overlooks mill and» stream, adding after a silence which in- dicated its chahm “everything is so pretty out when ."
“Any dew?”
“Yes, but it will soon lift. An - ther great hay - day this will be!”
With the youngsters expressing some cegmt art the passing of the season which had given them many young and lovely memories to keep, our haying is now about at an end. Last mowings have
been made, last loads stored. And
this afternoon, that remaining in a leftover at Rob’s was parcel- led into bales and in intriguing loads hauled up the road to stor—
age at “the other farm” beyond.
“Another half — day Should see the end of it,” James reported this evening. And Mack, thoughts appanently wandering to days of mudh‘enchautment ahead for him, offered, “We saved some of‘the bales for the herdsire to munch at those days he’s off to The Fair."
And August’s was the gold of today’s sunshine and August’s were the warm sun-«spread fields. And alas, alasclt! August’s was
the yellow leaf we saw drift
downfrom a golden willow, and
THURSDAY. (AUGQ14) IS ‘ BARGAIN DAY AT
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August’s the cricket we the
beard tuning his lyre on lawn!
Hear dual, lion!” Papa Starlv ing on the garage roof queried head to one side listening to catch it again.
“Oh me, oh my!“ Mama Star- ling sighed.
“it ain’t de end ob de world, Dahlrih’!” he smiled “ ‘member
flat!”
“I know” she nodded indiffer- ently “but. .
The pup left the shade of a ll-
lac quSIh on the lawn to bark at a machine noisily Shifting gears on the hill then and the conversa- tion was over.
As is our day which has been so lovely throughout and now so “silently steals away.”
Until tomorrowaDiary—Good - night. . .
LORNE NALLEY W. I.
The August meeting of the Lorne Valley W.I. met at the home of Mrs. Angus Nicholson
on Monday evening, August 4th.
An atte. lance of seven members and two visitors.
The minutes of the previous meeting were read and approved followed by roll call. Bills I were paid and the correspond- ence read. The secretary report- ed having ’receiVed the govern- ment grant. .
It was moved and second that a lantern be purchased for use in the hall. The two delegates to the Provincial Convention gave their reports.
The next‘meeting is to be at the home of Mrs. Francis Macin- tyre with Mrs. Angus Nicholson and Mrs. .Lorne MacLeod on the Mob committee, and Mrs. Mal- colm MacLeod on the Programm
Mrs. Alex MacDougall put on a‘contest which was won by Mrs. Angus Nicholson. The meeting adjourned and a lovely lunch and social hour followed.
EBENEZER W. I.
Mrs. John MacDonald washo- stess for the August meeting of Ebenezer WI. The meeting, con- ducted by the president, opened by repeating the Mary Stewart collect in unison. ‘.
The roll call was answered by fourteen members, banding in an article for the auction sale.- Two
visitors were present. The sick
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The new sick committee is Mrs. Lincoln MacRae and Mrs. Chester Dover. T-helschool com:
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The next meeting will "be held ' at‘the home of Mrs. Hubert Oat- way with Mrs. Dan MacLeod'a'nd c Miss Barbara Ford to assist with lunch.
A very successful auction-- fol- lowed with Mrs. West MaCLccd as auctioneer. 4 * ,
The meeting closed with ’-‘The Lord’s Prayer after which lunch was served by the. hostess and committee in charge.
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