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A 'Woman's Realm

What the Fashionallles are Wearing

9-’ Illustrated Dressmzlking Lesson Furnished With Every Pattern

By Annabelle Worthington

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SIMPLICITY FOR. YOUTH It's very, very young with its simulated bolero achieved through ap-, And you'll love the way the skirt is fitted so smoothly with a yoke and the slimness emphasized by shaped applied bands, that give it such smart sophistication.

plied circular band trim.

cidedly becoming.

It's a mode that instantly will appeal to good taste. It expresses new loveliness in blue crepe silk with white polka dots and plain white crepe The collar and cuffs may be made detachable by adding a

contrast. narrow bias binding at the edge so daring

Style No. 2835 is designed for sizes 11, 13, 15 and 17 years. And it takes but 3a»; yards of 35-inch nlatcriai with ‘,1.- yard of 35-inch contrasting to

make it for thc fifteen year miss.

All crangy red and white printed linen is equally youthful. Use plain

White linen for-collar and culls.

Eyelet ‘oatiste in‘opal yellow is adorable with matching shade of

crisp org andle trim.

Mail's silk shirting in grcyish-blue colouring is very snappy either with trim of self-fabric or of white shirting for contrast, and is excep- tionally lovely for vacation day's and resort.

Shantung, pastel flat washable crepe silk, plaided girlghams, novelty rayons and thin woolens are ideally suited to this model.

The eusy manner in which it is

‘ Be sure to fill in the size of the pattern. Send stamps or coin (coin

preferred.) Price of pattern 15 cents.

hi... Mbclern Sunday School

>119 of the most important fea- tures of the modem Sunday School is the fact that ‘l1, has in some mea- sure, grasped the truth in the broad conception of education which is current today. The 01d Sunday School was too intellec- tual in its view of education. ‘Pile Sunday School lesson was spoken of as if it were the sole means by which the child could learn. It “'85 not sufficiently realized that every experience of the child l1S_€l mem- ber of Sunday School is potentially educational.

We recognize that a child's home leaves perhaps a deeper mark 0n his life and character than any other subsequent experience. What is the reason? The influence of a Christian home does not lie mainly an words that are spoken. There may have been little explicit Chris- tian teaching given. The clcplana- lion lies rather in the fact that the child absorbs the atmosphere and outlook oi’ the home unconsciously by living and growing up in it. The quality of life in the home is re- produced in the character of the child.

A similar situation is to be found In the influence of a good school. [It is generally acknowledged that a school with a proud history and fine traditions-particularly ii it be I boarding school-leaves an un- lnlstskcsble impress on‘ her sons. It is not that there has b-m conscious teaching, bllt rather that there has been a strong commu .1i.y sense. The boys are conscious of belonging to the school, and they quickly risflond to its ethos, and become custodians 0i’ ll.- traditions". By living in the community, they absorb the qual- ity of ils life.

it is recognition of the impro-

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-:- Social and Pdrsonal -:- Fashions

For The Cook

bananas.)

white or graham bread;

BANANA WHIP

1 tablespoon gelatine.

l4 cupful cold water.

4 tablespoonfuls of lemon juice.

1 cupful of boiling water.

1 eupful of banana pulp (about 3

‘A cupful sugar or syrup.

l6 cupful chopped nuts or

$6 cupful of crurnbed toasted cake or cookie crumbs.

Soak the gelatine in cold water for five minutes; add the suaflr 0r syrup to the boiling water, boil for one minute and add to the soltflled gelatine. Cool. Add the lemon juice to the banana pulp and mash until blended. Beat the gelatine mixture until it is frothy and of about the thickness of whipped cream. Add the banana pulp. Whip until blend- ed. Add the nuts, or crumbs, and pour into wet mold or individual dishes. Chill. Serve with milk or cream, or on lettuce with salad dzessing.

Dorothy Dix Letter Box l

What is There to Marriage? _ Why Are S0 Many People Dissatisfied With 1t? — Is a 13-Year-Old Girl too Young to Have '- Boy Friends?

Dggp Mm Dix-of all the men I know very few are satisfied with

I the mgnlggg 5mm, Agile from the physical relationship what is there to marriage? PLUTQ 9'.

Answer: Dissatisi ‘ion with whatever they have is the

common lot of huiuumty. and 1t 4°88 n" "PPIY °°

elors are no more contented with their lot than are married men. How many IBWYBYB 11nd d°°WB ""1 preachers you have ever known were satisfied with their calling? How many contented business men do you know?

