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ELLEN'S

DIARY

by an lshnd Farmer's Wife

I happens Ital at this Island hrni we never have a dull mo- -eat.-quiet possibly. but never monotonous. In our farming there h always something new to inter- ut as. something unexpected and dilirent ts lend variety to our

This afternoon. after an excurs- bs which had taken the two i-taunted is keepinn the W0" tom our doors to a sale of farm-

and chattels there was a spirited backing of the little truck in the barnyard. From the win- dow of the nook of place which k ”the hack-stairs" of this house where we re-touched pieces of our decorating, we saw them as- sist I pair of the cow-kind down km is machine and lead them hen to a stable.

But not before they were duly inspected at the close range. it is a finding of this farm and farmers that a purchased animal gains nothing in size or weight during the trip home! And "I

hill to he s vacation-guest at this house. That was before he went s-warring. and returned to marry a fair-haired Island (I and assume than the cares an

band's estate. .

"Any fishing?" he was semen)- boring.

"Plenty of water!” James chuckled.

"Must try it one of these times" he promised with a smile.

Night with gray of cloud. And frog-times. to make one of our best of lullabies.

Until tomorrow - - - - Diary -- --Good-night. . . ..

rational problem? It seems to me the right solution is simply to ac- cop! the fact that your awareness of life is expanding. to include some recognition of potential kin- ship of spirit with persons not legally related to you.

You don't necessarily have to

had an idea he was heavier than that when I bought him" on odd occasions have been amoni "ill?

"dd". wards M tongue 0,. pen" uhat these reactions have to re-1

we have heard at Alderlea. But only for the moment. in their en-I thusiasm for farming even in the, smallest and most pitiable waifi of a call the farmers are con- fmgnt their buying "will grow mini something."

"In many an insii-iticc time has surprised iis." is that one of our own 'raising or did you buy him?" we have questioned of s comely animal on pasture or when they are rounded to the stables in the fall. And James has replied with obvious surprise: "You should know that one Ellen! Remember. we brought him home one night in the fall. liil tell you, it was the very night that . . . happen-i ed to be here. He was pretty small and skinny don't you mind? But" with a pleased nod "he's I lair-good animal now! You can mostly tell if the makings are there.” .

It was Mack. only boy of this place who later came to escort us to admire these new addi-

tions to the herd. "They could be bigger" he com- mented. "But they're red-and

that's not a bad color. "I-Ie push-' ed back his cap and then putting out what James believes to be a farmer's hand. smoothed down the silken sides. ill guess" he grinned happily. "they'll grow into some- thing!"

It was a business man. big and broad and hefty who came by tonight-with a gray cloud at .his shoulders and lusty frog-strains , in his ears: the same for whom bi young years of spring-clean-, ing we saved small tins and boxes I to make containers nor the dewl worms he would use at the fish- ing when the closing of his school should bring him in along the.

HARY IIAWOBTHIS MAIL l

Young Grandmother . Faces Problem Oi : Love For Other Man '

DEAR MARY HAWORTH: I am a grandmother - youthful, not unattractive. My husband and I have been married for many. years. I havenit been romantically - in love with him. But our prob-. lems. our planning together for! children. our house and communm ity activities have brought us contentment. understanding and tioity - which is enough to fill any life.

Against every desire. I have! grown to love someone. What isl the solution of this irrational problem? How can this attach-. ment be channeled into whole-j some friendship. related to myi marriage Or would it he uiscri to break off relations altogetherlf:

C. S. Iesl Loves Leads Away From Self.

DEAR C. 5.: Against every de- sire. you've grown to love some! one. you say -- meaning ailflVl"l'7 man. I take it. And you ask.. what is the solution of this ir-,

cum uni-y-verb gently Is the Jaime. Cuslhstint ms-shin-. gmnlshtbonshusotl-I11

mm!-ujssatdssslts. I

it anal

jterest. Rather. examine your ;mental reactions to it. to learn

veal. concerning your obviously still quite immature self-centered nature.

"In the presence of Love"- in

the highest sense - "we ask nothing; we desire noth- ing," one writer tells us, in ef- fect. "We do not seek to own those beloved; to us them. or to change them. We are content simply to be in their presence. to be withithem. We love Without desire . . . . ''In this mood.” the writer con- tinues, "we discover (upon re- flection later) that there passes over from the beloved presence. into us. an influence which has the power to quiet us. cleanse us. invigorate us, unself us. It brings into our lives joy peace. power.

Life of Prayer Gives Mastery

"Contrariwise. when we are possessed by the mood of desire or demand. then we are most discontented. restless. burdened. . . because We are occupied and concerned with SELF and with its insatiable. myriad wantings. . . The secret of having joy. peace, power lie in training our spirit to

responsibilities which are a lius- boo

”do" anything about this new in--

MORNING SMILE

,"Do you know. dear. my. bus- band says I look 10 years younger in this bat "

"iusuyfand how old are youl" ...rmny... "No; 1 mean without In hat."

doing of this is the first work of the life of prayer. How this may be accomplished must be our first concern."

