MARY HAWORTH

Eighth Grader A Tough m For Teachers

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above their storm inconsisten- though you probably were rlgh cies a... h l th’em stabilize meet“ at the LN." Rooms' in the recent instance. in aiding their efforts to “test their wings. M” A h ‘ '9

with the 13-year-old girl ho feels harshly misunderstood and rejected by her mother. i think? it might be useful to underscore’ the difficulties of being 13. ‘ I am the mother of three girls. presently undergoing my sec- ond experience as mother of a 13-year-old. . My eldest. who had been fun to live with prior to reaching age 13. spent nine months of that year coldly despising me. ow my second daughter is enduring a stormy 13th year,

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This is the adolescent season

of painful conflicts and suffer- he

ing cries of “You are embar- rassing me unbearably! my husband and I discovered in rearing our daughter.

My advice to AR's mother is: Try to understand the forces that rage in her. ignore the storms as much as you can in good conscience. Find cause for praise. Know that “This too will pass."

My advice to AR: Know that

Condlelighting Service Held By lslo-nd LOA

' Crystal Chapter No. 25 of the IDA held their regular monthly K kwood Drive. Willis presided over the busi- ss rti . 3 Several donations were giveni for charitable purpose a ndl cards sent to sick and shut-ins. At the close. a cand-lellgbting service took place and several readings were given. Those tak- ing part were: Florence Ross. Annie Willis, Florence Gillespie. Emma A ida rehaut, Rena Mur p h y. Alice Jewell. . Mae Adams, Doris Scott andl Jessie Latter as narrator. 1 Santa distributed gifts to all!

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laity—the angry young men—

edge to the old. lished Church of England. Right now, they say.

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— A gingerllaity to have a much group of frustrated clergy and‘role in running things.

are fighting to restore a cutting clergy and laity are state-estab-.happy about the slow pace of

‘ some of [laugh at the Church. some re- Ramsey.

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larger

among both not too

Som radicals

reform set by the Archbishop Canterbury. Dr. Michael

He has been criticized for his

baptize their babies, get mar- attitude in the Honest to God ‘ed their dead. andlcontroversy, when he rebuked some get along without it all‘Dr. John Robinson. the Bishop Practising Chris-‘of Woolwich. who wrote a best- no more than to selling in that maybe the old idea of a

paperback ' suggesting

swinging like a pendulum from {gun mothefi cares about your imtbayntlgggegmiesmzioviegi MR. AND MRS. GARY BRENTON MERIDETH iBrimn today. personalized God wag gm of model behavior. to tearful. tiogzlnggfi i er :psets.“sugges- mine“. Sadie Hyde 5nd Doris 3 To these angry young m te and some new thinking on downtrodden. depressed. non— sentvcon 08;“. cha rgpre- o . I, he Church of England seemslthfiOlWY “'55 “9° 9

co-operative whining. to flam- ing 16:33:; or 331:0 our "c' Organist for the meeting wast saddled with an outdated “5.1 There is no reason why the

ing flaring accusations that I

lessons. charm school courses, etc., i-

Mrs. Myrtle MacPhai-l and Mrs

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tem. trying desperately to catch “ChblShOP

(or anyone else)

“don't love her." “ teve . . . . h . B U ' d h u with shim ti should accept John Robinson's thing on he”. etc. w glclate she is domg her best to {$291 watts for the candleligh eganges in :fcigffimm‘g 2:: theology'y “Tot-e peter White.

In iscuasing with teachers 9" you mat—DI“ The next meeting will be held} . not. they say, against authority‘leyi 8" '“hhemlal lay Member the problems of the eighth grad. Mary. H l W 01" h counsels anuary 21 when an election andl l—though some have cr'iticiredé"f the Church Assemhly' "l ,‘he er (the 13-year-olds) I've been throulvh her-001011111. not by ml“ installation of officers will taker ithe Archbishop of CanterburylAhghcah "WWW Prismv ‘hut told that it is almost uniformly 91' Dmonal interview. erte her place and reports given of thisl being about reforms..Dl'. Ramsey has never really

a difficult year. the crux of the crisis having to do with th e child's necessity to rebel. to be contrary, to break the mold. to begin his move towarik adult-

1n care of The Guardian.

year’s work.

