SUMMER CEREMONY

Rev. Cecil B. Webber per- formed the wedding cere-

mony at Central Lot 16 Uni- ted Church unitin g Evelyn Ruby Eva MacPhee, daugh-

ter of Mr. and Mrs. Wilson MacPhee. and William Leigh Paynter. son of Mr. and Mrs. Leigh Paynter. Burlington. (Photo by Heckbert Studio)

CEREMONY AT ALBERTON

Alberton United Church was the September setting for the wedding of Lorraine eldest daughter of Mr. and

6 The Guardian, Charlottetown, Sat. Oct. 3, 1964.

HAPPENINGS

Andrey Jenkins. Women's Editor: Phone 4-85“

members 0 the Dr. Peter Conroy formerly of Catholic Wom-, Charlottetown; Mr. n 3. II. Justin Brown. Pittsburg,

Fourteen Sacred Heart en's League of Alberton met at“ the home of Mrs. Ray Foley. Penn, Dr. J. B. Brown and Committee reports were Jean MacDonald of Charlotte- heard and plans finalized for storm. and Mr. and Mrs. Linus Blitz Game and Rummage SalejMacDonald of Richmond. as the month‘s projects.

Mrs. oseph Arsenault and. Mr. and Mrs. Mrs Lemuel Arsenault werejof Brantford Ont. are spend- appolnted to the visitation com-ting a few days in Montague, mittee. Increased members'iiplguests of his parents. Mr. wash stressed. ngs. Don Reilly and his sister

'1‘ e United Appeal was the and brother-in-law. Mr. and subject ofa brief :alk by Mrs.;Mrs. Gerald Landry.

Ronald MacK i n n o n. Refre- i

shments were served by thei October's project for th committee in charge. ortune United Church Women .will be 3 Bring - And - Buy

Friends and relatives gath-isale. This was decided by the ered at the home of Mrs. Wil-l 27 members who met recently 113m J .S DetlsRocgieest ofbeMiszgoti-i ﬁt them home of Mrs. JocelinI Cof- c e on un ay, pem r o: in. e v151 ors were wecom- honor her on her 92nd birthday. ed. 1Among those present were her. Devotions were led by Helda :daughter. Rev. Sister St. Em-iDingwell assisted by Pearle imanuel. and her sons. Judge J.: Dingwell. Marjorie Stead wil ; Aisoc'hes. Michael and conduct the Oct. worship ser-

so present were Mrs. J. vice. - sRoches and Mr. and Mrs. Reports from the supply and ‘ A. F. Gormley of Charlottetowni correspondence secretaries were After an enjoyable trip to the; received, and it was agreed Acadian Museum the visitors- mat the Memoriai Book be had digger at the home of her' brought up to date.

Ison. n W. DesRoches.

William Reilly

1 Ben. S. De

Mr. and Mrs. Lyman Nichol- Brlan MBCBetlI. Fwderlc-lson (nee Gail MacLean) were ion. .13. was a weekend visi-“ tendered a post - nuptial shower tor to his home at Whim Road. in Whim Road' hall last week. Pi and white streamers l Maurice MacMasier has re- and cut flowers were used to l tCurnedt to hisf‘ilome in gun d a s;decoraie the hall, . en re a er spening two . weeks vacation in Labrador, Mr‘ and.M.rs' N‘dhnl'sm were Maine. shown to tieir se ats by Rob- erta Campbell and Donald Clarey. Gifts were opened by

Maureen Driscou and Jlld‘V‘Marjorie Cla rev and Carol ' . 1 t v, . i wane Char one mm “fin MacPher s o n. Mrs. Forban i

Bears read the verses while lMrs. ged the gifts.

Guests at the home of Mr. and James campbeu "ram

Mrs, Harold Rogan ’I‘ignish. and the home of Margaret Con-. Lunch was served and an my were: Mr. and Mrs. Johngevening of dancing was enjoy-

ed with music by Leslie Stew- art. Stanley Bruce and Marga- ret Matheison.

