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. me cry to think he may be dat-

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: MARY HAWORTH

This Boy ls Justified In Protecting Himself

can u a n Y aawosrm

a girl 17. and for at: $53.; have been out with a boy. 19. whom I love

deeply. A n d I know he loves

me.

jug gone out Vim other ‘13: more and I with other boyg. We both know at we

call me two or week. Now it is understood that out on Saturdays and I

pence at.

We used to date the whole weekend: now he has all sorts of excuses why not. It makes

ing someone else while we are going steady. If I mention that. he aoolds me to: being ridicul-

and says if he didn’t love me

thinking of marriage.

My second problem that we go out alone. We oublc-. date only occasionally with my sister or his sister or friends. After bowl l n g we park some place... and 1 am afraid that sooner or later we may lose our heads entirely.

e come of good church- going families and wouldn't want to hurt them or maybe ruin our lives. Don't tell me not to see Dave any more: it just wouldn't work. We love each other so much we would die for; each other.... Please help me; before it is too late and give] me your opinion of our relation-

ehip. P.F. DEIAR PF: Actually your prob ems. as you describe them. in relation to Dave or once

really amount to one problem. namely. the problem of your. self. A certain weakness of char. acter and lack of wisdom rt — a lack of moral understanding. integrity and fortitude: a lack of social per- spective and individual life pur- pose: an overall ignorance of how to become personally res- ponsible for your fate or for- tune in your gowing - up years —- a regrettable inventory of this sort sums up your roman- tic difficulty. As of now. you are disposed be a dependent. proprietary. parasitical sort of sweetheart to Dave. As if his love for you should make him somehow ac- countable to you for all his ac- tions and for your unhappiness. if he disappoints you. or in the

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In Iiort with Dave monastic. They clearly illustrate your primary moadinese. Giaracter - wise. to participate realistically. competently and self - reliantly in the give - and - take of heal- thy social interchange with contemporary - age persons you care about.

From your immature. unrea- soning. self - centered vew. it

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you love. who also loves you (though your both too m to marry as yet) is easing away from a mutually exclusive da- ting routine and possibly seeing other girls.

H . m the objective view of fair play for all concer- ned. surely Dave Is justified in protecting himself as best f r o in your troubles 0 me clinging vine tendency. whic threatens to nail him down and stake him out before he feels fully ready or able for a life - lasting commitment. he says. indirectly. he's still in the stage of simply thinking about a fut e wit in .

It might be better. of course. if he had the blunt courage to tell you he needs (or craves) a margin of co and time freely granted. for working things out in his own mind and spirit. But perhaps he doesn‘t underst a nd his own prudent motivation in backin away. even while liking (or loving)

ot.

Now for a few pointers on how to help yourself: You must accept personal responsibility for your happiness in relation to Dave and generally. His inter- est in dating you occasionally. week regularl

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sight. put him out of mind by seein other friends and wooing other dates to fill in your leisure.

About the risky parking: it's our job to at. at. ' on be ex- and

boy on t noiot that sort of thing. if the girl likes or loves says no. He pects her to set the pace maintain the rule of how she's to be treated. So the only prob- lem there is your own lack of standa bacldbone and gumption. In short. my dear. the cure for your doldrums is to grow

up — a road that leads uph'fl‘

all the way. yes. to the very end. as the poet Christina Ros. setti has said. M.H. Mary Haworth through her column.

counsels not by

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MR.

I

I Freetown United Church was

the setting for a pretty wedding on Saturday afternoon July 4. i when Laura Ann daughter of er. and Mrs. Henry W. Roe- .‘ves. Freetown. P.E.v1. was uni- “ ted in marriage to Orville Stan- ley. son of Mr. and Mrs. Stan- ley J. Curtis. Milton. P.E.I.

The double - ring ceremo n y was performed by Rev.

at Shaw. The organist. Mrs. R.

A. Profitt. played the nuptial music and accompanied the so- .loist Mrs. Lyman Smith as she “The Wedding Prayer" ibefore the ceremony and “I'll ‘Walk Beside You" during the signing of the register.

The bride. given in marriage 'by her father chose a gown of white peau de soic. Applique of lace and sequin trim accented the front and sides of the full le

event you coast into a ruinous mail or personal interview. premature sex involvemen Write her in care of The with him. Guardian. ELLEN’S DIARY m ’ I Fisherman 5 Truck Hos

Wares For Formwwes

The fishman’s smart little mouths overseas . . .. Well iov truck stopped between a packed by her own. and friends. she is

car and our door this afternoon. He had scarcely blown that Iignal which hurries the farm- wives to make their selections from his w ares. when Peter three - past lad appeared. a make - believe gun —— a piece of gray stick. held in a threat- ening position in his hand. “I've got you now!" he said. voice low. young jaw set stern-

I'You certainly have! I'm

the f i s hman ed. falling in with the make-be-

lieve... He is not too busy to have a friendly word and an interest in the children alongI

his route. Our small ones re-I cognize the truck as it comes inl over the road-hill. on its weekly trip. and always with a pleased smile.

