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DEAR MISS DIX: People often ask why middle-aged men, who have apparently been devoted husbands, suddenly take to philander- mg. It is because they are so heart hungry. Now I am married to s fine woman. She is attractive, a good housekeeper, a good cook and s good mother, but in the t\venty years we have lived together not three times has she expressed any affection for me or showed in any Nay that; She was particularly interested in me. We never quarrel. rct sometimes when we are sitting together I feel that Ilam the lone- iomest man in the world, and that I would give every/thing I have if she would only give me a kiss and tell me that she feels glud that she married me. I have never gone philandc-ring, but I am beginning to see how it could be donc. '

J. S. J.

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ANSWER: I commend this letter to the prayerful

p» » consideration of those women whose husbands have

* < roumsd ziwziy from their own fircsides and who cant lndcrstanrl why a ninn isn't satisfied with a wife who keeps his house rlean and neat and his socks darned and feeds him upon pies such as JlS mother nc-vcr knew how to bake.

They arc so self-righteous. these neglected wives, when they recite the litany of their virtues. They have literally slaved for their hus- bands. Tile-y have pinched every penny to save his money. They have scrubbed and ivashcd and ironed to keep their husbands comfortable. N0 man hotter taken care of, no children better reared than theirs. What more could any man ask of a woman than they have given?

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They do not know that they have given their husbands everything except the thing that they want most of all, and that is some outward expression of the love that their wives really feel for them, and that takes itself out in work and worry instead of words. It always seems to me that one of the greatest mistakes that women make is in as- suming that heart-hunger is an exclusively feminine complaint. Men stiffer from it just as much as women do. The only difference is, that women howl to Heaven over their gnawing pains, while men only . too often assuage theirs by nibbling at forbidden fruit- -_——- i

DEAR MISS DIX: I have been married ten years and my husband and I are very much in love with each other, but there is one thing that we can't agree on and that we fight over continually. I like] the window shades to be down at least halfway- 11ml 119 Wallis 1119111 | up nearly to the top. When he enters the room he immediately raises the shades and then the argument starts. What would you advise

me to do! s’ N‘ c.

ANSWER: Can't you see yourself how ridiculously unreasonable vou are and how foolish to quarrel over a little thing like the height of n window shade, especially when the difficulty is to easy to settle? Why not let your husband run the shades up while he is at home and when he i; gone let them down as low as you please?

It: seems incredible that any woman would be so foolhardy as to run the risk of alienating her husband's affection for her by qﬂﬂfrﬂ- ng with him over the height of the window shades. Perhaps you do not realize the danger you run, for in the height of an argument you say bitter and hard things that deal wounds that never heal, and some day if you don't quit, your husband is B01118 l0 NW8 W“ 5N1 your window shades in peace and go off to his club or to some woman who will let him monkey with the blinds all he likes.

And consider this: Your husband makes the money that supports the house and pays for the window shades. Don't Y0" $111111‘ i111" :hat given him some right in the matter that even a wife should re-

spect?

DEAR DOROTHY DIX: I am n happily married man, aged 51. I am very emotional. In this unmanly in one of my sex? When I read anything that is fine or touching or see a sentimental scene on the stage, my throat constricts and tears spring to my eyes. It is very embarrassing. What would you suggest to overcome this fault

-> or state of mind. RICHARD

ANSWER: Emotionailsm is only to b0 condemned when it be- comes hysterical and sweeps one beyond the bounds of reason. The kind of emotlonalism you describe is only ‘h!’ ¢XPTEES1°Y1 0! 5 d"? sncl understanding nature. You are what the)’ 115911 1° c811 11" °1d'

fashioned novels "a man of sentiment”, and I like the phrase and the man who can be touched to tears by what is fine and noble ,in

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SICK JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE OLD

, An encouraging condition to- ‘day is the effort being put form Vby physicians and various philan- ‘throplc organizations to prolong the life of the elderly and make than happy by enabling them to ob- tain ghinful employment. In the "New England Mcdxcal Journal." Dr. Robert T. Monroe. Harvard ;Medica,l school, states that indivi- duals thought of. when old people are discussed. are those who neea care in an institution. There are, however. young old people who have independent nit-ans or arc working regularly every day. Many of these will retain their independ- cncc and require no institutional care if they are given adequate medical attention in illness an: convalescence with normal oppor- tunities for play and for living.