R. Conroy of North Bat-

iGoltz. Columbus. Ohio: Barris- ter . ' gtleford, Sask.. oldest son of

Will Reside In

St. John The Baptist Church. Miscou c h e. was decorated with mixed ﬂowers and ' lights and pews marked with white satin bows and lilies of the valley for the marriage of Iris Anne Gallant, RN, daugh- ter of Mr. and Mrs. D. H. Gal- lant, M-iscouche, and Justin Leonard Murray, son of Mrs. James Murray and the late Mr. Murray. Augustine Cove.

ev. J. D. Kelly was the of- i ficiating clergym a n. Soloist | Patsy L a p pin of Charlot- ‘tetown sang "Mother At Your Feet Is Kneeling" and “O

LELLEN’S DIARY

1 October’s Lavish Hand . Spills Her Golden Hues

Though an Auto m n cool-i "October with a lavish hand. lness ti‘iese mornings lies with-i now 5 ils

lout, we can still. when break- 1 Her wine .fasting. enjoy the view beyond. the hills:

fthe open i glass) door from ourilt splashes on the slopes and .table: see the day fresh and blends into

lnew along the fields, catch alRich colorings of almost every .‘gllmpse of the old mill. gray-.’ hue: igabled amid its trees in the} Deep red and russet. orange. low of the valley: see the cows] yellow, jade.

and their younglings on pasture Grape - blue. and green. and in the near meadow. watch t e brown of every shade: robins and sparrows that. a- And in the valley hand, like foot or on wing, are about. filmy mis .

An appetizing aroma of she, Her veils of opal. blue and ame- meal lingers in the kitchen: of! thyst the steaming porridge. of R089 - bread that has been toasted seems over the coals. and the tea. All earth is drowsy Will! I Wine we ave steeped. And catchingiI 0f dreams- the scent of the latter. we are re-§ I think that somewhere on membering that once upon a' around the Throne. time when we as a little girl. Godv, cup of glory must b". mus;I prepare a me our overﬂow";- in ers absence, uneasy lest this beverage’ 63033;: ligand” _ mm — should be under - or - perhaps? 8

grey and violet. until it

p l of ﬂame and gold upon .

Lord I am Not Worthy". and was accompanied by Mrs. P. C. Martin of Miscouche. Given in marriage by her fa- ther, the bride wore a floor length gown of white faille taf- feta with een Anne Collar and neckline of chantilly and sequins, fitted bodice bouffant hooped skirt featuring side effects of Palonaise ‘drap- ing trimmed with scalloped

mg to points over the hand.

I-ler shoulder length bonf- fant scalloped veil was held in place by a cluster of roses and lilies of the valley. She earned a casca e and whito roses and trailing ivy.

The maid of honor was Mary Gallant, RN. C h a rlottetown. classmate of the bride. She wore a street length dress of tur-

. JUSTIN MURRY

Couple Wed In Miscouche

quoise peau de sole with bell

MARY HAWORTH

DEAR MAIRY HAWORTH: I

over - steeped. bewhiske-l and Blair Gordon. only son Ted “Site! of the time. noticth of Mr. and Mrs. Gordon "UT concern had advi us Warren. Mill River. They kindly. "When you can catch _, now reside in Toronto. the 5 C G “t 05 the Sleeping lead ' (Photo By Heckbert Studio pngyrdieﬁr; then it in high time to‘ '-

Mrs. Lorne Leard. Alberton,

PAQUET-KEARNEY VOWS

In. .1. Francis Malone-y recent mar-

end Mrs. Albert Kearney. Charlottet o w n. and the groom the son of Jose ph Pequot end the late Mrs. Pa~ quot. Sonris. Mr. and Mrs. Paquet are living in Charlottetown.

A lfrom former times. the rural .. is

And pouring it these morn- ings. we hear the first movings of our day: a great truck rum- bles by. A car takes someone ' off to work. A closing door of ai \ ‘ machine in the yard, indicatesi 7 v i the one girl of this farm is off to join other lassies of the com- ‘munity in that daily outing which takes them to college or. office. A car easing on e hill. : is the mailman stopping atj Mr. C's mailbox, because. in. ' a new and pleasant departurel

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deliveries on th

come early to lons‘ ends. A plane follows a course through "trackless waste" of morning sky. And hearing it pass. we wonder whether or not it is us here in the quiet of an Is-

LORRAINE DONNA]!

Guest Speaker

land farmhouse, serving an - husband his breakfast. or ilhe convention travellers there, who. after

The Atlantic Home Economics convention on the. theme "o heritage— a foundation for the future", is scheduled for Char- lottetown from October 8 to 10 at the Charlottetown Hotel.

Two of the principal speakers during the sessions will be'Lor- raine Donnais. McCall Pattern

all. have "perpetual holiday." "It would be good. Ellen. if we could get to our harvest- ing" James offered, topping with e move of the left hand the egg in the old glass container. which to use. or to see used. is a curiosity to the children. "But it's only good sense to leave it the extra day Corporation, New York. a n d or so to ripen on the stalk. Mrs. John MacLean. Eirreka. Better to wait. than to have it: N,s,

spoil in the granary! What we] Mm Donna‘s. an educational there — well, my. , V my m mat-o representative. presenu “boo. ' Dmgl‘a'ms. callege workshops

Today leaves drifted down. and fashion shows in Canada. Fell from willow and maple to: She is a graduate of the Univer- be playthings for th e little‘ sity of Alberta. and has had ten- winds in the yards. Over th ei ching experience in Alberta. Her fields and up and down the val-- topic will be "trends in clothing ley. Autumn was spreading design and emu-“aim”, bright shades. In sure strokes of M", Macks“ will dual" ﬁhbm'hv l“ d9“ much“ 5 "the home economist and the

ere amid the evergreens, a community" A mum. in m} little more there. to leave the ‘ gr - complete picture very lovely. {5:7 "inch me worked '1".