Approximately 125 people ga-

-thered at t h e l

Brae Unitedi

Church all to celebrate the re-l opened by Mrs. Ivan Leard and congratulatory messages read

cent Golden Wedding anniver- sary of Mr. and Mrs. Harry MacKinnon.

he hall was decorated with

friends from Summerside Alberton.

by Lorna MacKinnon.

Mrs. James MacKinnon pour-

and .3 Individual gifts were i

vice-presidents.

ish and People started out some 15 years ago with the idea of

The ginger group, called Par-i

fact they claim 35 Anglicangshown .that_he is aware of the bishops among their honoraryihheeds It med ‘0 meet or Why

e book has meant so much to so many peop e."

Whiteley denied that there was any widespread Canter-

ed and was assisted by Mrs. Jo- shua MacArthur. Verna Mac- .bells. and vases of cut. flowers.tA,-thur and Audrey MacArthur i The lace - COVCI‘Ed dining table‘ served tea while Mrs. Kenneth ;was cent re d by a, three tier Dawson replenished,

ibury-must-go movement in the lChurch but he referred to “a groundswell of unease and dis- illusionment developing among the younger clergy and laity."

and.

My two 13-year-olds complain- ed in turn (like AR) of my em- phasizing their faults in the presence of others. I accepted

spreading new ideas about the

lyellow and white streamers and] . . liturgical movement sweeping

urope. Rev. Eric James. a young

MR. AND MRS. H. B. SHERREN

t"iNoi/or Scotio HoneymoOn Follows Church Wedding

7 weddin at South End Out - of - town guests includ- laAptist c hgu rch. Dartmouth. led Mr. and Mrs. Gus NS. recently united in marriage ; Sydney. CB. and Ela Margaret Rose Myra. daughterlellan o' Ottawa. Ont. of Mr. and M r s . Robert (Photo by Snider, Halifax) ra of 56 Fenwick Street.. Dartmouth. NS. and Harri s o n' Blaine Sherren. son of Mr“, Florence Campbell and the late Captain William Douglas Sher- ren. MBE. of 6 Old Ferry Road. Dartmouth. NS The ceremony Was performed by J. Will i a mi SC it ‘

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Renovations To Vestry

0- c | d ’ Given in marriage by hei; p ' ther. the bride wore a stree . ' . angth, white embossed taffetai ’The Summerfield Parish Coun- wn with scalloped neck 1 i n e icil of the Catholic Women s Lea and long sleeves. Her headdress. gue .decided at the December a pearl tiara. held a waist length , meeting held at the home of Mrs. Veil of white net, and she carried Gerard Allen. ‘0 PurChase a it bouquet of red roses and lily Bond. and to forward payment 'ef the valley. jfor Nationatlt repotrtib V The bride's attendants. Mrs. com‘ 99 ° “'35 all" * Marie Taylor. matron of honor, Domed l0 50“ 100 1’9“? lOfSChO‘ "land Frances Myra. bridesmaid. ’93:“;65 for the WOW-“€13 Pee“ were owned identically in knee. - ‘lengthgdresses cf brocade satinl The ways and me)!“ convene; with chiffon overblouses. a n d i whorl“ that the “‘19 eh"? fh arried deep roses and blue car- ' VCSh’Y t1001‘s had been renovati- ations and mums. Their head- ahd the buying commth resses were of m a t c hing net ‘f’lgssa‘tgitmcmd to buy runners d brocade. The flower girl. _- . . alerie Myra. wore a gold dress Ah ahtl‘v‘le 0“ the 1mmhfihlgée 'Ehnd cape‘of embossed bengaline. ic°hc?Ph°h “’35 head hfi’dt eJ ' .‘f Hubert Sherren brother of the rhcah‘mal °°hvehe"- '75- 05' mm was best man and ush-l era w e r e Robert and ‘ a'aylor and Bruce MacKenziel of Halifax. v : The receptio n Woodside Fire hall

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It was decided to present a spiritual bouquet to a mem- who is ill. and to pack Christmas was held at boxes for needy families.

