A pretty autumn wedding was solemnized at the United Bap- Iisl Church, Montague when Ed- na Christine. R.T., daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Louis Jenkins was united in marriage with Donald James. son 1'. and Mrs. Harvey Ross.

The double ring ceremony was performed by Rev. A. G. J. Sleeves.

The wedding music was play- ed by Mrs. . A. Johnstone, J. F. Bears accompanied by Mrs John Peardon sang “The Lord’s Prayer," before the ceremony and “I'll Walk Beside You" dur- lag the signing of the register.

The church was decdrated with baskets of yellow. white and flame colored gladioii.

The bride, given in marriage by her father. wore a floor length gown of bridal brocade with a full skirt falling into a small train. The fitted bodice featured a delicately scalloped neekline and tapered sleeves coming to points over the hands. Her shoulder length veil of tulle illusion with scalloped edge and adorned with rhinestones fell from a silver tiara set with seeded pearls and rhinestones. She carried a cascade of yellow roses and feathered carnations entwined with ivy.

Miss Alyce Bagnall. R.T.. friend of the bride was maid of honor. She wore a street length sheath of green satin featuring a scoop neckline and a sh

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Dear Mary Hawortb: I have been married 18 years and have two teenage daughters. My husband is in his forties. 4

ave ved a happ)’. nor- mal life until about three mon- ths ago. Now he acts as if the girls and I don't mean a thing to him any more.

If he wants to go out and stay until all hours of the night. he does and tells me fantastic tal- es as to why. I never have been a jealous wife. but I just can't believe him any more.

i ask him to be honest with me and tell me if he wants another woman or what. He says we just can't get along any more and he thinks it best to separate. Our arguments seem to be over the house and money.

i work and give him half my pay. The girls and I keep the house as clean as we can. but lately he is picking on us for every little thing.

I love him very. much but I can't stand the hurt I am feel- ing now. If he doesn't love me. if he wants to leave me. I guess i want in go. I mean. I don't think I want him if he doesn't love me.

I have telephoned a few

couldn't persuade him to see one, anyhow

i read your column daily and like your advice. so please tell rfiierhat you think I should do.-

Dehr R. V.: Make an IPPPM' meat to see a marriage coun- sellor at the earliest available

date. even if that is a month or Imore away. Meanwhile, talk things

over with your family doctor or any good general d- Isnostician.

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Anne Bond/Women's Editor. Phone W The Guardian, Charlottetown, Tues. Doc. 18. 1962. 7

HAPPENINGS

Seven students of the 1961 62 class at the Provincial Lab- ratory have successfully passed the examinations of the C n - dian Society of Laboratory Te- chnologists and are now quali- fied as registered laboratory te- chnicians. They are Betty Ching, Souris: Janet Jones. Pownal; Eve yn MacKinnon. Katherine Mac- Joan Mac-

' Swain, High Bank; Ilene Nor-

ching pillbox hat trimmed with pearls and small circular illu~ slon veil. She carried a baske of white Shasta daisies.

Miss Mildred Acorn. cousin of the bride and Mrs. John Mac- Donald. cousin of the groom. wore dresses identical to that of the maid of honor in gold and carried baskets of gold. bronze and white ’mums.

Ross Gillis. cousin of the groom. was man. Merrill Ross. brother of the groom. and Roy Jenkins. brother of the bride, ushered the guests to the pews which were decorated with miniature marigolds and white satin bows.

Mrs. Jenkins chose for her daughter‘s wedding a dress of brown taffeta brocade with taupe accessories and a corsage of talisman roses. The groom’s mother chose a dress of brown magic crepe. gold accessories and a corsage of pale yellow roses.

A reception for approximately. 75 guests was held at MacKen- zie Hail. Miss Carol Jenkins. cousin of the bride was in char- ge of the guest book. Rev. G. J. Sleeves proposed the toast to the bride to which the groom responded.

Following the reception the couple left for a honeymoon trip to Providence and other parts of the eastern States.

For travelling the bride don- ned a blue wool dress with mat- ching marabou hat, beige acces- sories and a corsage of pale pink carnations.

