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Dorothy Dix Letter Bo;

V/omanis Realm -:- Social and; Personal -:- Fashions -:-. Literature;

But certainly no man has a right to keep all that he makes for him- self,. because his wife by her labor in the home earns n. part of his iii- conie just as much as he does. Every faintly fortune is built up on the wife's work "Dd thrift as it is on the husband's, and in common justice slie is :ntitled to her share to be given her as an allowance, not handed

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iummage salel-I think I've done protgv well. Ive sold everything in the next room.

“car's Wlfe—You don't mean it 'l'hat‘s the helper's cloak room.

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, _____ 51mg trlpc llflS been found to con- tain valuable minerals and fl 100d value that is coingrziralh to 111111 0f the livcr anti brat: c ls‘ 1111119 11 , demand for good r comhiniixg l tripe with mart» list‘. ‘

Etiquette

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lwho married quite young.

' Q. How late should the hostess ivuu if a dinner guest is late? A. From five to fifteen minutes.

wmwlng 1"" “'1 - has bomht a home and HIP)’ 89¢ 1110118 fine- Wlml- of the house. I would go, but how can I leave these little helpless child- truly dOllCiOLLw Scgcdlsoilnmuglgsgrfxfiflwomfln p". do you tbhink of that? K. 0. ren who would have nobody to take care of them if I went? I have Answer: lnothlng, no clothfls, my husband never gives me a cent that I can C8111

A. Yes, unless the single woman

back $2 a weck. everything that he needs and runs the house.

strut Young Th1“: u» um ‘Huu Should a Man Split His Salary with His Wife?—Stepm0tlier Wlio Endures Her Husband’s Tiradcs for the Sake of His Children — Must This Wife Give Her Beloved Husband , His Freedom?

Dear Dorothy Dix-should a man turn over his entire salary to his ' ° ' ' ° ' wlfe or give her an allowance or go fitLv-filly with 1191‘? The man luakes $35 a week. own pay envelope to his wife and she gives him She buys his clothes, tobacco, She

Iknow a couple He hands his

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‘out us a dole.

Many husbands object to giving their wives an allowance, but this is not only unjust, it is poor economy, for every woman can manage her

fl" ' better 1f she knows what she has b: sp"i1d You“ like this mm laoklng model f1 fllIS '- '

immensely. The separate bolero may be made ivlth either of two {styles cf sleeves. Horizontal pin tucks glve subtle indication of the ‘normal waistline.

In many households the money question is the source of continual qnmjly rows, all of which could be saved by the husband making the [wife as liberal an allowance as he can afford for the house and for her own personal use. DOROTHY DIX.

The draped piece at the center- back is suggestive of bustle idea, as ,the chic Parlsienne wears it.

Dear Miss Dix-I married a widower with three small children. The two youngest are so small they have no recollection of another mother, and they all adore me and I love them as well as if they were my own children. My husband has a. violent temper and gets into furies over |

nothing, in which he calls me the vilest names and orders me to get out imam ‘ltmelgyrlglsxil; tldexgmlltecfiz:

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land can learn less about bridge- 113u; in the old days of the family . when the elders sat down to a rub- MOPG Bl‘l(lg‘8 be; of wlilst they did understand ——— , what they were doing. And they 111 Vfl-"~"@'i"°1 P701“ did i; well. My grandmother could “HCQI do more with a, hand of whlst than rrilflrffd ‘ Culbertson himself can do with a 111° m‘ hand of bridge today. And she bridge wash‘; anybodws highly educated ~ '1 b1’ female. she mu a lot of children "'1 11110 Lll-“Z- And and a log of trouble. But she could nbably r5311‘ wlav Whlst, tram bar: I

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“k5 t/ulrramrnt ls given away in the m‘ 1-035 headline in gycstcrdays Provincezll 411"“ to "Culbcrmsons Get High Cards and), ‘Wipe out Lead."

Well, there you are. A couple of 1's a vary “"11" hlqh school kids could get high 111141 mmmlmal cards and wipe out the lead with C"-“~l"“'l*""“'u"7‘ equal ease-and no international

racket s. v‘... "n t‘) advertising to get; their names up. pflinf. nu‘. 12a: l7!'1(l'_'l‘ l5 only; a (10- .

ilenvrate farm of the slower but‘

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in cffrci. 111" " local form of

catlnz invented to Figures just released by the fed- . r ftn-‘thc cvmmfm oral Dairy and Cold Storage ' Branch show that since 1868 a to- » jtin tn prtizlt out tal of 7,485,936,219 pounds of cheese has, been a have been made in Canada, having and a wholesale valuation of $1,014,845- xgow‘ whntfiflll.