The married man, seeing the freedom from res- ponsibilities that the insle man has. l-hlllklllfl that the single mm can come and go as he pleases without having to fur- nish an alibi to a wife and that he can spend all of his money on him- self instead of having to pay grocery bills and shoe bills and school bills, is dissatisfied with his state and wishes that he had never muffled-

The old bachelor, thinking of his lonely and loveless llle. looks at the married man with his home and his wife and his children growlnk 11D

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which is one of the sources 0f the success of the Boy Scout movement as an instrument of character building. In a good Scout Troop the ‘boys are jealous for the honor of the troop. They would not read- ily offend against its traditions. There may be a minimum o1 dir- ect moral teaching, but all the time there is the steady pressure of a community spirit which shapes the character of each of its mem- bers according to the accepted standards 0f the whole body. By comparison with an influence of this kind, the power of mere words is of small consequence.

I1; is of course a parallel influence which has repeatedly been exercis- ed in the Sunday School by indivi- dual superintendents and teachers, Men and women who, by their constant interest and friendship, succeeded in establishing g, firm bond of trust and affection between themselves and their pupils, ac- quired in that relationship a power of influencing the lives oi their children which went far beyond the force of their spoken words. That fact has long been re. cognlzed. The new fact which is 581M128 attention 1s the possibility

. Is there any cause for em- barrassment if one is compelled to ask a person his name in order to introduce him?

A. No; ask it in a perfectly nat- ural manner.

Q. What kind of blouses is con- sidered bad form?

A. Transparent blouses that dis- play underclothing.

Q. If one is asked to "fill a place" at dinner, must he accept? A. Yes; he is rather obligated by the rules of good manners to accept if possible.

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fiuenced by companions than by adults. Membership of a child com- muity which is permeated by the right spirit is perhaps the best possible instrument of moral and religious training." i

It is this truth which underlies the various methods by which the modern Sunday School tries to _cul- tivate the community spirit. Prim- ary and junior play-hours are not mere opportunities for happy frol- ics. If they are properly run they are a valuable element in the main work of the Sunday School. They help to strengthen the community feelins of the school, and at the same time they should succeed in establishing sound traditions of conduct. Unselflshness can be de- veloped far more effectively through a successful play-hour than by any amount of moral teaching. Contrast again the in- fluence of a properly organized Christmas party in the modern Sunday School with the annual soiree of olden days. Today each department holds its own party. There is plenty of riotous fun, but there is also orderlinms and an en- fife absence of the irritating shout- ing and whistle-blowi“ ~ften neces sary in the old days, when some cessation of the din was called for. In other words, in place of a. crowd of aggressive young individualists, each thin-king of his own enjoyment, there is p, community with definite standards and traditions, which p11 love to observe. The relative effect on character growth is obvious. The most important point, how- ever, in this conception of the Sun- day sl-“hwl. lies in the central place which worship takes in the life ol the community. We may perhaps best characterise the Sunday School as a worshipping commun-

around him, finds his freedom dust and ashes in his teeth and wishes that he had married when he was youne- The professional mall thinks

' that he would have made far more money if he had gone into business and the business man regrets that he dldn‘t choose a profession.

And so it goes. We all know where our own shoe pinches. and We imagine that the other fellow has wings on his feet. Always the grass is greener in mother's pasture and the water sweeter in his broola Always it is the other chap who gets all the breaks, and it is eternally true, as Puck once said to the young man who asked whether he should marry or not: "Whichever you do, you'll regret it." It is not criticism of marriageto say that most men and most women, too, for that matter, are dissatisfied with it. So they would be with any other arrangement. of this is to be found in the fact that when they lose a husband or wife, either by divorce or death. they nearly always remarry if they can.

The physical side of marriage is important because that means the carrying on of the torch of life, but a real marriage means so much be- yond that. It means the soul-mating as well as the body-mating.

It means friendship and comradeship and loyalty carried to a point that is only - ‘“ between a man and woman who have all interests, all hopes and plans and ambitions 1n common. sothat they literally be- come one. When we speak of a man's wife as his better half, we use no figure of speech. If she is a real wife it is a literal statement of fact.

The one thing that is more necessary to our happiness than any- thing else in the world is friendship, comradeship. There is literally nothing that we can find any pleasure in doing ii’ we have to do it alone. The finest meal lacksfiavor unless some congenial person sits across the table from us. If we go to a play or an art gallery or read a book we must have some one with us with whom we can discuss the merits of what we have seen or heard if we are to get any enjoymenfoutof them. Nothing is more dreary than to travel alone. We must have some one to see with us eye to eye, some one to enthuse with us,_some one to laugh with us over strange and amusing sights. We must even have some- body on whom to try out our witticisms.

