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Disillusioiied Wife Will Find Greater Happi- ness-if She Overlooks Husbands One

;= l ~ ~ - , Lapse From (lrace-Should .( on-

'- . " ~' ceit in a Boy be Overlooked? -—

' Rose-Petal Pete is Discon-

eerted to Find His Love- making Taken Ser- iously

Deni‘ Miss Dix-I em a wumiin ]lil>l 50.

than thirrv years.

pocket but v.0 worked together, zaived and have prospered. About a year

ago I [Guild some tellers that ii “Ltlllilll llctl writ- it'll ‘my husband telling of (ill titf.iii' between them. ‘Ihis almost killed me, to tiiuik tliut Lite husband I had loved so liud decciied me, but lit; (ienies everything. Says he loves only me and wants me tn stiiy with him, bu; I feel that I can never trusi liilll again and that my love for him is dead. Wllill niust l do? Sliull I leave him, or spend the bal- ance oi my liic this way? Would I be happier aitvnyi from him? If he v:ou'd confess everything and ask me to forgive liiin, I would feel so much better, but he denies everything. Tell me what to do. ALICE-

Answer:

No one con tell you Wllflt to do, poor, disillusioned wife. That is a mutter that your own heart must settle, but I do urge you to try to look upon your husband's sidesteppuig with its lenient an eye as possible, and to believe that. he has very likely not been a knave but a iool, and that when hc says that there has been nothing between him and the woman except a little flirtation, he is telling you the truth.

Heaven knows why, but middle age is the age oi iiidiscrction with men. It. is then when a man who hits pulled steadily in double harness

for l.\\‘L'lll}'-il\'(.‘ or thirty years goes suddenly coltish and kicks over the ‘

traces. 1t is then that a mun loses all caution in dculing with women

and becomes the easy prey of any gold-digger who hiijipens along. It is

then that men write asinine letters that hey sign “Luddie Boy" and that

their lawyers have to buy back a great price. 1 really adore their wives and think them the greatest and only women in the world get into silly flirtatious that. break their wives’ hearts.

Ami it is then that a. wise woman overworks her funnybone instead of her tear ducts and buys her a ticket to Europe instead of to Reno. For all of this is just a passing phase with her husband. and if she will give him time he will get over it and come back repentant and more dented than ever to mother. ‘or it, doesn't; Luke long for the mun to find out that this sudden reneivzil oi youth wa‘ .1 false alarm andthat he isn't a boy again, but. the same old man with the suiiio old rlieiiniiitism and the same old necessity to watch his diet, and that he wheezes when he dances and can't go the pace with youth.

And he finds out that the pretty little flnppers bore him to death and he hasn't anything to talk to them about, us ‘he has with ma, with whom he has the memories of a lifetime. And, in spite of all their fiatteries and cajoleries, he can't help suspecting the women who always have their hands in his pocketbook rind contrasting them with the faith- Iul old wife who worked and slaved and pinched pennies to save for him.

_ 1 am not denying that it is a hard thing for any Wfllllilll, iincl espec- ially u tvoimiii who looks Ill the gloss and sees herself grown fat and griz- zled and middle-aged, to find out that her husband has been jilulandering around with another woman, no matter even if he has just been nib- bling at forbidden fruit without miiking a meal on it. It insults her pride. It hurts her heart. It shakes her faith in him. But if she could only see it as it so often is, just alasmiddle-aged fling, and laugh it oil instead of making o tragedy of it, it would be so much better for her as well as for him.

Because after a woman has loved a man for thirty years, and lived with him in peace and harmony all that time, he has become so much a part of her life that she has no life without him, and if she divorcres him it leaves her as maimed as if she hzir lopped ofl an arm or a. leg.

Why, she hasn't had a thought sinoe her wedding duy that hasn't been centered around liini. She hasn't. had a hope or an inspiration that was not. for him. She hasn't cooked a meal that wasn't. built around what he liked to eat. She hasn't bough a dress or a hat without con- sidering his taste more than her own.