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John Gresham’s Girl By Concordia Merrel

To hold her iii their arms; to klSS lit: f-lLllitl that 11111- - - ~ S119 5111mm have given‘ t5 t0 pmy, lllurltg privileges to L110 011E 111511 0i 0m, Ami l; all o licrs who has nothing but m of hate to give in iciurn. . . .”'And _, v ma‘, $(ll‘fl(l..lllCS, as he thought that, he <0 would ind himself standing rath- -ly before her; find his .41‘ ,-_,,-,-_\Y_ arms lather mtlchrinically dlnglng ‘p.33 Md zlzc snutll, childish form of her. l liut lilll‘ of lilSlllg hcr was gen- V, A, (gym-n ulzu: cliuizgil. l-‘iar of smnethlng i; liapptliiil; to bring his vengeful I n pllils to llculilng; that would glve

[his the sculbluilcc of real ardour to his 3 10v. mibracc, when he caught her close 1-‘ and and hcid her, dumbly, as if defy-

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he lu- rt in in; xunis, ilii‘ 1115 lcwngc- thougzht ;,;,,_,,,._;h his 'I‘iiclr wedding was a quiet one; numl; ‘it could scarcely be anything else, “(km “Vim, ,,,,,,.P n1... 1),, 5,, in the time. A few relatives and in- mm, m,“ ‘m,’ WOW-H‘ ,‘ n “A0,. linultc friends were at the church; pa“, n,“ tmtl. aftcrtvarzls, there was a small

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Pimples Burned Terribly. Face llisligjzired. llealed by Culicura.

ml izoublcd wit pimples. When they started luuil nml tiny but grew larger and were red. Later wt-n- w ry sore. The pimples burned terribly when tl n11.- face was badly disfigured. I was at a loss to

r another but nnnc of them had any effect.

'~. utul Ointment an l sent for a frec sam- u 3 and in two months l was completely a Wcstall, 129 Maynard St., Halifax,

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Q. When on after-theatre supper Ils in the home, should the same menu be served as in a restaurant?

A. Yes, if the cook kn rs flow to m» cu: it prepare it, but if she excels in any t one supper-dish, by all means serve

zhe Hamilton editorial says is true

The whole show about this bridge lflowers for tho ofIice boy or make n 111059119 1° 111° 11°55 "l" whatnot‘ eve“

gathering at Sir John's house.

|den head, her hand confidingly on 1011139- - - - ‘his arm, and the light, that never Lucy-

1‘ think it is o. 14., x. 0., u" it suits them and has worked out so satisfactorily.

and caring for them. What shall I do? Sacrifice every vcstige of res- pect by living with a man who does not want me in order to take care -—————— of these children or not? STEPMOTHER.

But the question of whether a man should turn l over his entire income to his wife or not ls one Answer: that each couple must settle individually 119133115“ I I do not see that you are called upon to make a martyr of yourself the wdom 0g doing 5o depends on so mziny diflcrcnt factors-on 110W for your stepchildren. Furthermore, you have to consider your future. much the man makes, on what sort of nuinasgci- the wife is, on whether In a little while these children will be grown and if you have stayed on. the husband ls thrifty or is one of the men with holes in their pvckvls making a living sacrifice of yourself to them, lt will then be too late for or who are easy marks for every grailer that 6011185 111°11E- And 111051 you to establish any life of your own and get into any way of support.

how the man feels about it. -——-——i—

or H“ it depends upon ___.__ Of course, lt is easy to see how the plight of these poor little children In cases where the man earns only a. small salary, merely enough 101' ‘appeals to all that is fine and beautiful and motherly in you and how 1mg family to live on with the closest management, it is doubtless often ‘difficult you find lt to make up your mind to desert them in their need, best for him to turn over his pay envelope to his wife, because in that ;but if you have the spunk to call your husband's bluff I do not think you way she can ‘budget her expenses more intelligently- Somctimes the will be parted from your babies long. wife is a better manager with money than I119 111151131111 15 and more 53:" . ~ mg; than 1; 15 a good thing for him to let her have the spending 0f 1 e ‘The men who go into violent rages, as your husband does, and who tincome. But in many other cases the wife ls extravagant and wasteful ‘abuse their wives and order them out of the house are just winrlbags who and it is foolish and wrong to give her the husband's hard-earned money jare venting their fury on those whom they bcllevc helpless to strike back.

