MARY HAWORTHlS MAIL Girls Love For

Asiatic Student Poses Problem

DEAR MART HAVVORTH: I rim 28. a fat v successful publi- ,, ;- - - W e- city writer. di-mt-ed from a Navy Page 8 Tho Gu.l.dian Thursday, Oct. 14, 1954 man. Six months ago I met a man

,..--a colleze student. nee 20s who lls evcrytliing iii ille um-id I want lEn10ll0ILlllX and spirituallv

ELLEN'S DIARY

by an Island Farmer": Wife

We t”XpPll9ilCed with some dia- indeed . . . YeL' iiE('rlll iiow tlif WPRMU. mmm Mnunm m the max. iii-the light 01 ma h5”'V95l' l'05”'3l0ll M L”d””lr'. ah lsllme i traditioniil taiilii and his paroiits inks iili.cli titniaiii 10 DC 85'-1l9l'9dr Whml t'0l””3d 5” b9t”ll'””l-l W" llilll” warned tiiin on previous oc-

btit there are IIHIJOF hindrances to niarriuge between us He is a native of India. of

R Inlptxsle 01 tt;,.1.-r uiday. Ovei'lerstvihile sliadoued horizoii. eilac- Msons mm M M” be dlsmhergl INNER DYNAMICS OF FRllST- l airrioiv g mokrdi i shrimp: cooked or uncooked shrimp "RPlllPlnl)rr all lllP stores in the rice and ham i'iamb0n' in Frenithi made like an Italian risotto. But Approximately the cooks of New Orleans were in- One day they used less ,i(,ui,ii-.10., ham, put in plenty of shrimp in- stead, and created ii dish that has dinner been famous in the deep south for

he lields iia uatulied the white of mg for us the reniviiibiaiit-e of lied if hi. nm”-195 ,,m,,m. mp” re. miwi l1ii:i'ies come, wind-blmiii,itlie bleak clit-crleiss skit-s that ll-id Lignii. I iimild accept lis religion irilllld ire picitv hill: of autuniii.'still to be hm iiiiiird in in rlose out all "ii

- - 0 litre l'P'tlllZl"(l mice nime-in more tliiri ('AlllP no tliouizht llllli'l1 as suiiiiiici) 5P"'S””5 lie me "ill ”'1”"' 3

M An” km and Hwnde dM.01,,m. 94,-; at ;m h.,u,..M1p Am-1 kmm .soci.illy lll(llP kiitiulodaerible than 3 ., 1 V. .. ......iss 4,... .......,i.:.. Md .,..t .t. ..t ... ,..-.-. iira iii-rii-ii: iimii iimi. Ire 9HJ0.VPd

. tiarc and scive men the litiiiiblosl '1 V49"? 5”” M l”””hN5m- 31' Hrrtii-in 3- FlI"fl"'4'"- -"- "- Jr”? lo max? 01 mp Fmnnh, Mm though iioiniiiallv Episcopalian.

W i must indu-P the keen Lind and TRY TO PART EFT CANNOT ii-old ai the-ii tasks. i

when Claiide il'1l rail liinii fin-

i l l' The Mail twill stoiipiiii at llll" iii)-ii separation llPl'.kPt'n its sooner or

w . this aiiei'iiimii He. .im-iisiiiiiied in later: and vie hive t-onsidcred sec- all llPItAlllPl and ua llli) trail ret iiiariizigv. iiliioli I don't really y; . My HP WNW”, M”, .) against that of toda-. -.x;i.s an ii..s iiiiiit Thai ii.ii I. could be near

x aw mlmmn ls usuam. nap iiiiiiw ihi-ii uiiii a linlfl ii: liim iii in to with out some hot- yym, Hmu,”,'.g snnm l'iiiiil.ini-aiiiirl he lmil ,;ii'llPl'tN'l lll Pi Nnliilnl-l out I would h.iie to

"H. (m not alviais Sllll1('p.3n he haiiiiaiti helpwil siuvviiiis iii Ell-i" lill ml iliifn. iiliirli Seems iii-

hp bmmmk, dA."mm1(.d lli"ll.l5Cll)lP. lJP('”lilSF a feii years "what Mk, Von HAHWF, ml. mpg .iu:iv from it noii would mean a i .-attire setback lii view of ilicsr pi-iinftil miisidei'-

')iri riir-"e iarlii-al steps are I rri 'i'i . .. . , , .

