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The GtEdim auesdiyfotitober 12, 1954"

To Visit. Canada In November

This photo of the Queen Mother was

her

for trip to Canada this fall. She will arrive in New York on Oct. 26, then come to Canada Nov. '1.

taken specially

Aluminum Furnishings Are a New Home Fashion

may nawoai-nrs MAIL

Feels Left Out When Mate Pursues Career

31, happily ma rried.

are city-bred. recently transplant- ed to 9. very small town. -where my husband is in business for himself. It was an opportunity we wanted. the b.Jsin'e.ss is thriving and Tom loves his work.

I am comfortably situated. have joined some local clubs and made some good friends. and the chil- dren enjoy their small town life. It sounds ideal. and in many ways it is. but vie have a problem that is making Tom and me miserable: and I feel I am at fault.

For a blend of i'eas0ns-busi- ness, a family illness, sometime pleasure-Tom must be away from home in-my evenings and some week-ends; and I cant take it in stride. When home. he is very helpful and enjoys the children" but a telephone call from a pros- pctive client may take him away

any minute. There seems so little time for us as a family group; and prarticalli none for us as

husband and w ite.

SELI-'-CONTROL ALWAYS BREAKS

In fairness to Tom. I know he must meet his clients on their terms; gression are trazts that make him successful. I've learned to count on his being out some evenings: but when he has to leave'suddenly. for a meeting or overnight trip, I am so bitterly disappointed that I nearly always make a sceneu I try to control myself and take things as they are-but I CANNOT. I feel lonesome. left-out and second best.

Yet even when angry. I know I shouldn't be; and I feel sorry for Tom. as the scenes make us both unhappy. But I can't stop. How- CVEY. I am always over it and con- trite by the time he gets home; but when the next occasion arises, I am upset as before. When he is gone I try to keep busy-picnics with the children. sewing, reading, watt-hing.telei'ision. But some of the fun is gone and I am lonely pcan you help me find peace of iinind? - E. D.

INNER YNITY IS SUSPENDED DEAR E. D: This a poignant

problem for you. for the reason that psycliologically. you and Tom

By ELEANOR. BOSS

Tl-IE American woman is helped by more people than she realizes in comfortable. Designers give the ideas and Mrs: America

making her home beautiful and practical.

follows ythrough. Now the trend clean materials dii-e.ction of Women have used

is headed

TIEIAOMC Thing

In a special display of a New

IT PARTIES THEY SAY:

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Having a tot-rogelhnrf The big-l ger the party. the more reason to nerve Mayflower Donut! Everybody love: their delicioul flavor! And light. fluffy May- flower Donuts are an digenibla as good bread and butter! Servo '01" with cider. fruit punch of toffee-' We'll take your order for nny amount ...d lend 'em lruh' the day of the party.

Got delicious digestible

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Made by In Bolton of r.Aivr.'s nun BREAD

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in easv-to-keep- in the metal - Aluminum. it successfully is kitchens. and have discovered ti it. is easy to can for. wears

ii. is lightweight and will remain lhiny bright with soap and water.

are living in different worlds for the most. part nowadays. And

DEAR MARY HAWORTH: I Am the mother of four small children ranging in ages from one to seven yeais. We

and his industry and ag-i

Pownal. in Air. Raliili ('ai'i'aglier, Stan's Basilica on W'lttiiivs'Ilz.iy fgrooni.siiian;

Bridal Party

morning. September 29. Mr. and Mrs. Ralph Carragher. the groom and bride: Miss Evelyn MacMiilan, brides-

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l Th” vwdrlin: 0! Mi-ii Minty MacMillan. R.N.. daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Ambrose MacMilkan of Thomas Carragher.

took place at St. Dun-

o right are: Mr. Leo Carraizher.

maid: Mr. Joseph Mat:Millan. usher; Mr. Gerald P. Murtagh. usher.-(Photo by Glrnhum).

M RS. GORDON MACMILLAN

A-E3-OUN'llRY EGARDEN

l Autumn Secret

When I behold the secret- .'I"nat lurks in every leaf

lThat it can so traiisfigure

An elemental grief.

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if think: for wnat great triuinpli rDo maples nlH'.Cll ariayed Iwith spectacle of yellow

1T0 herald a. prade?

With such eiiilzliizoiied glory As trees in Autumn hold .May I. too move l.0lt:lilid death .With such pagcaiitiy of gold. I Ginshey.

