IAIY IAWORTTI MAIL

Mother - In - Law Problem Makes Woman Feel Ill

DEAR MARY HAWORTH: On the surface it would seem that I ought to be madly happy-as I am married to a most interesting man with a wonderful sense of humor. who is crazy about me. We live

- in the country. which we love. with our five small children. They are healthy and happy and play and scrap together in a way that. to me. seems completely normal.

HRS. GORDON MACMILLAN However, since our first child

A was born. 51.1 years ago. I've had

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ther-in-law want: to take her a- from the wood for my room. lven lway from me. we were living

W1111 '11 1111' 5011” "mmd 1-1" I” with Mrs. X at that time. and any dener is looking forward to the possessiveness she may have felt hmmhs ahead and many geranium for my husband lher only child)

. .th--b-t .f-rdto 311115 ham been poued up and ten. t.iiei1r1mf:ii's1t1bn:ri.eloathe r:)1(1:ll1l:l(flI of

dcr plants brought nearer shelter our Other hhlidl-en, fur the cool niizhls a11e8d- I've told John that I feel like in the garden room the l-ioya a clam, with his mother the star- carnosa iwax plantl an old-time fish, using gentle but unremitting ii'iill)l'llf1 house plant is blooming. Dl'ESS111'P 111 01101 1111' UP and E91 The leaves of the plants are thick. my 1'11l1d 141111 111'l1?1k 11l1 11111 1311111? .dark green and ornamental It all Cil'l'l9. -11,01!!! ullllnkls lhtagn Slllglltlly - . h v - - isczisons. This old fashioned climb- CFBZY -"1 11111 115- W1 1 -'1 118 11111 . 1:(llClheI'1:t131:ret))l1l1i11 l;1ll):TltK?il1ln1:I'tIl1FS- ms: plant has the most beautiful 1 11”"11- 11151 1"” W111" 5111111111 G0 y fra;,'rnnt blossoms of waxy stars be 1115 17111111 5901- W9 31:9 1" 119131 , . . .. ha g E fmm me runners and they to lllrs, X. who is gracious about G1111E1i1;u:::l1aPh 3g1C11r1l:i1:'1f:l1Kfl11;.1;ank l;.nnL,1,:nh 8 h.agmm.e equal to that lending us money from her limit- . 1 - 1 . 1. , . of the lincsi lily or gardenia. Vis- 1111 "11'a”53 31111 "1111" 111' 3"? l'13.V' 1111",. 1111111111 "1 1111.1 "1111 11101.1 iiiors in tho gal-den are amamed in): her back. I ii-elthe imlchti-dncss 11115 1111'?" me 11911111115111" In 11.1mr1trv this beautiful glossy green leav- 111 11311 1111' 1'” 1'1"" 111 W111? 111 11 11 W111; you' and 91': 111111110111 Ttpicd house plant and when the flow- 1111111115 1111' g11Q1111-1 111 for the season 0 R 3'98? WW". l i, 1 g , b m ed DlSTRl'ST PROBLEM "1 1111111 1119 pmk and H0191 1151011 lllicrc are always interesting thingsi1"111119111s 1111' 111151 1111 1111-1'54 S119

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What's Your Line? 1

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ltashion'a waistline appear: to women appear to crave change! :13 "Q1111 "::'u&1"”-:'.”1b'y';m' And. in the long run. it doesn't,

nu so - - - matter too much whether the waist

leave, designers blithely move the mov h up or awn . H but u the

natural line of the waist to some figure is to look younl. the Wllst

other spot. 11" 5113111” P"”11"'- 111 1'131- must never spread out. It's farh more than appearance thei

this season the designers them- waist was originally designed tn 5&1

aelvea seem more than a little un-

certain about where the waist , the slimmest part of the fiiu" "l we could bend. turn and move 1

should be located- some decree it should be rib hllh. empire style; others stress the long torso sheath. easily. So let's make a move to wtilg: tlhel dropped walsutlline; :nd slim the waiat.... d m s o era feature e mi dy Turn on a une an so so e blouse style. ignoring the waistline stretching with rhythmical motion. completely. That makes for grace .. - besides. Well. fashion is whimsical. and it's gunk tl;:elu'tr:: xgthgtthlz win 0 " hilwy bend of the body. Move to e music. Start with stretching. for that's the most natural of all exercise movemcnts.dRIliIle both dailrhia tap . . ova 'icud an pu upwar e. rigu arm; slowly and smoothly. ” stariing the p'lihillltawi3l' dowln near. t.h hin.”ne. a's e ony way .. 1: sh) can slim the entire mid- set-ii . Then slowly and rhythmi- cally stretch upwards will! the 11111111 "1'1V"- left arm. this time stretching clear 1391 3111111 51111113 919991” 511119 from the toes! Keep sCIChll1Q up 111333.31”-' 0W119d by I 5111139111 N15 as if you were climbing a ladder. more wear and ter than that of To pm the pun on 3 sugmiy 1119 ""359 11”'V911e1"- W1111 1119 dlf i-eeui area. stretch up with the 91113311110" 111 111151119” 99011191 right arm. and at the same time ; . step back with the right foot and ;' 1111111116 '1"”1"G5 p-u-l-l ii-hm tip to toe. Repeat. this So. to avoid a battered look be- time with the 1'" I1'm- 1101111"! fore the college course is through. 113111 W11-1' 11" kn 111111- '11 111111 look for strong bindings. well-