MARY HAWORTH

Baffled Wile See ks Cause Of Spouse’s Changed Attitude

equivalent of change of life. he may be physically upset And nervously on edge. And in this state. he may be trying. mis- takenly. in troubled mood. to re- vive his waning energies by playing a Lotharlo game on his nights out. Dr. Edmund Bergler's book. “The Revolt of the Middle-Aged n." (A. A. Wyn. publishers) provides a lucid. sympathetic. no-nonsense discussion of th at type of personal and domestic hazard. It overtakes the major- ity of men. sooner or later. who live long enough to become in- volved in the tensions of saying goodbye forever to their spent youth

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Do your best — on your own if your husband won't cooperate —to get a medical opinion as to whether he needs physical or psychiatric therapy or both. But if he remains obstinately resis- tant to your good offices thanklessly intent on separation, my advice is: leave the d our wide open for him to depart. Let him go, with your goo it wishes. but you stand pat. with the household property a n d the children in your custody.

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the consolation ‘of knowing you behaved biamelessly during the crack-up crisis. — M. H.

Dear Mary Heworth: I am writing to you for a friend who wishes to know just what are the rules concerning a confiden- tial letter written to. you on a domestic problem.

To be answered. does it have to be published. with signature or initial. or can‘lt be disguis- ed? Or can it be answered by mail in a personal communica- tion from you? i

Her problem involves her husband. who dislikes her chii~ dren by a former marriage. es- pecially the sea. of whom he is abnormally jealous. There are other lproblems. too.

gut‘his cog; be handled th nmn. ca, you tell us wig else to seeklh‘elp?

i ne'er 'p. K: Confidential let-

ters. when so designated,

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rie, Charlottetown and Sandra White. Murray Harbour.

The St. John's, Milton. AY- P_A met on December 12 at the rectory. The meet' was com blned with a local council meet- in

g.

The meeting opened with .a hymn followed by prayers and the scripture reading. Following the local council business a dis- cussion on the topic of “smok- ing" was led by Charles Coles. Diana Rodd presented an inter- esting film on this subject. Minutes of the previous meeting were read and one bill presented for payment. Further arrangements we made to provide Christmas mu- sic for the children at the Pro- vincial Sanatorium. Refreshments were served and

KENSINGTON -—- A gaily de— corated Christmas tree and a display of home made decora- tions gave a festive air to th e December meeting of Margate W.I., held at the home of Mrs. Keith Warren.

be new president. Mrs. Ar- thur Profitt opened the meeting with “Jingle Bells". followed by the collect. Ten members ans- wered roll call by presenting a Christmas gift for a child. The gifts will be donated to local service cllibs for distribution to needy children at Christmas.

Thanks for the iayette sent to the Unitarian Service Commit- tee. was received and also a note of thanks for help given to a needy family.

A letter from the Red Cross was read, and the Red C ros s convenor, Mrs. Chester Howard. reported that some work had

een received from the Sum-

A' merside Red Cross depot.

A letter from the convenor of cultural activities. mentioning several different cultural pro-

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jects that might be undertaken was read by the secretary. Mrs. Eileen Profitt.

It was decided to sponser the Fire Assistance Fund collection again this year. and Mrs. Heath Mayhew was appointed to re- ceive the money and give th e receipts for these.

The school committee report- ed that Miss Margaret Walker had been engaged to te a c h music in the school for the re- mainder of the school year. Se- veral members volunteered to

talce treats to shut-ins atChrist- D

mas. Lunch was served by Mrs. Warren and the committee.

KINGSBORO WI

The November meeting of the Kingsboro Women's Institute was held at the home of M r s . Peter Stewart.

The new officers elected were: president, Mrs. Horace MacDonald; vice-president. Mrs. Peter Stewart; secretary-trea- surer. Mrs. Kennth MacGregor; directors, Mrs. Gordon Robert- son. Mrs. Ervin Robertson. Mrs. Bernard Mossey: auditors. Mrs. Wendell Robertson, Mrs. Staffer Boertien; press reporter. Mrs J.W. Robertson; Red Cross con- venor. Mrs. Kenneth MacGregor.

A box of materials was donat ed to the Institute b y th e hos- less.

The December meeting was _invited by Mrs. C. MacLean and the members of the Red P oi nt WI will be guests at thi meet- ing. A variety sale was planned and Christmas gifts will be ex- changed.

The birthday bank was open- ed and the proceeds will be us- ed to purchase articles for Sou- ris Hospital. It was reported that the school is visitied each month and cleaned by two mem-

Luhch was served and the meeting adjourned.

MONTAGUE C.W.L.

On Sunday evening. Decem- ber 9 the monthly meeting of the Montague Parish Council of the C.W.L. was bold in the par- ish hall.

The president. Mrs. George

the meeting closed with the be- nedictlon.

Mr. and Mrs. Wilson Adams. Sea View, left on Saturday mor- ning by train for Toronto, Ont. where they will spend the win-

M. ter months.

On Thursday evening Nov- ember 15 friends of Donna Compton gathered at .the home of her parents in Southport and surprised her with a shower in honor of her approaching mar-

r age.