. Beautiful auturnn trees tvcre seen .last week iii sheltered places and it is a delight to drive through a woodsy road at this time. and in the grden tlicrt. are lovely sunny mornings to do garden work. 0:- itober is a glorious month. it month of final growth and gain. She is an artist in every way She paints

mmmh he mm. drop mm yourllthe woodlands. the skies, the

world at W111, you cannot gouowyfields. restful to the eye and an

him into mg -n imbalance ghag inspiration to the mind. I have

York aparlnieni billed as the "lii- caiises you uzicoiiscious tension. -Well Ocmbe" Fi-"5e'-5 l-hm would terior of the Year." a (llSBIIlCllVi' anxiety and heartache when he b9 hard 10 do-ii'v"ibe mid haldef W and washable bedroom was dr- is home in brief snatches of lesi-lpul 0" 1''rmVa5 1” 3” their EIOTY veloped around aluminum. pl:tsl.ics,sure, he is somewhat. like a visit-.01 millllled 1i3dH”lC9- V1305 W9 35 as when in bios-

and woods. Airy, beautiful, liVRDl-'. or from Mars, who may vanlshj3W'8CUV9 "OW

this is a room which anyone could duplicate in whole or in part.

Aluminum is used in the licori- board. in bookslivlves Will) iwilzled comers, in a long reading table and in I lamp.

Aluminum. though the lightest of metals. is durable and firm enough to hold books without. sag- ging in the middle of a shelf. The bottom row in the shelf unit shown swivels out from the wall to make a bedside table. The swirls

- and lines in the metal make an in-

teresting pattern on the nliiminuni slab table which is bound with lacquered wood. ebony black.

Plutio Headboard

The metal headboard of the bed is cleverly covered in a new plas- tic that looks for all the world like the black patent leather used for bags and shoes. The pillows on the bed are similarly covered.

Also featured in this virtually all-washable. low-cost room are plastic upholstered chairs and bamboo. The whole ceiling. in fact, is papered with squares of beige and black bamboo. a handsome touch. Applying these in an easy chore for the man of the house. and they're easy to come by bis- cause ordinary bamboo place mats can be used.

Ytlllll woiinsii-ant lllSIl"TllE casinos saunas

The blinds. made of matchstick bamboo in a rich ebony color. can be taken down. placed over a flat surface and scrubbed with thick so-called ”dry" soapsuds.

A handsome lighting fixture above the bed could easily be du- plicated by a handy persmi. Sus- pend fluorescerit tubing above the bed, following the outline of thr- bed below. then encnse the tubing with a "box" or shade of bamboo.

Morning Smile Agent: ”l lee you're driving a new car"

Inspector: "Yes I tried to sell an insurance policy to an automobile salesman."

A Household Hint

To help dry out a damp base- ment, place a fan in front of one open window to "exhitust" the moist air, and pull fresh air in-from an opposite open window.

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your distress is .tnid in Parngrapli 4, welicrein you say tspeaking of your emotional .rcsistnnce to '1om's exits: "I feel ilonesome. left-out and second best.” Precisely Your cumulative distress. which flares in scenes you cant prevent. is caused by some- thing intangible. something deep- er than the unpredictability of Tom's take.-offs. I think that in- tultively you are aware of being temporarily displaced, in Tom's imagination, by it more compelling interest tfrom his view) at pre- sent.

Tom hasn't stopped loving you: that's not it. But he takes you for granted. as the children's mother, while his experience ranges elsewhere. excitedly - in pursuit of business. recreation and new friendships. As it happens. he is still the central interest in your life, the archstone of your dom- estic regime; and that's why you are thrown so badly off stride, as you sensitively feel the shift in his overall attitude-as ifihe were turning a shoulder to you.

LEARN To LOVE CIEATIVELY

Granted that I new business venture necessarily absorbs a great deal of a man's time, thought and energy if he is to succeed. If-ill that sacrificial investment wouldn't upset, a good marriage, if the man's personality were stable-if his inner self stayed true to his

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PETAL BURST

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In Nylon

g Satin or Broadcloth Bandeau Cinch or Lonelin- uwcin you in unit i.lngerle . ..'K'. i noon; a. ueuzoii

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som in the stirnincr with their red and gold leaves, mid of i-oiirse the late, blooniiiig aimuiils. dalilias. and begnnins arc colorful and love- .ly because of the Ftl)."9llf'8 of frost. l Visitors come to the garden this lmonth and en,'oy seeing these iplants as well as the ro-es includ- ing the Trcc-Rose, a bright crim- lson in color and long-lasting. It lhas been it very satisfactory rose land will be very carefully wintered by laying down and covering with soil. Some years ago several trec roses were wintered satisfactorily in this way.

