Divorce Advised

Ii Husband Truly Loves Another Wife Should Give Him Freedom

DEAR MISS DIX: rivveeyears ago in 1; band 111 my a young girl. He tried to be honest and fyair u:bou.t iteand tolziwmzdg than I had been a good affection for me. Advised and chiefly because I loved him so dear- ly. I fought dlwrlhly to hold him and refused him the divorce. lmwlllh 1 H111 have my husband and my home, I have house. 1. am a wife

it and pleaded for his freedom. He admitted -and devoted wife. but he had just lost all by relatives and friends.

Today,

ncixther. My home is Just .a in name only. I am miserabl .M , . 1l-'l'0d- My health lone. Myeg y nerves are shut

miserable also. Now I offer! him his freedom and he says it is too late. A BITTER WIFE

ANSWER: There are as many angles to divorce as there are to individual personalities. and what is the wi5e and the night thing for the wife to do when her husband asks her for his freedom depends upon the individual temperament of the man.

SOME ABE PHILANDEREBS

There are men who are m Philanderers a '. ix tutionally incapable of aver bzigng faithful to &.l1yngIlC?v1::0Tl2ell.u'I?I11seg'he g V - are other men who are good and kind and desirable as husbands but -' - who are fatally weak where women are concerned and whom, any designing adventures; can have for the taking. Many a middle-aged man who has been a devoted husband and father falls into the hands .' of a girl who makes him believe that he is too voung for his wife .- '- and that he will turn into a gay lad again if he marries her. And . , when his wife sezea that he is about to commit mental and moral lulclde by mafrylnl I girl young enough to be his daughter, or some hard-faced grafter who cares for nothing bu-t his pocketbook she is justified in refusing to give him a divorce until he has had time to get over his infatuation.

But there are other marriages in which a man finds that his wife is not his mate. They have nothing in common. There is no spiritual correspondence between them. His love for her dies because it has nothing to feed upon. She bore: him. is distasteful to him.

Then Fate throws in his way the woman who is his other self and to whom his very soul goes out, who gives meaning to life for him. And when this is the case. when a wife knows that some other woman can give her husband what she is powerless to give him. that this other woman can make him happy while she makes him miserable. then all that she can do in kindness to him and for her own self-respect is to let him go. For you cannot coerce love. You cannot make a man love you because it is his duty to. And to hold the body of a husband after his spirit has escaped you is like bind- ing oneself to a rotting corpse. When we do that which makes an- other unhappy. we only make ourselves miserable.

DEAR DOROTHY DIX: I am a business girl. quite attractive and with a good job. My problem is this: All my life I have dreamed about a tall. handsome man whom I expected to meet some day and marry, but I find myself engaged to a young man who is neither tall nor handsome. I must say that he is everything any one could want. lie is kind. thoughtful. loving. We have more or less the same education. Like the some books and are quite companionable. But while helsdevotcd to me I only care for himin alukewarm fashion.We are to be married soon. but I hesitate because I am wondering if I am going to be happy married to a man who isn't my ideal if, per- hapa I may meet some one after I am married who will be every- thing I dreamed about.

MAG

ANSWER: My dear child, don't you know that every girl that ever loved. has this same dream of marrying a Fairy Prince who is tall and sl-.im'and has golden curls and a Greek profile and a ro- mantic line? A girl begins eeeing this vision about the time she be- comes buy-conscious. and she goes on thrilling over it until the hi-ero'a picture is obliterated by that of.acrne stocky, freckle-faced, double-hted lad who hasn't an ounce ofgaenttlmcnt in him, but who aotaafhow is her man -whom the magic: live) with happily ever a . I, - ' x '

B&I have taken your adcleccen-t fancy eggiyusly. You set up anlmpoasible etaudard that no mortal man could possibly mea- aure up to, and if you are going through the world still looking for your ideal. even after you are married. you are certainly headed for trouble. -

My advice to you lanot lomarry untilyou find scmeman who looks better to you than any other man on earth. There is enough disillus- lm: in marriage even when you start out thinking that you have caught the world's wonder for a husband.

