" imiss him VETY much. especially

la bit of fun. I would appreciate

For con! comfort plus top slyl- plastic mesh and features it clear. -K 1 ed I 1 mg tllPl'c is nothing like the mesh.tall Lucite heel and has an open igfjiselileary prep” 0 comm!

MARY H.AVl9.B.7.':' Girl Misses

Her Beau

DEAR MARY IAWORTII: I lgm lit. and engaged to he married ito Mike, who is M. Mike has been transferred to Vancouver by the firm lie works for. He dlould be there until September or October and will not be able to come home during that time, since it woul cost a great deal and we are Ill ing every Penny-

We want to buy our furniture and have it paid for before we get married. We had planed to be married in July, but are put- ting off the wedding until he re- turns in the fall.

My problem is-should I go out with other guys while ha is away? lit 1 did. it would be only to pass ithe time more quickly. since I

on weekends. LONELY ON WEEKENDS

My work keeps me very busy during the week and I am tired and ready to go to bed early in

some of my friends My I should go mil and have a good time; while others say if I really love xiii.-ii l uill be content to any home and wait.

i it i were to go out with other

Lenn Cmllu Ilel-urn. woman mm. Phone mus

Page 8 The Guardian

Mrs. Kcnncth A. Parker enter- :tained at the tea hour, Thursday lafternoon at her residence. Eust- lon Street. Miss Ruth Boswell was 'the guest of honor. The other lguests were the lady teachers of West Kent Sthool and The Queen Charlotteetown High School.

Mrs, J. 8. Taylor and Mrs. Leigh Warren returned recently from a motor trip to Toronto. where they enjoyed an extended

being in Toronto during the tour of the Metroplniiian Opera Comp- any and atlendcd the thrilling per- formance of Rm-t's Carmen Rise Stevens was in the title role.

HAPPENINGS

F riday. June 14, 1957

A Vancouver paper carries a remarkably fine picture of the Foley family. It portrays five sen- erations. with John A. Foley, who is 101 years old. are Mrs. Maradee Olney. his great granddaughter. and Shelaugh Anne Olney. his great-great granddaughter, Mrs.

F. McLean, his grandtiautghter, and Mrs. William Blore. his daugh- ter.

Mr. Foley of 3975 West thirty- flrst came to Vancouver in lB88.l

originally from Waterford, P. E. I. He has an antayingly fine ap- pearance for the advanced age of 101 years.

boys should I wear my ment ring? I know I could never love anyone else but Mike, and would he going out only to have

ELLEN'S DIARY

wholeheartedly to the

Tulips kccncd for the sunlight,

June Showers Hcili Work

spout at tho lioii-c-t-ui'tici' and run-

Mr. and Mrs. Frank Hamm. Mt. 5 of Mrs. Nina Hackelt. and the late Herbert announce the engagement William Hackett of Halifax. N.S.

BARBARA unis s it. nscnn

ENGAGEMENT ANNOUNCED

! ' . . . . ' ;:'nI:'Ifdl4'ltllxl'lvgull)llP Sgjomclih mel ard ml open. Ting hack EMS mitnyiili vl:l;)ii'l)folLEheupy yourself in ? (Mali, Emil lfmll buds tnfdme llmnliesil "mg dew me ll”mI1at(1()nUe sought i t stye s tru y some! ing new iin er 4 , . ; roun an it . wcp amp y. u lreturn to its rain-c ou "Heavy. guy of To,-on",-3 institute of child tion, pm-emai X - Wu Mk b l f LL15 ' .. t -v , . . , . . ' -V i 9” E 59"" M ' cw "1"" WI 899103 the June shovurs des- eh? he (llll(l(l('(l in a flash ofl Study isnt stumped when it comes important to child rearing. It was

THE EXPERTS SAY

slumped about what children are thinking. But the director of the Univer-

EDNA ronn

ENGAGEMENT

Mr. and Mrs. Albert Todd. an-

JOIIN TOWSDALI

ANNOUNCED

Mrs. Trowsdale and the late Mr.

Can Accept Consequences Of Behaviour From Beginning

By CAROLYN WILLETT yCHILU RESPONSIBLE

they could accept responsibility

for their own decisions and ac-

gist.

But a two-year-old might never forget the threat to his security.