Dartmouth. V The altar committee for Dec-

‘ember is Mrs._ ge Hughes {and Mrs. Patrick Girley. ‘ The January meeting will be theld at the parochial house.

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'I‘he bride's mother received. wearing a two piece aqua bro- ;eade satin dress with

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o d necessories and a corsage of yel-

ses. . ' The mother of the groom chose ro-

»_ ade, with matching feather liatl IIONDON (CPl — Commut- d wore a corsage of pinkiel‘s travelling home from Lon- . oses. tdo 's aterloo station found

For a honeymoon trip throughllhey were golnl we“ “Stead 0‘

ova Scotia. the bri e wore aiso eve , the driver hite wool dress and white hat stopped the train and the 600 ith fur stole and red accessor. passengers were returned to

Waterloo when it was found a signnlman had blundered.

e Ifouple will reside inl [

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_ now at the woes of her 13th year

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the correction, though isn't easy to be always on guard in the matter and find subjects for so- cial discourses that d on’t

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arouse "touchy" reactions in

The Guardian, Charlottetown, Sat, Dec. 26, 1964. 7 j M

Miss Thirteen.

I. too. have scored against Miss Thirteen's whining refus- al to help with a younger sister's homework. by getting someone else to pinch hit. only to find the

Audrey Jenkins. Women

HAPPENINGS

’a Editor. Phone 4-8506

whiner virtuously offering help no longer needed. This can be the last straw to nearly any ex- asperated mother. and appar- ently was in AR's case.

My eldest daughter 1 a u g h s

and the c u r r e n t 13-year-old agrees that it is a rough year. I am not a perfect mother. though I am a loving one, and I don‘t change during their 13th year— except that they give m ore cause for irritation!

Now. to add a bit of advice to yours: Mothers. be extra-affec- tionate. companionable and en- couraging during your 13-year- old's good spells. to compensate for the bad times when she is impossible and you are impat- ient. Daughters. hang on; soon you‘ll be 14 and things will be, better; meanwhile. your moth- er loves you more than y ou know. Sincerely. T.F.

Dear Mary Haworth: Apropos:

the 13-year-old girl's plea for help in overcoming her moth- er's alleged dislike of her. I am moved to remind you that most girls between the ages of 12 and 15 undergo great emotional dif- ficulties at home.

I teach girls of this age group in my modeling and c school. And I find that each of students feels. in varying degree. that her mother is hos- tile to her.

The student's side of the story often sounds as if the mother's attitude is potentially destrucs tive or obscurely competitive. But in the rare instances when the other side tthe mother's side) is heard. the overall pic- ture looks vastly different.

You see a mother driven al- most out of her wits by her dau- ghter’s resentful misconstrue- tion of almost anything and ev-

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Mrs. Walter Gregor was pre- sented with a gift recently in recognition of her services as or- ganist of Cornwall United G.W. MacMillan read an original poem and Mrs. Reg. MacEwen made the pres- entation on behalf of the choir members. A social time was en- joyed at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Hazen Howard. l Betty Ching. RT. P.E.I. Hos- pital, spent the weekend at her home in Black Pond.

Phyllis MacDonald. daughter of Mr. and Mrs. A. MacDonald. Panmure Island. is visiting her sister and brother-in-law. Mr. and Mrs. George Jamieson. Markham. Ontario. Before re- turning home she plans to spend some time with her sister Carol who is on the staff of St. Jos- eph's Hospital. Toronto.

Mr. and Mrs. Herbert Mac- Leod, Dundas. and Mr. and Mrs. James Banks. Annandale, are enjoying their stay in Montague where they are residing at Hill-

ly of Souris. P.E.I.. recently ce-I

niversary. when they received' congratulations from friends near and far.