DEAR MISS DIX: I am a boy 17 yeus old and very powerful. I have a bad habit of knocking down everybody. even my father. when they displease me. I do not mean to be mean or rough and didn't notice it until I broke my older bl'0llhCl"l arm twisting it. What can you suggest that 9 do? X. Y. Z. ANSWER: Use your strength gently. But you seem to be the White-Hope. Why don't you make use of your unusual gift by going into some occupation in which your great strength will count?

DOROTHY DIX cannot aiuwer personal mall. Par those who must live with In-lswa. aha baa written leaflet D-3, "Mothers-lm laws.” To obtain I copy. send 5 cents and a stomped. self-addressed envelope to Mlsa Dix. two this newspaper, P. 0. Box 98. Times Square Station. New York 18. N. Y.

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Old Home Week now only a nice memory and the strange brief Au- gust hurricane forgotten in the fair balmy weather of today, the family at Aldcrlca. came back to a more earthy living this morning. Granddaughter clad in a favorite gown. a. bit ua pied but which would "do" in spite of yesterday! earing she "assured us. and with

beside her fatheruncl was off early in the versatile truck to pick up the weekly load of feed in me City- This taxes the machine's carryllll power since pens now nearlnz the marketing, make extra demands on the stores. Jeanie DI'e8Gnl1l' took up the postponed wash. and James appeared at a doorway with ham- mer and saw wearing as is usual at such a time. a disgusted 9XPl'95' sion. in a gruff voice he offered: "You're always agitating some work or another, Ellen. but when the time comes to get busy at it where are you" He answered his query to his own satisfaction. "In the house-that's when you'd be. For all the world like a little dog we used to have! we always knew where to find him. Well" he continued. "I thought you wanted to get that confounded house fit- ted up for those turkeys? If you do. now; the time! Not that I should be wasting mine over the like with a thousand things waiting to be done about the farm .. Straw toyhaul. fencing to do . . and we should be straightening up a piece of that new land. Acres of it lying there idle! Come then, Ellen! And oh yes. bring some nails with you and a few spikes." . . .

Extremely grateful and somewhat amused we compared the resting of our indoor duties to those lines from Scott's immortal "Gathering of the Clans". which came in a flash to mind.

"The fisherman forsook the strand, The swarihy smith took dirk

and brand;

With changed cheer, the mower bllthc Left in the half-cut swath the scythe;

The herds without a keeper strayed The plow was in mid-furrow stayed,

The falc'ner tossed his hawk away. The hunter left the stag at bay:"

so suddenly at our summons we left our unfinished busines indoors and even gully came out with

James to our new endeavor.

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Sheltered and shielded from the biting wind which ofttimes sweep along our for fields from the north. these dwellings of the- fowls sit be- side the old raggedy spruces in the orchard. We had the sun for our light and the gentle new. clean wind of day for our inspiration as we set about flooring is small un- tenanted building to house our over- flow ol pouits. Have you "ever in your life" as granddaughter might say seen a neat blue-shlrted. blue- leaned farmer on quick steps lug- ging an anin-ful of boards avowedly against his will? And his spouse puffing along in the rear of the procession which paraded the width of the yard. toting two sizable ones. the light of achievement in her eyes? so we were at Alderlea this very morning. "And now I nail.

Ellen!" or "always keep the -saw in

line with the sawing!" and pre-

scntly it was completed. Even the hen reflected our pleased smile then when safely housed she rang- ed her winsome fa.mily about her bronze breast in the sunlight. "Will she nurse them-with milk. I mean? granddaughter came home to Join

us. then corrected herself. "Am I

being silly?" she commented, a

grin spreading across the frecklcd

nose "didn't we bring you I bagful of "starter" from town Just now!" 0 I 0

"She's a. funny oncl' James ob- serves now into the smoke wreaths above his old armchair. "When I was in the stable this evening. she came over to tell me: "I've just been down in the orchard looking at your wife's turkeys - and they just love their fine new house!" All four year old: are funny and very sweet. '

Until tomorrow - -Diary - - Clood-night. .

