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Straight Talk to Youth Who Would Marry for Money — Shall This Widow Marry a Man Who Quarrels With Her Child- ren? - Antagonistic Family

Dear Miss Dix-I um a young man 25 years of age, considered very good looking, well educated and of a fine family. A young woman, who ls llll\‘(‘ years my senior and who is very rich, is very much in love with nie and wants me to marry her. If I do, I will have every luxury and never have to work. But I do not love her and I am in love with a Door girl. What shall I do? Shall I marry for money or shall I niarry for love and have to toil hard and struggle and miss all the wonderful things in life? Please. Miss Dix, consider that after all money talks and all the delightful things one can do with

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Certainly money is not to be despised. A certain amount of it is one of the necessary in- ppnicss, but money alone, no mailers how much of it you , llul iiiake happiness, for, curiously enough, the one thing that

i: buy‘ is always the thing you want most.

nu buy life for the aged. It will not buy health for the sick. ll".'\lltlllil straight limbs for thc crippled, and in your par- ‘ “ill not buy for the rich girl the love of the man she de- , for u lirvliantl, nor will it buy happiness for you if you marry the \\.iiii.iii § on don't C:Il‘(‘ for, while your heart is given to another. mllzilly, I think that a man who sells himself to a woman makes poor lilllfillilli, and I have never yet seen one who didnt have 1'.t'l_\' tipp-wiuiirt» oi regretting it. It automatically puts him into the

‘.l.lll s and even when he is fed on the fat of the land hi. gold L'Ulll\l' to wear and a nice silk cushion to sleep on he knows - t on the leash and hc shows it.

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lot ct‘ i".Cll old women who had bought themselves hus- ii to be their sons and if these poor little playboys urn their board and keep by the sweat of their brows, e of a strenuous Job. Probably when these youngsters -v they thought they were taking a short cut to Easy ~ l't‘lfllllll(lCl‘ of their lives they would sit on the do- irow ilUllFlYS at the birdies and step out with fiappcrs pouscs had taken their rheumatic bones to bed.

I‘ni telling-you that no slave ever had a harder task- ui lllt‘_\' had. They had to fetch and carry and run errands iit and tlic only dancing tlicy did was dancing attendance on _, llotis 011i woman who had eyes in the back of her head and who never, Item so itiuch as glance at a. pretty girl. And if they dldnft toe the} ‘t obedient and flattering and always Johnny-on-the-i

Wllfil] you marry a woman for her money the chances .. get it. Don't clcludc yourself into the belief that as 'i‘l‘t‘ii"i0ll_\' is over your wife will turn over to you all of he’? ‘l1.ll l;.iitis and real estate. The modern rich girl is not only

- d l)'.)'.lt‘(.l. and she konws that the only way to keep a .0 keep tixtyziig him oil Un the installment plan. She allure l.) lll her pocketbook, and so she iaecps l1 death

l "sou .u;<l clothe you and let you live in her house and tits and permit you to drive her cars and dole you

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RICE PUDDING One-half cup rice, one cup of finely chopped dates, three-quar- ters cup sugar, one tablespoon gela- tine, one orange, one lemon, one tablespoon syrup from preserved cherries, one cup of whipped cream. Cook rice in boiling salted water until wilder, drain and mix with

two tablespoons of cold water for five minutes, dissolve over boiling water and mix with juice of orange and , lemon and cherry syrup. ~Whip

dates and sugar. Soften geiatine in '

cream unitl firm and beat into it_

gelatine mixture. Add torice mix- ture and beat until thoroughly olcnded; stir from bottom to top ..ntil pudding begins to set and .licn turn into small moulds. Let stand on ice for several hours untll firm. when ready to serve, Ull- mould and sprinkle finely chopptx.

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toes selling at a price per bag that we have been known to pay for a peck, and sweet potatoes selling carefully by the pound. they do seem to be a luxury by comparison -but we are accustomed to such things in the interest of vrriety and by way of a bit of indulgfifltifl in something we especially like, and so we o'fsr these sweet potato recipes: Scalloped With Pineapple

3 medium-sired sweet potatoes 1 can crushed pineapple

YouJcnIIy can have a nicely powdered trust: all day long it you will u=c Pmnpeian Day Cream, a lovcly vanish- irg cream.

Prevents shine and protects the akin especially on hid weather days.

lie sun: to use‘ Pompciain Beauty Pon-Jcr-tlie powder that stays on hours longer. In all attractive shades. Ask for them at your favorite toilet goods counter today.