The foregoing comment is taken from the booklet "Instructions in the Life sl Prayer" (Forward Movement Publications, 4!: Syca- more Street. Cincinnati 2. Ohio). It should give you the pitch of really growing in capacity to love maturely. For supplementary education in the social require- ments of mature morality.

Lasting Love" tlloubledayl. When In Iride No longer lride?

DEAR MARY HAWORTI-l: To settle a friendly argument how long is a bride considered a bride? I say for the duration of the honey- moon. be that three days. three Weeks or three months. My ais- ter-in-law says one year. What do you say? Thanks. B. F.

DEAR B. F.: It seems to me that a bride is a bride as long as she and her husband conside her such-which might be a matter of 50 years' or more, in certain happy situations. llut in general she ceases to be remarked as a bride when she begins to become is mother and. as this is s vari- iable event. perhaps it accounts .for discrepancy between your own

-and your in-lawis hearsay views. in M. if.

. Mary Haworth counsels through iher column. not by mail or per- .sonal interview. Write her in care -of The Guardian. Charlottetown.

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bot cooked stew. Cover closely and simmer (never lifting the cover) for 15 mins. Yield-6 servings.

lTempiing Syrian Recipe For Cooking Dry Beans

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”l-low long do most hoineinaksra usually soak dried films and other besns before cooking?" .

"Overnight. Chef. But it II the

twrong method. because it some- times atartn germination. which causes loss of nutrients or even spoilage. Besides. it makes the preparation of dried bean dishes .so long drawn out that they are 'not oftsn prepared in most homes. Budget Dish ' . Yet dried beans are both deli- 'cious and satisfying. when well- prepared. and decidedly within budget. However. although lclassed as proteins. they are sec- ondary. and do not contribute full -nlitritive value unless teamed with at least 16 the amount of animal protein in the same menu." New Method

"Then I would suggest a com- bination casserole of dried limas and lamb shanks for our menu. Madame. This is based on a Syrian recipe. The beans are plac- ed in a covered pot - of boiling water. then soaked only so min- utes. according to the new method worked out in our test-kitchen."

TOMORROW"! DINNER

Vegetable Soup Garlic Bread Lima Bean-Lamb Casserole Spinach Cole Slaw

Lemon Meringue Cake Coffee Tea Milk Lima Bean-Lamb Casserole:

Cover 1 lb. dried lima hearts with

2 qts. boiling water. Add 1 tsp.

salt. Cover and let stand so min.

Then simmer-boil IV: hrs. Mean-

time remove the mest from I

lamb shanks, cut in 1" dice. roll in

flour. and brown together with

1 s. sliced onion. Drain the beans;

combine I e. at tbs liquid with 1 0- lllity culled tomatoes. Holt 2 tbs. meat fat in saucepan. Stir in 3 tbs. flour and gradually add the combined liquids. stir in 1,5 tbs. table mustard. 1 tap. thyme and the beans. 011 a lit qt. casserole. alternately layer in the beans. sauce and browni lamb shanks. Make the top layer beans. Cover: bake lit hrs. in a slow to moder- ate oven. 325-3.50 degrees F.

To Freeae: If desired. use half of this entree for one meal; put the remainder in a casserole. seal with freezer tape and use any time within 1 month. Allow 11-5 hrs. for thaw-heating at 550 de- grees F

lkmoll Merlnllle Cake: Make up it pkg. yellow cake mix. Bake in an oiled 9" layer cake pan N min. in amoderate oven. 350 de- grees F. Meantime make up US pkg. lemon pie fining according to directions. llalf cool. Spread over the cake layer. Top with mer- ingue made from 2 egg whites. Re- turn to a slow oven. :25 degrees F. Bake 1! min. or until the mer- ingge is lightly browned. Serve co .

THE CHEF SUGGESTS Add 3 thin-sliced scallions when

CHOP IUIY s I lbs. round steak (cubed) 1 lb. lean Pork icllbfdl, sear these well in frying pan. Peel and out up I large onions.

Brown in pan after removing meat. Add to meat and rinse fry- ing pan with water and add to meat sndonions. Put in a pot and cover with water and keep cov- ered with water while cooking. Cut up one large or two small stalks of celery in will piccol- add to meat and cook until meat is tender. Just before it is done add one can of mushrooms. (

When it is done add 8 tbs. of soy sauce. 2 cans of bean sprouts. Thicken with flour and water. Salt and pepper to taste.

Words Of The Wise

it h more important to . know where you are going than to get there quickly. Do not mistake ae-

tivlty for achievement. -(Mabel Newcomber).

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