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Holy Redeemer Church Scene Of Lovely Wedding

Holy Redemmer Church. Char- lottetown. was the scene 0! It lovely autumn wedding on Satur- day morning. Septeniier ltd: at .9 nlclock, when Teresa Marie.f daughter of M1. and Mrs. PI-" trick Doyle and Kaye Lawsai. son of Mr. and Mrs. Willinn E. Weir of Parkdale and Halifax.” Very Rev, Fred Coghlan cele- brated the Nuptial Mass and per- formed the double ring cert- mony. The Sanctuary was taste- fully decorated with gladioli and. vigil lights lot the special not casioii while the noes. pew were marked with white bows. Appropriate hymns were sung by Mr. Frank Costello .. mpanied by Alex Mac-Lean. organist.

Given in marriage by her fa-.' ther the bride was lovely in I bnautifii gown, ballerina length of nylon net silk embroidered ll I snewfldte mow. The snug fit- Ied bodice was softly drmed and Iveryfullalcirtfeatured awnde;

of white ear-nations centered with yellow roses. kt

Mr. Foster Bur was groome- man and ushers were Mr. Pa- trick Doyle Jr. of Hamilton, 0nt., and Mr. Elliott Myers of Char- lot-tetuwii.

Mrs. Doyle. mother of the bride. chose for her daughter's wedding a dress - ensemble of navy blue crqie with matching hat and accessories with con sage of pink carnations.

The mother of the groom dres- sad in rose beige with matching bat and accessories with corsage of white ca:-nations.

The bride's going away senble consisted of a soft wool suit box style. in autumn gold with matching coat in brown tones.

A reception was held at the community cents and I large nunber ti guests were in at- tendance i luding her brother

H. 0. Doyle, P.P.C.L.I. of Ed-I

flounce also I unall jacket with' rnorywm AM. Pat Doyle and mypdmdm. " -Louisa. "of" " On- her gown. Her veil of einiiroiii wto-ndher

and not was held in place by I mull crown headpiece trimmed with apaleeceiit sequins and seed pearls die carried I bouquet of white carnntlons centered with red roses.

Miss Frances Peters dressed it blue ballerina style looked charming as maid of honor with I noseaay of pink camations centered with red roses while the bI'ldQ.8 inter Eileen in our- H pink was hr” amaid wlthmde ching picture hat and I noseyy

uncle John .1. Doyle of Lowell MIsI.: nnie walla: at Dorchester. Mass.

The bride and groom qient their honeymoon motoring through Eastern United States, Montreal and Ottawa and visit- ing the bride's sister and broth- er-inlaw. Mr. and Mrs. Wm. F. Clarke of etcrvboro. Ont.

The newly - weds have taken up residence in Dartmouth. N5. where Mr. Weir is employed with the Dept. of National Defence. -Photo by Garnliuin.

' El.'LEN'S DIARY

Workers Al AlderleciAre - Getting Ready For Winter

Today in the man sunny wind. we saw red-cheelred Qples fall in the orchard. And in their mi- gration. I hand of blackbvirds pas- sed over the front meadow in I breezy rustle of wing . .. and here along the farmlands of our valley. I farmer plowed and there in other fields. other tarm- ors were intent on authoring up their sheaves. or roots or potat- oe.s. And everywhere, we could appreciate. thoights dwelt atl times on the remaining amountl ofworktobedoneifpossiilev widtin the month. the days d which like our feathered kiends of the sianmer wing now. in such, Inart succession away.

And bee in prmaratton for winter I forviwutfe tidied her rooms. and their storm windows were tdcen from storage. polidi- ed and hung. And sorting our mentor-ieii of past times of fall- ing apple and migrating bird and seasonal dolnct. we wondaed I still in Insne Island farmhouse. I woman was concerned today over haviinr her cooketove mov- ed from some outer smnn-ia- hitchen to that which served in WIMII, grown I bit chllw with- out it. mornings and evenings at late! Memories orowded. bridg- ing long-none yearn. It was so easy to picture again I low hearth

place to teach them that that world doesnlt owe them I livingl

for whatever success they may hwe to attain in this world."

The autumn night enfoldii in now wings ahelteiiing the quiet M11805. Inlzela we are sure guard- ing pillows. especially we thlit those of the children who worked

-that they must plan and workl

and laughed and chatted . . and

pleasant October day. Until tomorrow - - - Diary J lght. . . .

MORNING SMTE

"Is there any way to Ivoid pay- ing alimony?" the man asked the lawyer .

"Yes. two ways." said the It- torney: ''I. stay single; I. stay married."

WIFE PRESERVERS

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wearied in their well-doing uni? -bake a small apartment nearby. iso that I may watch over her.