He has been her sun and moon and stars, and any life without him has no meaning. What. would be the use of getting up a good dinner if he was not there to eat it. What pleasure in a pretty frock, if he was not to see it? What. would she have to think about it she were not planning for him? ~ '

Then anger soon dies down, and the woman who has had a long, happy llllil'l"lL‘(l life, but-ivho has divorced her husbuurl because he has stumbled off the straight and narrow path in his middle iige, begins to remember a thousand kindnesses, a thousand tendernesses, all the sym- I pathy and consideration he has shown her in their many years together. u, The time he went without a. new suit to buy her some new trinket ’ I she craved. The nights he silt by her bcd tvheri she was ill. The gener- ous way lie took in her mother when her father died. The way he took , her in his arms when their first baby was born. Little coffins they wept. I over together. A lot on the credit side of the ledger to bzflance one bad entry on ilic debit.

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aged mun fancies himself a boy tigiiin and tries to see if he has lost his old technique in love-making. Or when some zidventuress gels hold of him and plays him for it sticker. Hard on the tvlfe. Bitter hard. There will be the flavor of aloes in her mouth as long as she llvcs, but life will be gall and Wormwood to lier lksllfi divorces her husband.

For better and far linppiei" for her ii she trellis him as she used to l do hci" bad little boys when they played trulint, and just spanks him and kisses him and forgives him and forgets it. DOROTHY DIX,

Dear Miss Dix-‘Would you overlook the fault of conceit in n boy if

you liked him? ANTONIA‘ Answer: . Surely. Provided, of course, that he was not so egotistical that: he

was unenduruble. No virtue that a boy eriuld pnssiblv have would atone for the boredom of having to listen to hlin eternally monologue about. him- self, about how grout and wonderful he is, and how all the girls fall for him.

But a lair iunouiit of self-conceit one can stzinzl, provided it is offset, by 0th" 800d (iualitics. Indeed, conceit ir. sometimes it virtue, for we can only do what we think we can do and oecasionallv it is an incentive to a boy to live up to his own opinion of himself.

But why no". do some missionary work in deflating his ego?

DOROTHY DIX.

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Dear Dorothy Dix-I am a mun of 32 an girl I went; out with thiit. I loved tier.

d have always told every New 1i sir‘. that i told that to b0-

i .. lieved me iind wants me to settle down and marry her, which I don't P‘ i want to do. I feel sorry for her and I haven't got the nerve to tell her H} . t . i that 1 don't care for m. What must 1 do? nose rant. PETE, 1",, i‘ r N ' Answer: _ "f; l 4);. I should think that a man who signs himself "Rose Petal Pete" would 111 i“ y, have imagination enough to cope with any situation, so I feel that any f in); , i‘ (IL, advice of mine is superfluous. 1'9" Y1’ vi HOWEVER 11S Y0" 85k my 0111111011, I urge you to undecelve the girl at ,._ , f, ‘I: I once as to your sentiments. Probably it won't astonlsh her or break her ' ‘ "- _"- 1 ‘l. fi * heart as much as youthlnk it will. At any rate, don't, inairy n girl whom r5‘ ' you don't love just bcenuse you haven't the courage to let her know you f a j ~ were kidding her. She would find it out soon enough after you were 1 _ married and that would mean misery both for her and for you. i; J 1 7 DOROTHY DIX.

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HGVOI‘ With lliilliiivecn And Ghosts

Ov-ilzead from the kitchen when attend; g ll litife nformal tea-party:

Hey ivla. when can I have a. party? You ‘Se always having a bunch of women in" ‘This from a tweedy ipriiut of a Iiizl of school 88¢- ‘ Even though her mind was at the moment fully; orcupcd with the im- [pllflfilll/ task of brewing tea, this fsmnn little mother thought. quick- 11y m-(i 1."! "How would you like to nvite everybody

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See it some of the recipes we have l7."."ll preparng for this oc- ; enslcn will help you to “think about ‘ it."

For TYie Cook

Couldn't you do things with 3'11!- i-rbreucl by using orange lclnfl 811d lzeorice candy to trim it?

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ed places and go bridge seriously, just as if it W9T€ not a Halloween party 111 81l-

Very shortly the hostess announc- es she has received a mysterious ‘warning that. they are to be visfted by a ghost but she does 110i know when, s0 they might as well go ahead and play until it appears.

light. switch so that when new hands

suddenly switch off the llshis 811d rap sharply three times and the ghost appears. If he is in hi5 $500k- lng feet. he can step quickly into the midst of the crowd without being heard, then flood his head and shoulders with the_ligh_t frOm fl flash. The effect is quite startling. He announces in ‘sepiilchrfll £01195 that unless each plflYer forfeit! hi5 five best cards to the player at hi5 right he will suffer eternal torture, the original bid to stand. He tums loft the flash, makes rhasty exit. the hostess snaps on the lights, and the guests all tittering but a-flut- ,ter exchange cards as they are told.