It is only congenial husbands and wives who are ever privileged to experience this glorified comradeship in its perfection, for in addition to having the points of contact among usual friends, they have all memor- ies ln common, and that makes an inexhaustible well into which they can dip for conversation with no fear of its ever running dry.

Who are the people that we enjoy being with most? Are they the most. brilliant, the most learned, the greatest spellblndefi? Not at all. They are those who have had the same experiences that we have had, those with whom we have a common background, those to whom we can say: Do you remember that night on the Marne when the Germans began firing? 0r: Do you remember our flair in pigtails down our backs? when we were schoolgirls and wore Or: Do you remember that time we store watermelons out of Farmer Brown's field? Or: Do you remem- ber how seasick we were when we crossed over from Dover to Calais?

And if we are buddies with those with whom we have fought shoul- de: to shoulder and if there is a peculiarly tender tie between us and the girls with whom we went to school, think how strong is the bond that grows between the man and woman who have worked together in build- ing up their fortune, who have sacrificed to each other, who have watch- ed over sick beds together and who can never talk out because every- thing is part of their mutual lives.

And loyalty. Think what it means to have even one human being in the world whose affection not only overlooks all your faults, but loves them because they are yours, a person whose affection you have tried and not found wanting; to know that if all the world turned against you there is one to whom you could flee secure that he or she would not fall you and that you could pillow your weary head upon i‘. breast that would be filled with pity and not condemnation. \

There are many husbands and wives like that. I have seen many a

"Y. because it is in the common Will-Ship thlt the heart of the com- munity life should lie. What a profound mistake it is to regard the opening worship p: the school B8 merely a preparation for the leflfihlllk- It is true that worship alone has little meaning apart from 118M thought about the God who is worshipped. Yet, surely the time

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man work himself to death to pay the bills of an extravagant wife. I ‘have seen many a man nurse s poor, neurotic invalid through years of I querulous whining and complaining. I have seen many a man trying to mike up to his children for the neglect of a lazy, good-for-nothing mother, with never a word of fault-finding for her.

And I have seen many s. woman standing outside the prison gates waiting to take a criminal husband back home. I have seen many a woman teach her children to honor the father who had browen her heart with his curelty and neglect and dishonored her by his dissolute life.

And finally there are the children who are the consolation prizes in so many unhappy marriages.

And that's what marriage means, friendship and loyalty, and sons Bud daughters to give meaning to s man's life and make it worth while. DORCYIT-IY DIX.

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Dear Miss Dix-I am l: years old and in the eighth ......'... Do you think it right to go with boys at that age? I will take your advice. DIlVIPLES.

Answer:

Nd. Dilnplea, I certainly up not think it proper m: a girl of 1a u. mp Ollli Wm! bflyfl. She is far too young and she should wait three more years before thinking of such s thing. Because, you see, when you are 13 you l", Ill" I little girl and don't know how to take care of yourself.

,' Besides. if you start having dates when you are 18, it makes you seem so much older than you are that by the time you are 19 or 2o and should begin to think about. getting married, no one will believe you are I Yolml Iirl. Every one will think you are an old maid and they will