From the time of "immature de- pendent security" when a mother accepts all or part of the respon- sibility for a child's behaviour. there should be a xradually-de- veloped independence and finally emancipation from parents. he

and school for child rearing. But it's emancipation that hurts

the exeniniz. 3:: nliy weein.-adsp . p W ” 1- we ii l i know Mike would say. "Go time in Oshawa, Buffalo and Niag- now live, 1,, Kiwi in me Yukon to Mr. Samuel Robert Hackett, sonlJuly at the home of the bride. Eon? A:lt':ll:r9'Tro3:d.l';" .3” chel. 9 u ""9 1" Sums 1 tall?” 3"” 43"? ”'”' ml Md ara Falls. They were fortunate in Ten-not-gas. Mr. .l. A. Foley was

parents most. although emancipa. tion starts almost at birth he added. o

Mothers of brides and grooms who cry at weddings should really "hurrah" if they've brought their children to a state of independent security, he said.

DESTROYER, LINER BRUSH

your thoughts on this. . N07 A 5009 RISK Canadian Press staff Writer l Dr. Blatz. himself a parent said "M QUEBEC (C12) '1-

nut c.s.: i to -- - ' 1- h t lk . ' r "9 dc5”0.W All 0CCA5'0N SHOE 3 W1; 3 - h ...23;”.:.”.;:. 'E".'..s..'3.'i.'.”'il::sl?..”':.l';'.::'.';..z::”'?f..;:':i:;:,l:,:":,,'; ...::r..r.:; .:.:...".";:..;;t Hm Mm--c Wh” marriage 1” ""4 mi" 3'9" I thanltto yeirrz says he's oftcn beginning." "'9'" The church End c”'"m"""y liie hQIlleerh:Cr0s:E?l)l(,)'l'whhV:dllg(Ellmg Parents should rear children so must be ””55””” m "'9 mm” There was no visible damazealo

either vessel and no injuries were reported.

: dresses but uill be perfect for a!-l . urmmn and ewninz we". '-loot and will go with any combin-

Thc pump pictured is of nylon ation of colors.

l::"3:'e! t.i2:3,'s-wnitxinx lyidliidngwzllgl A 10:51: ?;Egr,u5T'r1ie;r(:'m"9:il '0 3:8 White 'I"9Pr:li. ;;l!lI:1h0ul(l”la'l:nilt Khel toucrying babies. ' ' fal'o very difficult. But consis- liloutlne. in a half-Eliiliy spirit. youl mw,,',... mwnh 0 h Fl”; ,5 W95-.' . F " ”,",..- I- - la 3'” I-Ml childrcn "cry If they re . Ion:-y could develop a child's ms! Hem enough of I person 1 games .added Voswlnttlz ea Vri:;w you airiunl to rip. (tie tiucricd as , going to survive. in Blai1."told.faith. trust and confidence. Va. .0 be . good risk .5 . wifev meld! Wm 5 id”; to Ilia "Slit-hr :9 L llfg(;:'":)'fkl(l l 91.13 0"!-tvd a women: group licrc, And p "Mothers should behave so the mink. lbmdel for illmleg er! med vfirfdn . Jan", V3 :2 .5-kl etd-"I mind thcyll alwlays stop because they-.t-hild never doubts that he's you 5" mm to, "en. mo ugh Mi 1 P hu I h. S.l H s vur out 5.. an . . . get bored. - Iwanted, said Dr. Blair. dH,e1Dped' to b, . manv. re" g9 "E 0WAl0 9811 - ii" 8510!! "RPM" ll? Wll1SP9I'9d- He said if a parent decides a Exasperatcd mothers. for in- lhelpmatey hi, mm-,1 uampi, Nd llllf SUHDY l'lDDleS 07 Slldd-95- l Ri'3'l- kt? -'""llP)'l-I child is not crying for anything l stance. should never threaten to N0 CTOPPHIE l0d8)'- IW 0V9!" And the ll'd.V. cnnhnuintz L'l'8.V as that is the parent's responsibility, give a misbehaving child to the

tilt?