I to throw away.

They never mean what they say. They tell their wives to get out l And, of course, there are men who are just bum Sllenllcrfi 111101 W110 because they think that they have no place to go and that they will just lie; money slip ‘hrouEh their fingers like water through a Sieve. T1195’ stick and endure it for one reason oranother.

lare the ones who are always standing l”?! 111 “My 010111-1- “m1 s“ ——————- money lo every deadbeat and who subscribe to every sort of fund t0 11y In you: case your husband thinks that you will stay on because of your devotion to the children and so he dares insult and abuse you be- whm their grocery bills are unpaid and their children lacking 511095- cause you take lt. Such men as these should certainly turn ovcr their money to their wivES-

They can never say mo", and their only protection l5 to have all 01111113’ pocketbook.

Give him the surprise of his llfe by packing up your things and leaving the very next time he orders you out. Let him come home some evening and find the ‘children crying in fright and lonesomeness and be- But, generally speaking, with men of average intelligence and with cause they are hungry and have no one to take care of them. _ Let him

‘an average close grip on their dollars, I think it is a mistake ror a man have to get supper for them and put them to bed and get up and get

to tum over everything he makes t0 his wife, just as I think it ls a mis- breakfast for them and dress them and provide for their comfort and take for a woman to turn over all of her property, when she has any. safety during the next day. Let him try to find some woman who will to her husband. Because there is nothing that gives people poise and“ come and take care of them and run his house for him, and before two dignity and self-respect so much as financial independence docs. Some- days are gone he will be on his knees begging you to return, And whm how, just to know that we have money in our pockets and esliechllly t0 you do, make ‘hlm realize that you are only going to stay with him as long know that we have a little money in the bank gives us a moral support as he gives you decent treatment.

that nothing else does.

The situation is ln your , DOROTHY DIX.

All you will need is a good still backbone. So I can't see how a man could deny himself this pleasure, but it own hands, is purely a matter of personal taste, and if he would rather take his a e 0 a o o little pin money from his wife and have his lllllChlil-llil cigarcl-lfi 111011113’ doled out t0 him by 1181'. W11)’, 1Y1 15 B- 11111111501 1111111 CDHCCYIIS 111111 11nd married for eight years. Until a year ago vso were very happy, but now nobody else. my husband has fallen in love with a ynuilg girl, and he asks me to

step in his scheme of revenge had in through the wide-open door, Lucy wasn't. surprised t0 get a been taken. The lest was a qucs-‘holding her high and trlumphly in

note from Ames saying that helion 0f B01118 °111'@1111l'. 111111118 tlme- 11.8 Stronl; arms. could not possibly be back in timu and keeping his own counsel until?

“I've carried my bride acres the to be present, a; he, wgddmg Shellie right moment. ,threslioldl" he whispered, an odd had felt, sure that he wmpq mg’ Hs thoughts going on into the excitement lending a tremor to his, come, and was gnu; wo, that he fllllllfi, pictured the moment, when voice. l decided agams; 1g he shou‘d make his grttrcst rcvela- He set her down, as the house-l

Cordelia was there and assured “'51s one o.‘ the mcn who would Followed the necessary introduc-l

I do all of the housework besides making the children's clothes I

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Size 36 requires 4% yards of 39- »iuch material. ,

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divorce him and ofIers to support me if I wlil. The girl has been to see me “"11 1°11! 11w 111a} my husband didn't love me and did love her, and said if I cared anything about him I would let him go. I haven't a. rela. tion in the world or a place to go and am no longer a mud go “an out in the business world to make a living. I have lived my whole married life for this man and am frantic at the thought of leaving him. What shall I do? n Q

Answer:

I If your husband is determined to leave you, how can you hold him? You can keep him from getting a. divorce for a little while, not long, but what will it avail you to hold his body when his heart has gone from you and to make him hate you because he thinks you are standing in the way of his happiness? '

It seems to me in such cases that the only thing the wife can do is k 1058 Out Bflllimlly and to make the best financial arrangement that she loan with he: husband. He will glve more willingly for his freedom fir?‘ the can ever be made to play as alimony, and certainly the woman wi a

Dear Dllmthy Dbkq am a ‘Wmml 35 3m" °f 95° 111151 have been lhns given years of her life to being a good wife to a man is deserving of

Vsome pay ‘or the time and labor she has devoted to his welfare and build- ing up his fortune. DOROTHY DIX.