Dr. Munroe points out that s) called senility or old age is often

t only physical unﬁtness just as men and women of middle age or young- er are physically unﬁt. "A vigorous

. state of exercise and health seldom is continued after the school years. exercise only being taken as re- quired by work or when on vac- aHOII. Speed and endurance become diminished after 60 but both men- tal and physical benefit may be obtained by sLmiple games such as bowling and shuffloboardfancl by dancing to restore timing and oo- ordination."

The statement in au authoritative medical journal some months ago that the man or woman past 50 should not raise his or her little ﬁnger unnecessarily, was meant only as a. warning to those ap- proaching old age not to try to do the physical work or take the strenuous exercise of earlier years. It was not meant that they should do nothing. Dr. Monroe states that

| regular exercise and play are bene-

ﬁcial for patients with high blood pressure arthritis. and paralysis. By nourishing food, enough but not too much rest, and light rogu- lar exercise. the health of both mind and body in the elderly can becnaintained for years.

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Q. If one is attending churcn services that are not familiar. should one oopy the move-moms oi the members of the congregation. or just remain stationary‘! '

A. Do what the others do, and you will show more courtesy and will be less conspicuous.

Q. What ls the proper way to address invitations to children?

A. They should be addressed to "Miss Mary Blank" and “Master John Smith."

Q. Is one ever Justified in men- tioning to friends and acquaintanc- es the prices One has paid for cer- tain p05S€5SlOnS?

A. Never; this is extremely ill- bred.

Wooden Bowl

The wooden salad bowl may be placed near the stove after wash- ing it, but. never over a direct lteat. If the heat is too intense the wood will warp and perhaps crack, but moderate heat is ltccessary to drj‘ the bowl thoroughly before putting away.

Chicken Salad You can improve the Jiavor Jl chicken salad by sprinkling a little lemon juice over it.

Stove Blacklng

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ily detested - admiring other women.

“Look at that woman over there in the green bathing sull," he re- marked. "Now, thavs what I call a proper attire for a woman on a public beach. See how modest. she RPM-IBIS. and how sensible!"

“Yesﬂ his wife retorted. “Some women will do anything to attract attention!" .

By MARIENNE IZSAK Canadian Press Staff Writer

NE\V YORK. Oct. I9—(OP)—In- novations in furniture, catering to both luxury and practicability, made the news at the First National Home Fumisltings Show at Grand Cent- ral Palace recently.

The new ideas were varied: a vanity-table chair with a built-in hosiery drawer; a coffee table that ‘can be raised to the rank of a card table or small dining table; a side- board that berxmes a full-size din- ing table; furniture with personally monogrammed drawer handles. Colors ranged from ebony lacquer to ivhite ermine, and woods were jut as varied.

There was a new Alvro wood from the tropics 1n a. light-flecked blond and a deep. dramatic Cordova. Oak came in lirned oak. roan oak “mu while the energies and “up an white ermine. and there were ble elements sec-m secure. get de- the eve"p°p1'11“r mah°gan11°h 1111"‘ feat might come from rash, tem- "y w°°d5 311d 1115111111‘-

pestuous and unreasonable moves. F" 111°“ 1°11‘ W110 11nd 1119m- Keep tight rem on resources, pron“ selves short of seating space when 155,, m4 Mt with ‘up friends drop in to watcih their tel- evision set, there were "stacking stool tables." Lightweight and por- table, they were lacquered in his. Those who“ birthday it ‘s, an, trous ebony finis-hodund slid one advised to move with tact and stud- 1W1" the 0111" saslly- They can 19d precision and insight’ u dmh be used as night tables. occasional cultles or setbacks are to be side- ‘ables 91' 15°1°P11°1'1° 1R111E5 11$ Weil- swppe‘; The mind seems capable, Striking among the many mod. the energies keyed to practical ma- "11 595111185" was a "carer-r cou/ple nipulatlon of peculiar factors. yet a manswneiu-b

mimn-im, 0g plan, may endamer Its one room contained a conceal- progrcssivc situations. with loss of “'1 1-1911- 41 ‘1171-‘1111191-6 kitchen unit pfegﬂgg, M“, num“; p)“, m‘; tucked behind n tall moveable carry them out‘, with “guilty screen. o small bar hiding behind A child born on this day. may be B wpboard-llke door. and beside it efficient, energetic and alrnbltlous ED011118!‘ Wllbﬁﬂrd which moved to but a misstep oould forfeit its in. be s. linen closet with a blllllrln van-

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ﬂuenm with higher-cups. . ity table in one of the mirror-lung cubicles. A thrce- cults had an 18th- cent/ury ll z room with two walls . ginhslngklejiubfue, the other two n igt ep num blue. It th Better Engllsh features were white wisaodgoa-lrr, Doll-designed draperies showing

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THE GUARDIAN, CHARIJOTTETOWN

stylish Sweaters 0f British Women . Daily Decorated

By MURJEL NAnRAWAY Canadian Press Staff Writer

promises to be o. sweater girl's win- ter in Britain this year.