Mr. and Mrs. Wilson Daws of Sea View are spending the winter in Charlottetown.

Harvey Freeman, student at

-Mt. Allison University. is spend-

ing the holidays at his home i Cardigan with his parents.

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Mrs. Jennie MacKenzie. Mon- tague. had as her guests recent ly her son Dan and his fiancee Louise Anderson. RN. Ottawa.

Donald MacCarron. stu St. Dunstans Universi spending the holidays in Hall-

fax, guest of his aunt and uncle. r. and Mrs. Fred Lafford.

dent at y is

Peggy Ann Aitken. teacher at Brindstone. Magdalen Islands, P.Q.. recently visited with rela- tives at Whim Road

Mrs. Lloyd Cann. has return-

side Inn for the winter months.

Mr. and Mrs. Harry Caseley, Kensington, and Frances Hen- derson. Moncton, have returned from a trip to Boston. Mass. They were accompanied by Mrs. Henry Henderson. Margate who is visiting her sister, Mrs. Bessie Buzzell at Lynn. Mass.

Sterling Robertson. Oshawa.| is spending the Christmas and New Year's holidays with h i 5 parents. Mr. and Mrs. John W, Robertson, Kingsboro. '

Mr. and Mrs. Ernest S. White of Ralfmoon Bay. B.C.. former-

ed to Northam after visiting in Lower Montague with her mo-

ther, Mrs. John R. MacKenzie,

white and gold anniversary cake,

dies and mixed flowers.

Cuests were welcomed by rs. Lorne MacNevin. while. L o r n a MacKinnon circulat—i

ed the guest book. Followmg the} MacLean and Mm Ivan Leard. e Ralph Lidstone. Mrs

on. Mrs. Harris Ro- rrison MacLeod. Albert Wallace, Mrs. WaJ- d

cutting of the cake. Mr. and Mrs.i acK i n non seats of honor. Remarks were made by Rev.f David Hamilton. who also read‘ a telegram of congratulations

and Lee L a ybourne. ; Saskatchewan.

Gifts were presented by Mrs. . Lorne MacNevin on behalf of the children and grandchildren. presentation was also made by Mrs. Harris Rogers from the ‘Brae United Church Women.

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i laddress and m a n y gifts were ipresented by Charles Caseley =and Hillard MacKinnon on

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Bedeque Club Holds Meeting

Plans to remember shut-in members ove r the holidays ;were considered at the Decem- ;her meeting the Bedeque i “Half Century" club. held at the home of Mrs. George Hend- EI‘SOII. . Vice- president. Mrs. Percy fAfflcck presided, d nine

members answered the roll call f with receipts. a quiz and poetry. i Mrs. Edwin MacFarlane read ' the opening poem -— "Life". an

were escorted to: UC

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neth Ellis, Mrs. Fred Rennie, Mrs.

assisted by members of W — Mrs. Mrs. Ellsworth Thomas, Robert Oult .gers, Mrs. i Mrs.

lebrated their 40th wedding am; from Jeanette, Harold, James ter wedlock. Mrs. Roy Oulton cut the anni-

;versary cake which was bake i a . Musical entertainment w a lsupplied by Warren Leard, M land Mrs. Bann

M _ N 1 M KB I. d Read. Charles Caseley, Lloyd rs e1 M y ea an MacKay a n d Nelson Mugridge. Several solos were sung by‘ Mr. Read and Mr. Webb. Mr 5.; . half of relatives and friends from‘l we“) was orgam“ for the Slhfl‘v

i Brae and I - t - ' 1 .ing of a number of older songs.i C° ema" d'5 "as a “I favorites of Mr. and Mrs. Mac- ' non

The following day a number of

friends who were unable to at- m Gm, Gmde Paok' tend the celebration called at* “5‘5th 1“ H" ceremony home and congratulatory w?" guide leaders Mm Edge; messages were received. I‘D’I‘xmwwilg' a?“ 3m" an Mr. a d Mrs. MacKinnon rTsfie {:11 r on 5 tnee Lily Adams) were the first rolled: aye Bruce. Reamer”

lcouple to be married in the pre- l sent St. Peter‘s Anglican Church xley River. on Dec. 8. 1914

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. Their children iEva Mrs Lorne

lBrae: Allan who lost

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assisted ‘ by Mrs. Lawson MacNevin, Mrs. flanked by white and gold can- Mo 1- t o n Caseley and M r s .