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A country Garden H

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The man who want: e garden fair, or small or very big. With ifbwen growing

there, Must bend his back and dig.

The things are mighty few on earth That wishes can attain. Whate'er we want of any worth We've got to work to gain.

It matters not what goal you seek.

Its secret here repoaes;

You've got to dig from week to eck

Reaulia or Roses.

- E. A. Guest.

The garden is slowly recovering from the hurricane and the heavy rain and it is beginning to look like a garden once again. It has been a busy time trying to repair the damage and visitors came be- fore the grass was dry. they said. "We thought your garden would be sheltered, and no harm would be done to it". Unfortunately. this was not so, but it could have been much worse and now it is a happy place once more.

The moisture in the soil makes it an ideal time to transplant, and sow seeds. freshly gathered: in a very few days they will be up, but this is the latest date to sow them outside. My experience has shown this. unless it is possible to protect the small plants through the win- ter and the drainage must be per-

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Seedling delphinlum are bloom- ing and it is exciting to know the lovely new colors after the care necessary when growing perennials

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A quiet but pretty wcddin . took

place at corran Benn on ondav evening August nu. when llcv. Father Wood united in mu-riage

Agnes Bernice, youngest daughter of Mr. and Mn. John Ouweli Pleasant Grove and Dennis Albert only son of Mr. and Mrs. A. E. Saunders. Mlrshncld. ,

The bride looked charming in I of pale blue lace and wore a white picture but with white accessories and corsag-, of pink rcaea.

Her only uttendent was her sla- ter-in-low Mrs. Norman Caswell Halifax. N. 3., who was attired in a. pink sheer dress with navy ac- ccssorlcll and wore a corsoge of rel roses. T

The groom was ably suppo ted by the bride's brother Norman Gas- 'well, Halifax. N. 8.

The groom's gift to the bride was a. rhinestone necklace with car rings to match, to the bridesmaid a gold necklace and to the best man a Roman lighter.

The bride's gift to the groom was a leather wallet.

For her daughter's wedding Mrs Caswell chose a flowered silk crcpr. dress with matching accessories and wore a corsage of red rose": the groom's mother, Mrs. Saunders was attired in in pastel printed silk e dress with silver fox cape and matching accessories and wore a corsage of red roses.

Following the wedding a recep- tion was held at "Sandy's Restaur- ant" whexe a sumptuous supper was served to relatives and im- mediate friends.

The wedding cake was cut in tra- ditional manner by the bride and

groom. Later the young couple left; on a

honeymoon trip to points of inter-

est ln the Maritlmes.

For travelling the b lde wore a

wine gabardine suit wth hl'lE ac-

cesorles and white top coat.

Upon their return Mr. and Mr.-'

Saunders will take up residence ill

Never before such

strong with

their new home where the groom is in business with his father.

young couple were tendered twi miscellaneous showers the recipients of many bea.itiful gifts.

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WH1l4E.therc mey be obstacles. fruatrat end tenacious obstruc- tions to plans. hopes and wishes. There is an impediment or;un- friendly lgckof support that may not be shattered by persistent. con.- fldcot and aggressive attack. with practical plans and practices Al- thoush the mentality may seem ob- aouied or co d. end the hidden foctora disconcerting. downright and unyielding force may f " b all and make way for future ac- ccmplishment.

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Those whose lbrthday it is may break down varied foims of ob- stacles. impediments and .. nal frustration and opposition. This will be accomplished by prepared- ness on sound techniques. con- structive ideas and tactics. in anti- cipation of just such-"hard row to hoe," against confused ideas. faulty reasoning. outside interference, probably from high places. or per hapa other forms of undermining. courage. confidence, should win.

A child born on this clay is the determination courage and fortitude. to win against sustained odds.

TOUGH LUCK I m: .

MEAFORD. Oni.. Aug. 28-(CP) -Waller Lambe, 21, of nearby St. Vincent Township, arrived home Sunday after six operations for injuries suffered in a train wreck at Southcsk. Alta.. last Dec. 29. Still on crutches,. he slipped.on the floor. slruck"a sewing machine and dislocated his shoulder.

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