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Janet Lee MacDonald is the future bride of Stephen Jud- son Harper. She is the daugh- to- of Dr. and Mrs. Wendell MacDonald of Charlottetown, and her fia n c e is the son of Mrs. Ivan Harper_o_f this

JANE

STEPHEN HARPER

N OCTOBER

city, and the late Major Har- per. The ceremony will take place at Zion Presbyterian Church. Charlottetown on Sat- urday, October 3, at 11.30 am

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The Guardian, Charlottetown, Thurs, Sept. 10, 1964. 7

Dear Mary Haworth: Our dau- ghter, 22, got married at 18, lagainst our wishes, instead of 'going to c olle g e. Now, four years later and 1500 miles away from us, she is divorcing her husband.

They are both nice people: in- telligent. honest. conscientious, kind. Both greatly enjoy music. They met in a Little Theater group. They both have high re-

gard for “fami y.

IMARY HAWORTH

Lot 16, a cousin of the bride. was matron of honor, and Diane MacPhee. sister of the bride. was bridesmaid. Miss Baglole wore a street length dress of deep rose pink nylon over taf- feta. and the bridesmaid was gowned in pale pink nylon over taffeta. Both carried pink nose- gays. Headdresses of ﬂowers iteld their shoulder length veils.

Gail he of A ' Village, a cousin of the bride. was ﬂower girl, wearing a dress of white organza and carrying a pink nosegay.

Kenneth Carr of Burlington, friend of the bridegroom. was groomsman, and Whyman Mac— Phee of Abram's Village, uncle of the bride. and Elmer Burt. Kensington, brother-in-law of the groom. were us ers.

A reception for 60 guests was held at Lot 16 Hall where the bride‘s table was decorated with cut flowers and a three tier wedding cake topped with I

MocPhee-Poynter Ceremony

ls Solemnized

Lot 16 United Church was the scene of an ugust wedding when Evelyn Ruby Eva Mac- Phce, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Wilson MacPhee, Southwest Lot 16. was united in marriage with William Leigh Paynter. elder son of Mr. and Mrs. Leigh Payn- tcr. Burlington. P.E.I. T‘ie dou- ble ring ceremony was perform- ed by Rev. ecil . Webber Cut flowers decorated the altar. and white satin bows marked the guest pews.

Mrs. Clarence Carr of Mis- couche was in charge of the wedding music and aceompan- led the soloist. Marilyn Mac- lean of Central Lot 16 who sang "0 Perfect Love" prior to the

ceremog. and “The Wedding

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At Lot 16

the register.

by traditional white,

her father, was gowued floor

and satin. Floral applique pearls and crystal decorate

skirt. The gown featured

waist. Her three tiered veil

liants. She carried a casca

ribbons. and

Prayer" during the signing of

The bride given In marriage in a length gown of nylon sheer over net of -0

tile fitted bodice and bouffant lily . point sleeves and a slight train ith a bow at centre back of nylon tulle flowed waist length from a halo headdress of simu- lated pearls and sparkling bril-

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bouquet of red roses with white wore the groom's gift. cultured earrings and neck-

lace. Darlene Baglole of Southwest

miniature bride and groom.

Grace was offered by the groom's father and a toast to the bride was proposed by the best man and responded to by the groom. 5. Hazel Moase. aunt of the groom was in charge of the Wedding gifts, and Olivine Birch, cousin of the bride, circu- lated the guest book.

The bride's mother wore floral print dress in blue and white wit white accessories. and a c ors a ge of pink carna-

llS.

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Mrs. Paynter, mother of the groom. wore a 'ersey dress in pink coin dot design, with white accessories and a corsage of deep toned pink carnations. .

For a honeymoon trip to New Brunswick and Maine, the bride chose a two piece suit of pink nylon lace over taffeta with while accessories. and pinned on a corsage of white car— nations.

The newlyweds will reside in Summerside.

Parents Can’t Fathom A Reason For Divorce

Eve says a'ie supposes she could have made “the famil ” happy by staying with Bart for the rest of her life. but she doesn't love him any more, in fact doesn't even like him and won't live with him again. He is 28, had been married before and has a daughter, now 7.

We have urged Eve to get professional help to try to save the marriage but she refused. though her husband was eager- ly willing. (We had given them a pretty church wedding and reception and kept in affection-

to afterwards.)

With divorce under way, we've suggested various possibilities to Eve: 1 me home. go college and. if she desires. get psychiatric counselling. 2. Come home. work part-time and take

night classes. 3. If she stays out '9

west. then share an apartment to red expen and av of: loneliness. She rejects them a

She was here last week to pick up a car which we are letting her have for a song (she will need transportation). When we asked how she was going to meet her September rent, she said she'd manage. But in truth she hadn’t the money. We gave her our credit card for gas and oil and urged her to use it; and also gave her a small amount of cash...

I asked our son. 20, if he had a chance to talk with Eve dur- ing her visit and he said yes, just once. and got the impress- ion she doesn't like people very well at the moment. This was somewhat the feeling we had.

We think her early marriage may have been due in part to inferiority feelings, as she w overweight in childhood (though

a very thin in the mid-teens a n d

since) and had an acne condi- tion which left some scars...

Our psychiatric adviser here says all we can do for Eve is tell her she's welcome at home any time. This we have done. But we'd like your comments. — .Y.