WV"-'"'S

KEEP IN TRIM sobns

While On A Diet, Make

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4;. ininrl Your attitude at the begin-lponde, this psycholngu-at pl-gmii. K.

it 1 l.

mainstay. in family partnership. ' S Y Sr k T It he to in to l :r:::.:":.:;;l: :::::r.:t'.:.::"..':e l:'r”."'5t V v - cm W your interest. keep you happy and , - "' ll""f1- W9" 150 D0853" Y 0I' it out." Such a threat might h aimed p U 0 provide conditions that would l "'flfq- g . "19 MKS 81 Alfl9I'l08 and K095 now Some parents. he added. find at a husband. "He's willliig to ae- U R I T V A N D Q UA L I TY - 0- N0 CWDPIDK t0dH.V - "'1' t off min the night. riding on a bright, this idea "unsportingf ' cent the risk." said the psycholo-

By IDA JEAN IAIN pecting to fail. they concentrate I on failing at that particular time.

Take the initiative to find out psYCHoLo(;lCAL pRmcn)Lg the "ll? .V""T mind P”-V5 l" ml? it is true that we tend to gel 1135.1 Y0" '" 9?” "tr "”""-3' W9l3ht- what we expect. To carry this fur- This enlightenment will pay slim- than if you expect to be hungry. MINE dllldellfli while dieting, you will be. for l".syc'riologists explain lufll 1' llllllll 35 ""'l"d 59' " Th” 1 foods. Under certain conditions. is. you lend to regard a situation you, mind will react gxaetly .3 in WWW 0i Wllal l3 3'”-'3dy in you have habituated it to react.

mug of a rt-din-lug venture largely W19. for H is an important cm, to lmind conditioning.

How do you change your mind? Get a fresh point of view, Say to yourself, "Look. I've been going at this hit wrong.. nutrition will help me-

dPlPf'll'lll'ICS ill? Ollltiflllle,

For example. you start a re- ducing diet seriously doubling you'll lose many pounds, since you nt-it-r liavc been able to stay an a (lll'l. Ilnubt is negative and mill"-'S l"””' d0"b'5- pounds without going hungry or" WT WW F-"I-VRE lfeeling cross.” ln short, apply:

(tr, as with the ovcrweight whotpsychoiogyy This new atntudel

keep you satisfied-instead of re-l cognizing your obligation to be al self-reliant responsible contribu-l iiv member of the going con-

i

the' in

corn. VERY ADOLESCENT

Your disposition towards question of weekend dating.

"M" k Your mind Will dwell on forbidden Mike's absence, is very revealing.

it shows that you don't know what to do with spare time except spend it pleasurably which, to!

your daily round. And your idea of sucli escape is to go out with at man, an admirer who provides: the progratm. pays the bills. etc. -and probably gives you a sense

e.

All this is very adolescent. Worse, it slioirs an empty mind regards the significance of

amine l"Dltl'f1llV, "I'll give diet just

fl one nmre try. and ifl do not lose calm-jg fa;-pg

ll;

Zllls lune I'll ncvcr dict again." This is p.'tl'l dcspcraiion and part dciianct-, But in this frame of

- I as takes the irksomcness out of low i marriagev and the purpose of lmu . . tlt also suggests a parasitical ap- To bring your goal ucart-i. aim l . , ,h g . U at the next smaller size dress l'gggdanar'::a::l:::h;F'y0:nl:g5:'e';'ei

This will be 10 to is pounds off. .00 dep . mo Mink” hp . . '

i

. leave hrr free to overeat on fat-

s In-y start a dict course grimly p letermincd to stay with it, and l' they do for a time. Then, even " though they are

mind she is quite likely to tail- dependmg on your 5”-m-mi-e gm lg . . , ' g " . . Aland alone in situations. There Why? lint mind is set for failure I on how near you are to top weight I ran you com" on I ..hwe.. relrl

Illfl Will find "W WW5 i" l3ll- on your present size. That. too. isl

and can work '

blend of psychology science of nutrition g slimming miracles.

g llll)('0ll!('l'lliSl)' she uants to prove the eannni wcigh less This will

Ieninz tootls. Many over weights

write that

losing weight, sttcr a ccrtain number of days. say 5 or l0. they cannot keep from Dvercating! The explanation: Ex-

GINGEB REFRIGERATED ' COOKIES

1 cup shortening

'1 cup molasses

2 eggs beaten

W: cups flour

1 teaspoon soda

1 esspoon salt

1 teaspoon ginger

1 ieaapoon all-spice.