rhytlimical motion. Then stretch made hardware. sturdy, comfort-

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Page 8, The Guardian Tuesday, Sept. 27, 1955

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A QUESTION

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Little fringed aster Lavender and gold Springing in the meadows Brightening hedges oid-- You can't stay nnich longer Bravely though you try Wind and Rain are. stronger- lhall I place you high lafeiy on the mantel

In a yellow bowl?

All eyes will there ailiune mu Yours in sweet. new rnlc. Or shall I leave ion ratlicr

luggage. is always'in service. THREE MAIN PIECES

The basic requirements for a co-ed include a train or overnite bag. a week-ender and a ward- robe case or pullman. with three pieces such as this, she will be able to take enough clothes to college to last until the large

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up with both arms and p-u-l-I slim

”Micliaelmas Daisies' they arc d I t I k V .t. was supposed to he home yester- able handles and a coverin um: tilmugh the middle.

called in the Old Country. Sim"? 1" :1'”d1111 119115;" 11sf.1”111111 ay but Mrs. X called and I will take hard knocks mag .11 . 1'10!” supple llimnass

th , c m enceto bloom about the 1' 11 1111.11; 511 11 enev" 1111' 1191' spineless 21- it it -d '. 1, Stand sidewards to the wall. 61 f '11 11 111 mus l mu other gardens and mm nf1e'1h11'1a11r;1;l';r11h;0l;1&; sliod storaZ9- A119? that. consider arms distance aw” "om wan Q17 er 5&-

Feaat of St. Michael 1September

29). The nude” varimcs are MW color. lines and design.

As for the young men. they most frequently come out on the short end of things when well-meaning relatives or friends present them with family discards. Too often. the unmatched. 'ashionable cases are actually designed to be used by a woman.

FIRST IMPRESSIONS

Those first impressions, so vital

palm of hanld fllat on wahll at

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out as you bend! Make the midriff at 0 ea" nd'. '1'. .1 1' you "'1 muscles give. Repeat three times, 1111 111a1' 11' 11111111 111311" "11"" change sides and bend, again. fashion puts the waistline . . . you Gradually increase count. fashion puts the waistline . . . yours Later you may be able to stand will be naturally slim.-

11111111 1111111 11191111 spot and I don't drive which com blooming and two gift plants that l was looking forward to seeing ph(.ah.5 thhmsh I "(.eh.Pd "M" R L.,,(,,1 gm-,h.m.r this hflrlllflflll garden again and Rehemh. 11..., hm." hhmmng for friend this spring are lnvrtly llth111111" l 1?” X011 that 1911 111011531111 a move back to town. But it occurs purple and white. The Bishop amiiyrzlndmli blnnmed and many. many to me as I write that instead of ML Everest are me nalnps ghahntllef flowers that sunny morning haggling in mm”, whit.-h I am” describe them very well. mg ;:)11la::j::. 1;;-s1o;e:e1;1af(::::a 1ae8ll)1eYu:ran(1-all 5K11111l11f1hcarlrii;1aigndfor v ' iv has h1oom- 1 . 1 1' 1 1111111 - 17 11 085 .dAg:;1:1 1f1;1:u1n:a::,r1s(;8l.s hm mp Glads. frorn this garden won the wanil, and learn to drive, Then . 1 ' .0 JOHN lughcst points in the show where id have more mobility. to pick 11111119 15 1111111111111 and "1111 11 tlic' were exhibited and when the up Vicky et- be added to the garden as they 3 ' -' 1'

straight clean rows were seen and However, that still wouldn't solve,

will continue hloomlnlz all 11115 month and for weeks in the autumn when color ll so much needed.

A separate autumn garden in the shelter of the tall evergreen hcdgc filled with these asters and garden obrysanthemums in gold and hronzch shades would be lovely and frost could not harm them.

There are many fruited thorns h this garden and they add their beauty to the different flowers The; ornamental crabs are lnvel" umrl as the rose bows to different shades and shapes of scarlet and crimson. and the apples make the very best background for the garden when the branches are bonding with the. many beautifully colored apples. 1 The western bree1.es ever soft and

ltpen one crop and bring another,

on.