On Friday her fellow employ seat from the Bank of Montreal gave a dinner at the Queen Ho- tel in her honor and presented her with a lovely piece of lug- gage. On November 20th her girl-friends from the Bank Montreal held a miscellaneous shower at the home of Connie Davies in East Royalty. A de- licious lunch was served by the

ostess.

On Nov. 28th. Mrs. Maurice Blake. 15 Villa St., entertain- ed twenty guests in the bride's honor. and presented her with an Island Tartan auto robe. Joyce Dockendorf and Marjor-

re ie Gillan showed slides of the

previous showers. Island scenes and Marjorie's trip to Mexico.

Margate' WI Members Hold December Meeting

not published. Nor do we send private counsel by the postman.

Answers are given through the column and care is taken to disguise names. initials and identities.

The column intent is to guide the needy towards self-h elp stud . specialist consultation and personal growth that may solve problems.

In your friend's case. put her in touch with the nearest Fam-

y Service counselling agency.

M a r y leoth counsels th her column, not by mail or personal interview.

Write her in care of The Guar- dill. l

Lunch was served by the hos- less.

WOMEN’S ORGANIZATIONS

Mr. and Mrs. Elwell John Grigg are shown following their recent marriage in the T y n e Valley Presbyterian Church. The bride is the for-

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mer Muriel Hilda Ellis.

coming year are as follows:—- sage". Mrs. Norman MscLesn;

hggoaary presidentMMrs. WI. educational secretary. Mrs. H.

. o :.pre5i_en. rs. . . K.S. Hemmin ; prayer a for

HOICIS Meel'lng ,iChamPlon: first Vice - Dresi-vand social sergvice. MrspH. E. dent. Mrs. C. H. Coies; second ‘Miiler.

The recent annual meeting otViCE - PFCSIdent. Mrs. Herbert Branch“A" of women'sflhorne: recording secretary, Auxiliary of St. Paul's Church,iMiss Bessie Beer: treasurer. Charlottetown, was held in theiMiss Helen Wakeford: Dorcas Parish Hall with the Presidentisecretary. Mrs. J. A.13entley:

rs. . E. Champion presiding, icorrespondence secretary. Mrs. and a good attendance of mem- {E V. Bell: thank-Offering SEC-

iSt. Paul’s WA ‘

WHITER THAN WHITE LONDON (CPI — The Daily Mail reports that during the filming of a television commer- cial a woman was asked which lie of washing was whitest.

bers presént. retary. Mrs. Parker Moore' . ‘, - ‘MII u Repofitsl showed that a most “cent-aweek" set‘retal‘l'. MTS- Irep'lriled‘fan'l'llleed gellieknvgm 511:): success" year had been c““',Ernest Bulman; "living mes-Iagain.

eluded. with all financial com .

mltments met. fmcr- 0.0‘ o I k

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A generous parcel. of “ ° island furriers ltd.

ing fillers" was again sen .e

,= iMiss Gerda Hansen at her new school St. Phillip's. Fort Geor- g .

c. P.Q. , . Dorcas work has gone ahead 0' as usual with extra sewing and . knitting done for our local Red 1 ’ Cross, Protestant Family Ser-i vice Bureau and Save the Chil-‘ ‘ dren refugees. It was decidcdi that tea money this year go to3 . help feed the hungry children I o

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of Hong Kong. Boxes and mon-‘

cy were sent to our W.A. refu-i -.0

gee adoptees in Germany. alsoi to needy families. clothing. and

new prayer books were sent to :0 ' Inverness, P.E.I. ; * Study for the year was “Je- . g . 6535“ o sus Christ the Light or the .9' c f; : Smdes ° World" this being the subjectl : Dirbuoaés-t - Blouses discussed at the World Council I . {Torn 101:0 511.1115. ' .o' of Churches. Members were for- . # emu-sets a urrlcrs' 0‘ ' tunate to have several guest! ' speakers, namely: - Rev. Arch-° so - 0 deacon lbbott. Rev. David Mac- ISIClnCI '# donald, Mrs. Tom DeBlois. Mrs

Eric Shepherd and Mrs. G.

turriers Itd.

ood. , During the year many visits . iwere made to those bereaved, ‘ Charlonemwn .

. ir lill and shut in members. 1

‘ The officers elected for the

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dau- ghter of Mr. and Mrs. George Ellis, Tyne Valley and the groom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Lorne Grigg. Springhiil.