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1-4 teaspoon salt

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much hard work and care.

lllllll('_\'. but that's about ull you will get. You will ands on the real stuff.

l‘ ' ‘ ~r all, does it seem worthwhile to sell out your lnde-‘ . sill-respect and the respect of every one who knows y a nu re living‘? '

“t u‘ jrou marry the poor girl you will miss all the won- ie because you will have to work and do without lux-

l don't tigrcc with you. I think the things that you .1: iii-r (liacarti are thc really wonderful things in life.

' so wonderful as love. There is nothing that money like the rapture of love's young dream. No happi-

mtin v can lasing you that compares with the Joy of being with "a : > ~ i tie and who loves you.

l H" Flioi". that riches can afford you that will bring you i llll'*f‘l‘['-' and excitement that you will find in work and ~ prolt 31-1011 or business into which you can put your . ll‘ trt. that yoti can toil for, plan for, dream about and t i.=.'.l is tizalisurbing importance to you. '

' l things of life are love and work and ambition vi throws these away to become a parasite on a woman ii. The. poorest thing in the world to marry for is . mun can make that for himselp

DOROTHY DIX.

- 1 a - o o '1 Iiii-h-il am a widow of 39, with a good established bust.

'; lilr‘ in a comfnrtaiilc income. A poor but ambitious ‘ olflfllv air‘. and if I took him into my business we would "u? owls". But lie docs not get along with my child- Itl liini I \‘.‘(llll(l have to send my oldest boy, who is 13. " mini llulilli‘ in .-('ll'll)l. Kindly give me your opinion of this situ- A CONSTANT READER.

.‘~"ti"iii_ul\' uttiisc you against making this marriage, because 1H‘ h‘ l-Yl "ill lllllllillliiiicss to all concerned. Almost surely . and the alienation of your children from you

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Sometimes this is the case.

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will your mother if you part.

and the general smash-up of the home that you have built up with so For if you put an unwanted father above your children they will certainly rebel and fight him to a finish. He will be cruel in trying to assert his authority over them and your heart will be torn in twain between tlfc children you love and the husband you love.

The mean stepmother is one of the bogles of all the old wives‘ tales, but we hear very little of mean stepfathers, yet they exist in real life ‘tpotatoes, even more iiumcrously than mean stepmothers. that a man who marries a widow with children will know how to get‘ along with them and that he will be kind and good and paternal toward

with a fatherly spirit who arc guides, counselors and friends to the little half orphans they take under their charge and ivhose stepchildren arise

thickened. Serve from the baking There are big, broad, generous men‘ dish. ' Sweet Potato Puff

5 or 6 medium-sized sweet potatoes 2 eggs

But there are plenty of other men who are filled with a deadly, jealousy and resentment of their stepchildren and who make their lives} miserable to them. It pleases a man for his wife to be absorbed in her

children and he smiles indulgently when she is overanxlous about them

and he teases ‘her about sacrificing him to them, but when it lg another

man‘s children, then it is a different story.

I have known women who were afraid to show the children of their ‘There should be about one quart first marriage the slightest token of affection; afraid to kiss or caress‘ them; afraid to interfere when a stepfather beat a trembling little wretch for some childish fault; afraid even to give their children enough to eat; . when it was their father's money that was supporting the family, And 1 have thought that no women were so much to be pttlcd as these mothers who had brought this misfortune down upon their children's hear-lg

A good stepfather is a blessing to children. So a widow should be careful about whom she marries and certainly not chose a man who is even antagonistic before marriage to her children.

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Dear Miss Dix-I am a girl 20 yiears of age, earning my own living. MY "ml-h" all“ I CMHOYI 2% 1110111! together because she is the world's I am not free to do anything without a fight and much bitter feeling on both sides. Wear, where I shall go, are all chosen for mo, My militia opened and my friends insult- 15 it my duly l0 Silly at home and be miserable or to accept a situ- ation in a distant city where I can be nt pence?

