sh°nes for sun,

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~, \day. And how eagerly we

Spring Come

Only brief glimpses of sun- light came across our. paths . wel- comed the sight after 4 period of overcast skies.... And a. be-

ruffled pink petunia on A sill brightened, and a violet opened la tight-curled mauve bud

This wiil be Candlemas Day

> \winl it, we wonder, be shadow-

ed or fair? ‘It's a strange thing’ a farmer with whom we chatted today offered. ‘though

II never did take much stock in

the old saying, ‘If Candlemas Day be fair and clear there'll be two winters in the year,’ at the same time, I'm always hap- py to see no sign of the sun that

ae day."

“ MR. AND MRS. LEONARD ARSENAULT

WED. AT EGMONT BAY

daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Mid- die Arsenault, St. Chrysostom and the groom’s parents are Mr. and Mrs. Victorin Arse- nault, also of St. Chrysostom. (Photo by’ Heckbert Studio)

> Ee j ’ HAPPENINGS * Audrey Jenkins, Women's Editor, Phone 4-8500 Barry Dawson, Crapaud, new- Phoenix, Arizona have returned ly appointed president of the to their home in Borden. . 3 eee we hs x ogee tion left recently attend Gloria:and Erma Gallant,’ Pius- a Construction Associa-| ville were recent visitors of their tiom convention in Vancouver, ae ging (eee pr B.C, He was accompanied by GH Arsenault » family at Howlan.

“T feel the same way about it’’/ James, husband of ours. agreed, “But sun or shadow, it makes no difference as far as I can see,” he stniled, ‘‘Sooner or la- ter, spring comes;"~ ‘And as for the groundhog"’ the first grin-:

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OTTAWA (CP) — Housewives in Ottawa differed sharply in their réaction to MP Grace MaclInnis’ proposal that the gov- lernment should ‘‘consider “pro- \viding suitable and adequate jwages’”” for mothers who stay |home to look after their home jand family.

| Mrs. MacInnis (NDP — Van- couver Kingsway) suggestion in her maiden speech in the House of Commons Mon- day. Housewives polled by the Ottawa Journal called her idea everything from. ‘‘a way - to make motherhood dignified’ to “economically impossible.”

- Mrs. G. I. Hurley, who called “ethically wrong,”

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aod: tive. rane One of | Ladies’ Aux.

|| At Kensington : Planning Tea- Members of the Kensington

Royal Canadian Legion Ladies Auxiliary answered roll call at

Kevin Murray returned to his home in Piusville after spending time in Saint John, N.B.

thing for the kitchen’, donated.

tary, Mrs. Jean Maynew re-

ing was held in the exec utive room of the Legion Home and opened with the usual ritual.

It was decided to order water glasses for the kitchen and oth- er articles as finances allow. In the meantime the offer of a gift of a clock by one member, and th offer of the loan of a step- ladder_by another were grate-

Mr.and Mrs. William Maclvor who have been on an extended

vacation with their daughter, Mrs John Reyno and Mr. Reyno at

the regular meeting with ‘‘some- and a variety of needed articles were The~president;—Mrs:-Ruby-Me-— Innis presided, and the secre- -.,corded _ the minutes..The_meet-.

concept said ‘‘it’s like paying a farmer not to raige his crops.” “I don’t want to be a civil servant,’’ said another woman. Housewives who agreed with {Mre. Macinnis felt the wage

pay 80 much for broken and juvenile delinquency,” sug- gested Mrs. A. A. Hope.

jwould be svorth..the tax. boost |" sr —

{sties up to this,

s Regardless

Of Sunshine. Or Shadow =

ned, “shadow or shine, I've ne- | ver yet seen one in the flesh!" | This morning however the day with all its implications will lin- ger on in James’ thoughts. Though nowadays no sweet gar- lands of clovery hay drape the old beams of the , loft; he will stop below to survey remain- ing bales there, looking upward to that area where, in summer- quiet, the golden sunbeams com- ing down through the high ga- ble window, fail charmingly aslant the emptiness there. “Treckon” he will remark | then to Mack and his father in the stables, ‘‘we should be feed- ing with a lighter hand. Oh, we'll likely have enough to last us through, but that last half will soon slip away." ... “It's a

\good thing, Ellen" he = said, jwhen we looked into a piggery \this evening as he was at the feeding, “that we had the fore- jsight to _mow,- and-‘save— that ‘brown-top from the old pasture

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Pay For Housewives Poll Causes Various Reactions.

a banquet on February 1, and plans to hold a-salad tea, which

Fall, were discussed but not finalized.