It is a floribunda rose but no name was given so it will be dif- ficult to order more of them and certainly they would be an ad- dition to any garden.

October is a month to square up the garden past and the gar- den, to come with progress and prospects. We can see where" we have made mistakes and can plan to remedy them. some barberry bushes that have grown too large for their corner have been pruned 'and moved to n more suitable lo- cation. Such thorny branches they have. The storm scattered a good many of the lovely scarlet fruit and because of this it was easier to move them. if they had been as beautiful as usual this month. the gardener would never have had courage to disturb them. It is nec- essary to move large shrubs when they take up too much room in the garden or spoilt the view or symmetry of the garden,

The garden plans that we have made through the year, or I num- ber of years maybe. can be carried out now if there are a few days

that can be spared from the more urgeiit farm work. Stone, mil, manure and mzilches of all kinds, .alsa sand from the shore can be xhauied to a convenient place near 'the garden so a woman can use it at her convenience. Indeed, it is possible for the woman to do this herself if it is necessary and I know many farm women who make their flower gardens in this way. . O O O

Perennials that were sown in

the vegetable garden should be moved to permament places this month if possible. some Holly- hocks. Anthemis. and ma y vio- ilas were transplanted last. week :and soon they will be finished There is abundant moisture in the soil and it is a splendid time to transplant plants and shrubs. Plant firmly. this is very lll'LpoI't- ;ant as the roots must come in con- tact. with the soil and especially in the fall it is necessary to have iirni planting. . Several new annuals were sown :in open ground last spring and their markets were lost. now I am looking through catalogs trying to locate the name and the plant illustrations, sometimes with little success. This is not good gardening but it Cull be iiiterestiiig. Early blooming pereiiiiials that were cut back immediately after blooming are now making it lovely showing. lln the garden here that good rock :pl;mt (Nepcta niussinir in! a soft ,blue shade is covered with flowers ';ind also with bees. Long spikes of Delphinium wt-ie seen in another garden as lovely as when blooming in June and many other plants will respond to this culture with- out any ill effects if grown in good rich soil. Certainly it makes a full garden season of many months.

Michaelmas daisies are, I think. essentially flowers for massing when making arrangements for decoration in the home and when planting in the garden; out-of- doors they seem to me to have something of the quality of wood smoke on the autumn air. although this quality is lost if ” insulshed

plants in the burden Every autumn I wish for long borders of these lovely late perennial flowers.

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Now is the time to plant for Na- ture's coloring in the garden next year. There are many trees and shrubs valuable for their color, and some have fruits and colored foliage at the same time. The many shrub roses have such lovely ham and it is wise to note all of, these beri-led shrubs and order some for next autumn'n beauty. There are dozens of quince on the small tree and some preserve will be tried this fall.

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ttHigh” Blood l)ressure 69? You

IF a child's knowledge and abil- ity wero to be judged on the basis of a single test, teachers and par- ents alike would be led astray. So it is with the determination of any one's blood pressure.

One single blood pressure read- ing doel not reveal whether the blood pressure is high. low, or nor- mal. It takes I number of tests under various conditions to obtain an accurate reading. The blood pressure might well be taken while the person is at rest, lying down. standing, and before and after ex- ercise.

New Finding

I"urthei-more, there is a great deal of evidence that what we con- sider abnormally high blood pres- .sure is not in reality, abnormal at all. The limits of normal blood pressure. it has been shown. are definitely higher than those ex- pected heretofore

Again, the blood pressure varies with age and sex. In other words. the blood pressure nrmally increas-

es with age in both men and women. The Age Factor

The blood pressure is higher

among men up to the age of 45. and slightly higher among women of this age. F t example. it has been determined at around the nge o 45. the blood pressure may be as high as H55 and still be norirnl. At the age 0' 60. it can be as high as

mar! EA!

"Tl-IE rouon Io many families eat so many steaks. ehopl. Ind -roasts," I said to the Chief, "is be- cause other cuts of meat ofterf turn out to be tough, which spoil-I utlrig enjoyment. '

"But there is no excuse for cerv- ing any kind of meat. that is not enjoyable, whatever the cut may be." he replied. "The secret of making tmder the so-called ttough' cut: of rneat.,i.I to tenderlu them.