Apple an apple prmving. pear on pears Homer. And when we are tliinkiiid nf1

these lovely fruits we must not for- geit the beauty of the Rowan tree with its flaming-red berries. l rem- Cnbeir as a child I was given some al the berries to eat by an older member of the family just to see me make faces when the sour berries surprised me with their hate.

The rowan tree is often mentlon- 1

ad in the poetry and prose of Eng- land, and in that country the her- rieii are used to make. jelly On the whole the rowan or (Mountain Ashl free is lovely growing in net- uralistic siirroundings--perhaps at the edge of a little wood at the top of the garden where the other trees are not too dense as to block out the sunlight. which it needs for heat. development. and display; and several of these trees grow here in this garden.

Thoreau. the great naturalist was Itirred by the beauty of the Fall. He has the root of the matter in him and he sees no vividly and 50 surely the beauty we can easily

the rigor and beauty of the spikes noted it was quite clear to the ob- server. why they were prlze-win- ners. Tliis gardener also won in the popular basket in a class filled uiih lucnty entries so that these flowers had to be good.

The gardener who spent many hours of, his very busy day told me of some varieties especially out- standing ..The Rajah. the heaviest winner in the show in a purple color The Owl. a medium sized smoky. Violet Charm a new purple.

in reds Esquire and Redwing. Aces of Spades are very dark Glad. White Christmas was a favorite while and Carnival with scarlet hlolcli was well named. Personal- ity and C. D. Fortman Connetlcut Yankee. Evangeline and Patrol deep creamy white centre were also lovely.

Miniatures from this garden were also prize winners at the shows as well as the very large beautiful izlarls which the gardener likes a- hove all others. it was a great treat to see this garden on a sunny September morning and to know that busy men care enough about hoaiitifiil flowers to spend many hours working in the garden. malt- ing a beauty spot for all who Wllh to sea.

it is always interesting to see other people's gardens and there is such a variety among them. more is always something we can learn and we shall always be grate- ful to those who maintain lovely garden: and allow us to share them, not forgetting how many years have gone into their making.

A garden is our happiest means of evoking Nature's mystic. as well as Nature's unalbla music. It is in itself the consummate eloquence of the living silence of sunlight, in silence in which sunlight. with the aid of earth's elements. ex- prcsscs itself in the lovely colors of flowers.

my real worry-which is distrust of my mother-in-law, founded in fact. I could write pages of de- tails. but the letter would be too 19113: and I am so upset. I get sick at my stomach thinking about it I shall be grateful for your comments. P.S.: I don't think Mrs. X consciously wants to keep us dependent or to lakc our littlc girl from us: but still this st-cnis to be her essential purposc. s,C. ANXIETY SHOWS

DEAR SCH it IS inlere:-tiiig that You think Mrs. XL: performance is more compulsive than conscious- ly executed. Very likely this is a true obsei-vaiion.

It is possible that, unknown in her self. Mrs. X is driven by oh. acure malevolence to try in "even the score" with you -hy alien,-.3. mg the affections of your first- born. as if to compensate for your ”takiniz" her son land only child).

Or it may be that her shift of proprietary inloresl. from married

Air. and Mrs. Ira Connnll, hc register following their re -cnt marriage in Toronto at SI

lg. 1 John's Chapel. St. Michael's chii - groom's parents are Mr. and Mrs. rch. The bride is the former Mls: Eleanor M. Jones. daughter of ' Mr. and Mrs. Maurice Jones. The i

P e t e r Connolly. Charlottetown. ' Photo by Christophe Smith. Tor- onto.)

ELEANOR R038

Houseuoio Him

air-irondiiioned room. no dust will settle on the article being painted Besides keeping dust out of the room. the air conditioner will re- move the paint odor quickly.

tacts. to maintain good mental health. 3. Discuss your worries

Mary Haworth counsels through proper condition.

her column. not by mail or per- WARDRORF lNvF,;TMFN.r sonal 1'nl(-rview. Wrile her in care 1 'i '

with a psychiatrist at the slate of keeping up with the Joneses. university psychiatric clinic it is just that certain requirements downs over, but good pieces. not (Thursday afternoons) in the city should be met and that all the m.e,.dohe or h-eaky but hm right, through which you write. M.H. necessities should be in good an lAnd just as with fine Silver lung

son to first born Eirandchild. re-'.,( The Guardian.

fleets a compulsive drive for long. term emotional "security" for hp!-. self. Perhaps unconsciously she is figuring far ahead. in A period when 5119 may need somebody to "take care" of her: and has rar- marked ynur Vicky for tho role... because it seems a "naturnl.” la- asmuch as they are congenial.

