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V fl) 1 yellow flat crepe with scarf in tri-l angles of white. gray and yellow. Stitched bows of self-material fin- ish the appliqued bands. ln n. mom- ent of inspiration the narrow tailored

T98-lly al. nent little knot with two snucy-ends. (2) Three colors-eggsheil lllllll Pink. black-and three mater- ials, carlton crepe and flag mm with an appllqued conceit of leather,

semble. The jacket is of oanton crepe while the two piece sports frock is of fiat crepe. The ensemble is com-

pleted in the hat of black ballibunti with flat trimmings of grosgrain

pear. ((3) A smart Paris coat of pink woollen cloth with collars and cuffs

01 l>l'°l_¢“\|L designed by Chanel Cie and Perrier.-Photograph of number (3) is by Henri Manuel of Paris.

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How Can a Loving Wife Deal With Her Jealous Mother.in-Law? - A Devout Prayer for

’ Guidance. Should This Girl Marry to

Please Her Mother ? .

Deg;--Miss Dlx._I am married to a wonderful man whom I adore and we

_lould be perfectly happy except for his mother. who considers that I should lava no influence with my husband and that she should boss him as if he were a little child. She says that the mother comes -

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husband visit her without me, but the reason of that

ls that when he goes alone she illls him up with crit~ , Q _ iclsms of me. She has another son who is married ~*. »_*"" _ to a wonderful woman and lhave heard her tell him _.,.._.__`__._<_f'_:"

all kinds or things against his wife when the wife was `

absent. I don‘t want to lose my husband, and I don't '

want to make a break between him and his mother. What is his duty toward his mother? It is a moral obligation, as she has plenty of money. And what ‘ I

Lhouldwe do under the circumstances? M. C. R.

Q There is nothing you can do with an arbitrary and tyrannical old woman,

because she has become a law unto herself and she thinks that all of her opinions are sacrosanct. Also she is so self-centered and selfish that she considers nobody but hersel1’._ She doesn't want to change and she couldn't xhangg' if she would because she has hardened into her mold. The inability to chaiige, to get a fresh viewpoint, is what age really is. As long as we are

open im conviction and to getting a new angle on a. situation and to conced- ing that there is something to be said on the other side of p. question. we are It is not our stiff muscles that make us old. It is our stid brsindi,

*dyes your mother-in-law will never adapt herself to you, you will per-

forcelh ve i.6`ad_lust yourself to her the best way you can and put up with her fault-finding ‘and nagging with what philosophy you can muster. The best way to get along with"her is never to get in an argument with her and

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never, to defend yourself. Just receive her strictures in silence and pay them no attention, as the qucrulous nagging of a disgruntled old woman who

? soured on life and who is taking out_her ill-'riature on all those around er.

I grant you that the advice I am giving you is hard to follow, to do so

is the greatest proof of love that you can give to your husband and one that he will be eternally grateful to you for giving him. For in the tight be- tween a. man's mother and his wife, it ls the man who is the victim who is torn in twain between them. He loves them both. He has duties and obliga- tions to both, and he is miserable if he has to listen ‘ to their complaints against each other.

In a case where a man's mother is kindly and friendly and human, and

where she treats his wife like a real daughter. I think the wife should not only be willing but should urge her husband tp go ,alone to see his mother every now and then. for naturally every mother would like sometimes to have her married children alone with her, as they were when they were little boys and girls. But lnyour case, where you know that your mother-ln-law is your enemy. and that she is trying to make trollble between you and your husband, you are Quite risht to be always on the around and at take every precaution that you can against her stabbing you in the back.

There is something very pitiful, as well as terrible, in the fierce mother

jealousy that makes a woman willing to break up her children's homes and bring sorrow and calumny upon them and half-orphan their children ln order to gratify her own lust of possession. Your mother-in-law‘s.very soul ls torn with this unholy passion. She cannot endure to see her sons love some women better than they do her. She cannot stand the knowledge that they consider their wives more than they do her; that they are more companion- able with their wives than they are with her, and so she dlsparages their wives to them in an _unfavorable light. '

Many mothers, driven by the same Jealousy, do the same thing. They

are alwaysltelling this son that his wife gads too much and that she neglects her home, or that son that his wife ls extravagantand spends too much money on her clothes, or she makes her daughters believe that their hints and innuendoes that are at the bottom of innumerable divorces. l

Left alone. the sons and daughters would never have found out that

there was anything wrong with their mates, but they have the habit of child- hood of thinking that mother always knows and mother is always right, and the constant dropping of her little hints and fault-findings wears away their iaith in their wives and husbands and makes them dissatisfied with their bargains. '

As for the duty of a son to such I. mother. it is to be kind and courteous

and show her the proper at/tention, but it does not involve his letting her break up his home and prejudice him against his wife. His highest duty is to his wife and his children and he is a weakling if he permits his mother to bulldoze him into falling in that. DOROTHY DIX.