~-A-letter> of appreciation” was

Boy ‘Scout Headquarters, meals prepared and served by the Auxiliary on Saturday, Jan- uary 22, at a Cub leaders work- shop

welcomed by the president.

received from Gordon Kerr of for

. | ; visitors, Mirs. Zielinski |So at and Mrs. Robert Goodwin were

sien’ attcnesl aeaate seek ane |were held every afternoon and ships used to come up - the |for the-nonogenarian and the didn’t think the government evening for two weeks at the |stream to the wharf’’, and is a lighted birthday cake brought a could stand another large social home of Mrs. Herbert Wyand daughter of the late Mr. and {gasp of pleasure from the little welfare program. ‘Taxes would and were well attended. Claire Mrs. Thomas Chalk. She moved jold lady as a group of other din- go sky high,” she said Buote of the Institute Branch of- |to New York in, 1901 and -lived |ers led by giabam Bowser sang Pe : ‘ore just hap- fice directed the classes in (there for 60 years before coming |‘Happy Birthday to You’. ; pier away from their homes dressmaking, basketry, textile |to this: province where a sister! The only other birthday she ts 4 painting, glove making, Jeather had been living. She now makes : : ‘and I don't see why we should : ; irecalls with any feeling was per tt to stay ” said work and cushio# making. jher home with a grandnephew, : 48 Mrs. Ronald Campbell. “I do| Guests were invited to attend James Hiscott, in Stanley one she spent in a hospital “‘and not think a woman should have |the Achievement Day when Mrs. |Bridge. : ~ _1I was only 91" she says angrily. | band can’t support them.” Women’s goes ee was! : oe “some atked i inapecton|preent and ole riety co /IDA BAILEY ALLEN mine ff mom was earning her |tended the classes. after which | -— = * : . pay: each’ demonstrated the work V, by) FE S bl “Some do more around the |they had done during the course.) ._ egeta e- gg crampie house and some do less,” Mre.| The presentation of a gift was ; Bonner said. made to Miss Buote by Mrs. El- | S ted F B h = ~ Several women suggested |Win Wyand on behalf of the) ugges or bruncneon other ways of making it possi- |¢!@ss. Ss : ble for the wife to stay home,| To Mrs. Herbert Wyand for the! Bruncheon is a ing’. Meanwhile, the such as raising the salary of the |use of her home a presentation jof the two words, * fast |hostess circulates “among the working man or. boosting family |was made by Mrs. Stirling Ste- |and luncheon, used when one |guests. _ = allowances. : : wart. Refreshments were serv- |meal takes the place of both.| The-guesté serve themselves, nT he See a aoe ib seers eee ane sale bruncheon at. the i. cournal included a table | Those who attended the class-|morning between 10: :+ fing table,:set-as usual; or a tn tte eve showing that the [es were: Mrs. Herbert “Wyand, |, usually on holidays or week-|small tables seating four, also average Ottawa housewife [Msn Ein Nis aoe at a than six persons weit this season,-a substantial would. cera: about 9144.94: for i +:-Moore, Mrs. bruncheon might be modeled on : ‘ a breakfast,” suggests 'BRUNCHEON ENGLISH STYLE 3 ; _Fruit..Juice—or__Melon Choice | ing er Coles |iently Hot Oatmeal or_ Ready- to- Eat dry end heavy work (one end| 2nd Mrs. Eris ¥ table, with a woman guest ‘‘pour-' Cornflakes with Blueberries one half ~hours)=$1.50; ~ ehauf- |-- as feuritg (one hour)—$1. That’s $16.50 a day, plus 25 per cent for miscellaneous du-

ities (waghing the dog, going’ te jhome and school meetings, lis- \tening to her husband’s jokes). $20.62 for seven days, |she’d have $144.34 — before itaxes. .

imake-believe “Bang ...

