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Most Wiééé", HWIIilsbanIds Too Stupid To Prevent Obvious Wrecks 0f Their Marriages

DEAR MISS DIX-Mr eighteen years I have been married to a woman who has beer. a perfect wife and mother, but somehow I took her too much for granted and neglected her shamefully. As I am not of s. denlqnstnltlve nature, it never occurred w ine that she craved any ex- DPPs-"ifln of affection-

\ Now she tolls me that all these years she has been starved for aflec- .ll‘ ‘. -.t---\- l-lne-xllnc. and that she has met another man who has taken my place in her heart. He shows her the little attentions I should have I shown here. and tells her all the nice things I should have been tellin her all these years. 'I'his man is a fine fellow and %€ has convinced me Um?» he i188 I10 intention of breaking up my home, and says that he will not. see my wife again, although he loves her.

Now my problem is this: I have lost my wife's lole and although I have done my utmost to win her iiflhli, lL ls without result. She doesnt want a divorce because we have children, and she feels that it is her duty to take care of them, but. our home is not a home. l feel like a stranE" in 1t. and although we ~ go out together, there is a world betweeéi us. a I b in“, anymmg I Cm do sq Convince my wife of my a ‘action. ' iv..lli ll(l‘ now more than I ever did, and she is lonesome. i00- ggfie. Y6. ot- c.lll't get together. Why? A HEART-BROKEN HUS .

ONLY GOD CAN RESURRECT DEAD LOVE ANSWER-when we let. a. flower die of neglect, we cannot bring it blck to lite. no mutter how much we water it with our tears. Only G05 clnl work tho miracle of a resurrection. We poor mortals have no such potter. We can only break our hearts mourning over what might have

bHul-i all the world there is no other spwtlwle w Plwlll and 5° "a 1° as that of o. married couple who have ceased to care for each other. et it l5 so Common that at. every wedding B! We Wflifih the bride “d Y°°m IHH" l church, starry-eyed and trailing clouds of glory behind hem, W, g lly Wonder how 5°01! fillel’. i300. will be disillusionment, dis- grllnnod llllshzllitl and wlie, snarling at each other, or sitting up in silence, not tinrlnc, to spi-ilk for fear or starting something.

They begin so happy, so hopeful, so confident. so filled with romance, so tnui-Th in love with each other. and then so often. 5° 5w". Sllmehvw b9- tlvecn tlieln, they have murdered love and made the life that should have been so brfliliiflll an earthly purgatory, or else just a grim, barren en- durance lost

Whv do they do this? Why, ‘when they have perhaps seen the mis- erl- v-LiilPll‘ own parents‘ loveless life, dent they determine to make every effort tn keep ‘heir own love alive? Why, when they have seen so many of tilt- nlllrriilges of their own set come to grief almost before the honey- moons were over, do they not bring all of their intelligence to bear on making their own marriage a success?

‘Nobody knows the answer to this vital question. We see love starve to drrlih by a husband not showing his wife any 0f the little attentions a craves, hv his never giving her a tender word. or a caress or a kiss l n t all insult it is so perfunctory. We see husbands killinw their ~ for them bv turning! them into slaves and servants. We see llinl: their husbands‘ inflection for them by nagging and faillt- - L zlnrl complaining. and clisillusioning them by turning into slovens and failures. And we see husbands and wives together murdering love by scnsclr-s quarrels.

And why they do it, we do not know, when they must pay such a bit- ter ilricn for their crime, or their folly. For if is such an easy thing to kccn love alive. but it is so impossible to revive it when it is dead. A little tenderness a little consideration. a few compliments would save prllcfic- nllv every marriage. and yet the great majority of husbands and wivcs arc too stupid to use even such a simple precaution to save the arr-eel; of their marriages. What a pity!

DEAR DOROTHY DlX-W‘hat should be the status of a second wife? should she not have the privileges of a first wife?

We are three working women who are married to widolwers with chllrll-cn. We earn our own living and are not dependent upon our hus- bands for support. On the contrary, we help with the living expenses. But our hilsbands do not give us the "privilege of spending any of their money. Nor do we have the right to supervise our households. We have to sit back and let our husbands’ children take charge of everything, Ollierurise our husbands are very nice men.