Method: Mix in order given and mould into loaf pan. Wrap in wax paper. Chill several hours. Slice

done.

klthoiigli site is not aware of it. applying pgychnlogy" Tm. subgtep cu" "'0? fledged character.

and bake 10-12 minutes or until sonal interview. Write to her in .. ' care of this newspaper. '

9X- I

tionship as a sort of prop, to g full 1

you from being I

No SIMPLE ANSWER To sum up-your question can't be given a sensible "yes" or "no"l some advisers might say.

l amwiiy not? Others will say no.'

yes.

But In my opinion. neither of these answers would open your mind to the perspective on mar-. rlsge that you ought to have. as' a basis for deciding what to do.

and why. Don't date

My suggestion is:

others. until and after you havet.

read Dr. Alexander F. Magoun'al

book "Love and Marrla.ge"l llllarperst-Jwdiich splendidly d- fera enlightenment. M.l-I

Mary Haworth counsels through.

her column. not by mail or per,

LET'S EAT

I7 IDA BALEY ALLEN ".Vecatlon time starts month and thousands of persons will be taking to the road. Many of them are more or leg over-

added the Chef. "These People should eat a light but satisfying Madame?"

'ril iigi

If You Travel By Car, Watch Those Calories!

tied carrots.

TOMORIOW1 DINNER Tomato Juice Cocktail Grilled and Chopped Minute Stealu-on-Ibaal Parslied Potatoes Diced Asparagus Strawberries nd-or Honey Sponge Cakeletiu Hot or Iced Coffee or Tee Mik

All measurements I'D level: recipes proportioned to serve 4 to

Iloaey sponge Cakelettea: Blend '4: c. butter c margarine and the juice and granted rlad is lemon. Beat 1 eggs light and add. sift together 2 e. and”! they.

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less" he other scanned the sky,l "between showers we mmght plow a bit of that root-land." l

"Do you hear them?" the furry black cat twinkled, looking up from l his breakfast dish of oatmeal. "Do you know what they'll do?"

"Yes" we giggled. "get a good wetting that's all!"

"Certaiiily." he grinned . cause as I read the signs this ain't

"Be- .

.you. means escaping ymirself or a-g0in' to be a day to work in the l

fields. licar those blucjays! Ah ha!" he nodded 'thc.v're never too far astray in thcir forct-asts." .

There uas plowing. Ami in con- sequence. bcdrngglcti tarnu-rs

the scicnt-c oft”! Hclwlllent. with his C0mPl1' 1 hurrying down the tat-in-lane to lick thel9,m”l5v l”d5 fl" muqlmsli "d 0" home, to turn nticution presently

in all those little and larger dut- ies of choring put by in the busy- ncss of the cropping for just such a day as was this one -- and weigh. and graduate according- ly, liticrs in the piggerics and plan of thcm. this we shall do or that, on into the months alicad. -

And gray mists nf June crowned l the hilltops and showcrs fcll micr- miltently to rcfresh the earth. And we said. "Maybe this is the sheep- .-torm?" But lamcs shook his head and remembered "'l'hcrc's something else we'll have to do one of these times: the shearing is a- head."

"We've had a nice spell of wea- ther for croppin g--- we can't com- I plain.". the black cat offcred. swal- lowing daintily a last bite before. proceeding to sit up and chat - lhere on the "erandnh. "Yes the showers are needed for the fields

if.) M t'HlI

' and meadows - and to settle the

dust on the road and make driv- g safer." The rain gushed from an eaves'l

wind of clearing.

Until tnmnrrnw - - - Diary - Goodnight. . . - .

TO VISIT MOSCOW

l.O.N'DON tR('ui9rsl Singer Patti Robeson and Charlie Chaplin

' are among 150 cclcbrites to he in-

vitcd to Moscllw to attend the sixth lntcrnationnl Youth Festi- val, Moscow radio announced-

MORNING SMILE

"Alld gcutlciiicu.” said the t'om- puny mzuiagcr. "uhen the presi- tlt-nt's ncphcw starts hcrc on Mon- day ht-'ll have no authoi'ity. Just treat him as you would anyone else ulio has going to take over

the whole business two years from '

now."

CUDMORES DRY CLEANERS Z

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Powder Vs tsp. baking soda Vs tsp. salt

mixture of

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2 tbsps. king auger

IVA s. granulated sugar

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