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OCTOBER 31,_19s2

Clinical of 0aIr—We use only the but. l0lbu. in n bushel of the finest groin. ,

Tm Roaalingr-lo ive richer flavour, to cook delicious y in 2% minutes.

And Now . . . the precious Sun Vita- min l). No other oats contain Vitamin DJ‘

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are dealt and hid all round, she may _'

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appetizing nourishment , for less than a centla dish

OU can cut breakfast food it costs! Yet serve richer, more

costs less than a cent a dish. Only Quaker Oats

It is then that men who '

thickness. Place in lillli and C0\t'l' with mi. . and sprinkle over milk. Se "on with salt iiiid jieppei" and dot with but- ter. Bake in moderate oven. i, Serve with green peus and baked ,1 potatoes. DROILED 0Y5 ISRS

Take largest oysters, clean, scald. drain, dry’ on u towel min dip ouch into softened buter till well coated and then in seasoned flour. Lay them on buttered broiler. Ceok over c‘ear coal until light brown. SDlTt‘.

Cut line. u hlllllll onion ,1 nqtv way t/o make ii mask to tell

‘Ltnme su vions to give F011 and You can imagne their bewilder- ment. when their wvll-lfliid P111115 §°T n three-diamond bid have $0 11¢- i worked out minus the demands.

j After this hand has been pkiyed. l itlie score must be kept. I10 1111M" l The mask is made from a shoe new fldiculoua ‘

“Lick, and by the wuy the fact that, The tenston may be tncregsgd if i t- 15 11i11mi1111¢l° might ‘film “way the ghost from without produces some of the gkinioi‘ if it is to be ‘vein! moanings tohemyd m5 3p. used by one of your kiddies to weal’ lpfDflCll. Chains might be clanked.

‘ for his Hdlotvecn proivling. So, a Allow only a few hands to be play ,clever moiher will promse "Wall-Nd before adding up the Scot-es

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Quick Quaer is sold in sealed}

ckages only, NEVER LOOSE in BAGS. Packages of all Quaker cereals contain coupon with

flavoury meals. And build up strong, energetic little bodies, by using Quaker Oats regularly.

For Quaker Oats is rich in body building protein, like milk, meat and eggs. I_t provides minerals for pure, rich blood. It is full of the concentrated energy usually found in expensive foods. And now made better by the addition of Vitamin D. No other out contains the sun vitamin. Yet

has this richer flavour

Quaker Oats has an nut-Ilka flavour, because of the exclusive Quaker roasting process. D0 not expect to find this flavour in any other oats.

Only the best ten pounds in any bushel of oats are good enough for Quaker Oats. Quaker roasts these plump whole kernels through ten different ovens. Roasts the flavour so it cannot cook out.

I So there you iirc in this very common situation in which a middlc- .

on slices of thin buttered toast. If done by gas stove, liiy toast under broiler to catch drip. Fine cracker crumbs may be used instead of iloiir. Oysters that have been breaded for frying are good broiled. Allow 6 oysters to it serving.

best record at school that week, or ,ior whatever good behaviour she ‘wishes to reward, but; ivlll keep hi5 lick-ht ty a scare‘. until the right to ‘possess him hasbeen won. To get the mmsurement for mak- ing :1 “Wall-eyed Bill" mask, holdi . . . , i‘ ox eiore iour face with. “Ogle qtézlt-Zr0y?rbziilsfiosjpgigtgu?’ ‘head. Mark .t for length to a little, icaspdbn peppeitjil tsbllcsyiooiis but- llmow the Chm‘ Nmrk again ‘or the‘ ‘tor 1 tablespoon rolled cracker. l: ilmgm of m? “C5D and the eyes ’ -.. . ,. lit. is not important where bhg mouth vcugzégrfafitlL§)i::]’ovc,," ,,,._,,,,.§. M ii")i!!c$---l'il fact, the more askew the for ovstei" soup. Heat oyster liquor ibcimr- Tm“ “ml-v the bottom of and writer to boring point, strain u"? bflnleavlv 5; a rmmdlng edge L“ illllll add oysters. Heat until oysters ‘W711i. mid strnfglifidc-dges uncle? the ‘grow plmnp and edges curl. Add Calif/iii Iiidiivlilk tin-heavy charcoal seasonings, biZLiEZl‘ i\1'.(l crizrkei‘ ,1 - -' ~ crumbs, add scolded milk or cream 01113911» 11ml" 11 l1l"~’“'lf’1l~n° 0f ha“ before serving. Serves 6. 011i '11 M1135 1130118 the w? and “m5 tit. the sides. Cut out slits 1'01‘ 5114-‘ ' ryes big enough to sec well, and then en r20 them with cray011 511d llliilie v y long “Ella Cinders" eye" glashes. Cut out a triangle big e11- lough to allow the nose of the wear- ‘er to come through comfortably- lmmt- g, b g sidewisc grinning mouth with several teeth missing. Attach {apes at upper back corners. 'I‘h's mask is really effective and just as amusing for a. grown up a5 for n child.