And the i headquarters in Geneva.

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strongly suspect that I am suf- fering from a complaint com- mon to middle-aged wives and

mothers . .

Basically I feel unloved. un- appreciated and unneeded. which can't be so. since nothing at home runs very smoothly or well when I am away . . .

Most people don't need or ex- pect constant praise or rees- surance from family and-or friends; so why do I? I want to go out and do ood works. but then I wonder just what. value. that I could offer. I truly despise my almost total lack of

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' Iimtiative . . . v . My sensitive feelings keep me . ‘ln trouble. uncertain how I am ‘iaft‘ecting others. I find

I myself laffirming things which I know are wrong. because I’m unwilling to risk disapproval. Is this any

My childhood was rather pleasant. hough lonely at times. Family affection was

was the younger child and my parents seemed grateful that I behaved as they wished me to.

Maion Is Wisifully Sad Over Lack Of Confidence

v outspoken and able.

child. you bet! to please your} parents. You took for granted! that this achievement was your only rightful title to their ap- proval, appreciation. gratitude. etc.: in short. to their love and tance.

The truth is. of course. that children are entitled to reassur- ing love and acceptance (in ample consistent supply) simply because they exist. and because this emotional nurture is just as essential to their overall health and growth as whole- some food is for their stomaches. It may be. too. that you felt dumny outranked. outrivaled and permanently overshadowed (so that efforts to excel] seem useless from the first) in your family relationship to the older child (you identify yourself as “the younger"). Perhaps he (or she) was the parents‘ favorite. It could be unconsciously very significant that you give no de- tails whatever of your formative history in the little sister role. Perhaps seems. to our silently wounded spirit. a chap- ter of discouragement too e- pressing to face again. storehouse of your early memories and emotions. Assuming the foregoing to be somewhat the pattern of your childhood conditioning. it could follow that you might become a markedly self—contained passive person (on the surface). afraid to make a move on your own in- initative, or stick your neck out in lively debate, lest you find yourself mow own, so to speak. in the court of family opinion.

It is my impression that you

ality had developed along of natural inclination. you would have shaped-up leader type. aggressively ambitious,

But due to family pressures and persuasions. hopefully in- tended to “bring you up in the right way." you may have lost

Bowmanville

shaped skirt and matching headdress and shoes. Her bou- quet was a semi- cascade 0' white carnations and shasta daisies.

Gerald McCarten. Oshawa, 0nt., was best man: Clarence Gallant. brother of the bride, and Duncan Hughes were ushers.

For the reception at Miscou- che Legion the bride's mother received wearing a gold bou- cle linen two - ' dress with black and gold accessories and a corsage of bronze mums.

The groom's mo wore pale blue chiffon over taffeta and a corsage of rose carnat- ions. The bride’s grandmother wore a navy dress with w h ite carnation corsa'ge.

For a honeymoon to points of interest in the Maritimes the bride wore a white mohair two piece s uit with blue hat and blouse and black accessories.

The newlyweds ' reside at Bowmanville. Ont.

Out of province guests inclu- ded Mrs_ James Murray. Tor onto, Mr. and Mrs. Fra nk Murray. Toronto, Mr. and Mrs, Emile Arnold. Boston. Mr.

and Mrs. Albert Gallant. Mur- .

dockville. Que. Mr. M r s . Eugene Q n i ii n. Fredericton. . B. Maureen Commeford. Gerald MacCairten.

so my disposition is sympathetic rather than resent u . .

My marriage is rated very happy; our home life is often praised for its character. I don’t believe I am jealous of my bus- band or children and their suc- cess. though envy their self-

touch with your original inborn deaf": .crneing. and thus got involved in a lifelong stalemated struggle between potential you and the artificial mold into which you were squeezed. This might explain why you despise and reject the showing you make. even though others offer no criticism.

Have you tried analytic help? t seems to me the downright

MRS. irony HARDY

90’rh Birthday Observed By Mrs. W.E. Hardy, York

all the trimmings. S e r vi n g were Mrs. Robert Mutch, Mrs. Malcolm MacLauchlan, Elmer Mallett. Mrs. Reginald Parkman and Margaret Mallett.