Mac Refreshments i were served by Mrs. K e n - Lorna MacKinnon,

rid decorated by their daugh- A ter. Mrs. Lorne MacNevin.

r. Webb. W i l mot l

iWorld War II. while in the ser-

vicar with a crowdedparish in

Camberwell, s o u t h London. gave up his job there to become Parish and People's first full- time director. For nine months he as been stumping the coun-

ganized in every dioc . “The whole idea is in the world." he says. “People must know what it means to be edicated in the world today."

STRESSES LAITY

Parish and People is com- mitted to government of the hurch by a single synod in- s‘stead of the ilAssembly. It also wants the

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vicar with a crowded parish in'

try, getting small‘ groups or-‘

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1 Space Travel l ls Described t Total Failure

ese. i to get the BRUSSELS (Reuters) — A Church to think and survive outi leading Belgian biochemist was

quoted here as saying the Americans and Russians are concealing the fact man's space travel has been ‘a total fail- u ."

The L l e g e newspaper Lo Meuse said Professor Marcel Florkin, 64, claimed recently

Kingsboro Guide Ceremony Held

A number of girls were enrol-

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Claire Rose, J ‘ Patrnel

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Dixon

Rose. Karen Coffin, Dell Dixon, Margaret Rose. Heather Robert- son. Connie Ching. Sheila. Div; . a Roberts. M3°Nevmr Debra Dixon. Gaelyne MacGre- gor. Barbara Dixon. Alice Rose. Ruth McVane. Beverly Dixon. ivice of the RCAF overseas. and Bonita Boone“. Cam]

d . Fred. who at present is a pa- Wanita Boerbein and Brenda'

the Russians and Americans know that a moon tripby man is impossible for some time.

The paper said the scientists made the following points in a recent private meeting at Sensing, near Diego in eastern Belgium: , "Man's space travel has been 5"a total failure." The Russians and the Americans know it. but conceal the fact.

A man could not live more than five days in a state

owing guides were en-lweightlessness and “it is use-

ess to send him to the moon as he would be dead on arri- val.”

All astronauts have undergone great physical harm and now suffer from mental trouble.

The paper reported Florkin said Russian spacewoman Val- entina Terechkova now is "in very abnormal phychic state."

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t tient in a Toronto hospital where he recently underwe nt . surgery. They have three grand-

who is convalescing at her homel the collectors for the tre e_ after bein g a patient in the lights reported success in their Kings County Memorial hospi- 9 0X15 i . . . .

8L Mrs. Ernest and Mrs. Orvillelcmldren' Shirley Luna" Johnson provided the program.

which consisred of contests and “0‘

Mr. and Mrs. Alex J. Mac-

and which were served by guid- Allan MacKinnon. Nobel. Onta- es, Barbara. Beverly and ' ‘Dixon and Bonita Boerte

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MacGregor. Following die ceremony t he guiders prepared refreshments

Charlottetown. PE 1.

Sun Life of Can-ii

Christmas poems Next meeting will be held ati the home of Mrs. Percy Affleck.I Refreshments were served by:

the hostess

cookies every day for the bal- ance of this week. Keep close- covered in separate containers. Arrange an assortment in cooky canisters or jars for Christmas gifts. You will like our pecan-

Pherson and daughters Arlene and Wendy of Bellevue. left Tuesday to spend the holidays with their daughter and son-in- law. Mr. and Mrs. Robert Mac- Pherson. _Weymouth. Mass. They were accompanied to Boston by Mrs. Sadie MacKinnon. Brook- ln; Richard MacRae. Cherry Valley. and Malcolm MacLeod of Bellevue.