OYSTER PANCAIRES One dozen oysters, 1; cup oyster liquor, i; cup milk, 1 egg beaten, 1 l lcup flour, ‘.2 teaspoons baking pow- ‘der, ‘_» teaspoon salt, jieppcr. Six oyster liquor with milk, add _beatcn egg, then stir in sifted, dry ‘ingredients. A'dd oysters whole if

small, chopped if large, iiucl fry until brown.

Serves 4.

., Games for kiddies’ parties never _ iscem to be a problem for they have lnot yet had their mi of bobbing fOf _ liippkis inn tub, listenng to weird - ‘ghost stories, pulling taffy and all the tlmehonorerl Halloween stunts. . Italian-o'er: flokum Games for grown-ups worry 115 somewhat. But whether your crowd ' a brclge playing one or not: no , attrr how sophisticated-their in- tcrcst will be aroused over the h0- kiim (Vvised for this bridge Kame- To put this stunt across success- fully the hostess must have the hell! of a male member of the crowd. m m will bc uic "ghost." Guests are seated at their 69110111‘-

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eyed Bill" to the one who has the vlhm the ghost Wm suddenly appear ngirn, announcing that to sum up his score each player will add i119 score of his partner to his own and subtract the score of his right hand opponent. _ f Other suggestions for the ZIWSV to make that will add to the inlcf- I est of the occasion are: . 0n one round. four cards are re- moved from the pack to bg dealt. without any player knowing which are the missing cards. The hand ‘wll then be bid and played as 111 ordinary bridge. In another hand each 191W" must. leave three cards on the table face down in front of him Wit-him! having looked at. them. The hand is bid BLd played as usual til‘) V3 the three final tricks. Then every- one can pick up his cards and 1111- ish the hand with this doubtful treasure. This always makes a speedy and exciting hand, with plenty of suspense right. up to the end. Halloween tallies and favors and przes, of course, will be Select-Ed and with the foregoing suggestions as a. start, you will doubtless de- vise many new tricks of your 0W" to carry out the spirit of the party.

‘ "We Want. Food”

With gingerbread and Devil's Fwd cake a Halloween 188st H11 be tmade to look quite siiwky- ' It would be worth while to puf- chase a sandwich or cookie cutter in the shape of a 611i 01‘ WW1- thc effect, is worth the trouble.

Rallowden Sumlflr M01111! Menu l: Welsh rareblt; 169 01911111 sandwiches; coffee. i

Menu 2: Curried eggs and mush- rooms in patty shells; orange lee: hot gingerbread: cider. l

Menu 3: Wasted cheese rolls; ripe olives: individual pumpkin plel; cocoa.

Ilallowfim Light Rcfrflflhmfiflll, Menu I: Goblin sandwiches; wit-

ing how alluring you are! The smooth beauty of your ‘skin enhanced by the clinging, velvet texture oi Pompeian Beauty Powder : ; : your natural colour heightened by _a touch oi Pompeion Rouge . . . how could he help loving you?

Today, as always, you may pay more for beauty preparations, but you can- not buy better than . . .

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Welsh Rarcblt

One tablespoon buier, l teaspoon cornstarch; 1-2 cup thin 1-3 Pound soft mild cheese; cut in Pieces. 1-4 teaspoon salt: 1-4 tes- sDOOn mustard, shake of cayenne, toasted bread or crackers. Mlelt but- tel‘. blend in cornstarch and stir until m'x,ed, then add gradually and stirring constantly the cream, and coko two minutes. Add cheese and stir until checs¢ ls melted, Add 811501111185 and serve on toast points or toasted crackers. A rareblt should be smooth and of creamy consist- ency-if stringy add one egg slight. ly beaten,