(Photo by Margaret Mallett)

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A family gathering to honor Mrs. W.E. Hardy. now in her 90th year, was held last week at the home of her son-in-law and daughter. Mr. and Mrs. Harold Watts. York.

Present on the occasion were "Aunt Lily's" nieces and nep- hews residing in the province, and also her sister—in-law. Mrs Ambrose Mallett.

Words of warm tribute were spoken in an address by Mrs. Reginald Parkman. and th e presentation of an electric blanket was made by Mrs. Am- brose Mallett.

Familiar music selections were enjoyed as Mrs. George Shaw played the piano and Mrs Wallace Mallett ledthe singing.

Refreshments included ice cream and a birthday cake with

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ll. BENNETT CARR

Insurance Counselling

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applroach to discovering “the a ..

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Mary Haworth counsels thr- ough her column. not by mail or personal interview. Write her in

care of (The Guardian).

IN MEMORIAM

In loving memory of Mrs. Edward Doyle who passed away October 4th, 1961

MEMORIES KEEP YOU EVER NEAR US. Ever remembered by the family.

The "GOOD L'IL ANGEL" Talks to

MR. FARMER

Household Hints

A rubber shelf cushion on the floor of the coat closet catches drips from ralncoats and, rub- bers comes clean with e sudsy cloth.

Come to us first for first rate repairs. All appliances re~ paired safely and quickly! And our rates are low!

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confident ability to make friends and attract people. I doubt that. I’m fun to be with and I feel. sad about this . . . l

wistfully I truly behave I look older‘ than my husband (a virile,i

youthful, outgoing person). who a much too sweet to suggest. such a thing. But it could hardly escape his notice (or the child- ren’s) . .

Should I not completely out-of- ’ character and splurge on a new' wardrobe? I feel too unworthy to E merit major expenditure on my; appearance. But maybe charity. does begin at home in this in- stance . . .

I want to and must help my- self. Healthwise I am in fine shape. my doctor says. Please guide me to more self-assurance and selfesteem. so that ‘I can more fully enjoy this wonderful world . . . When hurt. I hide my feelings.

OCIALS

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Cooler temperetupres and turning leaves indicate that the in l 1. social season is here.

The Guardian - Patriot Wo- men’s Editor will be happy

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far too much for my own good.

False pride, perhaps? How

I e people who aren‘t ashamed to show their hurt (but I don't respect them) 1.. . . In this at all

revealing7—P. . Basically. the

L‘ll Angel:

Mr. Farmer: haven’t

L‘ll Angel:

Dear P.I-‘.: pitch seems to be that. as a

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Mr. Farmer:

L'il Angel:

to mail

u home for e weekend or holiday from school or college. you are being hostess to your club meeting in the near future. if you are e Months. having visitors. taking a trip or have held a shower. or “y 11 port in any social ecitv-

'l‘henunterism.

o“ “'79::sz 2:? wing Switzerland. prior to her mar-

“ a mm of win. riege. She speaks six languages, mg am. A mm," week is a member of the National it was. But. by this. the thought amen“! Cmmn' “d m” W. m dent of the Nova Scotla Wom-

here. And October will con. en's Institutes.

done one the oo- onomic curricnhm. architec- ture in present day .

image of home economics. and today'- 's obel-

tinue Autumn's loveliness. As Other topics scheduled for GI!- someonehusaid: “ coeston or talkld theses- \‘cx

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easy it

Mr. rennet: L'll Angel:

Mr. Farmer, can you hel us. We’re tryin ' United Fund p g to make our Agencies can carry on $258,483 to October 20th.

I’d like to help. L’il Angel, but you know that we farmers cash is pretty hard to find these do I know. Mr. Farmer. so what we suggest is that on decide 1 how much you’d like to give 27 A y your payments out over the year ii any way you want. You can give us postdated cheques or sign a card telling us when you'd like to make your payments. Just remember Fair Share Plan, one hour‘s income per month.

That wouldn‘t work. L‘ll Angel. I’m no bookkeeper and‘ I’d forget.

Oh no you woldn‘t,'Mr. Farmer, 'cause we are all set up Okay, L’il Angel, you’ve sold me. I'll do it.

mnklyou Mr. Farmer. that makes you a good L'il Angel Mr. ﬁrmer: 'Aw, gee. shucks. L'il Angel.

ThlsAdverﬁsemomPMshedliylocol

campaign raise enough money so that 27 their good work. This amounts to and the campaign runs from September 24th

incomes like the office workers and ya.

got regular

ncies and then spread

you a little reminder so you dfm‘t forget. See how

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