OUR JIMMY

. , - , a * " Jocelyn Upton was another who 11m 10 1110 11111191 ‘V119 5° "dwell 1499961‘, a. stout, motherly woman“ u B bcgggd m be gX[.u5Qd_ Bu‘, Lady this girl-win; of his; to Ames who came -bHS(rl§l'~lg"-'ln-b9---thg""WldB hall.l " __ _ . _

everyone afterwards may; i; “r35 m0 have givcnllall he possessed to be tions, which seemed dream-like and’ most beautiful wedding she had in his place, But that moment unreal to Llry, still thrilling from‘ ever seen, and that as the bride and “'11s 110$ l0 be yf-t- T1136 were the grip of his arms around licr.' blv-idegmom came down the 5,1510 Oillfl‘ things to do first. What luck . , , together, to the cxultant crashing ‘11111 A111<1S 51101111 have had to be She found herself a moment 0l‘| o; the “vcddmg maschl they 100k- away! Luck? No; just the opera- two 1a‘ci-, following a, quiet, effic-l ed like the herb and heroine of a 11011 01 11 115111061 lulilliY-‘Z 11°1Di11B 1PM mad a to hcr room. Turncdl fairy tale. Hc, tall and fine with 115111? lo 11101.19 105 111° lfllllfitlec 01 back, at the . _l of the first flight‘ a, rather magnificent triumph in his rlwse three ghastly vvars- - - lyvll- of salrs. she saiv Lee standing in bearing-which she, and cvcrytjng those years were gone now; scmc- the hall looking up at her, his eyes e150, enmfly m;sing¢rpregcd_andhuw, he had livcd through them dirk and burning. I Lucy‘ 5mm and Sweet m hm- simmc and kept his sanity. Now he was When she joined him again, he| white, veil 9, mist around her gol- 901111! Vv "all the rewaid of rc- ‘tcok her out into the lovely grounds He looked down a‘. and showed her the best points of She was his. That service h's little estate. Beyond the carc-' was on 13nd or Sea m he, happy they had listcnrtl to. only a few fully-cultivated garden of gay! cyes_ she was giving horse}; to the hours ago. had made her his own. borders and velvet lawns, was a man She loved‘ and mew “.35 only Ilis lo hurt; 111* to use as a means fair-sized park. where three horses Joy 1n such Ewing of hurting others. Skies above! were grazing; a picturesque lakc. i The honeymoon was to be 5mm Lilo was brgiuillug to glve him and some untouchable woodland. at Lee's house in Hcrtfordshlrc antljwlnclhl“! C1 111$ W11 b11111! T1103’ At the back were stables, garage during the afternoon they clrovmulcllillb l0 bleak him. and it was and kcnnels, and off to One sldml there, m his big can They sat min his pnwcr to bivnk them. Ill: cottage quarters for gardeners, the back’ dgcorously M first, one had taken this lovely happy child grooms, and outdoor staff gengr. in each comer, but as they 19ft 119111 tllrm, and made her love him. ally. A large walled-in kitchen the town behind thcm, she put out No BMW/lee ever 511011911, 1°111d 81W garden and orchard. brought their a 5hy 11mg hand, the one that borc 1°‘ 113111- [liven hcrsclf. little tour of inspection to an end » - . the bright new ring, and he caughg‘; This cxultniu. mood mounted high and they walked back to the house 5 l i 1t quickly and hem l; tight _cr and higher in his heart, until he ggaln; and all the time the mood " j “Mrs. James Lee. . . . Thnt's,“'“Sl"t°X1°"l°¢1 with it. It gave hlm'of exultlng triumph had made Lee '1» your name no,“ can you realized: curious sombre brilliance; like more radlmmy hIgh-splflted than " it?" he asked abruptly. lhmllpln°sst 1"‘1*’1 111 0119*; like thtlLucy had ever seen him. She was She shook hcr head, looking uplllgh°s3 59111“ 11°91" 0“ 111B W117- Bmflltd at 1115 11181111181‘; the moves- at him, sweet-eyed and shy. lA m1‘ 11155 bllllllly lflylng b11110 than enness was gone; he talked and "Not yet’ Jim’ Bu, rm trying mlLucy, might have been deceived by ]aughed; introduced her’ Wm, a 10g; And it sounds so wonderful, docsnYtlth° way he 1mm h“ “"1? of m? 01 01111119111119 11011581150. t0 the