Old-Fashioned Method

"The old-fashioned way in to cook these cuts I long time. until iork-tender, in moist heat: that is. in a prescribed amount of liquid. This method includes bruising, cas- seroling, stewlng and potrroasting. "When the meat once starts to cook. the stove takes over. and the homemaker can do whatever she likes during the 2 to 4 hours it may take for the meat to cook tender." "There's still another method. Chef. Any of these tough meats can be cooked in one-fourth of the usual time in A. pressure-cooker!

Leos Expensive Meats

"Business homemakors tell me they could not manage to get the family dinners, and still keep the meat budget under control without using A pressure-cooker to prepare the less expensive meats. such as the grass-fed beef now so plentiful." "And. Madame .for cuts of round steak. veal. pork or lamb steak sliced up to 2-in. thickness. I like to use the meat-mallet vigorously. It certainly helps to break down tough nbers. Then brush the meat. with plenty of not-sweet French dressing ,and let it marinate for 30 minutes. The meat will usually be tender, however it is cooked."

TOM0lIROW'S DINNER

Vegetable Juice Cocktail Round Steak and

180 in men and 135 in women. and still be within normal limits. Perhaps the main thing to keep

blood pressure should be considered abnormal depends upon the symp- tom present, if any.

It is not wise to classify a person as having high blood pressure when there are no symptoms or any dis- turbances that. can be detected by physical and laboratory examin- ations.

For a person to believe that he has high blood pressure. when his blood pressure is not really abnor- mal. at all, will only lead in dis- ruption of his activities and ec- onomic loss to himelf and his family.

Persons past 45 should. of course. have their blood pressure taken during the course of I. physical ex- amination once, or better twice a year. and the doctor will decide whether the pressure is abnormal and what treatment, if any. is needed. ,

QlJES'l'lO.N' AND Axswan

D. n.:Is it true. that a person has sex hormones of both sexes?

Aii.-uvt-r: Yes. everyone has hor- mones of both sexes within his

Tough Cuts Of It Meat Can be Cooked Tender

ly IDA IAILIY ALLIEN

in mind is that whether or not.

Potato Skillet Dinner Brussels Sprouts in Cheese Saurgg Broiled Stuffed Peaches coffee Tea Mm

Bound steak and Potato Skillet Dinner: Mix together 8 tbsp. flour -and 96 tsp. salt: pound into xi, lbs. round steak sliced 56-in. thug Brown in.i tbsp. fat in 8. large sh). let that can go-to-table. Add 3 tbsp. each chopped onion. celery and green DODMI. and 1 c. cumec tomato. Border with 6 halved pegt. ed medium-sized. white potatogg and dust them with salt and pep. per. Cover and slow-bake about 3 hrs, or until fork-lander. in 3 moderate oven. 350 degrees F.

Broiled Stuffed Pelchui blne lb a. canned apple and 2 tbsp. lemo juice nu fill the centers of 0 c nod pea”, halves. Top each with 1 tsp. chem preserve. Slow-broil about 5 min, or until the preserve is bubbly Serve warm.

THE CHEFS BRUSSELS SPROUTS IN CHEESE SAUCE

Add 3 c. cooked fresh or frozen Brussels sprouts to l c. of my spa. cial deviled cheese sauce made as follows: To 1 c. medium-thick white sauce. Add-AA c. grated sharp American cheese, 34 tsp. worces. tershlre sauce and V. ts-p. tam, mustard. Simmer until the cheese melts. ”

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What to have for supper ls llwayi I problem. but this recipe from Hunter River W. 1.. may aolvo it often. It will hit the spot on many I cold evening.

CBEAMED MUSHROOMS AND i EGGS

4 tbs. butter

El cup flour

'4 tsp. dry mustard

1 can evaporated milk

1 cup water

(same amount of whole milk niav be used).

1 cup cooked, sliced mushrooms or 1 can of cream of mush.

room i5 hard boiled eggs. quartered

1 cup of grated cheese.

Melt butter. add flour. salt. Illlls. tard. blend until smooth. stir .n milk and water. Cook over boiling water. stirring until thickened. Add mushrooms. cheese and eggs. sum not on toast or in centre of a rice ring. iV'”"'w about six servings.

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