THE CADRE, TUES,. FEB. 19, 192.4 Page ’6.

For Ms.Con’t

is why I think that anyone who needs make—up and roll- ers to be well groomed is phony. What is the matter with the body we are born with? Isn't the body a work of beauty without cosmetics? Also, another question to ask is how much time does your boyfriend spend put— ting his make-up on? Does he ever complain that his thighs are too large, his chest too small and so on? Of course not. Since he thinks he is superior he does not have to worry that his body is not alright. Any man or woman who chan- ges for the comfort and sec- urity of their mate and has done so freely, that is out

of love and concern is a free act: whereas changes which one feels one must make to please or to con- form to their mates wishes is a product of oppression. Therefore I'am not asking for an independent relation— ship but an interdependent relationship where each par- tner may grow in his Or her own way. _ Yes, Shirlene, I agree With your statement of door open- ing if the person for whom you are opening the door 15 physically incapable (wheth— er it be male or female) but I also see it as a means for 'making females more depen— dent on males. You are;able to give me good reasoning about the courtesy of open- ing doors, but are all fe-

' males incapable of lighting their own cigarettes, taking their coats off, and so on. If these acts are real acts

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prayer and service

in community. Contact Father Wendell Mac Intyre (892-7362) ~ Room 136 Main Building for an appointment.

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of courtesy toward someone who is physically incapable then I agree with you whole heartedly. However, I feel that many of the so called courtesies are done for oth* er motives.

You also state that the fe- male graduate is at the age where marriage interests her. Could it be that she now needs security because

I find it hard to actually set down a certain age for marital interest to begin? Also your next sentence sta—.

for financial security..." With these first two senten- ces you lead one to believe that girls are interested in marrying a financially se— cure person. Using this rea- son for marriage, a univer- sity graduate is a big risk since they have a certain debt before they start mar- riage, and are incompetent to work. Is this the proper motive for marriage?.

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Your last paragraph is fan- tastic. You give the impre- ssion that females have to catch a man and in order to’ do this they must think of sly, sneaking methods in which to use their bodies .for bait. Also our first co- ntact with the opposite sex should not be purely phy— sical. After all if our thoughts and interests are not commonly shared, what happens when we're old, » wrinkled and slightly de- teriorated? Of course we can— not argue about the way our bodies are built but there must be more to life, love' and marriage than sex. ,Therefore Shirlene, I don't think anyone can really be a "natural woman" with the ideas that you have given. Until we really start to question society's standards and our own actions we are destined to remain the-same.

Gil Brammer

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HOLLAND COLLEGE WINTER CARNIVAL FEB 20-24.‘

wed. Coronation Ball

(no blue jeans)

Music by 'Sun Machine" $2 Thur. Casino Night ’ Fri. Dance $2 ,

Music by Zylan Sat. Pig 'N Whistle (9-12:30)v . Music by Millers Jug Irish type music Bar at all functions

Did you know that there is a licensed Day Care center in the Barn with unbearably low rates (like $4. a week)?

That the Day Care is avail- able for all students with children and there are vac— ancies in the center?

That there are programs not usually offered in Day- Cares such as skating, play- ing outdoors, campus tours, as well as other recreation- al and educational programs?

,That if you are interested you should contact Carolyn

in the Day Care in the Barn?

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