The most foolish thing in the world is for two people who 0111mm, get along together to try to live together, Put a thousand miles between you and you will be able to appreciate each others virtues,

Select a dry, meiily variety of sweet potatoes and cook in the. skins in water to cover. when tender, scrzpe, cut in slices of uni- fonn thickness, and place in a shallow greased baking dish, Pour the pineapple over the sweet sprinkle with salt, and We take it for granted iadd the fat. Bake in a moderate oven for 30 minutes, or until light brown on the surface and the syrup of the pineapple has become

1 teaspoon salt

2 tablespoons melted butter

2 tablespoons hot milk

Boil the sweet potatoes. tender remove the skins and any discolored portions, and press the sweet potatoes through a ricer.

of the pulp. Beat {hf} yolks and iwhltes of the eggs separately. To the sweet potato add the yolks, flt, milk and salt, beat well, and fold in the well-beaten whites. Pile the mixture lightly into a greased baking dish and bake in a moder- ate oven (350 degrees F) for 45 minutes, or until light and fluffy and brown on the top. Sweet Potato Pie

1 i-2 cups boiled, rice sweet po-

tatoes _

2 cups milk

1-4 cup sugar

1-2 {P8130011 ginger

1-2 teaspoon salt

2 tablespoons butter

Pastry ‘

Heat; the sweet potatoes, milk, sugar, ginger u-nd salt in a double boiler. Pour some of the hot ,mixture into the beaten eggs, mix

A bad one is a curse.

DOROTHY DIX.

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1 cup corn syrup

1-2 cup sugar

1-2 teaspoon salt

4 tablespoons butter

Partially cook the sweet potatoes in boiling water, cool and skin Cut the sweet potatoes in halvt lengthwise, or in three pieces i! til sweet-potatoes are larse- Put 111 1 greased baking dish large enougl- for Just one layer, not packing too closely. Make a syrup by boilinfl the corn syrup, sugar, salt and fat;

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"I've found one way of get- ting better breakfastu for less money. I serve Shredded Wheat. I don't know any- thing el§e that gives no much nourishment and costs so little. It's so easy to digest that every one likes it, too- especially when I cover it _ with fresh fruit. Shredded Wheat is whole wheat, and with milk it contains every food element we need for growth and good health.”

THE OKNADIAN SHREDDED WHEKT

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lover the sweet; potatoes and bakelfmd’ u; gives health . and vitality

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More Millet

Here are a few of the Why milk is such an important ar- ticle in the diet of old and young alike. _ Milk is the world. Women need milk to keep them healthy and toprcserve their beau- ty.

Men need milk to ward riff 1.11% dangers and decline of middle a89- Milk is the enemy o! middle asc- l It strengthens the nerves and sup- y plies essential vltamines. The food value of one quart milk is equal t0 Nearly one pound of lean meat- Nine or ten eszs~

More than one pound of chicken Nearly two pounds of fish.

The vitamines supplied ‘in milk are-Vitamins "A", necessary t0 the promotion of growth and in bone buildlng-Vitamine “B”, providing against nervous disorders- and Vi tamine "(W-necessary for healthy development and for maintainin!

best food in the

WEI-WES Wtreiuny as they ‘m’ “wk”: Drinking milk freely every day is one of the best ways in which to ibuild up and maintain both physj-

cal and nervous energy.

The. woman who drinks milk,

llooks and feels younger than one of

the same age who does not, at the

Tea-“ms same time by drinking milk l5 physically more attractive as it

she

enables her in remain slim and supplei ‘

The man in his forties who can and does drink milk has a sense of

being ‘fit and clear headed, his men

tal keenness is greater, his muscles are more elastic, and he can do more and better work with less fa- tigue.

‘Don't neglect the milky way tn health-Drink more milk - The DI partment of Agriculture, Ottawa.

health. Milk is not fattening. Taken by itself. not gtilped nor taken with

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Now we know just about wliat‘s w_hat, even if we had no dc. finite ideas of our own about what we wanted our wardrobes to

We know that we can conscientiously have a quiet little fun- eral service for the whole family of Extremes, wiped out [Ogclhcr

The Adaptation family has moved into the department of the winter mode, and while it docs not represent a lflrgi: (lclcgatloii, its ancestors all date back to 1830.

It is the belief that this Adaptation family is from; to hp so well liked and so extremely easy to get along with that. they \\'|ll be. asked to release the fashion season for another six months Wllfln

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baked pastry shell and bake in a moderate oven (350 degrees ‘Ftl for about 30 minutes, or until therm- tng sets. Scalloped with Apples

3 medium sized sweet potatoes

4 medium-sized apples, pared

and cored

1-2 cup sugar

1-2 teaspoon salt

8 tablespoo butter .

Cook the sweet potatoes in boil- ing water until tender: cool, and skin. Cut the sweet potatoes and apples into slices, place in altern- ate layers in a greased baking dish. sprinkle each l/ayer with sugar and salt, dot with butter, add a little

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water, and bake for 30 to 45 minutes. or until the apples are soft and the top layer is brown.

serve in the baking dish. Candied Sweet Potntoca 6 medium-sized sweet potatoes

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