Dear C.Y.: As I get the pic- ture from your very long letter. here condensed. the descriptive word for Eve at the moment is "unstable."

Checking Webster's dictionary for a fuller definition of th word, I find the following: "Not

rm, fixed or constant. Fickle, vacilating. Unsteady. Charac-

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terlud by emotional lambs. n

get the impression that she is almost wilfully (or perhaps compulsively) disposed to be a problem- character. As gets a sense of power, or per- haps some obscure sense of sat- isfaction, in taking courses of action in major matters that are directly contrary .to t "iopes, ‘ s and anxrous concern

(for her own welfare) of per- sons to whom she means most.

Thus in marrying Bart four years ago, she was flying in the face of family (parents primar- ily, I suppose), who constituted the “emotional groun " of her life up to that time.

Now in divorcing Bart, against his wishes and “the family’s" counsel. she is including him in her special category of back- ground key ﬁgures to flout. baf- fle and put at naught in their would-be cooperative relation-

3 er.

As to why this door slamming, radically defiant, obstinater hostile rejecting bias, clearly emerging in her un ‘ im- ulsive design for disorderly free agent), I would surmise that,

e unconsciously, she simply finds

it easier to spend her emotion- al energies in hate, rather than love. Or if not in hate patterns pure and simple. at least in dif- fuse, indirect taunting express- ions of unreachable isolation from “family” key figures

This might explain why 5 lie elects, poker-face, to live alone without financial foresight. as a divorcee: i.e., because it is a prospectus that worries “t h e family" who see her in possible jeopardy, in a situation where they can’t intervene effectively to keep her safe. Surely a set-up designed (perhaps unconscious- to frazzle “the family’s" peace of mind!

As for what you can do, leave the latchstring out, to your heart and home, as your psychiatric counselor says. Also you might

as send Eve a clipping of this ar-

ticle, as a spur to her to enlist analytic help, in getting on the beam of positively integrated emotional health—M. .

Mary Haworth c o u n s e l 5 through her column, not by mail or personal interview. Write her in care of The Guardian.

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August Vows

An August wed ding at Dunstan’s Basilica united marriage Linda Anne Arsen- ault. daughter of Mrs Robert Arsenault of Charlottetown and the late Mr. Arsenault. and Si . James Reginald Arsenv ault, son of Mr. and Mrs. Albert W. Arsenault of 'I‘ignis‘i. Rev. Clarence Roche performed the double ring ceremony and cele- brated the nuptial mass

St .

length gown of nylon lace and net over satin.

At St. Dunston’s Basilica

motion was bold d Charlottetown Hotel for guests. The toast to

Exchanged

with white orchids in tiny has-ll" turn proposed a toast to , kets. and white satin bows. iméld 0‘ honor and Imam“-

The bride’s mother chose a lThJS was responded to by “*0 blue crepe dress with beigelbeSt man-

accessories and corsags of! Following their honeymoon. pink roses. . and Mrs. Arsenault are e groom’s mother chose a |residing in Charlottetown.

two piece dress of toast and,

beige rayon with beige acces- STRONG BABY

sories and cor-sage of bronzel

rosebuds. ‘ A new-born chimpanzee is as Mrs. Joseph Dougan was or.]helpless as a human baby, but

ganist and accompanied thelsoon gains great strength in its

soloist, Mrs. Bernadette Rob- hands and feet, enabling it to

cling to its mother's hair as she

travels about.

erts. Following the ceremony a

The lace bodice was decorated with simulated pearls and se- quins, and featured long, lily point sleeves. The u fant skirt was net with lace i - serts over satin. Her length veil was held by a crown of pearls an sequins. She carried a cascade

bouquet of American beauty roses.

Maid of honor, Gail Arsen- ault. sister of the bride wore

a blue nylon sheer over taffeta street length dress with match- ing headdress of net held in place with a rose. She carried pink tinted mums.

The bridesmaids were Ivan Arsenault of town, sister - in - law of bride, June Maillette of Tignish, cousin of the g r oom. They wore street length dre- sses of yellow nylon sheer over taffeta with matching head- dresses and carried blue tin-

s. The groom was attended by Sig. Bernard Boucher.

Joyce Ann Butler, niece of the bride was flower girl. She wore a white frock of nylon over taffeta. Her headdress was a band of white roses. She carried a basket of mums assorted colors.

Mrs.

of:

Roger Arsenault. brother the groom was ring bearer. I Ivan Arsenault brother of}

the bride and Terry Arsenaulti brother of the groom ushered

Charlotte- i the

ATTENTION - SCHOOL TEACHERS

It is noted at this date that many teachers have neglected to forward their Notices of En- gagement for the school year 1964-65. In order that the ﬁrst instalment of monthly grants to- wards t‘ae salaries of teachers may be forwarded to school secretaries before the end of September it is imperative that Notices of Engagement received at the Department of Education not later than September 11.

If a teacher anticipates a change in status of teaching certificate or license he or she should complete the required application form and send it to the Registrar without delay. As soon as the new license is received a Notice of Engagement should be completed indicating the change license and any change in district supplement.

Notices of Engagement should be forwarded to the Department of Education by the date in- dicated so that pay lists may be finalized for pro- cessing by the Provincial Treasury before the end of September.

M. MacKENZIlE. Deputy Minister and Director of Education Department of Education Charlottetown, P.E.l. September 5, 1964.

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