"What will Peter will won

"let‘s play a guessing game" Alex suggested when we sat on: the verandah in the heat of the' day. to catch there the shade and a bit of the passing breeze. “I'm thinking of a fruit. These grow on a tree. and are purple or yellow or blue."

"Plums!" we said.

"Plumsl" Peter smiled.

"Right!" Alex nodded. “Now it's your turn" he said. Laden hay -wagona came down the farm-lane to the barn. And now Ja mic and Gage and Mack. ah i r t s. sweat - stained came by in search of a cooling

ik.

"It's a hot day" Jamie offer-

'.‘But there‘s a nice breeze in

d" Gage remembered. "And it's the right hay-day!"

flack

In

he say today?" der.

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a delightful eur- and the sum-

a Mate and good blend of ours at P.W.C. back (i the years. There it was that

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a leisurely trip tlah Isles. 'ihere the ancestral Scot-

; gi‘ss 2

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ten to visit on The . and altogethc than mined has

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m and ca the car-nations.

not so bound by ties of home as l

are we. A girlish. attractive lady. she enjoys that state of single blessedneas which leav ves no farmhouse behind. no husband to regard wistfully its cold chimney. no small 0 like Alex and Peter to away fro m the rooms Wl a disappointed. "I can't fine her! She must be away.“ Neverthe- less she too has a busy life. both interesting and full.

"But this will never do. Ellen" James offers of this late night- hour. “Not in the haying!" he reminds us.

Until tomorrow — Diary — Good - night.....

Perry-O’Rourke Wedding Vows

On Wednesday. July 29. 1964 at 9 am. Mary Irma Perry. dau- ghter of Mr. and hills. John Perry. Tignish. was united in marriage to Louis James O‘Rourke. son of Mrs. Veronica O'Rourke or Tignlah and the late Jo O'Rourke in St. Simon and St. Jude‘s Church. The holy sacrifice of the mass and the marriage ceremony were cele- brated by Rev. Clare Mac- Donald. The bride was wear- ing a floor length white satin gown with overskirt of lace and nylon. The bodice was of flow- ered lace with aa- quins. She wore a should e r length veil and carried a bou- quet of red roses.

Bridesm a i d was gowned in pale blue

Cathy Frazer silk

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lace him. an. wore eaddrcss of veiling and flow- ers and carried white and pink carnations.

The groom was assisted by Joseph brother

ddfll

m-year-otd heron. daugh- teroer. and Mrs. Cheater Handrahan. flower girl. was wearing a blue and white frock

rried white and pink

Mrs. rry. mother of the bride wore a pale blue. brocad- ed lace over satin gown. with hat to match and white acces- soriea. Mrs O'Rourke. mother of the groom. chose an Eleanor blue linen suit wiii white hat and white accessories:

After the ceremony 30 guests were received at breakfast at the home 1 Mr. and Mrs. Earle

m‘ O'Rourke.

luv. ealre Mac-Donald. after pm“ I mu to lift! bfid. m nob M M

skirt. The fitted scquinned bo- dice. with long pointcd sleeves was designed with a slit neck- line, The elbow length veil of tulle illusion was held in place

a sequin trimmed crown studded in the centre with a pearl drop. She krried a cas- cade of red sweetheart roses. Her only jewellery was a cultur- ed pearl necklace with match- ing earrings. a gift of the room.

The maid of honour was Mrs. ‘Wesley Curtis and the brides- maids were Faye Francis and IShelia Simmons. They ore ildenticai street length dresses

“30f aqua and yellow nylon over .turn

3 taffeta w i t h matching head- l‘dres ' bouquets were .white carnation s tinted to Imatch their dresses.

a Cynthia Jardine. as flower 'girl wore a yellow nylon over {taffeta frock with a white lace §jacket and matching head- Idress. She carried a basket of

AND MRS. ORVILLE

y 9 Double Ring Ceremony 323i"?:{‘2.“tvil§i 1.23:1. Solemnized Al Freetown

CURTIS

'ionai egg yolks with 3 tbsp.

For her daughter's wedding Mrs. Reeves chose a powder blue lace and cre pe sheath dress. Her corsage was pink sweetheart roses. The groom's mother chose a blue lace dress. and corsa ge of pink sweet- heart roses.