Boudreault presided and open- ed the meeting with the leagu prayer.

After the minutes of the last meeting were read and the cor- respondence dealt with. the treasurer reported a substan- tial balance on hand.

conveuers reports were read and plans were made for cleaning and decorating the church for Christmas. Mrs. Harold Haynes was appointed to order flowers for the altar.

Mrs. James Power offered to take care of the treats for the sick and shut-ins at Christmas.

was decided to make a vi- sit to Riverside Hospital and the Provincial Infirmary during the last week of December.

The drawing of the lottery will take place at the bingo on De- cember 18 in the parish hall. Af- ter appointment of the regular church committees the meeting closed with prayer.

Lunch was served.

BIDEFORD U.C.W. The fourth general meeting of the United omen of

the Bideford Pastoral charge was held on Monday evening in e Lot 14 United Church with the president. Mrs. Herman Dy- ment in the chair.

The meeting opened by re- peating the U.C.W.‘ purpose unison. The devotional period c o n s i s t e d of scripture and hymns in keeping with the Christmas season. It was con- ducted by Miss Pearl Craig, Mrs. Alvin Hardy. Mrs. Arthur awson. Mrs. Leigh Craig and Mrs. Fenton Boylan.

The financial statement was given by the treasurer. Mrs. Claude Hayes and showed a bal- ance on hand for the year of $9.

The appreciation of the UCW was extended to the officers for the u n t i r i n g and successful work during the first year of the organization. All the officers were re-appointed for another year

Mrs. J.B. Hankinson of the Tyne Valley unit, the speaker for the evening, gave a very uplifting and interesting talk on “The Incredible Star" in whclh she illustrated the five points of the star as “wonderful” Al- mighty God. Counsellor. the everlasting Father. and “The Prince of Peace”.

At the close of the meeting a social hour was enjoyed.

BELMONT WJ.

The Belmont WI members held their December. meeting in the Johnson home on Thursday evening with 15 members p r e-

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The president. Mrs. A.S. John- son chaired the meeting. which was opened with a Christmas hymn. The secretary. Mrs. Ro- bert MacLaurin read the min- utes of the last meeting and it was decided to buy a TB bond for 85. Several items of corres- pondence were read and dealt with.

A sale of small articles w a s held and the sum of $12 realis-

ed.

Roll call was answered by banding in Christmas gifts for children at the Protestant or. phanage.

Lunch was served by the hos- tesses assisted by some of the members.

LOT It UCW

The December meeting of the Lot 16 United Church Women was held at the Gamble h 0 me with twenty-two members pre- nt. Mrs. Roger MacLean was in charge of the worship with "Christmas" as the theme. Mrs. RE. Johnston presented "The Three Wisemen" with several

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A vocal solo "0 Holy Night" was rendered by Miss Edith Batten. Mrs. AK. Gregor

ac gave Martin Luther‘s version of “The First Christmas" while

Mrs. Lorna Forbes read “Love|Clak. auditors. Mrs. Ian Newell Came Down At Christmas”. 58- l and Mrs. Walter MacQuarrie. The new President assumed her office and dealt with remainder lof business.

veral Christmas carols were slilng during the worship ser- v ce.

K. MacGregor presid-I

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Mrs. A. ed during the business meeting. ’ Articles were passed in to be 1 distributed to needy families at A Christmas. The travelling apon i: was opened and the mite boxes it were passed in to the treasur- ‘ er. Mrs. Forbes.

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Lunch was served by the 1105- l tess assisted by Mrs. Clarence‘ Carr. Mrs. Chalmers Hutchin- son and Mrs. W.P. Miller.

CORNWALL UCW

te ss to the members of th e Cornwall U.C.W. for their No- vember meeting. Mrs. Stanleyl Murchison was in charge of the I worship period which pened with the scripture reading taken

ther and Mrs. Ford Wilson. I A hymn followed by prayer‘

by the leader closed the Worship i II’IIIIIIIIII. Ha z e n I .

lerVice.

The president. Mrs. Howard then called on Mrs. Is— aac Walls who divided the meet- ing into three study groups. The 1 leader of the first group w a s l Mrs. Lawson Drake and their subject was “Science and the Doctrine of Creation". Mrs. E1- mer Frizzell was group 2 lead- er and their subject was “God Created Out of Nothing". Mrs. ‘ Walls was leader of group’ three and their subject was; “What the Doctrine of Creation Means to Us." ‘

The minutes of the last meet- I ing were read by the secretary and 22 members and one visitor attended the meeting.