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Dear Dorothy Dlx-Before marrying, my husband was quite e. shelk, if

you can believe him, and daily I am regaled with tales of his 'conquests and of the extraordinary ability he had to make women pine away for love of him. 1 don’t think he ilirts any now. but he has beautiful eyes with long culling lashes, and whenever he meets a good-looking woman he stares and stares at her in a way which is most embarrassing to me. Thh may seem a small matter, but a wife dislikes to find that her adored one is interested cnly in the looks of other wdmen and does not care whether there is an ounce of gray matter under their permanént waves or not. God grant us understanding of these menl BEWILDERED WIFE.

Answer:

Amen. sister. It ls a prayer that every wife in the world should put up

everlfdly of her life, because we certainly do need a divine dispensation of knowledge in order to deal with the contradictory creatures to whom we are married. V

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and when to kiss; when w shut our eyes and be as blind ss a bat, end when to be sister Annie on the housetops with our gaze riveted on the little cloud cf dust no bigger than a man's hand on the horizon? Whm 00 bo ¢l'¢¢l\ll°“l as a fool, and when to let our husbands know we have their numbers; when to jolly and when to lambast; when to forgive and when to hustle to the _divorce court? _

How else, save through supernatural wisdom, is a woman to know that

a big. strong, husky man, who perhaps manages hundreds of other men. wants her to treat him like a little boy and pet him and clill him baby names and coddle him lust as his mother used to when he was 3 years old? How elselsawomantoknowthstitisnoslgnthetemanhaloealedidlovehof because now and then ha wants to have e little flirtotlon just as he used to have to play hooky from school?

And how else 'is I women to know that whens. man has big, beautiful

eyes with curling lashes he lust simvly has to roll them at every woman he meei.|,endthethedoesn'tmemsthih¢.\ndtheWllo i-\llIlIf°l’l\|lW1f°f»° do is just to laugh at him. _

All women Join in-your prayer: God give us understanding 010168!

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IMPROVING THE DRY SKIN

| Ordinarily a young girl's skin is fairly oily if she is healthy. A suf- ficient amount of natural oll is neces- sary to the comfort and beauty of the skin. The oil keeps the skin from becoming prematurely wrink- led and also protects it from the ill effects of sudden changes in temperature. The skin that does not have normal amount of oil is slllow and lacks the clearness or trans- PBNDCY that should characterize a. youthful and healthy complexion.

Semetlmes People who are still

young have dry. rough skins that peel and look chapped about the nose and cheeks, although there may ap- lwar to be no external cause to ex- plain the condition. Their hair fs also inclined ti? be dry and wh-y and dull. The fingemails may be brittle and crack or split. In such cases not only local treatments are required, but it ls desirable to have medical advice, A deficiency in the thyroid gland is said to be respon. sible for lack of natural oil in the skin and its appendages, so that a doctor should be consulted when an

abnormal degree of dryness_l_; no. tlced.

Whatever the cause of the dryness

lilly be. efforts must be directed to- WU-Y4 ¥'°m°Vi!18 lt. At the same time the condition may be relieved by the application of oil or creams. Not lllffeiluehily 5 dry. scaly skin is due P11111? to extemal causes, such as use of harsh soap or to dry the akin thoroughly. and io the use of l-in-d water for washing face and scalp. ln such cases a simple change io more suitable methods of cleansing may suffice to restore beauty and relieve UN iwhihl and burning that occur when the skin has become harsh, cracked and flacky through exon-‘~~~ dryness.

Complexlons of the type we are

discussing should be cleansed always It is sometimes necessary to use the cleaner several times a. day to keep the skin looking smooth, 0! course cold cream should bc used as a powder base and some sort of tissue cream of an oily type should be left on overnight. When the dryness ex- tends to the scalp there is noth- ing better than applicatlons of cas- tor oil to lubricate the hair roots.

When excessive dryness is not cor-

rected promptly a skin condition is likely to develop causing harsh, dry patches along the hairline and on the nose and lips. lf taken ln time these unsightly patches may be removed. but if neglected they become horny, permanent spots known as keratosis

Tomorrow-Beauty Questions '

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For The Cook

l*0'l‘A'l\') AND TOMATO SALAD A nice substantial salad for the

luncheon platter, On crisp lettuce place sliced tomatoes, then cubes of cold boiled potatoes, then minced parsley and minced green pepper. Pour over all French dessing. Slices of oold ham. tongue or spiced beef complete a very interesting platter.

A Morning Smile

"Johnny," said the minister, “I'm shocked to hear you swesrllig. It 2| e very naughty habit. Why, every time .1 hear a person swear a cold chill' rum down my beck." _

"Well," said Johnny, “Ii you’d

been at our house last night when pop jammed his finger ln the door, I guess you‘d from to death." l

On one day recently 0000 children

and 96 teachers were absent from Portsmouth, England, schools because of illness.

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What New York is Wearing

Illustrated Dressrnaking Lesson' Fl , " With Every Pattern

By Annebelle Worthington

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