What is your advice to women placed in the position we Rynfi what does the future hold for us? THREE UNHAPPY WIVES. ‘

SECOND WIFE HAS SAME RIGHTS AS FIRST ANSWFR~A second wife is just as much a man's wife as hi; first wife ,and entitled to the same privileges, ltiough a. lot of widower-s who

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POT HOLDERS

vented was to save the housewife from using a good linen towel for the some purpose. Save those pre- cious towcls and invest in a couple of inexpensive padded holders for this purpose. Notbinz wears those towels out more quickly than scorch- ing and burning from lifting hot pails.

Stove polish mixed with vinegar and a little sugar will give a splen- did and lasting lustre.

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and his children should recognize her themselves.

idiotic if she spends er money on he My advice to yo three put upon mand better treatment.

Is what I feel for him love? SW No. '

lnes him to be her Fairy Prince.

always ashamed.

that break her own heart, that often name Willi. scandal.

If a man considers his children above his wife little respect for her ,and she is certainly very foolish away with putting her in such an inferior position, and she ii?

The second wife is entitled to a share of the husband's earnings and certainly to be the nustrcss of his house and sit at the head of the table,

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DEAR MISS DIX-—I am a girI_19 years old and think 1 am in love with a married man. but 1 am not sure because I have never been in love before and don't know what the symptoms are. years older than I_am and has three children. riends of my family and he doesn't. know how I fee] about hkn

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Presently. in spite of all her care, she bumped into a dimly-seen man and they both crashed on the pave- ment. At once the man utas all

“So sorry," he murmured. "Care- less of, me- Let me help you up. So

sorry. _ “Never mind all that,‘ returned

the old lady, curily. "Will you lease tell me which way I was fac-

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Because dockers‘ wives at Liver- pool complained thm their silllllsfi were losing their wages gambling at work four men. ringleatlcrs of a betting ring, were fined about $5 each.

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my sat down with his l}? and thoughtfully took stock o! sitli» ation. The outlook was far from bright.

The trail that

should lave ended here in this squalid house scented likely to never end, now that Phil Garrison had given him the slip. He had learned how hard it is to ilnd a man who doesn't want be found. Garrison's flight was the greatest of his worries ,but there were other matters needing con- sideration.

He was nearly broke. He was not in the best condition, and his in- jured leg still caused him trouble. The leg behaved decently most of the time. but when he needed all his strength, it was apt to fail.

The logical course was to ive up the hunt for Garrison and an- other way to straighten out his ll! - But his condition wouldn't permit him to land a job. l-Ie was an avia- tor by trade, and a military one at

ness is no aviator at all.

His pipe was smoked out, when the idea came out of nowhere. The girl, Tracy Hayden. could be the bait. in a trap. To trap a bear, use honey. Phil Garrison wasn't exact- ly a bear. but he did like honey- when it came in the form oi’ an ex-' tremely pretty blonde.

An hour later, dressed in the bet- ter of his two suits, Jim entered a small restaurant. The man he had phoned to meet him was sitting in a both at the rear. He shook Jim's hand, and then they had coffee.

Jim finally said, “Look, Bert know you can gel’. in touch with Phil Garrison, but won't tell me his whereaboum." you want, Jim?"

"Just a lltt e thing. I merely want you to pass word on to Garrison that there is a irl here in town who means somet ing important to him. Tell him I'll make a decent deal with him. He can check on this girl. for I'll be with her tonight at

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‘flu questions are those which have rr cited the Wartime Trade Boa-rd from housewives in this region. The nnnvars are Dro- vliled b the Board Readers who have in eat questions to ask on price control are invited to send than In “‘ to the Women's Regional Advisory Commit‘ of the Wartime Prices and Trade Board.

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Jim finished his coffee and rose “Run that errand for me, Bert old man," he said.

Tracy felt unendurably restless, {let she did not want to leave her

otel suite- She was afraid Phil Garrison might phone or call if she went out. She had been careful. there in his room - ignoring the gun he held. but though she played blind, Tracy had noted every detail. she knew that Phili feared some- thing, that lie was dim er. She was still worrying when e tele- phone rang. ‘Pi-ac knew his voice instantly and sad, “Yes, Philip? Would you like to talk matters over now?" “I was thinking I'd buy you a

“I'd like that. Philip." ‘Tracy put down the phone after agreeing to him in the lobby in ten min-

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ruin uiciiter-of-faclly. "You're ret- tier than I thought." And acy l“. n. dealt iI-hlj a beat. Just

those few words made her lose her emotional stability. ‘they found a. corner table in the lounge, and Jim Conroy ordered cocktails and

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