, w -. ., - - - I trichfathers ma iuowii squir- .ii n t. "1 ";.s3.. wore poarlstolo withheroutlt

..i. t. 3. .1. ELEANOR M. MOASE

Mr. and Mrs. Walter R. Moase Kensington. announce the engage- ment of their daughter Eleanor Muriel. RN.. to Kenneth Earl son of Mr. and Mn. Horace

KENNETH E. IIUESTB

lliuestis, Wilmot Valley. Marriage ito take place at St. Marks Angli- lcaln Church. V '

Federated Women"! '

ter-inluw of Senator Inman. The first annual meetlnl 0' '1"

takes place in Ottawa when it will open with Board meetings on October 7.5 and Nth. The Con ventlon will take place on Oct. B-30th. '

Mrs. Michael Doyle. Rustico II I senior representative and Mn. M. M. McGowan ol inulr. is I Junior Executive. They will be in attendance along with Provincial Executives aid members from other dlslrlcll.

There will be 12 membe . In all

this fraller categzry. PROBABLY SE IL!

In addition to beina alcoholic. your mother pi-obdily is senlle

lber 9th.

MARY HAWORTLI Woman 70, Is An Alcoholic

Dear Mary Haworth: My mother. 70: is an alcoholic who has been drinking for 30 years and today is living on alcohol. She is alone in an old house since dad's death'some years ago and is going downhill rapidly.

The house has become I filthy hovel; she won't answer the door or telephone. and has no friends. Rcllaiives have stopped trying to

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I live 1,000 miles away. having deliberately put this distance be- tween us. 20 years ago. to shield my family from the heartache I sufferedas I child. To this day my children don't know that y mother is an alcoholic.

Over the years I've taken manyl

trips and much time on from business. to try to help her. And, although my plains. I feel sure she resents the money spent thus. uselesslv. LIVES CLOUDED

Although I wont ask mother to live with us. I have asked her to

But she refuses and won't live with her sister either.

I've investigated the handling of alcoholic in this chart juris- diction. And I am told that the only procedure In I case of the kind is that she be committed to the county hospital II In alco- holic. and then examined by three doctors who present their ilndlngs to I Judge. If she is found to be mentally deranged. she is then committed to I state custodial hospital; or released. if found sane.

I doubt that I mental hoqaltal is any solution of alcoholism and have refused to take this action. The problem has me conpletely baffled; it has been I terrible

thing in all our lives-but hem! moot of all. Any counsel you cani ive me will be greedy Ipprec-i

iated. L.M. at-Toms BLOCKED

Dear L.M.: In your letter, here condensed. you review your ef- forts to find help tor your mother. You've read any books and I'- ttcles on I ism: you've I0- lended AA rneetiw: have an- lieted the aid of the pariah print to call on your mother; and have

wife never com-.

hadherlnresthosnemalitolo avail.

She relluses to join AA. The priest has stopped caning. Eva the family doctor on longer stops by,aIhcuaedto.AndasIocI

as she emerges from a red home. she turns to I drink again. So what next? WEII, it is Iai- omatic that what can't be curedl I must be endured. Also there is I lliard saying: Desperate diseases require desperate remedies. So take your choice of these Ilteb nativs. as a guide to action. PAINFUI. STEP Understandably. it is I painful stop - requiring great courage and firmness of character-to set procedures in motion that might commit a dernorallud parent to a custodial hospital. But some- 1 times it is the only tmly respon-

isibie course cpen to those who :wish to save the patient from 1 total wreckage.

II o I v e r. alcoholics aren't mentally ill. as a rule. They are i9ll:k in I different way-is way lthat eludes diagnosis. Unless. it i may be. that Dr. E. M. Abraham- aon and A. W. Pcsctls hook Body. Mind and Sugar (Holt) is on the right track-in remarking I con- nection between blood sugar starvation and compulsive drink- ing. Likely there is I chemical or glandular disorder It the root of alcoholic addiction. plus weat- i ness of character that buckles un- der special stress. l A stronger character. taxed by fthe same physical ddect. tends to give it I battle. searching inde fatioably for recovery. And it is the valiant people who land ovul- tually in AA. whereas the funda- mentally less able sort succumb to their handicap and even cllu

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glgo , - since ately immature characters tend to with Ice.

logical venom. ll forcibly taken in hand for I diagnostic session and oosranltted. if only "In- sleuly. to I custodial situation. She might reckon you her enany mm ' ed to be that Are you pron? I!" wound in relationship? In a de- voted actor: to try to help her? lf so. take her case to the counfty courts -I procedure pmbably prderble to letting things drllt. MJI.

(Mary I-lsworth counsels through her column not by mail or personal interview. While her

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