My theory about your anxiety is: if things were right between you and Mrs. X, you would in at ease in relation to her. Your profound uneasiness indicates that something is wrong. And your sense of dealing with slippery mo- tives and treacherous nblecuvu, while on the surface all seems gilt". deserves respectful considera- POSGIBLY HATE

AI tn Why your misgivings make you sick. perhaps you hat. Mn,

that conflicts with your luv. of your husband and his allegiance to her-thus agitating the whole

X at heart-a smouldering secret.

with

If you do your painting in an Send Them To With Matched Luggage

How anxious understanding par-Ia student through four years of 1ents are that the freshman shouldlcollege. and much of her life. like have everything right for that first the luggage bought fro her firlit term in college. it isn't a matter trip to (1011889-

They should not be hand-me-

gage may be added to or replaced in pattern so that a matched set.

No wardrobe invcslmcnt serves which is the nicest way to own

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42 PC. CHEST UT WM. A. RUTTERE RIO PATTERN SILVERWARE

in the early days of college. are not enhanced by the appearance of E shoddy, unmatched assort- mom of borrowed luggage recruit- cd from closets and attics. The average fellow will want a mu- cullnc-stylcd sulter bag and com- r"'” '1 piece ,for accessories. A '1 " v”'c or attache case will ' roocrs as well as a change of 1"nn for an overnight trip.

A TRUNK I8 NECESSARY

A trunk is an indispensable piece of lugrmge. for shipping boolts. extra clothing. heavy coats. pil- lows. etc. It also serves as an ex- cellent motb-proof storage com- partmcnt. .

Some colleges and universities will allow a trunk to be kept'in the dormitory. where it becomes an extra piece when covered with a throw and some pillows. So here again. the trunk. used during col- lege should be a good. sturdy piece.

mainstream of your thoughueei. ing. And maybe you haven't dared face this inner d i s o r d e renai- dared to manifest intelligent, firm resourcefulness, in keeping tn. 3-. cord straight. as regards your in. Sultlvo opposition to her stealthy Pufltoses. Whatever they are.

miss. whether it be in our own familiar gardens or in the country- side that frames them. of September he writes" The in-. creasing scarlet. and yellow fintsr ' around the meadows and river re- mind me of the opening of a vast

Bower bud. They are the petals of Now for advice- I Do . ; nu ll hlh fth ldth ' '. "11'1 0' ';t;l0va81l:;s.Cna1l;Cfht9 nghzr "H xicky stay; overnight with Mrs. .X, aulumn whose expanding bud lust; wzggdyolsoxal :,11111;11;1'w111t1slk1111111' - g .-A -h Ha ones you ' 1 i1..'1.1l.'.1.':?..1.1.'.?i11FhJ.1.-1 ;1..".'.1.'7.".1I.””rZI.t1 ""1 "' "W rm-on--"ether we I6 H l h (inn :0 h .l r d band nor child nor mother-in-law. V c anlizes o lag?!-h-a mP..ll;'E1P .c h You can head off gaboige in mi; :31” C! H9 M11911 1 1l1Wl--- 5 ""1 .. hexlent - if you have the guts to do . 511' 30 110 hC19V9d- ' j " mun . '5” it. 2. Get a new car and learn h" 13;" 11'''111;"a1;:1f 8" 13:1; maglg. ..”........,'.'""'..,..,,";f:g,",r,:,::;-,1,'; to drive. or course: but maybe oven to ATLANHC PROVINCES RESIDENTS ouu ..::..:.. -e-M to ma comm closes saw. so .

You need stepped-up social con-

the lattlccd summer house is .1 - btonzy red color mnkimz the cor-

” :l:s.1oV.1y .1 1" mo mly mm Win an elegant 42-paw acvioe for eight in Encloaa tho lion's head ham an Monuoh Mi 1w flow!-rs bloom in the uni Wm. A. Rogers Silverplatel Handsome anti- package. including Tea-Biak-at a faaimila- '1"' 1"'1'1' 1 """11' ' 111”1111"1 1111"” tarnish cheat. You get; eight lmivu, forks. with your entry and 11:11 it to Monarch Con-

quot of red roses. panslrs and

deaaert forks, dessert spoons, teaspoons, ant onabutzterknifeandougarspoonineacbsel The principal spoons and forka have an overlai of pure diver at the point of greatest weai Knives have hollow handles and mirror stain . lean blades. - ,

This-4.2-pc.sol.maybeyouraforonliytheooet efaetaunponyourents-y.ll'orl:y fortunala families-inl:heAtlanh'eprovinoasouly-will winoneoftbeaedietmctiveaaiaofailvartlfn month. That means you. have a very good ehanoa.Getyourencry'nthemafltnday.

New Portrait of

PRINCESS ANNE

hwdwr lovely tufl color portrett for your collu- Now h The Standard this wed. This time it's of Prlneia Anna. taken on her fifth birthday by. Maren Adamo, famous 1dttH photographer. Cat We Standard - on sale nuwgumplete with mog- asina. ll-pegs novel and I aagsa of comics only ”1'.1wsx 1.

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