A reception for 70 guests was held at F reetown United Church Hall. where the bride's table was centered with a three iier wedding cake. topped with a miniature bride and groom. The bless i n g was as _, b. Rev. R Shaw. Elizabeth

Mann. was in charge of the guest book. RA. Profut was master of ceremon l e 3.

Rev. R. M. Shaw proposed a toast to the bride. to which the groom responded.

Out of town guests were Mr. and Mrs. Norman Tucker and famiy. Toronto. Ont; Mr. an Mr

s. 0nt.: Mrs. Howard Moore and Cathy. Toronto. Ont: Wm. Tucker Toronto. Ont: ~Mrs. Mabel Brooks. Toronto. Ont., Wm. Cudmore. Regina. Sask.. and Mrs. George Mann and family Fredericton. N.S.

Also in attendance were the

bride's four grandparents. Mr. and Mrs. P.N. Tucker of North Bedeque and Mr. and Mrs. Wllv bert Reeves of Freetown.

Following the reception the couple left for a honeym o o n trip through New Bru nswic and Nova Scotia. For travelling the bride chose 0 piece. powder blue suit with blue and w h i te accessories. Her going away corsage was of pink sweetheart roses.

Prior to their marriage the bride was te‘ered a miscella- neous shower at the home of her grandparents Mr. and

5'

am Mrs. Wilbert Reeves.

yellow and wihte diai ‘v which fell white satin stream-

, ers, , Mr. Wesley Curtis was best

man while Leslie Poole a n d Norman Tucker ushered the guests to pews marked With

cones and white satin rib- ns.

Following their marriage community shower was held If. Milton Hall.

Mr. and Mrs. Curtis are re- siding in Milton. The mom is on the staff of Douglas Bros. and Jones.

assay - as -' cane (semiper- stor case) 8 e. drained cooked green peas

Melt butter or margarine. remove from heat. Stir in flour. When smooth, gradually add broth; stir until boiling. Taste; add salt and pepper it needed. Stir in chicken (no need to re-

n .

Pour bubbling hot into but tered z-qt. shallow baking dish that can go-totable. Top

bald pander

:turned to their home in East. Mr, Lamoncagne said

IBaltic. haying spent a holidayieral buildings in Montreal fly

lwith relatives in Toronto and3 the ensign. 0f the 11 which do . Waterbury. Connecticut. ‘not. four have no masts.

I Barbara McNeil]. PHN wasl

Mocha attended neweoc- Inn-ml!

lag and just recently returned Castes (PC - Cluster that to her home. Also visi' 19 federal buildings in Quebec Sherman Presley of Toronto. City fly the Red Ensign. Of the five which do not. one has no 1ma‘Si and theother is vacant. 47 fed-

Mr. and Mrs. Harry Dixon re-

guest of honor at a prenuptial

The Guardian, Charlottetown. Tues. Aug. 4, 1964. 7i

bower in O‘Lcary Wednesday

8 543 Pints Blood ‘cvening when the hostess was

with

biscuits a scant 56 inch apart. Bake so min. at 400 degrees.

1‘. Serve in baking dish; ring

edge with green peas.

"ICED APPLE CUP

HAPPENINGS

Andrey Just-s. Wemea's sum; Phone mar

ers. John A. Matthews. 1 To End Carol Bernard assisted the' s ‘

bride-to-be lll opening her gifts; VANCOUVER (GP) _ Ray

and the accompanying good1 - ‘ wishes were read by Mrs. Ken-1 mond Perks' 21' owes his mg ‘neth Adams. to possibly more than 500 per-

CUSTARDS it a. thick cinnamon-flavored applesauce 1 recipe plain custard mixtuse (to owe) custard cups tbsp. ap- plesauce in each. Top with plain custard miaturc (POCIDL 1 ll )

o ows .

Put In baking pan: surround with hot water. Bake 30 min. a 375

degrees 1".. null cua~ lands are firm and folden brown. Refrigerate at once. PLAIN CUSTARD Mis- TURE: Beat 1 egg and 2 addit-

sugar and IA tsp. each “It and cinnamon. Stir in 2 c. milk.

Note: A Waos. pkg. custa mix may be used. In this case. follow printed directions. Poul custard over applesauce in cila- tard cups (do not stir): refirg- crate until firm. Dust with pow- dered cinnamon.

THE CHEF DISCUSSES WHERE TO .EAT

AT THE WORLD’S FIAR

There Is a restaurant or eat- ing place at the Fair for every taste and for the financial means of every visitor.. More than half of the Fair food no vice facilities offer food at prices ranging from 25 ccnlsl for a frankfu r tor '

3

I

lo a main . course for $1.50. Sixty - six food establishments with a total sea- ting capacity of 13,091 fall intoI ll'llS low-coat category.