'll.”..( s as true ill inedicine as DPT. U1?” he -45km Wm 3 Lhi"lt' ii. imii: .iidiisii;al siiiiaiinns

, . . "" '. til. i.L:-I- 1 (Wironni-v Disease l Ml" 1". M d U l N he mg us, vie siisprrieti. "iimi I ii.W(l ti) likx giblei stew."

Gl4iiil.ed Him in iis ir.ii,iiiiii: iifi

ilie iiliole thing, but th it seems inipmsible too At presciii we ate rist .-veiiig e.ii h other iieek-ciids.

PI)! exaiiipie, disease RlleCtlll,?, tliiri iiiiisii.i:1v ar'eri-as may often be

illl()llS HF liiive iiiecl to Just forgeli

Household Hint.-t

To have space in tho refrigera- ltor, remove foods luch u pickles

and jelliu that do not need re- frigerating. Then

bulky store Wrapplffglismilnlltlepaltlrhills

aging. as well as any inedible veg- etable tops. i

that imountain-top experiences-in the yforward niarcn of the soul.

ii1S-'iPll!0iP- P-alW(i'ri”.ii If ll? ll"? husband is "of domineering fam- Todai with a iiiiiiri "mil Al-"ii: iiiziiiiod liv the rilcs of his i'liurL'li.ji1y goof And that ha , T, . giridcn, ihe bright sun or nIl)In- the iaiiiilaiids ue kneu int-i iruii- l)lll I uriiilri wint llll' rliildrmi iificjded 1,, man A car", of the "1 sh''mp' H: lfnrt of a ginning liearlhlire And aiivi bi'oiir,:lii up as Episcopalians. lNavy' M the omy secu,-ny he could lhe riillcrrrice in iiges is alsolknow away from his family. You liiircfle--alllioilgh it isn't Out;-'g-avg up eve;-yrhmg 1,.) follow mm 1' Wm... ,,,.,-e,,i,9,,,,.m5 which dp- get this!--the lle.ll"i-Sllllliliz iiieiiidi ii-'ii'dii' iwpareiii at first. I am a.but the marriage came to grip! iimici llillllilll. uaininiz to leave lnv-la siiiging tea-kettle niakes in the Wi1l0.!P S"Rd113lf'v IHCEIIPCIURIU Rndibecause ou found no opportunity to establish your life. a condition "you resented-"naturally". you say. The woman with obscurely dam- aged self-esteem tends to affiliate, llnr love-interest. with immature de- pendent males who further cripple her-as seems to be your history

. u a islies .Mllll0l lin uill have to go You were hamstrung by your hug. into ni.i:aiv smiire, iiliirli illtiillslbandls inability to 5 we marriage

are confronting the same old pinb- lem. packaged in a different form. lTo get your bearings. in the field of man-woman relations, giiidv Dtti lEdmund Berglerts book "Divot-re'p”p”la'”V,; if-iarpers) -- wliirhi lmh "WP

acquaints neuiqtlcs with the inneri

.wnnx Help”

dynamics g grade Mary Haworth counsels throughi wadamm

.her column, not by mail or per-i r g, l

soiial interview Write her in care Smlmpv

of The Guardian. Charlottetown.