:and the one chosen is a Lido-blue ‘silk marocain, a mixture of wool

matrimony more than anything else. Old bsch-l

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"Life is mostly mu. and bubble, . '. . , Two things stand like stone; The “n. hostesses n Go“ m], Kindness in another‘; trouble gumbo“ Wm be Mm a a Nicha], Courage in your own." ma‘ Mm a E new“. m“ M_ ' ‘ ' Wilson. ma» a. Nicholson. The Queen hss chosen the mater- . 0 0 lal for the dress length of York- ML 3mm“, a swwm u m; shire-made fabric which she decid- guest M h,‘ “m”, My, stew"; ed to accept in order to draw atten- mud" u, Imam, tiorl to the quality of Bradford goods. The fabrics were submitted town,“ “m, yam’ m ‘unmet. by the Lord Mayor of Bradford, 0 o 0 , lifts. (Db) Han’! Pierce of MOPS- uhwwn. ‘virxlnta. 1s vlsluns her mother, Mrs. ' -‘ of l‘ ’ a. navy-blue striped serge material 0 0 0 ,especially suitable for. summer wear. my; ML Bate Md gamfly p1 ‘The materials were displayed at the Fmderlcmn, N_ 3,, up gpgndlng Bradford Wool Fair, and amused the“. vlganon a; Roghespy, N, 3, great interest. 0 » a ' ' ' Miss Lena mnett is home from Sir William and Lady Stavcrt, of Montreal, have leased the summer J9me; Bgn-ett and l; being pleas- cottsge of Mr. Fred Jones, of Monc- “m. angel-gamed by he; friends. ton, at Shediac Cape for the season. ~ e v ' ' ' / Mr. and Mrs. Ben Murchison ‘I119 Glue? Jllsllse and Mrs- with their Winsome little daughter Mathleson have zone down to and nurse have arrived from GBOTKBWWR 101‘ the illmmflf- Buenos Aires on a holiday visit and ' ' ' are stopping at the Canadian Na- Mrs, Howard McDonald of Toron- c1011“ Hotel, ,:o is among the visitors in George- ' ' ' WWII- Mrs. Prowse, wife of Mayor ' ' ' T. W. L. Prowse, with her young Mr. and Mrs. Ernest Earle of daughters, a visiting her home in Brockville, Ont, are the welcome Ripley, Ont. ‘ guests of Prof. S. N. Earle‘ and ° ' ' family.

land silk. The King has chosen a

Miss Jean Grant's many friends are regretting her departure for Halifax where she has secured a position in the law office of Mr.

Tornoto Jelly Moulds

Tomato Jelly Rolls

No more appetizing hot-weather dish, no better nor interesting ac- , companiment to many of our cold dishes, can be found than little in- dividual moulds of bright tomato jelly. They look so good, to start‘ with-add if the flavoring is clever‘ 2 tablespoonfuls of vinegar- and the texture delicate the whole Soak the gelatine in the cold thing chilled to perfection, your water for 5 minutes. Mix the re- little jellies will be popular when- mainlng ingredients, except the ever they appear. Here are three vinegar and simmer l0 minutes. methods of making them, employ- Add the vinegar and stir into the ling various materials and methods- soaked gelatine. Strain through a ‘The first is a short-cut that you sieve and when cool and beginning will appreciate on a hot day-mad ‘to thicken slightly, pour into a the result is delicious. Do try the square shallow pan so that the mourse, too--it is unusual, and very tomato mixture will be about one very nice. inch in' thickness. Chill and cut

Quick Tomato Jelly into cubes.

Small can tomato soup Tomato Gelatine Salad

Equal amount water Prepare ‘a tomato puree by 000k-

l tablespoon gelatine ing together for 15 minutes the

Salt, tabasco following ingredients:

Dilute soup with cold water- 3% cupfuls of tomatoes, cooked just as its own directions say for ii cupful of water ‘serving soup. Bring to boil. 3 tablespoonfuls of i Have the gelatine soaking in onion 'twice its own quantity _of cold water 1 small bay leaf so that it will be soft to add to the 3 whole cloves‘

{heated soup when the latter is 1 tablespoonful of sugar taken from the fire. 1 3-4 teaspoonful of salt

Season rather highly-much will Pepper to taste. depend upon the soup‘: flavoring, Strain, and use as directed in the but usually it is well to add trifle ‘following recipe: lmore salt and a dash of taco] 3 tablespoonfuls of granulated sauce-an invaluable flavoring for‘ gelatine lsuch purposes. Add the softened ‘A cupful of 001d WB-ler lgelatine to the hot soup, stirring 8 cupfuls 0f hot tomato puree until you are sul-e- it is dissolved. 1 tablespoonful 0f V1119!“

‘Turn into wet mdulds and, when 1 Ollpflll 01' "n91! flliled 0819B’

cool, put into reirlgerator to set 1-3 Oupflll 01 diced. green Pepper and chill. Soak the gelatine in cold water ' Tomato Mousse for 5 minutes. Add the strained

Allow tomato Jelly to coo] and tomato mixture, very hot, and stir ‘thicken u. u... point o; getting, until the gelatine is dissolved. then fold it into one cup of heavy lSet the bowl 1n a Pill 0f 1W Wat" cream that has been whipped stiff. luntil the Belstine befllll! $0 thicken ‘Make sure the seasoning is suffic- then add the celery and sreen pent-it will stand a trifle more pepper over which the vlnezar has than the plain jelly, on account of been sprlnkled- Turn low 1n- ‘the addition of the cream. dividual molds and chill. Serve j Mould and chill. V on shedded lettuce, topping each ; Tomato Jelly serving with mayonnaise or boiled 2 tablespooniuis of Eclatinc drill-ill!!-