The season may be late but girls already thinking of their cold wen. the: wardrobe can find Wide variety of color and styles. And there are many off-ihe-shoulder models. Last year these styles were ex- pensive and difficult to find. Now they can be bought from 50s ($7.75) upwards.

One handy idea. is the cuff-neck- ed, cap-sleeved sweater in violet stocking-stitch with detachable full- length sleeves of purple fishnet weave.

Many of the dolman-sleeved sweaters are made in jersey mater- iai instead of a sweater weave to give added sllmness to the contour. Sleeves are deep. mostly three- quarter length. Necks are oowl, cuffed or plunging and waists are tight and deep, usually ribbed.

A plaln dolman-sleeved sweater with deep, ribbed waist band com- ing from the bust-line, has a. plung- ing, scalloped, neckline of ribbing from bust to waist and‘ plunging ribbed roll collar.

A simple jersey style with loose cuffed dolman and ribbed waist- band has high neckline drape in a double fold. This neck is a. com- plemcment to bizarre jewelry. Decorations are the thing year.

"Nothing is too elaborate or dar- ing," says the buyer for a Regent Street store. "You can sew your sweater in red felting with a dag- ger stabbed through i-t and jewellcd ivlth paste or sequins.

“Your cap-sleeved sweater can be yoked with roaring lions or blazon- ed motifs. A button-through even- lng sweater might have waist and heart decorations of playing cards. dlCe or champagne glasses.

“If you're boating let it be anch- ors or sail-boats, if swimming dlv- ers and spring-boards, if sporting you might have boxing gloves, ten- nis rackets, cricket bats or stirrups. "B111." she says, "for colorful de- sisn. take the evening sweaters of wool or silk jersey. Generally black, they can be stabbed with sequin daggers or splashed with dragons breathing flame and fire. You can be wound with s swaying python or twisting crocodile or have real- istically colored frogs leaping over your shoulder. v

"Whatever your design—token of your mood or inspiration-let it be bold, clear, daring and colorful."

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all-aluminum. were shown,

Rugs, chlnaware, silverware and

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Q- How can I clean pewter?

A- Us? Powdered rottenstmie and equal parts of turpentine and 111M041 Oil- Dip a clean cloth fkst in the oil and then in the rotten- stone and rub the pewter with a ClfClllB-I‘ motion. Follow by wash. ing in warm soapy water.

Q- I-low can I keep baby‘: bottle sweet?

A- It will keep sweet if a solu- 11°11 0! bﬂkin! Soda and water is

PLAY SHOES

I What. is thzcorrect pronunc- fury, featured s special hand-paint- n on o "mouvr ed o; (m,

a. Which one of these words ls an,‘ Znloc"... m.,,3f‘,‘,,,‘},‘~;‘;$,';3§! missnelledlt Gamma wneumlble- niture pieces and bar. The bedroom commute. wmion- with n Chinese motif dominating’

4- yhct do» the ward "eﬂimv" had silver amine against scafonrrl mun green and fabrics in stripes of ele

6. What ll n word beginning with prod that. means "vast; kn- new m“ and mock!“ Mme"? similar ' ' us built-in van- ity compartment was revealed when the lid of n drawer was lift- ed. The drawer was suspended bet- ween two chests.

"Nvmsl." a new lubrlc which is claimed to wash like stockings and dry as quickly. Wu shown in l5 col- ors. One design, "Mr. Pickwick." illustrated scenes frcm Dickens.

That most-used room in the home, the kitchen. was not disregarded in the show. Completely built-tn units. from tnsh baskets to elec- tric dlsh-wscherl. were featured. nan an lpp-ILﬂntly with vat. loot To add new color to the kitchen, °'"' *1" ; mm“ gu ranges in colors of black, fire-

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