fliir,13A(:.:1V handlm by mm m bed i - V H” ” . iihii-li iiitnlirs a lot of travel: and f-V 4 lVPlli'lfl, followed by some re- ”SS”0lP'mb”L tw'lE””';'u””ewyns llP1ll'lFl' of its is able to C(illr'Pll- 5-. ,i ,,m in wuylnes. and me use n6im9- Si N 51' W ll? l4 r - i 3' Ii-ate on niiich else - ii llli'h means

u' i-ni'aiii diuus. Recentlv. h0uevPl'. "llndlm m "5 ah””'5'”i H” mil-”l'P' tie are iieglei-tiiig our tasks of ii ,: iwl mm that, in many of these chllllnl” ”ll””' W! "W; "hi-Vll l"”"f” i'i)lll'SP. l"i'ankl5. I am willing to vlwsg 1.4,, mm. b,, pmionpd bl. me to farm-tables alter 'lllf' uoiiians amtepy Claude On any rm-ms; hm W,,.m”nanN, M ma” nuxpryy geese" were marketed. to make de- 1 1'p(-()gnlze me. uynpi-M-iicaiiry Damage to Ann." ll('i0lliI fare. inf this. and fear it might lead to

g ' The siibsiaiice air ours viinie luitrriiess and friisiraiioii later on

H" "3595 sptecled H": ””'3”5 from ('l'll('kPri5 dispatched of late. , , . Please give me the benefit of "Y" Wm" which almw dehnllc Wk those wliiih made Jamie sav iiilh vour vi:-vis. C. B. (lPllt'P of damage to the comnary T '

:;..:mS .I,Ym.; )m.,' ,h,, ”M.m.lev5 f:J;,1;;llSii-hi:il.i:e age n:a.)g!:iz1mf;1sll1lf(:;. n.iisi(t itRi)i3i.r:2i is I,o.Vr:i.i. ia simpi i P lPAll musilo with day... And Gaga mrkm: up ms blood The operation is done, too. N .. H I , h V (N ppnews Whn haw had In Fry cue: aftei. I don 1' see imt I P ,q,k hf ,,,,.,,nM.v M.”,n, duet” Could ever lava ualxmd about uill1- riri in hit finiily, if he is a college W,” mm? dkslrucllnn Mthea” us. out hearts! "Or livc:s!' ue laiii:h- Sturipnt an lhp inosey halfway ,,,, ed. And JNTiE5iC"m1TiPIiL iiHh600V- ar-rots lllP llnllfl from them. But npnwmn. hnwpvnri in delpned ious absence of the favorite 1iiei-- apnnreiiilv also his is mi: t)pp (,1 Mr ;mm mm, in SIX mnmhs? Then. ('5: "The chances are. your Gianrl- l'7PI'E(ll1 known as 'a handful"- , Z pgrsnn has I imm cnmmued mother ')iisi up and tlirri-ix them an iiiini'eclici.io:r srlf-iiilled char- ,.,....,,h,m, M H1, mmmrv My- oiitf in the rats ivith tho rest or ar-tor it lizs l'I!'llllV hir. in the FHAS and dnps hm imam", 'm”0.w, the offal so lVle.()r('llp;('d imi past semi fit hi tkiraten liiiii sev- in: medical manaitr-merit. the ad- k”'”'V' ll? Wififierl. "sllvid iii-in nu. rial lll1ll".x iii.n riisiiilir-ritaiir-r. if Hmhlll, M sm.w,ry H alum given U” ah,” 5)". W15 at!" HP rioiiriris tow far from faintly some illnlltlll With vegiiiabies added in lliv l7'3'l”1”” Fnuiny "wry 11,33”. ple(,.5,,,5h,.(.5 M ',(,”w,(,.;g In all piob.iliiliti-. the great at.-

Tlrie operation ll not done if the

hnart is failing: that is, cannot keep up the rirt'.iilai.ion. or if there

. S DFIAR (' B- Evidently Claude: ac-iiniis a--eii't inn closely supervis-

an onion H, splu, mg Hawm (mm. is loiieliiicss. ri lJ:V-DlTl(llli'l. of every Lasxeful Has mp mm” Wag mp (lay H)('l&1l iiialaoyiiisimerit-probleiri