‘|samie mostly overcast, briefly

bedding. It has bedded the saving the straw considerably." ;

“Now, here is a. bantam's egg" Peter smiled this after- noon, bringing one out of a poc- ita” "A Nbeeske for wenger Geert oecake “for Supper!** “Yum, yum!” he smiled.

Peter is a respected member of the farm’. staff. His young eyes are quick to see any ani. mal-out of bounds, any tap left open over-long, above a tub, and’ he has a neat hand #t the feea- ing and cleaning.. However when unemployed he is sometimes rather. pathetic little figure about, as he tries to make his own entertainment We see him stand in the yard, or maybe behind the bole of a tree, Scam- pie, all attention close by. Pre- sently there. is a quick draw from the holster on a hip, and a bang!” we know that

in the quiet, and bad man” has

some imaginety fallen. :

“Come out and see if you} think what I'm thinking” he -cal- led from the door toward even-. ing. The air was scented with an alien smell. Peter wrinkled his nose in disgust. Scampie’s whine denoted some frustration. ; “Skunk!"’ Peter commented. “‘Ie|: - that what you think?”

But now the air is sweet and clean. Night has come down,

drawing house ‘and field and for- | oe nak henaahs > wine creations for Spring 1966

“So, it’s the same for tomor- | all is woo! aad Courtele. row" a radio-voice offers: the | ?

From Britain come these

‘sun-lighted, but by no means un- Pleasant, winter-weather.

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‘ Petite 97 Year-Old Surprised ‘Avonlea WI By Birthday Party, Cake —

SUITS EOR SPRING LEFT, a coat and skirt by Ju- ‘tweed dress and jacket by Rel- lius; CENTRE, open weave dan- Digby Morton; and

Broiled Kippers (see Chef) Kidney Saute with Bacon

Toast ‘Croissants Rolls -- Marmalade Honey Plum Compote

Coffee, Tea or Milk

For a small bruncheon, we

|6 ‘The Guardian, Charlottetown, Wed. Feb. 2, 1966: 14. Completed

Craft Course

_A handicraft course sponsor- ed by the Avonlea Women's In- stitute, .Cavendish, was com- pleted January 21 and an achie- vement day was held. Sessions

| The other day diminutive 97-,; As talkative‘and alert as she year-old Mary E. Chalk of Stan-|is tiny, Auntie Mary comes into* ley Bridge took time out after |the city regularly every week to ishe finished her business in the transact her own- banking and jcity to-.eelebrate the birthday other business and always ends that leaves her just three years up having supper at the Old short of the century mark. ~ Spain. Learning that the birth- ; Born in Newfoundland in 1969 day was coming up, Mrs. Mil- jshe came from a village called ton Bell, restaurant proprietor, Burnt Island ‘‘where the little |arranged a small birthday party

‘suggest the following menu:

WEEKEND BRUNCHEON PARTY

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change.

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‘DEAR MARY HAWORTH: | rouse a word from him, is to be: How does one adjust to living | denounced, per se. AN é18e he with a man who can’t be pleas- ignores, with an air of “builtin

_ Mate’s Constant Grumbling

dled?

It’s not only ‘I who can’t please him; it nobody they

does things as he thinks should om ——™%

We've raised our family; the children are grown and on their own and we live alone. I’ve tried catering to his tastes and comforts but ail I get for my efforts are disparaging remarks which have demoral- ized me to the point where I feel I am going to be mentally ill. Y

| During the day I keep busy,

sleep, starved for affectior* and understanding, although my hus- band is home. :

He feels that-as.long as he pro- vides me with the material things

asked how they feel, however, and greeted.with a ‘‘good morn- ing’, which he never Coes. - My appearance brings com- pliments fom my friends but never fromm my husband. If di- vorce is not the amswer, what can I do? R. P. DEAR R. P.: In effect, you have dissected your problem to the core without grasping the reality of’ what you’ve uncover- ed, it. seems. You are heartsick and men- tally depressed with a cumula- tive sense of outcast ignominy, in relation to your compulsively rejecting-type. husband. Psychologically, you've ac- cepted at full face value his to- tally derogatory labelling of your personal weight and worth, on the score of lovability end ad- mirable qualities. What you've completely fail- ed to take itp sccount 16 that he renders opinions as a normal, wholesome, eptive alertly. responsive person, intel- ligently conversant with his as- sociates, but, rather, like a bro- ken record, that continually rasps out one fragmentary re- petitive phrase, when turned on. In short, he’s ‘‘ag’in’’. what- ever evokes @ comment i. him. Anything . comes his attention, sufficiently to a-

but many nights I cry myself to |

disapproval.