Survey’s Findings

range. a survey found 22 aurants seating 5.430. eleven restaurants with 38. seats charge from $3.00 to $4.50. An- other 11 restaurants With 3.146 seats offer meals from $4.50 to 96.00. while 13 restaurants seat caieg ory. A few are very Snack bars without seating facilites are located through- out the Fair. grounds. Among the

ties now operating. 25 refresh- ment centers. with a 2.160 sea- ting capacity. offer 25 c e nt frankfurters. ers. a w i d e variety of pizza» and sandwiches under 65 cents.

d Seven Course Me

The Chun King Inn. with 600 seats. serves a seven . course variety dinner for 99 cents. A complete steak dinner for $1.19 is obtainable at. a steak house

‘ side the province. and those en-

. . The members of the Red'Mrs. Halicki' mother. Mrs. In the W‘scm‘sm ,P’Vil'on' The Point Womens Institute catered. J00" H- 3911- . New York Sta" in‘m pm'do the group who were on the? y . vides a full turkey dinner for education W w Red Point Visiting the Island from Mom F A 7 f 8 "'50 "We: . Beach. trea e Mr_ and Mrs. James '10 "9- a o p.m. And if it is more convenient Chisholm. and Mr. and Mrs. D. hi2: ‘.§£il”‘:.$°.'.l§.;".ii§‘.§.i Mr- as s "f A. - . and family Dartmouth are “'5. r. and Mrs. Alex Chisholm. outdoor spots where it can beimng in Murray Harbor at the Malpeque. so a vanefy concert

enjoyed.

Social Items Are Requested This is a 'wonderfully social

r. 1

time of yes There

fee parties for brides . to - be. friends and relatives vacation- ing here. the prospect of your own vacation to some point out-

joyable summer get- togethers with friends.

Share your social news with: readers in the women‘s page columns. Just call Audrey Jen- kins at 4-8506 in Charlottetown. Gail Magee at 69331 or 6.5068

GOVERNMENT nutrition al iexperts report that the public a living a less - physically active life and should be eating and drinking less. Otherwise e waistline will loom even greater. and good health may falter. And self respect tool What to do? Cut down on the

Balanced Menu

If you — Mrs. Homemak- er — are planning a balanced menu reglnien for your fandiy. don't cut out completely any one le

A varied balanced diet is needed to supply the interrelat- ed vitamins and minerals that act as body catalysts and on

digeetitm and mi- milatioa depend. I n s to a d . “fly cut down the size of the average portion of every food. even butter and sugar. This is the easy and effective way to reduce calories. MW! DINNER Mines on Tomato Slices with Green Pepper Slaw Chicken with Biscuit 1mm and Green Peas Q “piston: Custards Stewed Fresh Plum C let orIced Coffee or Tea lb .leveli reoipn

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IDA BAILEY ALLEN

Mix Or Mixture Choice In Apple Cup Custards

amwan CHICKEN wrm BISCUIT TOPPING V4 c. butter or margarine ‘ 6 to». flour a c. chicken broth (well-season ed)

1 boiled (3 It.) broiler-fryer. bite - sized pieces

1 standard recipe rich baking powder biscuit; or use a biscuit mix; or biscuits

(evenings) in Summerside. or ire news bureau of The Guard- ian and Patriot at Montague and Alberton.

There is no charge for publi- cation of such items and our staff will be very happy to hear

‘ in-law in Tuberoae.

“plush” indeed. I

low - priced food service facili- .

‘- hom

Mr. and Mrs. J. B. Moreside of Richmond. B.C.. reurned home after a happy holiday vis- iting with Mr. Moreside's bro- thers and sisters also his mo- ther. North Milton who is in her 109th year. Enroute home they

visited Mrs. Moreside's sister in Peterborough. Ont.. a Mr. Moreside's

brother and sister- k.

Guests at the home of Mr. and

rs. A. A. MacPhee. Cardigan. include their son Hugh and family of Toronto. and their daughters. Mrs. George Garner of Samar-ville, Mass. M r a . James Sullivan and daughter Janet of Montreal. and Mrs. Earl Murphy of Hamilton. Ont. They were called home due to the sudden illness of Mrs. Mac- Phee who is a patient in the Kings County Memorial Hospi- tal. Montague.

Mr. and Mice. Thane Adams and two children Myles and Ma- x'ne who spent their holidays‘ with Mr. and Mrs. Wilson Davis L left Sunday for Downsview, Ont— ario.

I

Mr. and Mrs. Eddie MacCor- mack and four children. accom-. panied by Mrs. Mary MacCor-1 mack of Boston. Mass. return-‘