. -l(1llPllll0SR' vie llllEl1l rail it Thus . . main dish of iir sunei ti '5 )')il- ' ' ” ””'9 d”m”9 w "M 1”" Nimg 0 H M (H .imi tun met with a I1llIill'lll)' strong

lW:””"5h- g g , , , .-ciise of llPt"fllll2 exclusive accept- iliintn ?l nppltwliilmltliihe pauenll TllOllKll vi liLL'ie llfl uqlilrl liivri "mi." in R Enimlv Hndmismndmg ' sleep. an vi no w ic ' '

.x niebodi. '-f rablv f site s.,..m.md Lh, heart known M L-m, had it. different. thcie vitis iio last 52x 1 Ih1nrli(l:l':md" ii; andpdplziion l'WTiCai'tdllI1fn. 11! MW ll:lgi::n:':;ed5"”W M l'”d”-'- 1'' I9” and lhPi'P is l)li.Vsic;il infatuation at riresen Ii asp ra or sue e - 11591 i di-awn, ”We'll have Indian Siiiiiiiier mm in I

In slln"l the l2(lPS llial broughi Tale Blown In ""5 Of the Pam”) 531d 0r ll" j.nii ti-qotlinr are pieity PZTRIIC, it

Tm". abmn two teupoonmls M viieatlier-to-come. It. is likely that M91115 ,0 mp: and gm: ow-mi; pi;-,. "10 pmmer Me sprem ov" me we shall . . . but Uiiiiizlih 1”? iiiiie siiiiizc-sis that sati.-fzicioigv. en hparm and NOW" with an .mmizer farmlands are held in the iiiii2ii' fllll'lllL'. ll'lliIl1ll inari".a2r- isn't in ,mm m, hen” muaci. 15 covered and "1l'-'Il-81')" of Oiiiobnr miion- the raid: Tlieie is just too much

with I thin 1”"; N9". the 8” light. in moi-i-onie, or siriiggle against Until l0m0l'l'4)Vl' or m- - m Dlflill Making intii .ii-rniinl the kind 0! iCrmt.iiiiiad on Page 11!) -- - --- -- Goorl-nii:lit . . . . .

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Perfection

MILK, 6 fins

iziN'soTie?Q'........T;.;33g 35:

KRAFT ROLL 8 oz. 29c

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EAKE Ftouitibs. . 235

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SPARERIBS. lb. 'l5c

P-A-il5”lJ76il5”'ti6lc5b.m2l!f'6r"f.-Izsi JUST ARRIVED! IULK MOLASSES onpsi: YOUR V snunazn smvm nii furs non vs

slivers of mrmp. dnls of (.a,.,.m.. ir.ii-lion l)fllllP(I1 you and Clauday

I i

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Space can also be saved withl proper Four-sided container-I occupy leis:

y g V . In our long letter. here con- ii-ri iiur i illPl. Whelped soniew here D9911. l:H'iiiR Wriiliilll Oi llllfllb WUI5 .oi' niysi-.f lllt)tl:ll mv fziiiiilv viould (tensed.

refrigerator containers. i

transmutes

you Say your dzvnri-rdi

finally de-

i LEI"

The Versatile Shrimp I

"SWIMP. fresh ized the Chef. room than round ones. and flat topsl HDM” be alarmedl Madame" 1 U”

i shrimp

"Well. Chef, they little dreamed that shrimp purpose somedai. Ob-Ttilclea into different forms -- fresh: canned in .4'z oz.. 5 07.. and '2 oz. cans; lrozzn .,.”ii sh,-imp. whole or rte. shrimp can be combined to go fur- several hours and easier In shell when met in m8D.V W5Yl- PM example.

cooked there is the 'jambalsya' we enjoy- a very sharp breaded ed in New Orleans. '

green veined

Middle West that soil cooked broad-

With All the Trimmings

"Ali, out. and the homemakers stop on the way home fried shrimp for along with the trimrniiigs sauce iartare, the French fries and cole slaw. shrimp. Madame."