Which means that his views signify nothing, really, except @ fitful signaling of -his—“‘pleasure in - displeasure” neurotic bias. |He gets his kicks from spread- jing gloom. | He is jties of -happiness, wherever not- jed;” So he’s always doing his | best to stamp them out. But it’s |nothing personal to you, please junderstand. He’s under inner compulsion to act that way. He jcan’t help it any more than a puppet can keep from jumping ‘when the control-source pulls ithe strings. | That is to say, he can’t help it jin-his present chronic neurotic emotional state.’ But if he were

“ito-put himself in-line for psy-7

chiatric or analytic counselling aid, he might recover the right use of his human faculties, which would include rational’ exercisé of a wide-ranging repertory of “good will’ feelings towards persons around him.

It is unfortunate that you’ve let your valid needs of affirma- tive psychological interchange focus exclusively on your kill- joy partner. Figuratively, you are living in an airless room.

The antidote is to wake up from your self-hypnotized absorp- tion in -his quicksand capacity for. extinguishing optimism, : and direct your attention, forthwith and fully, to building a — bridge between yourself and the world of people outside your family.

Or, to put it another way, jopen the doors and windows of jyour life to an influx of fresh

sociates, to be found and culti- vated» in the community. arena of social good works.

As you become happily heed- | less of your husband’s peevish | jpitch, he will lose much of his | jrelish for it, lacking a ‘‘buyer’’ jto beam it at.

| Mary Haworth counsels jthrough her column, not by mail or personal interview. dian,

allergic to the possibili- |,

new interests, activities and as- | ried. - 1 Gliding is a sale—sport if

Write her in care of The Guar-|are moments of fear about find-

‘DIVORCED IN IDAHO —

smooth 10”

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Is Safe Sport

WINNIPEG. (CRe—Mrs.- J. A. Cammell is a soaring secretary,

A gliding enthusiast for the last 10 years, Mrs. Caminell is the only woman member of the

She has been club secret the last year. ; gles ing in France as an tional therapist.

became executive secretary the RAF Gliding and Soaring Association. Two years later she came to Winnipeg and mar-

you’re careful and know

you're doing, she says _ “You're going at a low

(an average of 50 mph — there is no gas to catch fire. {t’s silent. You have a complete sense of freedom and a sensa- tion of mastery over the. ele.

ments.” 6 She admits, however, there

ing a safe landing spot.

Actor Peter’ Lawford and Calif., movie premiers in Dec- given their four wife, Patricia,, sister of the | ember, 1960. Tuesday Patricia children. He was given visit- late-President -Kennedy;- were Lawford wes granted a divorce ation rights.. They were -mar- a smiling couple as they ar- in Gootting, Idaho, on grounde ied 11 years ago. rived for a Beverly Hills, of mental cruelty. She (AP Wirephoto).

e e . was Claims Gliding about

Winnipeg Gliding Club who flies. | view She began gliding while work-

moved to England in 1959 she | of i

realized the sun was

wrong direction, So I sone and flew \back. T’ll_never forget the wa |T felt when I

coming into

She had been im the air five hours.

saw he

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| Social Workers To Debate Draft

OTTAWA (CP)—Social works jers in private practice should jbe’ offered. official recognition,

,|the 180. member Eastern On-

jtario branch of the Canadian |Association of Social Worker@ has. decided. ;

|. Branch President Patri- cia Godfrey:said Monday in an interview she is delighted with the association's action in ap proving a draft resolution for debate at the national conven tion in Vancouver next June.

“Membership .would be condi tional, of course, on proper qualifications and other condi- tions such as acceptance of pay scales and subscription to pro- fessional ethics,"’ said Miss God frey, the executive research and special projects, for the Canadian Welfare Coun- cil.

The move has been debated \for several years. Some agen lcies fear private practice will Become too attractive, drawing

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