"It is the most popular of all flows freely. kinds of shellfish. Chef. a liiizn- nnion. Cook until beginning to turn protein fond. rich in l"iil('lllnl. Dl1'l- color; phorus vitamins.

"I think the i-i-amii IYICJM people

to buy

"Are the l&ldlFS careful to buy

of their n.ustI.au0nS. .shrimp in the shrill of the right sin-imp Jambalaya

or 517? for llP.lFlS ieniovmi. run 16 i.i 20 shrirriip per pound and are best

EAT

By IDA BAILEY ALLEN

swimp'." vocal- for bi-oiling or for frying butter- fly style. The next size for general Coffee to 25 shrimp per

call used by the fish-

would be

runs 21

and bottoms permit stacking. Ami am just experimenting with the old pound.

ample supply of various-sized con- hei tainers will help

i ' h RIH-s me ei-e-igvtliintz I need; andlspace when small amounts of food mum 55 me) vim” fhmug lie,is very much in love with me,. are to be stored. Willa?” senmg smmlp

I - that neither of you has the loyalty. tenacity and depth of

the ily of four.

. "What did night?" my two front

way."

Refrigerator

nationwide. in so many ed. two (12 oz.) pac gu are need- thoroughly.

frozen, dFVI'Il'led and frozen

veniive.

g the years."

foods mate. and "Shrimp i-iiikinils Viittll" liisi in cooked fresh creole Simmer 35 mm.

TOMORROW'S DINNER Boston Style Clam Chowder

next. slirinin

bpPt'llll uses.

The vcrv large jllllllhl

ed to serve six." Fortunately.

Shrimp Jambalaya: cut 2 slim-5 Almost. everyone likes fat ham in 1-in. squares. Cook in a heavy 2-qt. saucepan until the fat Add 2 tbsp. minced

add ii: and food iron. and some until slightly browned. Then stir in 2 c. canned tomato and 3 c. water. Bring to boiling point. Add 1': c.

, enjoy slii-imp is bet-muse they are raw white rice; slow-boil 15 min. ion adult terms" and n Claude you tender, yet firm to the bllP. And. Then add 1 tsp. salt. '. tsp. pep- of course. they combine well witn per. 1.

tsp. monosodium gluta- other

1'2 6. (1': lbs) diced or frozen shrimp.

Cucumber Salad l

Ready-to-Serve Rolls l Lemon Sherbet

Refrigerator Ginger Snaps

Madame. cooked efcr. Wrap in

unoi led baking

"This first started as a dish of lI'.lll. in a moderate nven 3'15 de- grees F., or until slightly browned. 5 doz.

tbsp. flour; siir

before stitching

Green Bea ns

Morning Smile l

you got home from the club ls.st

"Not a word. I was going to have

I c. shortening with 1 c. sugar until "That means 5 or 6 shrimp per light. stir in

lm r. years ago in the deep person per pound. Chef. ui 3 fam- beaten eggs. avoid waste of awe” To beaure to have alrfladyrsifted enough. it is safer to buy 2 pounds salt, 1 tbsp.- of fresh shrimp for six persons. If

and 1 tsp. baking soda. Add grad- available frozen cooked shrim

are purcbiu- ually to the creamed mixture; mix

Form into a roll 25” in diam-

T6 bake, cut in thin slices with

For easier stitching of sleeves when 70! are malfllli xi gannent. overcast the seams

your wife say when

teeth extracted any-

Tea Milk Ginger Snaps: Blend

1, c. molasses and 2 Sift together 4'i c. enriched flour. 1 tsp. and 1 tsp. ginger.

waxed paper. Chill until firm.

knife. Place on an sheet; bake about 12

instead of lmlixix than.

ICE BOX COOKIES

H cup brown sugar

Va cup shortening

1 egg (well beaten)

1.5 tsp. baking soda.

1 tsp. cream tartar

Salt r

1 teaspoon vanilla

1'5 cups sifted flour Cherries or walnuts can be added if desired.

-Mrs. James L. Lolhgu, Hunter River W. I.

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